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kirty ekka: kirty wants to chat on Hangouts! Smita Bernadet: Hello Kirty, u wanted to talk to me about what? Smita Bernadet: Hello there Kirty, can we talk through chat as I'm very shy on phone calls with a stranger. Smita Bernadet: I went through your profile as well as your fb account and found it to be very impressive; yet I wanted to know whether you went through my profile? I found that you do not match few of my preferences, still I wanted to know your occupation details. Later I found out through your fb account. The main reason as to why I didn't send you an invite was because I'm looking for someone who doesn't smoke nor drinks, someone who is a believer and is spiritually and socially active apart from enjoying life. I may not be the girl you're looking for...I guess. Thanx again for your effort to contact me. If you have to say anything, you're most welcomed. I'm aware of the fact that there are many things in my profile which men won't like yet I would continue to stick on to them because that's what makes me different. Sorry again for this long message, you're a busy personality and I must not waste your time. kirty ekka: Going through your FB profile is not a possible task, perhaps your account settings are that way. So, instead I checked your taste and activities on youtube and I liked them. Regarding being spiritual, it's my relationship with God, sometimes we are close sometimes not. And now, it's in the mid zone.   Smoking and drinking, yes these are the habits I liked a lot, but then again my lifestyle has changed a lot in the past year, much to do with my commitment to be fitter. I have different future expectations about it. Finally, you're free to take a decision on the above. I know religious folks are sacrosanct about them.  Smita Bernadet: This may be my last msg. Sorry again coz I couldn't receive your call and I've deleted your no. too. It wasn't easy for me to tell these things directly because I Empathize a lot. Moreover I was a bit scared of you. Regarding drinking and smoking--- its not a religious thing, its a heath thing. I work with patients having infertility. My research work is connected to healthy life style and that's why I wanted my mate to be devoid of such activities because its one of the causes of infertility. I'm not targeting you, I'm just telling in general. You have been very kind in your conversation so far and I really appreciate you for it. Thanx Kirty. I hope you get what you are looking for. I'll pray for you. kirty ekka: i wish the same for you too.  kirty ekka: wish you the best  kirty ekka: For some reasons, unknown to me, I am very taken aback. I find the possibility of not connecting with you because of my smoking and drinking habits difficult to fathom. Let me evaluate myself for a week and see if I can live without both of them. At present, quitting drinking is not a big task, I can stay months without it, but smoking is. And, as I know from my experience that the first week is the biggest hurdle for smokers going cold-turkey. The outcome of the battle against tobacco is decided in the first 3 days itself. I would want to evaluate myself for a week and find the answer. This would be the beginning of an era without the nicotine clouds for me. The outcomes, I would let you know. Considering the plausible positive outcome, if you still consider having any further talks futile, I would not bother you again. I would still extend a thankful gesture to you, considering that fact that I would have quit smoking. let me know your thoughts.  Smita Bernadet: Era without nicotine clouds- You're so funny..I like it. I would love to be you're friend and then see what happens. Friendship is more powerful than love. Let's start with friendship regardless of the outcome.  I have decided to let God work through critical situations such as choosing a soul mate. I've always trusted him. His plans are thousand times better than what I plan for myself. Same applies to you if you just believe in him. So, I'm overwhelmed to know that you're going to try and quit smoking n drinking. That won't be easy and you'll need the help of prayer too. Trust me, it really works. I almost forgot to ask you that do you think that my profile suits for the type of person you're looking for? Do you dislike anything from my profile? You're the first person to whom I am talking to since I joined matrimony site. Ever since I've joined, I've been rejecting every invitation. If God wants you n me together then it will surely happen; and if not then it would be for our best. I've surrendered all to him. I would like to take things slowly and not rush into any decision. The day u rang me, I was in deep sleep and my brain was not working. Right now I'm fully active and all the best for your fight against nicotine temptation. It's better if we chat before starting a telephonic conversation. I have my own reasons for doing so and I hope you will respect my decisions. Goodnite Kirty Smita Bernadet: Oh! I'm not very active on FB and I use it only for my music purpose. I'm active only on google+ because I find it very neat and advertisement free. kirty ekka: Hi , I am delighted to hear back from you and would want you to know that it's a pleasure to have you as a friend now !!  Strongest love is built on powerful bonds of friendship. Regarding going through your profile and seeing our suitability, I liked your holistic self portait . Your uniqueness, personality, thoughts, aspirations, expectations, mantras, and your articulations of what you desire. Probably, the combination of all of this elements has drawn me towards you. I however, do not fulfill all of your golden standards in your desired companion. Smoking, drinking, and piousness are where my vices rest. Smoking & Drinking: Quitting smoking and drinking, was a key 'To-Do' item on my life's agenda. I've managed to curb all smoking activities for the past 3 days. I must admit it was not easy, but then again nothing is easy. I will extend this new habit, of not smoking, over to the rest of my life. I am sure I won't allow myself to lose this fight. Not drinking  was never a problem to me. Piousness: I think i may not be the religious zealot that you look forward for. But in my life, I do remember and acknowledge God. Mostly, when i'm pasing through the zeniths of happiness or through a super barren patch. I do not display piousness but all of my actions are centered around these teachings. I regret when i do bad and rejoice when i do good. I probably do this, because I am afraid of titling myself a hypocrite, for me  - It's better to do good and say nothing then beat the drums and do nothing. i hope these answers would let you know a bit more about me.  Smita Bernadet: so, how was your day today? Smita Bernadet: How was your iit life? How come you've reached so far without getting married? As far as I can see, you have a good degree, a perfect job, you've even been to so many places and yet single? By the way, Thanx for liking my profile. It's weird that we didn't even send invite to each other on matrimony website but we somehow became friends. It's a kind of miracle for me. kirty ekka: Life at IIT was great..I had my best friends and my best days there  kirty ekka: And how come a pretty damsel like is single?  Smita Bernadet: Guys cheated on me. I was left with a broken heart, That's when I turned to Jesus and decided to give him my everything. What about you? kirty ekka: My friend's dad was against me marrying her. I think he thought he knows everything and threatened with a suicide. He won.  Smita Bernadet: When did this happen? kirty ekka: 2010 end Smita Bernadet: Why the hell he had a problem.. its sad to hear. So were is she now? kirty ekka: oh she s married now to the guy he chose...i have not talked to her for a very long time now...But, i know she's doing well   Smita Bernadet: don't u miss her? You should talk to her. Its not easy to get over it...i know. Since then you haven't had that feeling for anybody else? Smita Bernadet: Am i disturbing u?? kirty ekka: No that was the first time I had a feeling so huge. I've talked to her after we parted on many occasions. kirty ekka: But we need to move on, life is such. Will definitely help her if she asks me for something.  kirty ekka: talking too much would only recreate the emotions once again.... Smita Bernadet: It took you 5 yrs to move on.. kirty ekka: yeah I have learnt to ignore all thoughts about her.  Smita Bernadet: Imagine my condition.. I had 3 break-ups. My 1st guy left me for a rich girl. It took me 3 yrs to forgive him (in college). The second one married somebody else and the 3rd one vanished suddenly without giving a reason. And my last friend's parents are against us getting married. So we decided to separate for their sake.  Each time I felt so rotten inside. Few years back I was like a walking dead..without a smile. I had started hating life and was on the verge of killing myself. I know that you must be thinking that something must had been wrong with me that's why they left. Smita Bernadet: But each time it made me a strong person. Smita Bernadet: Each heart break got me closer to God. Smita Bernadet: Today I am at peace. kirty ekka: well that is good to hear kirty ekka: that you are at peace  Smita Bernadet: Aren't your parents looking for a girl for you? kirty ekka: I think that they would not understand me...i have heard their suggestions so i told them to wait first kirty ekka: and now that they are getting hyper about it.. i' decided to search for myself... Smita Bernadet: Please stop me if u need to work or go to bed... kirty ekka: After all I would be living with her kirty ekka: ok will do  kirty ekka: what about yours  Smita Bernadet: My parents are cool right now. They gave me the freedom to search at the same time, I have told them to search too. My Father told me that let your mum know as to what type of person you want but I haven't spoken to her regarding this. I have opened my account on this website without their knowledge. kirty ekka: oh ..mine is also quite similar kirty ekka: they don't know that I am here.. kirty ekka: probably they will be shocked to some extent about it.  Smita Bernadet: mine too...my dad wants an IAS officer for me kirty ekka: oh ... kirty ekka: that is nice..  kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: but they would be boring kirty ekka: i don't know what my parents want to get for me... i think daughters of their friends, is the only criteria Smita Bernadet: Is everybody in your cousins married? kirty ekka: No.. kirty ekka: why?  Smita Bernadet: Tell me about your family.. kirty ekka: My dad is a retired engineer.. kirty ekka: He mostly roams around waterfalls and tourist locations with relatives and friends now  kirty ekka: My mom got retired but was super bored at home so she picked up a job to be the medical incharge at a girls' hostel  kirty ekka: Have a sister who is elder to me.. she is married and is a teacher  Smita Bernadet: So where were you born? kirty ekka: hospital  kirty ekka: !! Smita Bernadet: location on map? kirty ekka: ranchi  Smita Bernadet: Okay...I was born in Delhi. Smita Bernadet: My parents had love marriage.. Smita Bernadet: I started my schooling in Kolkata, then moved on to Mumbai, finished my schooling in Patna. I graduated from Ranchi and finished my masters in Chennai. kirty ekka: ok...that is a lot kirty ekka: covering all the metros kirty ekka: where did you study in ranchi  kirty ekka: xaviers' Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: Botany honors Smita Bernadet: I was the class rep kirty ekka: oh that is a awesome college.. i used to hangout outside that college to have lemon tea there Smita Bernadet: What about your schooling history? kirty ekka: i studied in ranchi till 5th at Xaviers'....then went to a boarding school at Darjeeling...was there till 10th...came back for 11-12..then went to IIT...then went to Mumbai...then came to Bangalore Smita Bernadet: I which year were you in Mumbai? kirty ekka: 2008 - 2010  kirty ekka: you?? Smita Bernadet: 1994- 1996 Smita Bernadet: 2007 onwards I'm in Chennai kirty ekka: ok...i had been to chennai for business purpose.. kirty ekka: for Grasim Cement's plant  Smita Bernadet: Where are you right now? kirty ekka: Hewlett packard kirty ekka: i went to audit a plant of Grasim cement when i was working for Ernst & Young  Smita Bernadet: I mean are you in office right now? kirty ekka: no... kirty ekka: i wont chat at office..it's a misuse in my opinion kirty ekka: atleast for this long..!! Smita Bernadet: That's good , even I don't chat when I'm at work. Smita Bernadet: So how many invitations have you accepted so far on matrimony website? kirty ekka: i don't know kirty ekka: have talked to 3 other girls.  Smita Bernadet: then?
Smita Bernadet: any progress? kirty ekka: i think i need to feel passionate about the person... kirty ekka: which i didn't have Smita Bernadet: it will come with time kirty ekka: who knows.. kirty ekka: maybe not  kirty ekka: so what did you get on reading about me on the site...? kirty ekka: why were you afraid of me ??  Smita Bernadet: because you're a body builder and what if you punched me for ignoring to continue.. Smita Bernadet: At first when I saw your pic on website, I thought that why the hell has he put such a faint and boring pic. Still something on my mind said to click on it and read the profile. While I was going through it, I was impressed by the way you wrote it. I liked that sentence where you wrote that you would make her smile to forget all worries. Then came the smoking n drinking part and then I thought I should just check out your job details. Rest you know it... kirty ekka: ooh haha. i prefer not to fight. Getting a good body prevents brawls due to stalemates..  kirty ekka: did you guys go to a photo lab to get the pictures. Smita Bernadet: no those pics are my everyday ones Smita Bernadet: once i did it for movie shoot... Smita Bernadet: so the cover pic was for my portfolio kirty ekka: so you were auditioning to be an actor   Smita Bernadet: no no... Smita Bernadet: My friend was begging me to act in his movie because he  couldn't afford models. So as a friend I decided to help me. I did a tamil movie trailer. kirty ekka: oh ...there is a diva in you!! Smita Bernadet: i'm good at singing... Smita Bernadet: do you want to listen to my first recording? kirty ekka: send over...lets hear Smita Bernadet: email? kirty ekka: yes  Smita Bernadet: give? kirty ekka: kvekka@gmail.com Smita Bernadet: wait a moment, I'll send over kirty ekka: are you recording now?? Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: its already recorded Smita Bernadet: check gmail kirty ekka: it was meant to be a sarcasm... kirty ekka: ok got it now ..thanks  Smita Bernadet: What time do you have to get up in morning? kirty ekka: 7 -8 Smita Bernadet: okies...then we should continue later... kirty ekka: what time do you go to bed Smita Bernadet: I need to wind up kirty ekka: ok.. Smita Bernadet: I try to sleep by 12.30...and get up at 7 am kirty ekka: BTW you have a nice voice..your speech is clear and feels ingrained with innocence Smita Bernadet: hey I'm not a great singer but I compose well and want to learn studio software tools too Smita Bernadet: You yourself are a musician...right? kirty ekka: yeah can play guitar... kirty ekka: but have a bad voice.. probably can send you a recording i did with my cousin few days back..she was awesome i ruined it !! Smita Bernadet: Well, what type of guitar do you often enjoy playing? Do send me your recording.. kirty ekka: i play acoustic.. kirty ekka: do you play too  Smita Bernadet: I tried once but my little fingers don't reach all the strings, moreover I was fond of learning violin but my dad refused to buy me one. Smita Bernadet: People say that I have a husky voice...currently I'm trying to record songs for my own album. So far I've done 2. Out of which 1 needs corrections and rest are pending... Smita Bernadet: Hey, have u slept off? kirty ekka: wow husky voice? Smita Bernadet: they say so... kirty ekka: do you sing only religious songs? Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: album is a mixture of romance and sadness..its hindi and English Smita Bernadet: I mean the lyrics are both hindi n english kirty ekka: wow. i would wait to get the first copy  Smita Bernadet: I'm saving money to record my songs then I've to do the video too.. kirty ekka: wow you are full of surprises.. Smita Bernadet: That would take me time and thus I'm looking for someone who would support me emotionally in this..matter. My last friend about whom I told you...whose parents are not willing to get us married...He has helped me a lot. It is his dream too to see me make use of the gift that God has given me.. After all It's him who gave me this talent and I need to use it as a Thank you gesture. kirty ekka: oh wow..there's too much talent in you. Just do it.  Smita Bernadet: I believe that things will take shape but at God's time.. I am very patient.. Smita Bernadet: Apart from that I am into social service too..I go n teach art n craft at orphanages and rehabilitation camps and where ever God wants me to go..I enjoy it a lot. Smita Bernadet: I've realized that there has to be something more to my life than just living happily and dying...I need to have a purpose ....so one day I went to an orphanage and adopted a girl. Smita Bernadet: not a girl..she's a 2 yrs old baby Smita Bernadet: She's from pondicherry and was abandoned at a dump yard kirty ekka: Really!! that's nice to know that she's got a house now. kirty ekka: you're like a Mother Teresa  Smita Bernadet: no....I couldn't keep her...they have rules.. kirty ekka: i was thinking that  Smita Bernadet: They do not allow adoption to single parents.. kirty ekka: they would probably look for something that would show serious commitment Smita Bernadet: So I adopted her spiritually and not legally... Smita Bernadet: I take care of her and visit her..I get things for her.. Smita Bernadet: I love her a lot...It became very serious in between when I wasn't able to stay without her.. Smita Bernadet: It's 1 am. I think we should go to bed.. kirty ekka: you can finish what you have in mind  Smita Bernadet: Later she was taken away from me and I cried for months. It's been a year since I saw her. Only if I had enough money. I would had really adopted her legally. She has growth problem. Her one eyes is dislocated and she cannot stand because her few bone parts from her feet are missing. She cannot speak either but she her mother in me. I can't describe how it felt to take her in my arms. Smita Bernadet: she saw her mother in me... kirty ekka: Oh i feel said for the young lady Smita Bernadet: no body can understand...its a mother thing kirty ekka: maybe that's the reason why she was abandoned. But, its good to know that she will have people who will look for her and she would people to look up to  kirty ekka: yeah probably i won't get it..the way you do  Smita Bernadet: We should probably go to bed now...It's too late for us kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: good night ...sleep well  Smita Bernadet: sorry if I was boring kirty ekka: no i was not bored Smita Bernadet: You're a great listener...Thanx so much. It was nice chatting with you. Goodnight. Have a sound sleep. kirty ekka: bye again Smita Bernadet: untill? Smita Bernadet: until ? Smita Bernadet: ok byee kirty ekka: until?? Smita Bernadet: kal...byeee kirty ekka: kal is here already  kirty ekka: it's 1 now Smita Bernadet: haaah.......funny Smita Bernadet: I'm leaving then. sleep well. take care Kirty kirty ekka: bye bernadet kirty ekka: hi Smita Bernadet: hey hi Smita Bernadet: give me 10 min. I'm having my supper kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: I'm back kirty ekka: hi  kirty ekka: again  Smita Bernadet: What question were you about to ask me on the day you rang? kirty ekka: i liked you and i wanted to know if you would be interested or not  Smita Bernadet: okay...I thought it must had been a dangerous question....so do you think a girl younger than you can take care of you? kirty ekka: yes, i don't see why that is not possible  kirty ekka: i think age plus or minus doesn't define the capability  Smita Bernadet: Because sometimes the elder partner often says to the younger one that you're to young to understand all this...and that's really irritating.. kirty ekka: everything has its own pros and cons kirty ekka: if you were older, someone could have snapped and said  to - 'hurry and not be slow like a granny' Smita Bernadet: so one should avoid being into that situation... Smita Bernadet: what about that song you were about to email me? kirty ekka: yeah that song... is in a whatsapp group ... kirty ekka: and i had my phone reimaged so all those collection is gone  Smita Bernadet: I'm not on whatsapp Smita Bernadet: okay..my bad kirty ekka: maybe tomorrow i can mail you...i asked the song from my cousin but she is going to coimbatore today Smita Bernadet: I have lots of patience kirty ekka: so must have been busy with the packing etc.. kirty ekka: humm...it's not like AR Rahman's voice that you should be waiting !! kirty ekka: I am a bad singer..and i know it  Smita Bernadet: normally I am very patient person Smita Bernadet: so you sang in it? kirty ekka: yeah... Smita Bernadet: English? kirty ekka: hindi ...jiyein kyun - i think  Smita Bernadet: Is it your own composition and studio recorded? kirty ekka: No, she came over to my house one day. I was in a musical mood that day and got her into the groove too.  Smita Bernadet: Tell me about her... kirty ekka: So, we began recording a number of songs together, mostly for fun kirty ekka: She is cool, strong, and independent for her age.  Smita Bernadet: Does she sing? kirty ekka: yeah she sings well  Smita Bernadet: thats good to know.. Smita Bernadet: Do you have siblings? kirty ekka: i have an elder sis kirty ekka: are you the only singer in your family?? Smita Bernadet: oh yeah...she's a teacher kirty ekka: or its a carol party over there ?? Smita Bernadet: I didn't get you.. kirty ekka: i meant to ask- do you have a family that sings a lot ? Smita Bernadet: I sing and my next sister sings. My brother plays guitar. My mum sings too kirty ekka: It's a musical family then  Smita Bernadet: But they don't have a passion of recording it like I do.. kirty ekka: ok..i see.. kirty ekka: it conclude then that you must be having lots of recordings  kirty ekka: whom do you like to cover ? Smita Bernadet: I'm on phone with mum...can u wait... kirty ekka: ok..take your time  Smita Bernadet: So... I don't like to cover anyone personally... I like to sing anything what I like and most importantly...in my own style. I avoid mimicking when I sing. But there are certain old hindi songs I love to sing as it is .. Smita Bernadet: you there? kirty ekka: yes i am here kirty ekka: did you have a band ?? kirty ekka: were you in any one before?? Smita Bernadet: What are your plans for this weekend? Nope I never had a band..I'm a independent artist. I hire a studio and record my compositions...I don't have many recordings...just 4 so far. It needs money and passionate person who could suit the style of music I want. It's hard to gather all of it together. Specially for a person like me who works in lab whole week and gets just 2 days for other extra activities. Smita Bernadet: what about you? were you in any band? kirty ekka: i played in college..in the hostel band..and won gold ...which led me to believe that guitar stuff is easy..and then i didn't join back  kirty ekka: i played rhythm guitar then  kirty ekka: and we won because we had the best vocalist in the campus  Smita Bernadet: So you were a hero in your college days. Girls must had been drooling all over you.. kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: there were no girls at IIT  Smita Bernadet: how come? kirty ekka: 35 girls for 750 boys!! kirty ekka: per batch  Smita Bernadet: that's a lot of girls Smita Bernadet: I mean..enough girls kirty ekka: So, we chose to concentrate on other abundant resources for entertainment   Smita Bernadet: It was opposite in my college kirty ekka: haha  Smita Bernadet: wasn't it boring without girls? kirty ekka: no we boys have lots of shit on our mind kirty ekka: we enjoyed a lot  Smita Bernadet: Well I was always in a convent school. Later my college years had 14 girls and 2 boys and 5 priests..in my class I meant kirty ekka: wow those boys...must be thanking god for landing them in a paradise on earth Smita Bernadet: I never got time to look around in my own campus...Loyola is actually a boy's college here but I never saw anybody charming.. kirty ekka: oh like that..haha  Smita Bernadet: I had friends in iit madras and often used to hangout there kirty ekka: anyone from Jharkhand that you knew then  Smita Bernadet: many kirty ekka: ok wow  Smita Bernadet: you know any? kirty ekka: any of whom?? Smita Bernadet: it has the best green campus kirty ekka: yeah i've been there for inter IIT sports  Smita Bernadet: do you have or had any friends from iit madras? kirty ekka: my cousin studied there  kirty ekka: she is 2 years senior to me  kirty ekka: this is a different cousin not the one i recorded the songs with  Smita Bernadet: yeah..i can make out that Smita Bernadet: so none other? kirty ekka: i am the only guy among my cousins
kirty ekka: so everywhere i have sisters mostly Smita Bernadet: so other than your cousin you no none from iitm kirty ekka: no i don't  Smita Bernadet: being surrounded by sisters is a blessing...you'll become more caring and resposible person Smita Bernadet: responsible kirty ekka: haha i hated it when i was a kid kirty ekka: they all sounded so boring..there was no games,..no actions...nothing  Smita Bernadet: happens... kirty ekka: now there is bright side.. i get good food atleast ! Smita Bernadet: haaahh..see Smita Bernadet: do you go to gym every week? kirty ekka: 5 days a week  kirty ekka: i am aiming for 6 packs atleast once in this life..  kirty ekka: so my diet have changed..and many things have changed due to that..  kirty ekka: i hardly booze because now it looks like a box of 350 kcals !! Smita Bernadet: Don't take steroids...it's very unhealthy to take those hormone boosters kirty ekka: no i don't take them...its all natural till now.. Smita Bernadet: good.. Smita Bernadet: I said because of my research work... kirty ekka: if i would have taken then i would have been a hunk by now.. kirty ekka: they develop so fast man i get shocked.  Smita Bernadet: yeah right and would had been a dad of 4 kids too kirty ekka: 4 kids..!! Smita Bernadet: 7 kirty ekka: i didn't know kids also come from steroids !! Smita Bernadet: Allow me to explain Smita Bernadet: See..if you were a hunk....u would had got a girlfriend...then would had got married...and would had got a complete happy family...but that would had been possible only artificially...In reality it cannot happen because you never took any pills... Smita Bernadet: its nonsense...i know... Smita Bernadet: I was just playing... kirty ekka: dad of 7 kids. All girls in the gym will get pregnant - is what i could think of !!! kirty ekka: clearly making one woman bear all 7 kids would be a molestation in its own way Smita Bernadet: ur wish...u are capable if u were a hunk kirty ekka: haha Smita Bernadet: are you really laughing...coz it was a bad joke kirty ekka: i am laughing at my joke...  Smita Bernadet: how was your day at office today because I was very depressed and disturbed today kirty ekka: it was fine,,,,  Smita Bernadet: do you enjoy your work at office? kirty ekka: no ...not at this moment... Smita Bernadet: you don't like your post? kirty ekka: i want to join a product marketing team  Smita Bernadet: in the same company? kirty ekka: but they don't have a vacancy  kirty ekka: yes learn here....then jump around elsewhere  Smita Bernadet: do you have any dreams which are yet to be fulfilled? kirty ekka: there are lots  Smita Bernadet: do you still want to pursue them? kirty ekka: it includes material, physical, intangible items kirty ekka: yes,  Smita Bernadet: invention!!! kirty ekka: else i would have been a dumb, boring dude  kirty ekka: what do you want to invent.. Smita Bernadet: tell me about these material, physical, intangible items.... Smita Bernadet: ?? kirty ekka: basic everyday needs: bangla, gadi, makaan kirty ekka: then: roaming around meeting people of different places.. sharing ideas  Smita Bernadet: that's your big dream? kirty ekka: mostly observing a culture  kirty ekka: big dream is to live a happy, satisfied life with a great partner  Smita Bernadet: that's all? kirty ekka: which actually looks small but is not  kirty ekka: right now this is the list  kirty ekka: when i was young i just wanted to eat maggi for every meal... kirty ekka: dreams change with perception and time  Smita Bernadet: Please don't ask my dream...you'll go crazy....and I know that I'm capable of doing all one day... kirty ekka: i can only guess  Smita Bernadet: you know half of them so far kirty ekka: blast me with the top 5 on your list  Smita Bernadet: no no...leave it Smita Bernadet: your brain may fuse Smita Bernadet: so what happened to those 3 girls with whom you were in contact on matrimony site? kirty ekka: nothing happened  Smita Bernadet: u didn't ring them? Smita Bernadet: r u sleepy? kirty ekka: no my other computer is low on compute space  kirty ekka: i've talked to them Smita Bernadet: Out of curiosity...I just wanted to know that...why have you uploaded such a low pixeled...boring pic on bharatmatrimony? you've got many on fb otherwise... that too you've uploaded only 1... kirty ekka: i did'nt think much about it ..  Smita Bernadet: aah Smita Bernadet: you weren't interested in marriage.. kirty ekka: i think i probably  feel that i would look the same in all  kirty ekka: no its not that  Smita Bernadet: that pic is not clear at all...how will girls view your profile? kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: There must be many who visit you...but your pic ....ufff...not many are there like me who would actually click and read.... kirty ekka: ok i will go to a photo studio and get some good pics for all the girls in that site..  Smita Bernadet: Will you click on a girl's profile if her pic is not clear?..you don't need to go anywhere...just take 3-4 from your fb account kirty ekka: it would be interesting to see how the reactions change  kirty ekka: Naah.. those pics serve a different purpose..  kirty ekka: i was planning on it... a colleague of mine knows that i am on the page.. and said me the same thing Smita Bernadet: come on..thats the real you....you should be same on matrimony too... kirty ekka: ?? kirty ekka: i am the same guy girl kirty ekka: probably the clothes would change only  Smita Bernadet: hmm...see I'm just trying to help you out....your choice at last kirty ekka: ok that way  kirty ekka: thanks then Smita Bernadet: I'm trying to be a good friend Smita Bernadet: So , tell me Kirty. What type of girl you have always wanted? Smita Bernadet: What was special about your girlfriend? kirty ekka: i'm looking for a friend first... kirty ekka: have a relationship so close that i can understand her emotions in totality when she utters the first word  kirty ekka: someone whom i can love till i die..  kirty ekka: there are many things/ aspects that can't ne put in words.... kirty ekka: what are you looking for ? Smita Bernadet: please tell me what was special about your girlfriend...please Smita Bernadet: ok..i won't ask. may be i'm hurting you unknowingly. So sorry kirty ekka: about my girlfriend.. kirty ekka: She was the most cheerful person I had met. Her laughter set the tone for us and that was how we began.  Talking to her and hearing voice made even my dullest days beautiful.   I liked her for everything she was and she wasn't. At some point, no matter how far we were, it felt that telepathically we knew what happened to each other.  Smita Bernadet: i'm listening..go on Smita Bernadet: How long was your duration with her? kirty ekka: Though, we are not together now and will never be in this life. I am happy to know the fact that there was a point in my life when i knew and understood love :)  kirty ekka: less than a year i think  Smita Bernadet: why that uncle had a problem with you guys? kirty ekka: probably that she was 5 years elder to me and also probably that he said someone that he is ok with the alliance  kirty ekka: and was not ok with his daughter was going with me against his wishes  kirty ekka: it was probably a cultural thing with him...he never asked his daughter what she wanted  Smita Bernadet: your friend's dad was against?or her dad? kirty ekka: her dad... kirty ekka: why would i listen to my friend's dad for my life Smita Bernadet: yeah.... kirty ekka: ??!!! Smita Bernadet: i didn't read properly Smita Bernadet: sorry Smita Bernadet: you really had true love Smita Bernadet: so, where is she now? Smita Bernadet: how come her culture was different? was she from a different background? kirty ekka: no she stayed in bihar but was a tribal.. kirty ekka: why are you asking me all of these? Smita Bernadet: friends ask..right kirty ekka: ooh ok Smita Bernadet: remember....I empathize a lot Smita Bernadet: i used to do that to all my friends.... kirty ekka: well, it is difficult for me to remove her from my mind, once she comes there Smita Bernadet: thats okay..don't remove her then kirty ekka: i don't go there anymore. it took me huge amount of time to learn to ignore thoughts about her Smita Bernadet: You don't need to remove those thoughts. Just recall the happy moments and think that you were blessed to have her and she was a part of your life which no one else can replace... Smita Bernadet: remember her in a happy way kirty ekka: yes, this is the only thing that i recall  Smita Bernadet: people come in our life for a purpose which we may never understand. And once that work is done they just go away. They make us a whole new person.They are called as angels.  She was one of them. Something good happened...you experienced true love. Boy I'm jealous...i never got to experience how telepathy actually works.... hmm kirty ekka: haha... Smita Bernadet: i'm serious..I always wanted to kirty ekka: what ?? Smita Bernadet: telepathy kirty ekka: haha.. kirty ekka: maybe we were drugged by the soft warm feeling  Smita Bernadet: possible kirty ekka: you should go and watch korean movies..  kirty ekka: you will cry for a week  Smita Bernadet: i used to long back Smita Bernadet: my favorite is - my sassy girl kirty ekka: oh i was going to say that  Smita Bernadet: wat? kirty ekka: my sassy girl  Smita Bernadet: r u kidding me? kirty ekka: no kidding  Smita Bernadet: how come..u too...great kirty ekka: girls are everywhere...and you tend to want to understand why they like what they like  Smita Bernadet: u mean to say that u just guessed it or you too like that movie? Smita Bernadet: all the boys used to call me sassy...by nick name Smita Bernadet: i meant my friends...classmates kirty ekka:  no i liked it  Smita Bernadet: they used to call me sassy because of that movie. My characters were similar..they said. Smita Bernadet: u wanna sleep? Smita Bernadet: u can carry on Smita Bernadet: if you're tired kirty ekka: no go on kirty ekka: were you an alcoholic  kirty ekka: and used to beat up the cute dudes  kirty ekka: ?? Smita Bernadet: nope...but i used to poke pen on my best friend's thighs and blood used to come out..i used to irritate him all the time..tickle him in between he class and once i slapped him in a crowded bus just for fun. People actually thought that he was teasing me. Haaaah...those days were fun..I used to be very naughty and create situations for him. He wasn't my boyfriend...but everyone thought that we were in love... Smita Bernadet: I did many things and he used to land up in trouble...he was just my best friend... Smita Bernadet: So the whole class named me sassy kirty ekka: bechara that guy...wasn't a bf yet had to go through all these  kirty ekka: send him my sympathies  Smita Bernadet: he's very very extraordinary best friend of mine kirty ekka: cool, good to know that  Smita Bernadet: The best part is..that he still used to hang out with me...he never left kirty ekka: waah nice yaar Smita Bernadet: even after getting all that torture he used to carry my purse when I was tired. kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: you were a mean woman  Smita Bernadet: he used to walk me to hostel...buy me bread butter when food got over at mess... Smita Bernadet: no.... Smita Bernadet: it was fun...we had that understanding too... kirty ekka: yeah i was pulling your leg for being mean Smita Bernadet: yeah...i guess that I was mean.... Smita Bernadet: but if i hadn't done all that then today I wouldn't had remembered it...those days were epic kirty ekka: no man..   kirty ekka: friends have their own ways..  Smita Bernadet: see we made a memory that way kirty ekka: he was getting killed...i'm sure he won't forget that kirty ekka:   Smita Bernadet: I still remember...he carried my pink purse in the whole of chennai just because I was tired... Smita Bernadet: And everybody was staring at him...because it was a big ladies purse... Smita Bernadet: I even tried snatching it back but failed to do so... Smita Bernadet: He was roaming in the whole mall that way... kirty ekka: haha hilarious  Smita Bernadet: he had 2 bags..his big black bag and my pink purse Smita Bernadet: I was feeling so embarrassed because people around me thought that i was a cruel, merciless girlfriend , who makes his guy walk like an idiot... kirty ekka: yeah in that merciless hot humid city  Smita Bernadet: we were in mall...so it wasn't hot but I was half dead and tired... kirty ekka: ok...  Smita Bernadet: okay then... kirty ekka: i thought you toured chennai like that  Smita Bernadet: i spoke a lot Smita Bernadet: ya he often used to help me with my bag....i must have roamed whole chennai like that with him...can't recall but possible Smita Bernadet: Okay then....enough for today....its late kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: you need to read my blog sometime. I have 5 blogs. I even write poems when I'm sad...Goodnite then....hulk kirty ekka: haha hulk  Smita Bernadet: yup kirty ekka: nice one  Smita Bernadet: bye then kirty ekka: bye Bernadet  Smita Bernadet: bye Kirty kirty ekka: i like your name  Smita Bernadet: oh i have one more Smita Bernadet: it's Hosanaa kirty ekka: i was coming to that kirty ekka: i guess that is what you have christened yourself  Smita Bernadet: yup, I named myself as Hosanaa, after all I have the right to name myself. Hosanaa is my professional name for music purpose Smita Bernadet: I like it's meaning... Smita Bernadet: okay i should stop now... Smita Bernadet: need to wind up kirty ekka: okay lady..wind up  kirty ekka: bbye.. and sweet dreams  Smita Bernadet: sweet dreams.... kirty ekka: be happy tomorrow kirty ekka: it's a friday !! Smita Bernadet: oh that way....yes i will be... Smita Bernadet: u too kirty ekka: i gave a reason...if you had none Smita Bernadet: Hey Kirty, I won't be talking to you for few days. My mood is off and I don't feel like speaking to anybody. So I'm sorry. Enjoy your weekend. I've got to spend my time with Jesus. I'm missing him a lot. Goodnite Hulk. kirty ekka: Hi Bernadet, It's sad to know that you're not in the right mood. You take your time and do whatever it takes to get your spirits high. I think, I probably jinxed your friday, with my suggestions to have a happy one :( And in case, you want to talk to me - you know where to find me. I will be there. :)  Smita Bernadet: This is my daughter. I renamed her as Melody. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Wow...she is one fine happy baby!! Smita Bernadet: I hope your weekend was great and you had good food. I'm having fever and I also have loads of work from home pending. That's keeping me busy for the past few days. I'm resigning my job and busy hunting new ones. Lets see what happens. You take care of your health. We'll talk later. Gud98 hulk Smita Bernadet: are you there? Smita Bernadet: i shouldn't had deleted your number .. Smita Bernadet: I am feeling so stressed out and I thought that you could make me laugh ...don't take it the wrong way. I didn't mean to call you a joker. It's just because your profile says that you can make people laugh to shoo off their worries. Smita Bernadet: I guess I'll just have to go to bed this way. byee Kirty. kirty ekka: Aaah Bernadet.. not feeling well!! kirty ekka: What happened to you suddenly? Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: u there? kirty ekka: yeah...i just came home.. Did shopping and had dinner with that cousin of mine of sang with me  Smita Bernadet: thank god your here...your a Saviour..Can I talk for sometime before I get back to my work? kirty ekka: i will send you the song  kirty ekka: that i was talking about  Smita Bernadet: will that make me laugh? kirty ekka: don't know that...probably...  kirty ekka: listen to a guy try so hard at singing ....but still be that bad  Smita Bernadet: Is there anything else you can do to relieve my stress? I need to laugh Smita Bernadet: ok send over your song kirty ekka: already sent  kirty ekka: and why are you resigning  Smita Bernadet: My duration of project got over. They asked me to continue but I got bored of that lab. Too much of mental pressure was disturbing me a lot lately. Smita Bernadet: My boss is a cruel lady... kirty ekka: oh... lady boss !! they are deadly  Smita Bernadet: tomorrow is my last working day. kirty ekka: well then congratulations and best of luck girl  Smita Bernadet: she has given me lots of work. I had to do it on weekends...I haven't taken rest properly..that's why I was feeling stressed Smita Bernadet: yup..thanx for best wishes. Smita Bernadet: can i hear the song later? I need to concentrate on it so i'll do it later kirty ekka: ooh yes Smita Bernadet: so. Smita Bernadet: i'm waiting for a joke Smita Bernadet: just 2 min. then I'll be gone kirty ekka: name these two people.... kirty ekka: 1) the person who lives under water Smita Bernadet: seriously? kirty ekka: and 2) the lady who drinks one cup of tea per day  Smita Bernadet: it's a brain teaser!!!! hmmmm let me google out kirty ekka: oohoo.  kirty ekka: you're smart.. Smita Bernadet: is it a joke even? kirty ekka: i found it hilarious  Smita Bernadet: I ain't smart..or else i wouldn't had googled kirty ekka: specially the second one  kirty ekka: ok i will help you with the first one  Smita Bernadet: okay..tell me..I didn't google
kirty ekka: it is Jal-Andar Smita Bernadet: funny kirty ekka: so guess the second one Smita Bernadet: wait Smita Bernadet: yes i googled it..It's damn hilarious kirty ekka: haha yes it is  Smita Bernadet: they are so creative Smita Bernadet: so how was your weekend? kirty ekka: nice yaar...met a friend and his wife.. so we hung out on friday and saturday kirty ekka: then we saw the movie - 'mission impossible'..i like tom cruise, so it was good again  Smita Bernadet: the old one? kirty ekka: no the latest one - Rogue Nation Smita Bernadet: oops okay, I haven't seen the trailer Smita Bernadet: no time at al.. Smita Bernadet: I saw some other movies from my collection. old ones kirty ekka: which one  Smita Bernadet: you won't know it..It doesn't have high ratings Smita Bernadet: they aren't famous kirty ekka: lets hear.. i've watched several movies  Smita Bernadet: Let god, ultimate gift, unconditional..marriage retreat, I'm in love with a church girl... kirty ekka: wow..really  kirty ekka: i've not heard about them  Smita Bernadet: see i told you Smita Bernadet: you watch only the highest rated ones.. kirty ekka: i've got to watch it then  kirty ekka: no its not like that... i follow some people and can watch their movies..Currently, funny things are what i'm looking for. My tastes change with time  Smita Bernadet: I chose from my own instincts and rate them myself..I don't go on other's ratings because we all are different. It's not necessary that I will like what others like...so i never follow the ratings Smita Bernadet: It never works for me. Most of the movies which I like have poor ratings online kirty ekka: haha i guess you must be into Romcoms  kirty ekka: they don't get the ratings  Smita Bernadet: nope, i watch documentaries too Smita Bernadet: the whistleblower.,..dessert flower Smita Bernadet: the help Smita Bernadet: i like watching movies which gives me something to take away,,teaches me or has a moral or is a life changer kirty ekka: Thanks for the list... they seem interesting  Smita Bernadet: r u planning to watch them? kirty ekka: i take movies as they come. In some I learn what not to do... and in some what to do next  kirty ekka: Yeah, i am planning to watch them  Smita Bernadet: okay then...the whistleblower changed my perspective on life and I started writing blog on human trafficking and due to which I stated reading more documentaries too.  Smita Bernadet: that's a documentary painful story kirty ekka: then you must have watched - Requiem for a dream kirty ekka: it is a movie..but it will blow your mind for a week atleast  kirty ekka: its on drug abuse Smita Bernadet: I'll add that to my list...if you say so kirty ekka: but be prepared it will leave super bas taste..i watched it once and felt super sad after it  Smita Bernadet: i felt sad after watching law abiding citizen Smita Bernadet: please don't ask me to watch depressing movies that have no solution in the end... kirty ekka: ok ok  Smita Bernadet: does that movie have a solution? kirty ekka: yeah - see the worst outcome  kirty ekka: and never take drugs Smita Bernadet: haah..that i dont Smita Bernadet: it's raining here kirty ekka: wow Smita Bernadet: u like rains? kirty ekka: yeah kirty ekka: what about you  Smita Bernadet: storms? kirty ekka: storms..i've never been in one  Smita Bernadet: I've been in the middle of cyclone once in chandipur kirty ekka: chandipur - orissa ?? Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: it was really bad and we were at sea beach resort Smita Bernadet: with mum dad Smita Bernadet: next day we vacated kirty ekka: i think i would have liked to witness it but be scared at the same time.. it's a wonder to know that winds can be so strong and see it in action  Smita Bernadet: ya all the trees were fallen on our roof, whole floor was soaked in water. no current and we couldn't sleep Smita Bernadet: our's was an asbestos roof. it cracked open Smita Bernadet: it was scary but i enjoyed.. Smita Bernadet: winds were blowing cars off Smita Bernadet: flights were cancelled Smita Bernadet: we were trapped kirty ekka: it truly must have been an experience. Smita Bernadet: trains stopped...then I don't know what my parents arranged but we were out the very next dawn kirty ekka: what was your age and which year was it  Smita Bernadet: i guess i was in my 1st std kirty ekka: i was on small storm at sea, on a boat  kirty ekka: it was mild but enough to toss the boat....high and low.. i remember to be reminding myself not to freak out and get tossed out of the boat.  Smita Bernadet: were you alone? kirty ekka: with friends and random public on a speed ferry  Smita Bernadet: where were you headed? kirty ekka: we were going to phi phi island - thailand Smita Bernadet: do you know how to swim? kirty ekka: for 20 meters  kirty ekka: after that i will probably die  kirty ekka: do you know ? Smita Bernadet: I don't and am planning to learn Smita Bernadet: can you save someone from drowning? kirty ekka: depends upon how far the person is from the shore  kirty ekka: if it is close to the shore... i will think of something and save the person  kirty ekka: and if its far..then i will only shout for help Smita Bernadet: we spoke so much, I was supposed to talk only for 2 min. I must better get going. Duty calls..Thanks for that jaswanti Smita Bernadet: I feel at ease now kirty ekka: hmmm we did Smita Bernadet: you saved me kirty ekka: haha  Smita Bernadet: so, I shall take a leave now kirty ekka: Feel marvelous girl... kirty ekka: i devour your time...  Smita Bernadet: not your fault Smita Bernadet: I talk to much I guess kirty ekka: Well, bye for today then. Soon, I will catch you again.   Smita Bernadet: buenas noches Smita Bernadet: see you Smita Bernadet: hulk kirty ekka: ok Amigos  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Bbye.. kirty ekka: Bye Bernadet.. Zzz..sleep well and don;t forget to resign tomorrow  Smita Bernadet: hey kirty ekka: hi  kirty ekka: how was your day?  Smita Bernadet: hi....My day was very hectic Smita Bernadet: how was yours? kirty ekka: confusing... kirty ekka: i am going round and round on a project..  Smita Bernadet: field trip? kirty ekka: no mentally.. kirty ekka: i present something.. people ask for changes in that..i find flaws in that...then do something different...then they find flaws in it... then analysis' method is changed  Smita Bernadet: it happens with me too. even  change my ppt slides many times...just keep trying. you can do it. Pray and do. Are you in the mindset to talk today or else you can go and relax..sleep early and start fresh Smita Bernadet: If you're in middle of your work then let me not interfere it kirty ekka: we can talk  kirty ekka: i was looking at your pics on google plus... Felt like, looking at your transformation  Smita Bernadet: Yesterday I scolded a guy who called me up out of the blue regarding this matrimony website and now he is sending me irritating messages...So I didn't reply and I changed my profile settings. I wish somebody could ring him back and shout on him. Smita Bernadet: what transformation? kirty ekka: from 2009 to now  Smita Bernadet: its just God ...he likes changing me kirty ekka: is it a coincidence that you look happy in all of them  Smita Bernadet: well all the credit goes to jesus kirty ekka: But, there's a catch...you have sad captions on them.. kirty ekka: i think they are lovely pics  Smita Bernadet: yup...It was when I was heart broken and ditched kirty ekka: and are you happy now  Smita Bernadet: I am happy but suddenly at times all those memories come flooding by and I let the tears flow. Not for long..I sing some hymn and get back normal. kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: I miss my old looks sometimes. I often feel that my innocence has faded away kirty ekka: haha that is a joke  kirty ekka: you look like you're saturated with innocence  Smita Bernadet: don't go on my looks sometimes I am opposite...when I get angry kirty ekka: Well then, don't get angry!! kirty ekka: so tell me...how is itinerary like, how does you day go? and what happens generally? kirty ekka: how is your itinerary like? Smita Bernadet: I can't stand injustice...I fight back always. whether it's with me or with people around me. I take the leadership always and speak back. Smita Bernadet: It will change in 2 days. Otherwise I get up at 8 am. Catch my train at 9.30. Reach lab at 11 am. Depart at 7 pm. Reach room at 8.30 then eat around 9.30 and sleep off at 1 am. It's boring. kirty ekka: do you stay alone? Smita Bernadet: hey can you help me.. kirty ekka: on what ? Smita Bernadet: a guy is irritating me with threatening messages through bharat matrimony. Smita Bernadet: since yesterday Smita Bernadet: I don't want to respond him... Smita Bernadet: I'll tell you what happened. kirty ekka: ok.. Smita Bernadet: This guy's name is Joshua. He rang me yesterday and said that his friend got married 2 weeks back through this website. And so he saw my no. through his profile. Smita Bernadet: Then Smita Bernadet: He asked whether I am still looking for a guy. Smita Bernadet: So I said that I will check your profile and get back to you. He replied saying that he doesn't have any profile and neither does he have any intention to have one. Smita Bernadet: I said that well this is not the way  and first he should create one. Smita Bernadet: He said what's the need and we should talk. Smita Bernadet: I refused and said that it's easier is you create one. Only if I like your profile then only I will talk. Smita Bernadet: He got angry and cut the call. Smita Bernadet: See I just can't talk to anybody like that. What if he's a pimp or a fraud. Having a profile is a safer way. Can you get a job without submitting your resume? Only if they like the resume then only will they call for interview. right? Nonsense. And he is messaging me saying you remove your profile..this is a warning ...I didn't reply at all. Smita Bernadet: Do you think I'm a bad girl ? Honestly tell me Kirty, do you think I talking to you for time pass? You might think but then I can just go and say yes to anyone, right. I need to know him first, It's how it should be. Smita Bernadet: I won't torture you more. If you don't want to help me then it's fine. I ain't AFRAID. He's just getting on my nerves. Smita Bernadet: I'm going crazy kirty ekka: Don't be afraid yeah... kirty ekka: put a silent ringtone to his number...and don't pick it up again.. Smita Bernadet: I don't have any "gunda" brothers or else by now they would had beaten this guy up. haaah. kirty ekka: i would have behaved differently before as compared to now.. Smita Bernadet: have you beaten up anybody before? kirty ekka: It's best to ignore.. i would not want to rile myself for some jackass  kirty ekka: i was nearly kicked out of my school for fighting  Smita Bernadet: you were a hero then kirty ekka: then i resolved never to fight again.. Smita Bernadet: did you fight over some pretty damsel? kirty ekka: no i had too much of myself... kirty ekka: i thought i was born to fight ...it is super funny now... i get amazed by the stupidity i displayed then kirty ekka: what about you? how many poor souls have you beaten? Smita Bernadet: one girl Smita Bernadet: I was in my 3rd std Smita Bernadet: It happened in mumbai. She pushed my younger brother and he fell into an empty pool and got wounded. Smita Bernadet: So I held her collar and slapped her 20 times on both her cheeks. I counted and gave her nicely. kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: well she deserved it ... Smita Bernadet: yup next day her mom came and shouted on me Smita Bernadet: as if I cared..huh kirty ekka: i fought for wrong reasons - Don't stare at me;  you touched me; etc.  Smita Bernadet: are you short tempered? kirty ekka: i was long time ago... kirty ekka: now am very laid back.. Smita Bernadet: so you never get angry? kirty ekka: i get angry!! But, then do something else instead of blurting random things in anger Smita Bernadet: what do you do when you're angry? kirty ekka: bring about lots of sarcasm Smita Bernadet: Like? kirty ekka: if someone will say - how dare i talk like this... Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: then i would reply by saying - OMG!! i am so sorry, i didn't know it was you. you are so deadly. Only in my wildest dream will i talk to you....!! kirty ekka: etc.  Smita Bernadet: you're so funny kirty ekka: once. when i was travelling with my friend on a train, a transgender spotted me and caught me, asking me for money.  kirty ekka: so i pointed my friend out in the same compartment and said that i'm my friend's servant kirty ekka: then it was fun watching him deal with the chakka  Smita Bernadet: haah...hilarious... kirty ekka: i still laugh thinking about it  Smita Bernadet: it must had been a good scene kirty ekka: yeah...the entire compartment nearly blew up!! kirty ekka: the chakka nearly went nude to prove that he would go to any extent just to not go back empty handed  Smita Bernadet: that's the limit kirty ekka: and my friend was a super miser...so that was a possibility waiting to happen Smita Bernadet: bechara I feel sorry for transgenders because I have studied them. kirty ekka: yeah..life is bad for them.. Smita Bernadet: what do you do when you're sad? kirty ekka: i talk to friends, family, God,  kirty ekka: start my bike and just go to some random place kirty ekka: used to smoke ...but now that is gone. thanks to you  Smita Bernadet: what do you do when no one is available to talk? Do You drive harsh when you're sad? Have you really quited !!!!!!!!!! kirty ekka: yeah 8 full days now...  Smita Bernadet: when did you last smoke? Smita Bernadet: what if the temptation drives back? kirty ekka: i began on last sunday night.. kirty ekka: last week sunday night ...not last sunday night  kirty ekka: i won't smoke in my life again... i have made my resolve... Smita Bernadet: I once smoked in my dream...the smoke was yummy and golden in color kirty ekka: sometimes i feel sad about it...because the cigarette was there everywhere with me.  kirty ekka: my best friend etc..  Smita Bernadet: you started smoking after you lost her? kirty ekka: but then again could not imagine to continue doing it..  kirty ekka: no i used to smoke..i didn't start because of her kirty ekka: did you ever smoke and drink ?? Smita Bernadet: I keep telling all my male friends to quit smoking as it damages sperms. And they used to listen to me because I'm a scientist...I feel overwhelmed that you have controlled so far. I have no desire to smoke..it stinks a lot. And alcohol too tastes like acid. Smita Bernadet: Wine is Fine..It's healthy kirty ekka: haha...thanks to you again. i am probably the owner of super reproductive sperms now Smita Bernadet: funny...no it's not how it works... Smita Bernadet: So far if one has been taking then It's already damaged now. It would take years to recover. Only if you maintain a healthy life style. kirty ekka: well i have a healthy lifestyle.. i go to gym daily..spend 1.5 hrs there.. can run for 5-6 kms on cardio days Smita Bernadet: Do you want me to explain in detail? kirty ekka: do 50 pull-ups etc... Smita Bernadet: You need to eat healthy and stay stress free... Smita Bernadet: even age matters a lot kirty ekka: maybe it wont take me years to refurbish...  kirty ekka: also, a friend of mine had a normal kid.. he smoked and drank 3X of me ..  Smita Bernadet: I give genetic counseling to patients who have no kids and have recurrent pregnancy loss..I counsel them. kirty ekka: i think i am normal...but you scared me kirty ekka: plus other reasons  Smita Bernadet: every body's body capacity is not same...It affects many nowadays..I feel sorry for all those young couples who come to me... kirty ekka: hmmm Smita Bernadet: you may not be affected...but be on the safer side kirty ekka: so what is the cure ...artificial insemination? kirty ekka: if they are desperate to have a kid..  Smita Bernadet: besides eat some pizza instead of smoking... kirty ekka: i didn't know this that pizza gives healty sperms!! kirty ekka: but is bad for the tummy..  Smita Bernadet: yup the solution is a donor sperm or else test tube baby.. Smita Bernadet: dumbo... kirty ekka: i avoid pizza Smita Bernadet: pizza is not related to sperm..I meant that spend your money on good stuff kirty ekka: oh .. like that Smita Bernadet: i love pizza kirty ekka: pizza and drinks are good combo Smita Bernadet: I eat it once in a while only... Smita Bernadet: monthly once kirty ekka: i don't count .. Smita Bernadet: i guesses so Smita Bernadet: gussed Smita Bernadet: guessed kirty ekka: so, i want to know something Smita Bernadet: wat Smita Bernadet: i need to sleep now kirty ekka: how does the guy react when you tell him that he is infertile kirty ekka: is the wife angry at him...does he cry? kirty ekka: do both cry? kirty ekka: what unfolds then ... Smita Bernadet: they reaction is sad...I read out their semen analysis details infront  of their wife and explain them with a diagram. They listen patiently and ask questions. Then they ask me for my advice and I try to give them alternate possible solutions. They thank me and call me Dr. Smita..It feels so good. They respect me a lot and go home with hope. Smita Bernadet: They often cry... Smita Bernadet: I tell them to pray too kirty ekka: you make it look like it's the end of the world Smita Bernadet: nope..... kirty ekka: you're a bad girl Smita Bernadet: the fact is, we have no cure for it so far....we can increase the sperm count but can't improve it's quality... Smita Bernadet: IVF can create only more infertile kids who will require IVF later again so I take their blood sample and work with it to find the root cause kirty ekka: And btw...you did you laugh a lot at my song kirty ekka: why did you laugh a lot at my my song!!! Smita Bernadet: I heard your song thrice and laughed a lot...yes i did that...I went to bed happily kirty ekka: haha good to know... Smita Bernadet: I don't know why I laughed...it was spontaneous...involuntary reaction kirty ekka: you know i just thought  kirty ekka: you would never have debt in your life!! kirty ekka: sorry bad PJ kirty ekka: 'Burn-A-De(b)t' Smita Bernadet: will you take the trouble to explain what you meant? Smita Bernadet: haaah Smita Bernadet: got it Smita Bernadet: you're smart na? Smita Bernadet: I thought Kirty must be some old girl friend of mine kirty ekka: yes, i have managed to shock many people in my life  Smita Bernadet: or else I would had never spoken to you after seeing the invite on hangouts kirty ekka: yeah, i am quite sorry about the entire episode..  Smita Bernadet: I forgive you kirty ekka: feel so embarrassed by it  Smita Bernadet: Do you do that to every girl you want to talk to? kirty ekka: no you were the first and only girl i did that to.. Smita Bernadet: And were you hurt after I cut the call? Smita Bernadet: ?? kirty ekka: yes yaar Smita Bernadet: or angry? kirty ekka: stupidity hurts man!! Smita Bernadet: felt like hitting me? kirty ekka: i felt stupid mostly not angry  kirty ekka: probably, if i was in your shoes, i could have reacted the same Smita Bernadet: Do you know that I was very deeply asleep at that moment...almost dead and my brain wasn't working at all... Smita Bernadet: Still I managed to speak kirty ekka: double sorry then ...for breaking your beauty sleep Smita Bernadet: I'll take revenge Smita Bernadet: sorry not accepted kirty ekka: you just said that you forgave !! Don't forget.. Smita Bernadet: that was for calling me without an invite...this is for breaking my beauty sleep.... kirty ekka: Be a cool christian...forgive others for their iniquities !! Smita Bernadet: haah.. Smita Bernadet: doesn't apply on you Smita Bernadet: Anyways....if you ever get angry then will you slap me? kirty ekka: no!! kirty ekka: But, i was thinking about this Smita Bernadet: throw out of the window? kirty ekka: you've written about this on your profile... kirty ekka: do you think a guy who would hit his lady...create a profile to woo the ladies in the matrimonial site? kirty ekka: I am highly doubtful.... kirty ekka: but he would definitely go for a arranged marriage !! kirty ekka: So you have messages for the wrong set of people on the wrong site !! Smita Bernadet: Once my boyfriend twisted my hand and I just kicked him in his tummy ...really hard. He fell down and was stunned...It was paining for him a lot and I felt really bad. He said that he was doing it for fun and he didn't expect me to react that way. I said sorry and took him out for dinner..... My messages are loud and clear...I can't take it yar. not with me nor with anyone else. Smita Bernadet: well it was long back...I thought I had hit him slightly but actually it turned out to be hard Smita Bernadet: even i did for fun but he was badly hurt Smita Bernadet: anyways...you should sleep now Smita Bernadet: and please don't get any wrong ideas about me..I ain't that cruel kirty ekka: Durga Maa...you may begin your beauty nap..  Smita Bernadet: dont call me that kirty ekka: hehe Smita Bernadet: please kirty ekka: enjoy your sleep...don't get angry  Smita Bernadet: i called u hulk and wat did u.. kirty ekka: you have a sweet name  kirty ekka: I like your name...specially Bernadet...needs no change.. kirty ekka: it's unique and sounds friendly  kirty ekka: Well then, good night Bernadet...don't get freaked out by random men calling you... have a awesome day tomorrow and don't let anyone snatch it away from you Smita Bernadet: sorry my INTERNET got disconnected Smita Bernadet: good night hulk. have a sound sleep. kirty ekka: https://plus.google.com/u/0/photos/+SmitaBernadetHosanaa/albums/6189523690841358065/6189523691294787074?pid=6189523691294787074&oid=104009479420176154146&authkey=CPaBtuOdxvq1Xg kirty ekka: you look different here... but, your eyes gave you away  Smita Bernadet: Is that a compliment or is it criticism? kirty ekka: depends upon how you take it.. it is your USP Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: it's our 5th day today.. kirty ekka: more than a week since we first met/ talked  Smita Bernadet: no it's 5th time Smita Bernadet: 3 days I didn't speak to you in between kirty ekka: ok 5th time...that can be true.. Smita Bernadet: So, how was your day at office? kirty ekka: circular again  kirty ekka: i am preparing a marketing material and there are no leaders to verify and validate my POV kirty ekka: so i end up having futile discussions with people who talk in the air  Smita Bernadet: Hey do you know any Didi named Jeni? She was in HP (Chennai),Later got married and now settled in Bangalore. I think you better concentrate on your on your work..I can understand your situation. What will you do if this continues? kirty ekka: I will finish the work before sleeping today  kirty ekka: i don't know your sister Smita Bernadet: Okay then, you carry on. Let me not waste your time. Smita Bernadet: She's not my sis... Smita Bernadet: I call her didi coz she's elder to me... kirty ekka: i meant we can talk ...i will finish it later after we talk  kirty ekka: oh ok Smita Bernadet: Are you sure? kirty ekka: yeah... Smita Bernadet: It's better if you finish early and sleep well. You need to get up early too.. kirty ekka: No, i will mail before sleeping  kirty ekka: get others' opinion and then proceed further Smita Bernadet: okay then Smita Bernadet: do you cook yourself everyday? kirty ekka: yeah i used to..but not nowadays..there is a gang of lizards in my kitchen...i don't like seeing them  Smita Bernadet: So you live with lizards? kirty ekka: yeah...they don't pay the rent though Smita Bernadet: Lizards are very poisonous. Don't let them hover around your utensils...and edibles. Smita Bernadet: shoo them off Smita Bernadet: but I guess you don't have that time.. kirty ekka: i just learned that they get scared by broken egg shells... so tomorrow i will get lots of broken egg shells in the kitchen Smita Bernadet: yuck...they stink a lot and rot fast kirty ekka: lizards probably think that a new bigger creature has come and get scared  Smita Bernadet: how can you keep egg for that long? kirty ekka: don;t know...till they run away  Smita Bernadet: Anyways try to find a permanent solution kirty ekka: btw what do you do nowadays..now that you don't go to an office  Smita Bernadet: tomorrow is my last....she hasn't given my certificate of experience yet. Monday was my last- officially but she has given me lots of typing work and she wants me to come tomorrow too. Hopefully, tomorrow might be my last..then I'm a freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee bird...haaah..feels so good... kirty ekka: hummm good  Smita Bernadet: then I'll hunt for job, go for interviews. I'll be having 2 papers and 2 yrs research experience by the end of this month. I'm trying all over India and in abroad too. kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: So, you stay alone in the flat? Smita Bernadet: apart from lizzzzz Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: How do you manage alone? kirty ekka: Learning to live alone, was one of the tasks i had taken for myself Smita Bernadet: since when are you settled there? kirty ekka: i wanted to establish that i don't need others kirty ekka: last november  Smita Bernadet: 10 months kirty ekka: how do you stay?? Smita Bernadet: I'm in hostel..It's fun here. We are two of us. kirty ekka: do you share room Smita Bernadet: yup...2 sharing kirty ekka: i can't share a room!!! Smita Bernadet: why? Smita Bernadet: Oh, in iit you had a room all to yourself, right? kirty ekka: i like to be alone...for a major portion of day time kirty ekka: yeah...it was like that... kirty ekka: at IIT Smita Bernadet: what about at home? You don't share? kirty ekka: And you said that you take a train to work...where do you stay? kirty ekka: At home too... i have a room...otherwise if people are there then i sleep in the living room Smita Bernadet: yup, I need to take 2 local trains to reach my lab kirty ekka: so where do you stay kirty ekka: and where is your lab  Smita Bernadet: Nungambakkam near Loyola college Smita Bernadet: I studied in Loyola..so I stayed back here itself.. kirty ekka: i did'nt know that in Chennai too people have to take a train to work  Smita Bernadet: I didn't want to take a hostel near my lab coz this are is posh Smita Bernadet: yup we have local trains like metro trains of delhi kirty ekka: ok... kirty ekka: how much time does it take to commute  Smita Bernadet: 1 hr to 1.30 hrs kirty ekka: omg.. Smita Bernadet: i sleep off in train kirty ekka: now i believe you when you say that you have patience  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I feel at home when I come back to this hostel Smita Bernadet: I like this area a lot Smita Bernadet: I've been here since 8 yrs now kirty ekka: ok that's a lot of years at one place kirty ekka: and where is your office Smita Bernadet: I love chennai Smita Bernadet: Lab is in university of madras, dept. of genetics - Taramani. And my clinic is near my hostel- Prashanth fertility research center. kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: My students never call me didi...coz of my looks. I used to scold the boys and force them to call me didi or akka in tamil. kirty ekka: so the office is close to the beach Smita Bernadet: nope kirty ekka: marina beach Smita Bernadet: madras univ. has 3 campuses. Mine is not the beach one. kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: The day you rang me..you sounded very dominating actually. Are you always like that? kirty ekka: smokers have dominating voice !! Smita Bernadet: I meant you sounded very tough Smita Bernadet: you scared me kirty ekka: wow...i will take this as a complement and will want to frame this statement !! kirty ekka: thanks  kirty ekka: what do you feel... Am i dominating?? Smita Bernadet: yup...u sounded so Smita Bernadet: So, tell me Kirty..how are you with people around ? kirty ekka: i will take a survey with my colleagues tomorrow  Smita Bernadet: are you very bossy always? getting your way and scaring them off? kirty ekka: i don't think so...i am open to reasoning.. Smita Bernadet: Do you like arguing? kirty ekka: arguing to reach an end/ solution/ agreement ....not for the sake of it  kirty ekka: i run away from useless argument  kirty ekka: what scares you most in me??  Smita Bernadet: your voice kirty ekka: then .. Smita Bernadet: then? kirty ekka: what next thing scares you?? Smita Bernadet: so far nothing Smita Bernadet: else Smita Bernadet: Do you have biceps too? kirty ekka: oh sad !! then  kirty ekka: everyone has !! Smita Bernadet: nope....everyone doesn't Smita Bernadet: my dad doen't Smita Bernadet: doesn't kirty ekka: some have small, some smaller, some none, and some have all the biceps  Smita Bernadet: oohh...that way kirty ekka: sorry none is not an option  Smita Bernadet: i get it kirty ekka: i have normal body... i am aiming to get a shredded, defined structure  kirty ekka: that is the aim  Smita Bernadet: when will you achieve that? kirty ekka: Weight wise ..i am 65 or 66 kirty ekka: quitting smoking will increase the weight  kirty ekka: i want to be at 60-62 range kirty ekka: 60 was my college stat Smita Bernadet: so you quited smoking for the sake of weight. Good kirty ekka: because of your tantrum also  Smita Bernadet: hey...I didn't force you. You can smoke. It's your wish kirty ekka: No, its more a personal choice also kirty ekka: and, i felt the need to part for once and all  Smita Bernadet: What if the temptation comes back? kirty ekka: What are you talking about ?? I am always tempted Smita Bernadet: So, what if you go out of control?  I'm talking about smoking kirty ekka: i just deny myself that luxury and lifestyle  kirty ekka: no, this is the end  kirty ekka: i have quit before for long periods like 2 years, and  for 3 months (many times) Smita Bernadet: I like your zeal. Let's see how long you can hold on to it. kirty ekka: till death now  Smita Bernadet: really kirty ekka: yes  Smita Bernadet: that's a tough choice kirty ekka: why not... kirty ekka: and why is it difficult for people to believe  Smita Bernadet: Many couldn't do it and you are on your way Smita Bernadet: I believe you kirty ekka: just before the last smoke, i called my best friends and said that i am having my last fag now and this is the last time we could be smoking together  kirty ekka: they were supportive and wished me luck   Smita Bernadet: one more thing you need to take care- that is passive smoking...Again don't make me explain the whole thing kirty ekka: the greatest test will be to meet them when they would be smoking... other people i can easily avoid them...i enjoyed smoking with my friends  kirty ekka: ok.. i think of it this way...  kirty ekka: that i am not going to waste one more second of my life trying to achieve something that i have already completed..  kirty ekka: if i smoke again it will be a big waste of my efforts kirty ekka: and be the beginning of wasteful time, during smoking and later in avoiding Smita Bernadet: What about drugs? iit is famous for that intake among students. Have you ever? kirty ekka: Marijuana kirty ekka: i have tried it then...but did not like the effect..  Smita Bernadet: names i don't know....all of it's kind kirty ekka: so was never a fan of it  kirty ekka: others i didn't try  Smita Bernadet: I tasted royal stag once - a spoonful. I did it under my dad's supervision at home and it was yuck kirty ekka: yeah that is not a good one  Smita Bernadet: haah. then once I had half cup of vodka with mirinda at my aunt's house. They forced me to have as everyone was having. And it was yuck too. Just half a tea cup made me dizzy. I couldn't walk straight so I went to the fridge and took out a lemon. I sucked it till I gained back my senses. My uncle was making fun of me for getting drunk in just a tea cup. Since it was a family gathering, I took it. I knew that even if I got into trouble, they would take care. Smita Bernadet: I want to know that what kind of person you are around kids? Do you make them smile or scare them away?  Do you like  mingling with children ? kirty ekka: i treat them like individuals...i mostly mingle with ones who are naughty and talkative  kirty ekka: i run away from hostile and crying ones  Smita Bernadet: what! Smita Bernadet: they are the ones who actually need attention kirty ekka: haha.... kirty ekka: a cousin of mine, when he was a kid, he was a totally spoilt brat. anyone he saw he would swing his arms and beat them.... kirty ekka: so i used to avoid him whenever possible... Smita Bernadet: so you will run away if your own child cried? kirty ekka: he was a near impossible kid... kirty ekka: at one of his birthday which i attended, i found him scolding kids who did not bring him nice gifts.  kirty ekka: own child is a different equation kirty ekka: you could probably enjoy the cry at times  Smita Bernadet: for me all are same...own or other's kirty ekka: yeah that is nice  kirty ekka: i don't have the motherly tendencies like you ... Smita Bernadet: What about Fatherly tendencies? It's not about being a man or women. It's about being sensitive and caring. kirty ekka: hey that much sensitivity i do have  kirty ekka: everyone has i think  kirty ekka: i am not a cruel being Smita Bernadet: Oh I've seen in movies that Men can't even change diapers of their own kids. I have always believed that they are insensitive and uncaring. Smita Bernadet: Do you need to go work? kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: so.. you saw then men from the movies...and generalized it!! kirty ekka: indeed, that is a smart way to draw conclusions!! Smita Bernadet: Most of them seem to be true... Smita Bernadet: sarcasm ? kirty ekka: you are smart !! Smita Bernadet: Let me tell you what is my dream...you had asked me last time..na kirty ekka: depends on the person...my friend does not do it...my brother in law does it  kirty ekka: tell me about your dream Smita Bernadet: I wanted a guy who helps me around but most of them are like those movie men. I have begged God to get me an extremely caring partner. So my dream is to.. Smita Bernadet: 1) I've always wanted to adopt 1 African girl baby and 1 Korean boy male baby. I find them very cute. kirty ekka: ok..like Anjelina Jolie Smita Bernadet: wait Smita Bernadet: that's the first one kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: nope I don't want to be like anyone. I've always wanted to have one of their kind. Practically it's not possible to marry an African guy and then a Korean to achieve it. So, I wanted to adopt. kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: i just recalled anjelina jolie.. kirty ekka: tell me about your dreams Smita Bernadet: 2) To open 1 small orphanage. I cannot feed hundreds but I can surely keep 10 atleast. I don't need any fame. I just want to do it because I like it. kirty ekka: humm that is kind  Smita Bernadet: 3) To open my own music studio and learn the softwares and make my own music including gospel songs Smita Bernadet: 4) To travel across the world and sing gospel songs at worship sessions Smita Bernadet: 5) To have 3 kids and eldest should be a daughter kirty ekka: ok.. Smita Bernadet: 6) To have my own green house full of exotic plants Smita Bernadet: I can do all that if God wills. I have a lot of patience. Smita Bernadet: I want to live a meaningful life. My life should bring smile on people around me. I need not be a nun to bring smile on someone's face. I want my life to count. People should recall when I'm gone. I want to die satisfied that I made best use of my talents. Now that doesn't mean that I would forget the romance of life. I obviously want a caring romantic hubby. Same goes from my side too. I would never let him crave for love. Smita Bernadet: I think you're gone..if so then ...you should do your work now... kirty ekka: go on  Smita Bernadet: I have 1 life and 1 chance to make a difference around me. Smita Bernadet: You know why I love Christ like crazy...I wasn't like this before. He has saved me from spot death many times. I have a personal relationship with him now. Many things happened in past and today, the more I know him- the more I'm falling in love with him. I hate religion but love him. Religion are just a set of rules which people follow blindly. You can call me a women of Faith instead of the word Catholic/Christian. Smita Bernadet: so, i think we should wind up from here... Smita Bernadet: Wanna say? Smita Bernadet: Atleast say good night Berny kirty ekka: i was imagining what would it be like to be in your shoe Smita Bernadet: It's not hard to imagine but it's definitely hard to accomplish them kirty ekka: only when i know your incidences that shaped you like this will i be able to gauge the reasons why so say somethings and do them   Smita Bernadet: Most of them are just feelings, some are miracles and rest ia hard to pen it down. One just needs to experience it. No one can change me unless I want to actually change. No one forced me, It just happened. I personally experienced it all. Even my parents are unaware of the incidents. kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: No one in my family is like me. They go to church but do not follow Christian values in their personal life. I'm the only odd one out. kirty ekka: ok i see.. Smita Bernadet: Okay then..I'll share with you few incidents some other time. kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: I'll take a leave now.. Smita Bernadet: You take care and sleep well. Smita Bernadet: Thanks for listening kirty ekka: you sleep well....ensure that you resign tomorrow  Smita Bernadet: I've already resigned last Monday but still kal last hoga kirty ekka: Bernadet... Smita Bernadet: Bye Hulk kirty ekka: Take care... Smita Bernadet: you too Kirty Vishal Ekka...take care and sleep soon kirty ekka: Hi Bernadet  kirty ekka: how are you?  kirty ekka: did you manage to resign today ?? Smita Bernadet: hey, you kept me waiting for so long. Yes I resigned today. Smita Bernadet: How did your work go? That project of yours you were working on? kirty ekka: oh sorry boss... kirty ekka: I have to show it tomorrow evening.  kirty ekka: am still tuning it... kirty ekka: "I am peeling the onions here" Smita Bernadet: is that a metaphor? kirty ekka: corporate jargon...my bosses use..  Smita Bernadet: ahaan kirty ekka: there is a huge stock of it...makes things seem like you are meeting a modern wizard !! Smita Bernadet: so will you work tonight on your project? kirty ekka: yeah, i have some changes to make  kirty ekka: then tomorrow, i will finalize by noon  kirty ekka: how was your last day btw kirty ekka: and why do you type so slow!!! Smita Bernadet: hey...I too get your replies very late Smita Bernadet: It's net problem kirty ekka: ok that way  Smita Bernadet: My day was good. Everyone hugged me and the atmosphere was sad. kirty ekka: haha  Smita Bernadet: Please don't call me boss next time kirty ekka: final team lunch?? Smita Bernadet: sounds weird kirty ekka: why do you hate the work 'boss' - Bernadet kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: So, are you happy? Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: They have delayed my salary and I have to hunt for a new job, plus she didn't give me my experience certificate yet. She has asked me to collect it after 15th of this month Smita Bernadet: but i trust god Smita Bernadet: no worries..i can handle kirty ekka: hmmm..... Smita Bernadet: he will make a way Smita Bernadet: you said that you can't share a room together then how will you stay with your wife? Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: did you keep eggs for your pets? kirty ekka: wife is a different being...  kirty ekka: she is the one to share the room with !!  Smita Bernadet: hmm kirty ekka: no, they rest just below the eggs...so i didn't take the trouble today Smita Bernadet: gross lizzz Smita Bernadet: anyways Smita Bernadet: so tell me kirty, Smita Bernadet: what type of guy are you? A guy who likes to hold her girl's hand in public or you like keeping your privacy? kirty ekka: the first kind  Smita Bernadet: romantic! kirty ekka: and bold  Smita Bernadet: extra romantic...what about possessiveness ? kirty ekka: i would call someone my girl/ partner only if i trust her.. kirty ekka: So, i would be OK if she decides to be in the company of other males etc.  Smita Bernadet: that's thoughtful of you kirty ekka: i think this is the only way..  Smita Bernadet: giving space to each other builds up more trust. It's a good thing kirty ekka: you shouldn't be a tyrant to anyone kirty ekka: what about you?  kirty ekka: how romantic are you?  kirty ekka: and how possessive are you? Smita Bernadet: I'm same as you Smita Bernadet: Ya, it's different when I'm angry Smita Bernadet: When I'm angry, I turn totally mute. Smita Bernadet: I stop talking and eating. I avoid interaction. And I don't open up easily to conversation when I'm sad. Smita Bernadet: My friends go crazy by asking , "what happened? say something!" kirty ekka: do you take pleasure in pain? Smita Bernadet: suppose you decide to buy a car...I'm just giving you a situation.... will you inform your wife and allow her to have an equal share in this decision? or , will you go ahead and buy it without bothering to involve her in this matter? that pain question ---next.... Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: that depends..  kirty ekka: if i will want to keep it a surprise then obviously i would not tell. kirty ekka: else, yeah i would ask.. i would want her to drive it too...so, yes would want her opinion too  Smita Bernadet: do you like to give surprises? kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: Do you like surprises? kirty ekka: yes, it cheers me up ..!!  Smita Bernadet: Do you like cards? kirty ekka: playing cards? Smita Bernadet: not the playing cards! Smita Bernadet: greeting
kirty ekka: haha ok  Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: don't have strong opinion about it  kirty ekka: i would want hate it or love it..  kirty ekka: quite equivocal on it  Smita Bernadet: do keep it when you get one? Smita Bernadet: do you? kirty ekka: i don't remember getting one !! Smita Bernadet: how come! Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: i have been in places filled with guys only...  kirty ekka: guys don't give cards and all..instead, you can expect birthday bumps  Smita Bernadet: your girl never gave you any? kirty ekka: she called me and wished me....i think that would definitely beat a card  Smita Bernadet: I always make one Smita Bernadet: and wish too kirty ekka: i thought so... kirty ekka: you must be filling it up with your poems !! Smita Bernadet: I make it with lots of love...whole night and day I can spend and make a perfect one for that person Smita Bernadet: nope..i draw and paint or cut and stick Smita Bernadet: once i made it using all the colors of my nailpolish kirty ekka: haha...that is a transformation to childhood  kirty ekka: do you do it for everyone ? kirty ekka: ? Smita Bernadet: sorry, my lappy went off Smita Bernadet: People who can't appreciate art can never admire the beauty of a sunset Smita Bernadet: besides, It's more special when the person makes it than just going and buying it. Feelings matter the most..not the card. But when it's made with one's hand..it becomes extra special. Smita Bernadet: I do it for those whom I love kirty ekka: Wow... Smita Bernadet: I'm a master in art n craft kirty ekka: you have so many surprising traits in you  Smita Bernadet: I have already mentioned it in my profile! Smita Bernadet: I teach art n craft to orphan kids kirty ekka: Seeing and believing is a different aspect... kirty ekka: i have read about you teaching art and craft to kids..perhaps there is a picture too  Smita Bernadet: do you want me to make one for you! then you will believe? kirty ekka: i would be honored yaar kirty ekka: but please relax... kirty ekka:   Smita Bernadet: will you keep it properply Smita Bernadet: properly kirty ekka: of course, a card like that is special  Smita Bernadet: wat if you eat samosa in it? kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: sarcasm!! Smita Bernadet: nope i mean it! kirty ekka: no never  Smita Bernadet: what pain were you talking about? I didn't get u.... Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: i felt that you take pride in enduring pain, specially the romantic pain Smita Bernadet: romantic pain? you mean when somebody leaves me broken hearted? kirty ekka: do you want the guy to be back again? Smita Bernadet: i wish....but I know it won't be good as per God's plan for me. We think they may be perfect for us, but the truth can be painful. So I do wish but not mine but god's will be done. I just want God to decide. Smita Bernadet: I'm okay with not getting the guy I want Smita Bernadet: Because I can't see the future, but God can. So I've prayed about it and I know that I'll get the best of best. I trust him completely. kirty ekka: Ok.. it's like that  Smita Bernadet: I don't take any pleasure in pain but I try to learn something everytime Smita Bernadet: I endure it with god's grace kirty ekka: Ok Smita Bernadet: do you like talking to me everyday? or it's just like that... kirty ekka: i like talking to you... Smita Bernadet: inspite of all my weird dreams? kirty ekka: would have let you know, directly through my words or actions by now  Smita Bernadet: ............ Smita Bernadet: those dots are feelings........ kirty ekka: this portion i didn't get Smita Bernadet: i can't explain Smita Bernadet: they are just feelings.... i depict them as full stops........ kirty ekka: i meant to say earlier that if i didn't like you talking to you I would have let you know, directly through my words or actions by now  Smita Bernadet: got it Smita Bernadet: okay, r u ready for next question? kirty ekka: Wow..only you get to ask them!! Smita Bernadet: is it late for you?.... kirty ekka: take one from me for a change  Smita Bernadet: fine Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: how do you deal with people who are not deeply religious? do you hang out with them? Smita Bernadet: I do.... Smita Bernadet: hangout with them Smita Bernadet: unless they make fun of my faith Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: But I would like to be equally yolked with the guy I marry.. Smita Bernadet: It means, according to Bible that , he should share the faith and keep Christ as the head of family. Smita Bernadet: May not be necessary also. Smita Bernadet: Sometimes 2 unequally yolked people get married because God always has a reason to allow so... Smita Bernadet: next? kirty ekka: hummm..ok. Smita Bernadet: did u even understand? kirty ekka: what did you want to ask? kirty ekka: yeah... Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: so, I wanna know that , what type of father you want to be? Someone who forces his kids to study engineering only or allows them to decide their own career? kirty ekka: i would want him to be smart first... Smita Bernadet: him? wat you don't want her? kirty ekka: ok the child should be smart first  Smita Bernadet: then? Smita Bernadet: what if she wants to be a singer? Will you allow? kirty ekka: SHE?? Smita Bernadet: He..she.. Smita Bernadet: Okay wat if its SHE? will you allow her or will you deny and say that you're a girl and you should just get a degree and get married. No singing.. kirty ekka: No, i will trust her and try to help her realize her dream!! Smita Bernadet: I wish my dad was like you kirty ekka: but if she says that she wants to be a singer and is lackluster in her attitude then i would know that it's only a infatuation.  kirty ekka: then i would try my best to talk sense into her.. because, if you are passionate about something you do more Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: Would you beat up your kid if he/she damages your expensive phone? kirty ekka: i will be angry for sure  Smita Bernadet: it's just a material....right kirty ekka: yeah i don't love my devices too  Smita Bernadet: what if it happened accidently... kirty ekka: yeah, i was coming to that  kirty ekka: depends on how it happened...accident/ stupidity/ sheer misue  kirty ekka: misuse Smita Bernadet: will you be a forgiving father? not a priest!!!! kirty ekka: have to imagine these scenarios in my head to give an answer  Smita Bernadet: Will you scold softly or harshly? just imagine it then Smita Bernadet: I'm asking because there's a reason kirty ekka: there is a huge range of possibilities that can occur.. kirty ekka: 1st time, 2nd time, 10th time etc.  Smita Bernadet: Even i am imagining only Smita Bernadet: so you can't tame your temper? Smita Bernadet: they are just kids...every body makes mistakes...it happens kirty ekka: maybe i won't buy a sleek phone next time.. so i would not care  kirty ekka: i don;t think i will hit  Smita Bernadet: it's not about just phone..it applies to daily life dear kirty ekka: i had resolved not to hit my child after learning that two of my close friends were never hit in their life  Smita Bernadet: what are your views on honor killing? Do you think those parents who do it are right? And they have the right to do so? kirty ekka: hummm... kirty ekka: i have a Jharkhandi mentality about that..  kirty ekka: we don't kill our children there !!! Smita Bernadet: what if your daughter is in love with a santhal guy? kirty ekka: i would not mind.. if she would want to marry him  kirty ekka: the guy should be befitting... Smita Bernadet: so, do you have any plans to settle abroad? kirty ekka: not at the moment...if i would get such an opportunity, i would take it only for a brief period  kirty ekka: depending upon the conditions  kirty ekka: i have no plans to settle abroad...  Smita Bernadet: You don't like it or what? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: i would not want to grow old and die there kirty ekka: i would want to do those activities her  Smita Bernadet: not forever...I mean what if it's like 3 yrs? kirty ekka: 3 years is ok ...  kirty ekka: 3-5 is ok  kirty ekka: not more than that  Smita Bernadet: You wanna ask? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: what about you? kirty ekka: i think you want to go abroad  kirty ekka: that is evident here  kirty ekka: regarding marrying a guy from other community? Smita Bernadet: Except bihar and jharkhand..I can settle anywhere kirty ekka: haha... Smita Bernadet: I can settle abroad as long as there's a good church near by kirty ekka: inter-community marriage Smita Bernadet: hmm.about that...Well, I am against caste system because it's against the Bible. And the guy should be a believer of Christ. thats all. Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: r u alive? kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: r u getting late? kirty ekka: no  Smita Bernadet: you should sleep kirty ekka: i will manage it  Smita Bernadet: take your beauty sleep...you may get dark circles around your eyes...don't snooz off in office kal kirty ekka: haha no...talk now  Smita Bernadet: okies Smita Bernadet: so any other question? Smita Bernadet: think n ask later....if u can't at the moment kirty ekka: do you eat beef,pork etc.  Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: only chicken and prawn...would love to try sushi, squid and salmon. but never pork kirty ekka: ok ...i eat everything..  Smita Bernadet: I don;t eat because of medical reasons kirty ekka: except nowadays, when i am avoiding red meat Smita Bernadet: pork i would never. I had promised myself not to after I read about it in my zoology class...in detail Smita Bernadet: They are the dirtiest creature....inside and outside...sorry.... My hubby can eat but I would never cook it... kirty ekka: ok.. Smita Bernadet: At my home my parents and bro eats but I avoid kirty ekka: so do people freak out when they hear your dream  Smita Bernadet: Other than you only my previous guy knows kirty ekka: ok.. Smita Bernadet: I don't tell it to everyone kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: you don't have to freak out. I won't expect my hubby to invest in it. I just want his moral support. Lord provides. I'll do it with my income. kirty ekka: Well a funny thing. I am hypochondriac and after talking to you i am feeling that i have become strile kirty ekka: I am planning to do test now  Smita Bernadet: wat test? kirty ekka: sterility test !! Smita Bernadet: it's a good thing...because the sooner you know it , you can start taking medicines..and also take precautions... kirty ekka: yeah  Smita Bernadet: Do you have any medical conditions?? kirty ekka: no kirty ekka: like i said i am hypochondriac Smita Bernadet: What about your parents? kirty ekka: are they sterile?? kirty ekka: is that what you are asking  Smita Bernadet: health!!!! dumbo Smita Bernadet: any health issues? kirty ekka: they are fine.. kirty ekka: they have BP Smita Bernadet: high or low kirty ekka: but they are quite serious about their health and they take their medications and do their exercises Smita Bernadet: Did u had any surgeries? kirty ekka: no  Smita Bernadet: I get mild asthma problem each time I get exposed to heavy pollution. Doctor gave me asthma inhaler temporarily. It's okay now but I have to use mask often when I travel in polluted areas. Not always... My skin is very sensitive so I never play holi or use talcum powder. And I have dust allergy. I have icthyophobia  and ornithophobia too.. Smita Bernadet: I am very sensitive to smell and I get damn irritated when people don't realize that they should wear deodorant.. Smita Bernadet: Do you watch horror movies? Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: have u slept off? kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: i watch horror  Smita Bernadet: I don't. I stay away from all forms of negative vibe. That doesn't mean that I watch only happy movies. But not horror and ghost ones kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: Its 2 am..aren't u sleepy? kirty ekka: dizzy Smita Bernadet: let me know if you want me away kirty ekka: when will you sleep ? Smita Bernadet: i'm awake now...not sleepy Smita Bernadet: u wanna sleep? kirty ekka: in some time  kirty ekka: not now Smita Bernadet: u should, u have office and project meet Smita Bernadet: do you like spending time with old people? Smita Bernadet: I mean talking? Smita Bernadet: taking care of them? kirty ekka: i don't know that  Smita Bernadet: haven't you any grandparents? kirty ekka: no  Smita Bernadet: oh Smita Bernadet: sorry kirty ekka: you still have grandparents? Smita Bernadet: 5 yrs back...not anymore kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: do you like traditional girls like sari and ghunghat wali? What about non tribal girls? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: i have good friends who are non tribal girls  kirty ekka: so, i like them for what they are  Smita Bernadet: I meant as your wife would you prefer? kirty ekka: i would not crib about it  kirty ekka: at present, i don't think jharkhandi girls wear saris and ghoogats etc.  kirty ekka: you should be back home to check it out  Smita Bernadet: I can't explain...leave it Smita Bernadet: They do... kirty ekka: they would be having a huge age difference  kirty ekka: why do you ask? do you want to wear them?? Smita Bernadet: aahh...no Smita Bernadet: i asked for other reason Smita Bernadet: I will die in ghunghat. Sari I can manage for few hours kirty ekka: you thought i would be forcing my wife  Smita Bernadet: If not forcing but limiting may be. Don't wear this, it's not your age...people are staring..stop wearing jeans...etc men do that. It has happened to my friends. And my dad is like that too. sad but true. I have fought with him on this topic before. He doesn't even let me twist my hair for a nice open hair style. kirty ekka: i think i would not care if you look good in it..  kirty ekka: but i would strongly warn if one is shabby in the dress Smita Bernadet: what If your wife looks too good and all men start staring at her? Will you ask her to stop dressing up like that? kirty ekka: haha no... Smita Bernadet: men do that...that's y i asked..they feel insecure kirty ekka: ?? Smita Bernadet: I don't know if my hubby will like me or not. Because I like to wear all sorts of dress. If it suits me. Most of the time I end up looking like a doll which I can't help it.  I don't care about my age. But never vulgar...skirts, gown, mini...almost everything..I like coloring...you know it right.. kirty ekka: well all men are different.. in every possible possibility.. Smita Bernadet: I don't think I can change my dressing sense...ever Smita Bernadet: And I don't want to unless it's vulgar kirty ekka: then it's good  kirty ekka: have people ever said you anything  Smita Bernadet: my dad does kirty ekka: your brother?? Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: he is a cool dude kirty ekka: that is how this generation treats the issue  kirty ekka: it would be rare to meet a guy who would object  Smita Bernadet: My friends have husbands who object... they can't even be themselves anymore. I used to hate marriage at one point of time. kirty ekka: then they married some douche-bags  kirty ekka: sad luck for them  kirty ekka: and they won't change now !! kirty ekka: that's a fact Smita Bernadet: Imagine finding that right perfect partner whom you love so much and then loose them...and start over again ..it's so sad and irritating. We find that rare person and then it's all gone. Why kirty ekka: Love is like that...  Smita Bernadet: like what? kirty ekka: risking getting hurt in the process to experience love is the wager you make   kirty ekka: if it was easy to find...it would never matter to you kirty ekka: but, its not that you would get love from one person only or you would love one person only kirty ekka: you will find someone else and begin your journey again  Smita Bernadet: I want a partner with whom I can live with and not survive...but that thought keeps coming...that he or she was the best.(our previous love)..right? It would be so hard for both of us to love someone else after we lost them... Hard but not impossible Smita Bernadet: I used to like this saying a lot- "Don't marry the one you can live with but marry the one you cannot live without" kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: sleepy? kirty ekka: yeah will sleep at 2:50  Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: y are you silent Smita Bernadet: did i hurt u or say something to upset you unknowingly? I'm sorry if i did. You are so quiet. kirty ekka: no i am not hurt or upset Smita Bernadet: so say something Smita Bernadet: we have 6 minutes kirty ekka: my thoughts about love have changed a lot  Smita Bernadet: go on kirty ekka: i think pain and happiness are parts of it  kirty ekka: i believe that something beautiful will happen again.. kirty ekka: till then its a search  Smita Bernadet: Since when are you searching for love? Smita Bernadet: after 2010? kirty ekka: maybe, i can't stay depressed..  kirty ekka: and i meet people....my thoughts are shaped with these encounters  Smita Bernadet: Since when are you searching for love? after 2010? kirty ekka: not immediately....!! kirty ekka: but then i've met girls after that...though not on same emotional levels Smita Bernadet: then? Smita Bernadet: Anyone fell in love with u after she left? kirty ekka: can't say...whether it was love .. Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: since now i understand what its like i can't confuse  kirty ekka: so it wasn't  kirty ekka: maybe just a muse  Smita Bernadet: are u sure? kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: why Smita Bernadet: what makes you say that? Smita Bernadet: did you even ask her if it was or not? Smita Bernadet: or you just thought so kirty ekka: i have reasons to believe it was not so  kirty ekka: if you can't be honest with trivial details then expecting an honest answer for complex issues is an impossibility  Smita Bernadet: I just asked a simple question. Did she confess that it's true love? Smita Bernadet: Okay. we'll continue tomorrow.. go n rest your mind Kirty kirty ekka: how do you know that she understands love ?? kirty ekka: ok bye kirty ekka: i am spinning now  Smita Bernadet: sorry kirty ekka: Adios Bernadet kirty ekka: are you spelled wrong... kirty ekka: should it be Bernadette ? Smita Bernadet: it should be but i removed them myself Smita Bernadet: in the certificate too..i removed it to make it easier kirty ekka: why?? Smita Bernadet: its easier to write..it's too long kirty ekka: now everyone who has heard the name bernadette will spell you wrong  Smita Bernadet: i dont care kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: will u? kirty ekka: care/ spell wrong ? Smita Bernadet: it makes it more unique now kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: bernadette is very common Smita Bernadet: bernadet is unique kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: do well tomorrow kirty ekka: Bye then Bernadet..  kirty ekka: lets hope so Smita Bernadet: so sorry i delayed you. byee.. Smita Bernadet: pray n go kirty ekka: no problem Smita Bernadet: goodnite kirty ekka: bye Smita Bernadet: Based on a true story Smita Bernadet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wnoTiuGOi8M kirty ekka: thanks  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: hi ...its interesting ... Smita Bernadet: hi kirty ekka: hi Smita Bernadet: hello kirty ekka: how are you  Smita Bernadet: I'm fine, thank you. How was your project meet? kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: approved? kirty ekka: yes... Smita Bernadet: that's good to know Smita Bernadet: You didn't had enough sleep yesterday Smita Bernadet: Do you eat out everyday? kirty ekka: nowadays  kirty ekka: i eat outside  kirty ekka: before i used to cook daily  kirty ekka: i guess you eat from the hostel everyday  Smita Bernadet: yup, once in a while I cook. We aren't allowed to cook, I hide n do kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: What do you enjoy cooking the most? kirty ekka: beef  Smita Bernadet: that's nice kirty ekka: what about you  Smita Bernadet: Paneer kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: Men have always been the best chef worldwide kirty ekka: probably they cook less thats why Smita Bernadet: they are creative when it comes to cooking kirty ekka: maybe haathon ka mail hain Smita Bernadet: haanthon ka mail nai, haanthon ka kamaal hai aur dil ka jadu. I mean they cook with full concentration. Smita Bernadet: they enjoy and cook unlike girls kirty ekka: i've met girls who enjoy cooking  kirty ekka: depends on person  Smita Bernadet: your cousins kirty ekka: yeah  Smita Bernadet: I guess it's in your genes kirty ekka: accidentally i also cook well  Smita Bernadet: i know kirty ekka: how would you know that !! Smita Bernadet: i know because all men cook good kirty ekka: haha ...not all men Smita Bernadet: most men kirty ekka: you need to meet more men then Smita Bernadet: no time to meet more men now kirty ekka: "Equally yoked"....so you got this phrase from this movie.. Smita Bernadet: it's from Bible Smita Bernadet: It's biblical kirty ekka: i was shocked when i heard it from you first...that was a high level talk for me..  kirty ekka: I am mundane being  kirty ekka: that's why my jaws dropped down in amazement !! Smita Bernadet: 2 Corinthians 6:14 kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? kirty ekka: hmmm...i see Smita Bernadet: so yesterday we were talking about that girl... kirty ekka: i thought it meant to take equal weights and work together  kirty ekka: you were right i didn't get you  Smita Bernadet: wat u didn't get? kirty ekka: the phrase 'equally yoked' kirty ekka: but now i get it  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I'm just a beginner in Bible reading kirty ekka: you seem to well versed though  Smita Bernadet: not much but want to and understand and follow it kirty ekka: i think i only remember Mt 7:7, 6:24 kirty ekka: Deuteronomy ch30 Smita Bernadet: whats that? kirty ekka: yeah thats all  Smita Bernadet: quote it kirty ekka: 7:7 - "Ask and you will receive ...." Smita Bernadet: search n you will find? kirty ekka: 6:24 - talks on do not worry theme...cos lord watches  Smita Bernadet: knock n it will be opened? kirty ekka: yes that kirty ekka: deuteronomy 30 is themed on ubitiquiousness of the word of god Smita Bernadet: isn't he amazing? kirty ekka: quite strange...i remember something Smita Bernadet: When he closes a door for us, He opens another. We just need to trust him. Smita Bernadet: what? kirty ekka: the verses i spoke above  kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: yes atleast you remember the most important verse kirty ekka: because i know that i am not a pious soul... Smita Bernadet: but your an honest one kirty ekka: because having consistency in lying is mind nerving ...  kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: so, you went to gym today? kirty ekka: no...not today...had meeting till 7  kirty ekka: and didn't feel good  kirty ekka: so did not go Smita Bernadet: are you not well? kirty ekka: quitting smoking has some effects.... kirty ekka: i was expecting them  Smita Bernadet: is it that bad? kirty ekka: manageable... Smita Bernadet: When I want to control my temptations and I cannot, I pray about it. I ask him to give me strength to overcome them and i succeed. kirty ekka: what temptations do you have  Smita Bernadet: i stopped having tea and coffee because I was obsessed with having white sparkling teeth like bleached ones. Then, I can't recall my temptations at the moment, but i had few Smita Bernadet: games! online games...in the middle of my exams I was tempted to play games Smita Bernadet: anyways, kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: do you have a new set of questions today? Smita Bernadet: yup  kirty ekka: start firing  Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: wait..i forgot Smita Bernadet: It's my wish to take my hubby out every weekend for a romantic candle light dinner and moonlight dance or stroll at some nice place. I've always imagined it. Smita Bernadet: I would take him out...for a change let me...unlike other girls Smita Bernadet: that was not a question though.. kirty ekka: yeah i guessed  Smita Bernadet: will men like that ? kirty ekka: everyone i guess  Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: have you ever wondered why marriages loose their flavor after few years? Why couples complain that he isn't romantic anymore? Smita Bernadet: or she? kirty ekka: they know too much about each others... perhaps they should learn to accept the flaws in each other  kirty ekka: unreal expectations... kirty ekka: that they know have actually fizzled  Smita Bernadet: I guess they should pray together. They need some spiritual touch in their relationship. I believe that the more you go closer to god, the more you get closer to each other. The solution is this simple. Only then they can accept each other as they are...that's my opinion Smita Bernadet: it makes a lot of sense Smita Bernadet: suppose I fought with my hubby and he isn't talking to me then Smita Bernadet: I would pray about it and go to my hubby, Smita Bernadet: hold his hand and say that lets forget what happened, Smita Bernadet: lets forgive each other... Smita Bernadet: it happens...i love u...see that simple kirty ekka: in that case... kirty ekka: if you do it that way..... Smita Bernadet: prayer guides you kirty ekka: then surely there won't be any quarrels Smita Bernadet:   Smita Bernadet: well little bit of quarrel is required Smita Bernadet: but only if it spices up the romantic life. kirty ekka: oh i see kirty ekka: good plan  Smita Bernadet: it isnt a plan....should just come naturally kirty ekka: ok the quarrels or the prayers kirty ekka: i am guessing the quarrels  Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: I had always wanted a rockstar boyfriend who plays guitar wen I was in my teens. I used to ask god for him who could sing gospel songs with me..but never got any...it's funny to accept that Smita Bernadet: tell me something that you don't like about girls? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: i am compiling a list  Smita Bernadet: okay take your time kirty ekka: nagging,  Smita Bernadet: and kirty ekka: illogical and adamant nature, shouting,  Smita Bernadet: what else? kirty ekka:  a girl without a dream/ ambition Smita Bernadet: and kirty ekka: fake, flaky nature,  Smita Bernadet: that applies to boys too kirty ekka: yeah  kirty ekka: and other normal biases/ prejudices  kirty ekka: what won't you like in men..?? Smita Bernadet: sometimes we nag for your own good. Suppose she keeps nagging that you are not talking your medicines on time, not quitting smoking, not having table manners. See if you listen to her for your own good, they would obviously stop nagging. I don't like men with bad table manners and who underestimate their girl infront of others. Men who don't realize that they need a deodorant and men who talk in high volume in public. Smita Bernadet: correction---taking your medicines Smita Bernadet: May be if i think hard this list will go on Smita Bernadet: men who don't stay clean... kirty ekka: i was going to say...about cleaniness  Smita Bernadet: who say something and do something else kirty ekka: ok...i think we asked the wrong question... kirty ekka: we can have a endless list here  Smita Bernadet: Oh I'm a very organized person...if i keep a thing in a certain place then it should be replaced back after use.. Smita Bernadet: I was talking about men in general... Smita Bernadet: you may not be like that....i don't know Smita Bernadet: okay I'll ask a question Smita Bernadet: Suppose your wife is sick and couldn't prepare your supper then what will you do? kirty ekka: of course the guy would cook here  kirty ekka: if he does not know.. he could atleast get some curd...juice....fruits etc. from some shop Smita Bernadet: okay, so you won't get angry? kirty ekka: angry for getting sick?? Smita Bernadet: not making supper kirty ekka: ooh...no  kirty ekka: i am sensible and logical Smita Bernadet: got it kirty ekka: have you seen people getting angry Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: it happens Smita Bernadet: some men are very unreasonable Smita Bernadet: Did you see the movie I sent you without forwarding it? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: i am watching it in installments Smita Bernadet: okay..then watch each part without forwarding kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: only if you want to...I mean it's your wish kirty ekka: is that your favourite movie  Smita Bernadet: nothing like that...it's an appropriate movie for people who are finding a match kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: i see Smita Bernadet: so are serious most of the time? or you smile a lot? kirty ekka: depends on what type of situation it is  Smita Bernadet: normally? kirty ekka: tend to be happy  Smita Bernadet: does it show on your face? kirty ekka: i think so  Smita Bernadet: Are you shopaholic? kirty ekka: i buy normally  Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: are you?? Smita Bernadet: I spend very wisely. I am not a brand freak. If I require those items , I end up buying but only after comparing. I don't shop very expensive and I do like street fashion sometimes. kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: Nowadays I shop only online kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: What about you? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: i mostly buy instore  kirty ekka: and do compare prices  kirty ekka: use the online as a reference Smita Bernadet: So what did you buy last weekend? Smita Bernadet: you went shopping , right? kirty ekka: chappal Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: that's all? kirty ekka: i wanted a belt.. but didn't a nice one  Smita Bernadet: what else? kirty ekka: nothing else. Smita Bernadet: So how often do you shop men's wear? Smita Bernadet: every week? kirty ekka: no  Smita Bernadet: mothly? Smita Bernadet: monthly kirty ekka: maybe ...i buy something or the other  kirty ekka: monthly  Smita Bernadet: hmm kirty ekka: you have lots of questions..  Smita Bernadet: If i don't ask then what will we chat about? I do have questions. I didn't plan it, It's coming naturally to my mind kirty ekka: ok...  kirty ekka: i get it now..  Smita Bernadet: u have none? kirty ekka: that was a remark... kirty ekka: i have then before i jot it down...i remove them  Smita Bernadet: ask me kirty ekka: what is your opinion about people from other religion? kirty ekka: can you be best friends with them...or would you look for a best friend who should be a christian only?? Smita Bernadet: My best friend was a hindu kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: i feel that you are very religious so you could be doing a lot of preaching to others Smita Bernadet: I even fell in love with him kirty ekka: ok. Smita Bernadet: I don't preach unless circumstances make me to do so. I just tell them my point of view , rest is up to them . I don't force anyone. Smita Bernadet: I'll give you an example. kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: Suppose I am sick and I seek a doctor A. This doctor A isn't able to cure my disease so I go to doctor B. Now this one is really good and I get cured of all my ailments. So, next time if I see someone suffering the same as I did, obviously I would direct that person to doctor B. right? I would share my awesome experience with him and advice that patient to him who cured me because I know that it works, he alone could do that type of work,  So, doctor B is God. kirty ekka: ok i get the analogy...  Smita Bernadet: Would you like to go out on a vacation with your family every possible long holiday? Or you are a person who likes to stay back and relax on holidays? kirty ekka: if you are a teacher and your student fails, what would you tell him? study hard or pray to God? kirty ekka: if you had only one option to choose Smita Bernadet: I would take tuition classes for my student personally and before every study session we would pray. We need to make an effort. Prayer gives us the strength to make that effort. kirty ekka: hmmm..... ok Smita Bernadet: We need to play our part, rest is with god. He would never fail you. That much trust one needs. I would teach my kids all this. I want to be the best mother possible. kirty ekka: hmmm Smita Bernadet: I've been handling kids since I was in my 7th std Smita Bernadet: new born...my sister was born and immediately my mum was admitted in hospital for stone removal surgery. We had no maid and I had to take care of my just born sister. Right from making her milk to changing her diapers and bathing her, staying awake whole night holding her in my arms... Smita Bernadet: I know all about kids and taking care of them...I started cooking in my 6th std kirty ekka: ok.. Smita Bernadet: I used to make breakfast for my siblings, pack their lunch, iron their school dress and dropping them at bus stop..at that age it was too hard for me but then I did it. Smita Bernadet: I myself was a school kid then Smita Bernadet: Being the eldest daughter was tough..is tough Smita Bernadet: u there? kirty ekka: oh you were the eldest one!!! kirty ekka: that explains a lot of things ... kirty ekka: i thought you were someone down the line..  Smita Bernadet: I am the eldest Smita Bernadet: Is it a bad thing? kirty ekka: naah it's a cool thing  Smita Bernadet: Being the eldest I had to share and sacrifice... kirty ekka: yeah i am sure  kirty ekka: i was the youngest, till a long time  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I had asked you about vacation? Smita Bernadet: scroll up n check kirty ekka: coincidentally, we are planning for long holiday at the andamans this year Smita Bernadet: Is it your 1st time? kirty ekka: first time to andamans  Smita Bernadet: I went when I was in school with my mum n dad kirty ekka: and during the start of the year...we toured to pondicherry, mysore and bangalore  kirty ekka: so which segment do i qualify?? Smita Bernadet: I still recall those corals and white sand. kirty ekka: join us then  kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: are you kidding Smita Bernadet: But most of the best islands have drowned now after tsunami kirty ekka: oh i didn't hear this before  Smita Bernadet: there were many beautiful islands but after earthquake many were lost kirty ekka: oh  kirty ekka: bad luck for others then Smita Bernadet: wait kirty ekka: ?? Smita Bernadet: Did you know that Andaman and nicobar islands were gifted to Subhash chandra bose by the Japanese Smita Bernadet: it was an abandoned island before full of jungle and was used as jail Smita Bernadet: for prisoners Smita Bernadet: u there? kirty ekka: i knew that they used it as jail - kalapani kirty ekka: but did not know that it was gifted to subhas chandra bose  Smita Bernadet: its amazing to get an island as a gift... Smita Bernadet: well so when are you planning to go? kirty ekka: december 1/2nd week kirty ekka: with a lot of cousins  kirty ekka: 2 of them are married  Smita Bernadet: You must be having relatives there? kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: this is a leisure trip  Smita Bernadet: Oh , It's full of jharkhand tribals. Many have settled there. kirty ekka: yeah i know that  Smita Bernadet: So how big is your group? What's the strength? kirty ekka: atleast 10 people  Smita Bernadet: any kids? kirty ekka: 11 people for sure  kirty ekka: +5 if everyone agrees Smita Bernadet: you must be excited kirty ekka: how did you reach there? did you take a flight/ boat ?? Smita Bernadet: flight. my mum is in air india kirty ekka: both of them should be fun  kirty ekka: oooh.... Smita Bernadet: boat will cause sea sickness kirty ekka: how many hours in a boat  Smita Bernadet: days kirty ekka: ooh  kirty ekka: you want to hop on  Smita Bernadet: only fishermen use it now...its not safe these days because of sudden cyclones over bay of bengal. Please avoid boat. kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: You really want me to join you all? kirty ekka: you seem excited for a trip  Smita Bernadet: i'm not that excited because I cannot afford it at the moment Smita Bernadet: moreover, I have already been there Smita Bernadet: I don't want to be an unnecessary burden to you kirty ekka: haha... Smita Bernadet: so what else? Smita Bernadet: you just evoked my memories kirty ekka: you have invoked lots of mine ...!! Smita Bernadet: I still have all those collected shells and corals from andaman. I love collecting them. I have a small museum at my home. kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: I'm weird...right? kirty ekka: everyone has weird angles  Smita Bernadet: tell me something weird about yourself kirty ekka: running away from lizards kirty ekka: they look yuck Smita Bernadet: haah Smita Bernadet: is that it? kirty ekka: maybe i don't find myself weird  Smita Bernadet: may b try asking your cousins kirty ekka: i get angry when people don't follow traffic rules  kirty ekka: for them i am weird Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: traffic rules....what else kirty ekka: many things ... Smita Bernadet: tell me few more kirty ekka: what do you think  kirty ekka: didn't you find anything about me weird  kirty ekka: till now  Smita Bernadet: well nothing so far, I need to meet you before I discover that kirty ekka: did you not find me calling you weird...!! kirty ekka: being a guy, i find it weird. kirty ekka: yeah, i can be super stupid sometimes.. and have no common sense  kirty ekka: and now i can't undo that Smita Bernadet: I really would love to see you transform into that  hulk with 6 packs...I once had a huge crush on a bhaiya. He used to amuse me with his biceps. He used to vibrate them and make us believe that there was a mouse living inside his biceps. Oh yes, I found that weird! calling me without an invite. You are lucky to get my no. coz I've hidden it now. kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: i am aiming for a sleek body...like the character Hercules from movie Troy... Smita Bernadet: ahan....that's interesting kirty ekka: it's difficult...because i need to diet and not bulk up kirty ekka: but getting a 6 packs is also a dream  kirty ekka: and i am working on that  Smita Bernadet: Hey, I've heard that once you start a gym you should never discontinue. If you do so then the body becomes overweight. kirty ekka: that would take time.. Smita Bernadet: is it? kirty ekka: but it is not a smart conclusion  Smita Bernadet: people say so kirty ekka: a lot depends upon your diet..then lifestyle  kirty ekka: etc.  kirty ekka: mostly i've seen lazy people say that  Smita Bernadet: It's better if you continue till your age supports you. I mean going to gym is good and even me and my roomy had planned months back but couldn't. Instead we started doing pilates in room itself. You should continue your gym later too. kirty ekka: hehe kirty ekka: yeah there is a time for everything  Smita Bernadet: yes till your age supports Smita Bernadet: I would want to be fit till I can. Let people say that "oh look at that hot couple" kirty ekka: kirty ekka: i would second this aspiration  Smita Bernadet: It's time for bed now kirty ekka: are you leaving so early? Smita Bernadet: it's because i didn't let you sleep properly yesterday Smita Bernadet: you need to take atleast 7 hrs of rest kirty ekka: weekend is close  Smita Bernadet: friday is still there kirty ekka: i am planning to have lunch outside with colleagues  Smita Bernadet: tomoro? kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: have a relaxed day planned  Smita Bernadet: that doesn't mean that you won't sleep enough Smita Bernadet: rest you eyes n brain Smita Bernadet: or else you will get dark circles kirty ekka: i don't get them  Smita Bernadet: really kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: then you have a unique genes Smita Bernadet: what about sunken eyes? kirty ekka: drunken eyes can be a possibility but not sunken eyes Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: do you snore? coz my dad does....and my mum gets irritated Smita Bernadet: she runs away and sleeps with us kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: i don't know that  Smita Bernadet: do one thing tonight. kirty ekka: but i feel that if i drink a lot and then sleep, then i have high chances of snoring  Smita Bernadet: Keep your sound recorder on before you fall asleep. Check in the morning. Smita Bernadet: kidding kirty ekka: who will scan for noise... kirty ekka: also, what if strange noises are recorded..?? Smita Bernadet: just find out whether you snore or not Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: let me know kirty ekka: so where did you check my pics? Smita Bernadet: fb kirty ekka: did you check on facebook ? kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: where else could i seek? kirty ekka: i thought you don't have afb account  Smita Bernadet: i do have kirty ekka: ok
Smita Bernadet: but u can't check kirty ekka: in a super stealth mode...!! kirty ekka: good ... Smita Bernadet: haah Smita Bernadet: it's because of my dad Smita Bernadet: he doesn't allow me on fb Smita Bernadet: He made me delete my previous account from there Smita Bernadet: so i have blocked him Smita Bernadet: I have nothing on my fb account.
kirty ekka: so i think dads of beautiful girls are anti FB kirty ekka: i have heard lots of similar instances ...lol Smita Bernadet: are you saying that i am beautiful ? Smita Bernadet: I have nothing on my fb account. Smita Bernadet: I use it only for music purpose at times. Smita Bernadet: All my friends are on google+ Smita Bernadet: I find fb very dull and blue and full of advertisements Smita Bernadet: I'm so hungry right now kirty ekka: hardly any of my friends are on google+. i like fb ...cos you get to see what others share...etc.  kirty ekka: fb seems more user friendly kirty ekka: yes, you are beautiful.   kirty ekka: Also, it seems your dad keeps a tight lease on you !! Smita Bernadet: for me google+ is user friendly, directly connected to gmail, youtube n picasa because all of these are google products. My dad limits my right most of the time and I fight back for this injustice. kirty ekka: injustice!! strong words  Smita Bernadet: i like one pic of yours...one old pic Smita Bernadet: . kirty ekka: doing what?? Smita Bernadet: you are just smiling in that pic Smita Bernadet: it's an empty room and your friend has commented that" samaan chori ho gaya kya?" kirty ekka: oh haha  kirty ekka: that one  Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: Don't you like putting photos taken  with your female friends? kirty ekka: i have no special attachment towards the pictures Smita Bernadet: ahhan Smita Bernadet: so what are your attachments? kirty ekka: pictures with great friends Smita Bernadet: whose your best friend? kirty ekka: no best friends  Smita Bernadet: I'm seriously damn hungry right now kirty ekka: i don't differentiate between great friends kirty ekka: do you have canteen / food in your hostel at this time  Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: i got snacks kirty ekka: oh then eat them... problem solved !! Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: so tell me more kirty ekka: more about what  Smita Bernadet: you kirty ekka: i was super religious at a time from class 10 - engineering first year  kirty ekka: that was the zenith of my religiousness  Smita Bernadet: nice to know that Smita Bernadet: I was a gang leader in my UKG class. we used to steal stuff..can u imagine! kirty ekka: even i stole things .... kirty ekka: mostly i didn't pay after hogging like a pig in some hotel Smita Bernadet: I was ignorant of right n wrong. We were real bad...haah... Smita Bernadet: wat did u steal? kirty ekka: i knew what was right and what was wrong  kirty ekka: i stole pen, and other useless stuffs  Smita Bernadet: i stole whole pencilbox, 10 big cadbury chocolate from birthday girls and 2 rs. from my dad, i tiffin box from school bus and sketchpens Smita Bernadet: I got caught and thrashing from my dad kirty ekka: wow...you must be street rich when you were young  Smita Bernadet: i was the don of our class. kirty ekka: i was the rebel.... Smita Bernadet: I 've done real stupid activities. Do you know what changed me later? kirty ekka: what happened? Smita Bernadet: A new subject was added in my course- catechism! that's when I was in my 1st STD and that was when I realized that " I am a sinner, I've been so bad. This is a wrong thing". And I changed. I then understood the difference between right n wrong. kirty ekka: ohk  Smita Bernadet: or else today i would had been a famous don! kirty ekka: Bernadet Devi!! Smita Bernadet:  that's very plain Smita Bernadet: something more devlish? kirty ekka: Chamundeshwari...Bernadet Devi  Smita Bernadet: sounds like a goddess...not don kirty ekka: they were also don...in a way Smita Bernadet: haah kirty ekka: they killed their adversaries  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: say kirty ekka: ok a question  kirty ekka: before that tell me what kind of christian are you...a roman catholic/ protestant Smita Bernadet: both kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: question is as follows: Smita Bernadet: I like somethings from both and combine it kirty ekka: you are travelling with 6 other people in a car. These people include your dad, mom, 1 brother, 1 sister, 1 priest, and a husband. The car is moving and just when it is on a bridge, the bridge capsizes bringing everybody down into the river below.  kirty ekka: you are the only person who knows swimming, and can only save one person at a time. whom would you save first.  kirty ekka: The priest can be scrapped from the list. As i think he is irrelevant. kirty ekka: explain your answer  Smita Bernadet: Why is it so tough kirty ekka: i am looking for the explanation.  kirty ekka: why someone .....and not others Smita Bernadet: imagining them is so sad. I almost died of car accident with my family kirty ekka: ok focus at this question  Smita Bernadet: fine Smita Bernadet: none Smita Bernadet: i would suicide with all of them kirty ekka: hahaha  kirty ekka: a person who knows swimming can't do suicide in water !! Smita Bernadet: besides suicide would be sin kirty ekka: ok so  Smita Bernadet: okay then back again... kirty ekka: who will it be  Smita Bernadet: i can't Smita Bernadet: Can't i save all ? I would save all one by one. kirty ekka: yes you can save all  kirty ekka: that depends  kirty ekka: but who is the first person  Smita Bernadet: first mu husband...then brother then sister then mom last dad kirty ekka: why  kirty ekka: this order Smita Bernadet: so that my husband can help me save others.... kirty ekka: bechara DAD Smita Bernadet: male members first kirty ekka: ok like that  Smita Bernadet: dad wouldn't like it if mom was last Smita Bernadet: see if i save the strongest first then he can help me pull out others. bro can save dad. and my hubby can pull my mum while I get my sister.. Smita Bernadet: I have to save all. no one is DYING HERE Smita Bernadet: I love all of them. Smita Bernadet: I can't be bias kirty ekka: k.... Smita Bernadet: i think you were expecting something different? kirty ekka: yes  Smita Bernadet: I would expect my husband to do the same Smita Bernadet: Like my parents first? kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: Situations like this should be handled reasonably and not emotionally. If my hubby is first , he would be able to help with others. If I pull my parents first then work would be slow and I may end up loosing some of them. Smita Bernadet: I guess you gave me an F in this question Smita Bernadet: u there? kirty ekka: no kirty ekka: ok...i am feeling dead now Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: u need to sleep kirty ekka: i forgot we were talking Smita Bernadet: y didn't u tell me so Smita Bernadet: not fair Smita Bernadet: okay them Smita Bernadet: then Smita Bernadet: sleep well Kirty kirty ekka: Bye Girl ... Smita Bernadet: Happy Friday to you Smita Bernadet: Bye boy kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: you are a sweet soul !!  kirty ekka: how do you manage to stay like that !! Smita Bernadet: i'm blushing Smita Bernadet: stop it Smita Bernadet: i don't know Smita Bernadet: jao go n sleep Smita Bernadet: gud98 kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: bye  Smita Bernadet: byeee kirty ekka: 'Muscles in the biceps' - how could you believe that? it makes me laugh a lot...haha kirty ekka: sorry "mouses in the biceps'  Smita Bernadet: even I laugh at my own stupidity Smita Bernadet: I was a kid then, I believed him because he was a handsome bhaiya. Smita Bernadet: He used to mesmerize me kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: hi there kirty ekka: hi Bernadet kirty ekka: how are you today?? Smita Bernadet: whats up? I'm good. I spent my day studying and sleeping. How was yours? kirty ekka: i wasted my day  Smita Bernadet: doing what? kirty ekka: reading about refuge crisis in europe  Smita Bernadet: whole day? Smita Bernadet: I saw that news too kirty ekka: ok.. kirty ekka: what did you study?? Smita Bernadet: I was studying geography. My exam is on 20th kirty ekka: oho what exam is this? Smita Bernadet: Did you cook today? kirty ekka: no not today also  Smita Bernadet: It's for examiner of patent post kirty ekka: from tomorrow perhaps...i need to clean my house first  Smita Bernadet: Do you clean every weekend? kirty ekka: yes  Smita Bernadet: me too kirty ekka: that was the target...on staying alone....to self cook, clean, and manage  Smita Bernadet: impressive Smita Bernadet: how many rooms does your flat have? Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: u there? Smita Bernadet: I'm waiting kirty ekka: 1BHK kirty ekka: Have internet issues here today. Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: so how are your parents? Do you speak to them everyday? kirty ekka: Once in 3 days. Smita Bernadet: Me- once in 2 weeks kirty ekka: Wow kirty ekka: I thought I was bad...!! Smita Bernadet: at times monthly once kirty ekka: Why is it like this? kirty ekka: I thought girls talk more frequently. Smita Bernadet: because they have 4 kids to take care of, they often forget to call me and even I get very busy Smita Bernadet: i don't mind kirty ekka: Ohk kirty ekka: You can also call them Smita Bernadet: I'm never nostalgic...except christmas Smita Bernadet: I call them up when I feel like kirty ekka: Ok. I used to call them once in 3 months during college. It used to be a 2 mins call. Mostly around I need money. kirty ekka: Until one day my dad said -'oh, you need money. Is that why you called ?' - Smita Bernadet: haaaaah Smita Bernadet: smart pops kirty ekka: Haha. Smita Bernadet: so how are they doing? kirty ekka: Bechara pops kirty ekka: They are fine. kirty ekka: My dad fell off his bike this week and I forgot about it!! Smita Bernadet: bad kid Smita Bernadet: so, you should talk, right? kirty ekka: I genuinely forgot. Smita Bernadet: you can talk now Smita Bernadet: to him kirty ekka: Plus there were lots of relative stating at the house that time. I felt he was busy so left it there kirty ekka: He would be sleeping now, I guess kirty ekka: They wake up at 5:30 at my house. Smita Bernadet: my dad sleeps at 3 am Smita Bernadet: and wakes at 7 kirty ekka: That is Sleep disorder. I have spent 2-3 days, for 2-3 times without a sleep. Smita Bernadet: u mean my dad? kirty ekka: Yeah he was sleep disorder Smita Bernadet: no, he works late night and writes articles kirty ekka: Ok. That ways. kirty ekka: Cool. Smita Bernadet: he is a social worker and a member of BJP kirty ekka: Oh really. Smita Bernadet: yup kirty ekka: Wow. kirty ekka: You have powerful political connections. Smita Bernadet: he took VRS for serve the society Smita Bernadet: to serve kirty ekka: I must be wary..never to offend you Smita Bernadet: I don't have any connections! he has kirty ekka: Yeah, you have too. Smita Bernadet: no yaar kirty ekka: Through Inheritance. Smita Bernadet: that way kirty ekka: So what kind of activist is he? kirty ekka: What is the Crux of his struggle. Smita Bernadet: He works for tribals..I don't know the details coz I never took interest in politics kirty ekka: Land ordinance...education.... kirty ekka: Ohk. kirty ekka: Does he drink ?? Smita Bernadet: yes mum was complaining lately kirty ekka: We'll he has passion but Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: he does Smita Bernadet: so do you like pets? Smita Bernadet: other than lizzzz kirty ekka: I like others' pets. Smita Bernadet: like? Smita Bernadet: what kirty ekka: Dogs, cats, goats, fish, cow, chicken, parrot Smita Bernadet: zoo kirty ekka: Not wild animals. kirty ekka: Domestic ones Smita Bernadet: you don't like owning one? kirty ekka: I can't maintain them. kirty ekka: Don't have that much leisure and passion for owning one. Smita Bernadet: fish? kirty ekka: You need to change water etc. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: They also need maintenance. Smita Bernadet: yes they do kirty ekka: Plus food. Some kind of powder that you need to save from decomposition. Smita Bernadet: I have a doberman kirty ekka: I Ike happy dogs. kirty ekka: kirty ekka: This came accidentally. Smita Bernadet: at home. I named her webby after that disney cartood Darkwing duck kirty ekka: Ooh kirty ekka: Now who maintains her. Smita Bernadet: mum dad kirty ekka: I have been to Jamshedpur. kirty ekka: Where do you stay there Smita Bernadet: mum doesn't miss us because she has webby now Smita Bernadet: How did you know that I stay in Jamshedpur? kirty ekka: Yeah seems like she is the latest beauty in the house. kirty ekka: I had googled before...!! Smita Bernadet: what else u got? kirty ekka: That you are highly guarded about yourself. Smita Bernadet: I stay in Ranchi. Jamshedpur is my granny's home Smita Bernadet: haaah...how? Smita Bernadet: were you in CID? kirty ekka: It wa super difficult to know anything about you. kirty ekka: I have good espionage skills but :) Smita Bernadet: that's good to know that it's difficult Smita Bernadet: I had planned that way kirty ekka: Hmmm ok kirty ekka: Why so but ?? Smita Bernadet: because of my dad!! Smita Bernadet: He told me not to be on social network kirty ekka: The streets of Ranchi and Jamshedpur are infested with your followers ..!! kirty ekka: Why..?? Smita Bernadet: my followers Smita Bernadet: ? how come kirty ekka: Is it for political reasons ? kirty ekka: No that was a remark. kirty ekka: I have a theory on that. Smita Bernadet: no he is over possessive..he thinks that his daughters are miss world and someone will kidnap them! Its so irritating. We are normal girls who wants to enjoy as others do, I too have a social circle and he doesn't understand that. Smita Bernadet: Tell me your theory Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: He is right in some aspects though. Smita Bernadet: no kirty ekka: You are beautiful...!! :) Smita Bernadet: there are many beautiful girls out there...more than me...okay! Smita Bernadet: I'm no extra kirty ekka: Hahaha.... Ok then Smita Bernadet: I feel it's injustice against females kirty ekka: But, that is how the world treats itself. kirty ekka: Even girls treat guys the same way. Smita Bernadet: He doesn't even allow me to make any hair style!!! kirty ekka: I know of genius males who were spurned because they looked ugly and were fat. Smita Bernadet: but I do it anyway kirty ekka: Hahaha kirty ekka: I think he needs to trust you. Smita Bernadet: EXACTLY! kirty ekka: Trust that you are mature Smita Bernadet: and careful kirty ekka: Yes that too. kirty ekka: I think I like the westerners' approach towards the subject. kirty ekka: The children look out for themselves as they turn 18. kirty ekka: They are majorly responsible for shaping their life. kirty ekka: Gender doesn't matter Smita Bernadet: I am in accord with you views. So, Did you finish that movie? kirty ekka: Yeah. kirty ekka: Quite funny though. kirty ekka: When the guy started reading the bible, I thought what if he accidentally stumbles upon that horny stuff. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Which he did!!! And, I got a free explanation Smita Bernadet: Thanks for watching it. It means a lot. kirty ekka: Till now I thought some perverts put it there by mistake. Smita Bernadet: haah Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: were you about to say something? kirty ekka: On what?? Smita Bernadet: nothing, so ready for today? kirty ekka: Ready for what?? Smita Bernadet: questions kirty ekka: Oooh Q&A sessions..!! Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: You'll find them easy kirty ekka: I think I do scare you ..!! Smita Bernadet: you do kirty ekka: But yeah, go on ask them Smita Bernadet: okay, kirty ekka: ??? Smita Bernadet: suppose I hurt you or say something that insults you unintentionally infront of all your family and friends which disturbs you a lot, and I still don't realize it..what will you do? Smita Bernadet: honestly? Smita Bernadet: Will you scream on me infront of everybody? kirty ekka: There is nothing that I can do. You have already done the damage. Smita Bernadet: but i need to realize, right? how will you do that kirty ekka: Probably get embarrassed then...make weird faces and smile etc. kirty ekka: Afterwards ...privately or if the situation permits there itself. Depends on the case. Smita Bernadet: seriously? won't you correct me? Smita Bernadet: privately or openly? kirty ekka: Depends on what the revelation is?? kirty ekka: I can't think of one. kirty ekka: Right now. Smita Bernadet: whatever it is, it applies to all. If you tell me in private it would be less embarrassing ..right? kirty ekka: Depends. .. Smita Bernadet: will you do that? kirty ekka: Sometimes if you try to hide it further it would cause more agony so blurting out the entire thing would be abetted option then. kirty ekka: * be a better option Smita Bernadet: fine, so how will your approach to this situation be? harshly or softly? Smita Bernadet: or that also depends on your temper? kirty ekka: Haha no. kirty ekka: I have not seen anyone shout at his wife publicly among my family and relatives. kirty ekka: I would probably do the same. kirty ekka: Be cool Smita Bernadet: cool Smita Bernadet: i am cool kirty ekka: It seems you cause lots of embarrassments kirty ekka: I said I would be be cool about it. Smita Bernadet: i don't actually Smita Bernadet: I just asked if it happens accidentaly.. kirty ekka: Then why do you ask? Smita Bernadet: for instance it happened once.. kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: wait i'll tell you Smita Bernadet: It was college fest and I wasn't feeling well and was damn hungry. So my boyfriend's friend offered me Lays. I denied and said that I cannot eat it and it's not sufficient to quench my hunger. On this my boyfriend felt really insulted that how could I deny what he was giving me with care. It took me 1 week to explain him that my stomach was paining heavily and I was down at the moment and I'm not supposed to eat snacks instead of proper meal... Smita Bernadet: he felt insulted! Smita Bernadet: I never meant to do that.. kirty ekka: Hahaha Smita Bernadet: I was just not in the condition to eat Lays kirty ekka: Funny ....maybe that was the best lays chips ever Smita Bernadet: i know its a petty matter but he made it into a big issue! kirty ekka: Maybe you were kids then. Smita Bernadet: i cannot understand boys kirty ekka: Haha it's simple...grab a beer !! Smita Bernadet: nonsense Smita Bernadet: It still makes me fume kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: good that he went away Smita Bernadet: silly boy Smita Bernadet: i should calm now kirty ekka: Funny but not a convincing embarrassing story. This was Bakwas Smita Bernadet: yup it was kirty ekka: Pure one. Smita Bernadet: but imagine it with grown ups. sometimes they too act like immature at times kirty ekka: Yeah but then what can you do. Smita Bernadet: I got my answer. Smita Bernadet: I would get a nice scolding kirty ekka: Except learn from it and never repeat it. kirty ekka: From whom...?? Smita Bernadet: and may be i would go to bed hungry that nite kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: I'm talking about my question. Nope I don't eat when I'm sad Smita Bernadet: I lock myself up Smita Bernadet: and become mute kirty ekka: You think that I would scold you infront of everyone Smita Bernadet: yo said so that it depends Smita Bernadet: anyways kirty ekka: I think I can interrupt in between but would definitely not shout and make a drama about it. Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: Time passes quickly on talking to you...!! Smita Bernadet: is that bad? kirty ekka: Yeah it should be slow. Smita Bernadet: well kirty ekka: Besides I had a strange feeling yesterday. Smita Bernadet: i dont know how to make that happen! Smita Bernadet: what? kirty ekka: I thought what would happen if i later find out that I am talking to someone who is impersonating you. Smita Bernadet: i too had that feeling once kirty ekka: I would be super duped... Smita Bernadet: relax kirty ekka: What if you were a Siri like program with a personality Smita Bernadet: now wats that? kirty ekka: Siri is Apple phone's voice assistant. kirty ekka: It is a smart creation and has an attitude. Smita Bernadet: even if it was then you would had ended up learning something...never to call any girl on website...heheh kirty ekka: So you can ask questions to it and it would answer back. It has a personality and an attitude, that I am a fan of. kirty ekka: Yeah. That was the first and last instance by the way. Smita Bernadet: this siri of yours cannot explain what yolked means and neither can it talk about jesus as I do kirty ekka: Who knows what man can create?? Smita Bernadet: its yoked...not yolked! sorry Smita Bernadet: no they can't create everything Smita Bernadet: there's always a loop hole kirty ekka: But a fact lies that no one will create it with a base in Ranchi or Jamshedpur Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Where do you stay in Ranchi ?? Smita Bernadet: Lowadih Smita Bernadet: yourself? kirty ekka: Before Doranda now near the airport. Smita Bernadet: hmmm Smita Bernadet: I don't have knowledge about ranchi's streets kirty ekka: Is Lowadih in the way between kanta toli and namkum rail crossing? Smita Bernadet: I knew only college to home and church kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: yes it is kirty ekka: Ok. I have a friend who lives in that area kirty ekka: That's why I know this Smita Bernadet: I don't roam much when I'm at ranchi Smita Bernadet: Pork lovers will know namkum bazaar kirty ekka: Yeah. I've heard about it but have never been there Smita Bernadet: goog, you saved many poor souls Smita Bernadet: good kirty ekka: Why is your status - 'never say never again' Smita Bernadet: why? it's an encouraging one, right? kirty ekka: I interpreted it differently. Smita Bernadet: how can u? Smita Bernadet: wat did u interpret? kirty ekka: Like convincing someone never to say never again. Smita Bernadet: dumbo kirty ekka: My thoughts are mostly random Smita Bernadet: too random Smita Bernadet: !! kirty ekka: Haha I know that. Smita Bernadet: take another situation... Smita Bernadet: it is not funny this time kirty ekka: Have you studied psychology ?? Smita Bernadet: suppose I am deeply maimed by heart due to a serious issue which I really can't share with you and I keep wailing over it and don't eat neither sleep. What will you do to pacify me without asking what's the cause. Smita Bernadet: no i haven't studied psychology...i wanted to though Smita Bernadet: okay answer me Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: Will deliver the following items to you: kirty ekka: Lots of Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: of kirty ekka: Hugs and kisses; well cooked food; and nice music till you slide back to the happy zone Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: then i would often do that... kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: Naughty girl..!! Smita Bernadet: hey I am SIRI !!! Smita Bernadet: it would be fun I was one kirty ekka: SIRI answers not questions .. Smita Bernadet: achaaaa kirty ekka: So what else kirty ekka: What would you actually want if you were in the previous mode?? Smita Bernadet: i don't know kirty ekka: If I am super sad, so much that I am not talking, then what would you do?? kirty ekka: Don't copy my answer .... Smita Bernadet: I want to answer this question with another question....men usually like to be left alone when they are sad... are you that type? kirty ekka: Maybe Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: Maybe I am?? Smita Bernadet: then I would leave you alone if that's what you want. but I'll sit beside you and not say a word. I'll just hold your hand and be with you, till you start speaking yourself. Smita Bernadet: I'll listen to every word you say and not judge you... kirty ekka: Ok I think that would help. Smita Bernadet: you wanted something more? then you can always ask...If you want to stay alone then why not. I would understand. Smita Bernadet: I'm feeling so weird having this conversation kirty ekka: We'll you started it. kirty ekka: Well you stated it Smita Bernadet: i know kirty ekka: You have so many questions.... Smita Bernadet: sarcasm again Smita Bernadet: yes i do Smita Bernadet: have... kirty ekka: I feel like I'm giving an online adaptive examination Smita Bernadet: it's not a joke to me...it's my whole life here Smita Bernadet: what if you are totally different in person and different online? kirty ekka: That is what I was thinking kirty ekka: About myself and about you ... Smita Bernadet: lets not jump into any conclusion! Smita Bernadet: but you do make me smile a lot kirty ekka: What if you are not what you say you are and I am not what I say I am. Smita Bernadet: you make me smile even when you're offline kirty ekka: I think about you too. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I don't know what I'm doing Smita Bernadet: this whole matrimony website thing...without informing my parents..i feel very confused and weird at the same time kirty ekka: Why did you create a profile? Smita Bernadet: i was sad that's y Smita Bernadet: and angry a bit Smita Bernadet: but wanted to move on kirty ekka: Why like that? Smita Bernadet: and i dont know kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: because Smita Bernadet: my love story is very sad kirty ekka: Ok boss Smita Bernadet: nothing is ok Smita Bernadet: I don't want you to feel that I'm using you... kirty ekka: Why so you think that I would think that ? Smita Bernadet: I don't know Smita Bernadet: your thoughts are so random... kirty ekka: You have no idea.. Smita Bernadet: that's the reason why i said Smita Bernadet: Okay I have a question again kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Ok smite me Smita Smita Bernadet: It has happened with me before and I want to know that how will you behave..given that situation Smita Bernadet: Suppose you hear something ill about me or someone defames me and informs you about me having dates with some guy who is my friend..a really good friend. Will you believe that person? Or will you ask me first directly as to whether it's true or not before concluding ? Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: r u awake? kirty ekka: I will probably tell you that some people are telling me things about you. kirty ekka: It being true or not I would want to hear from you. kirty ekka: But then again, I don't listen to other people and maybe if the trust between is high I will never question your ways. Smita Bernadet: if i say that no it's not true. then? Smita Bernadet: will you still doubt? kirty ekka: My decisions will be based on what I know not on what oothers have said me Smita Bernadet: so you will go and talk to my friend and ask him? Smita Bernadet: will you go miles to check it out? kirty ekka: No. I will ask you why him? Smita Bernadet: so you would trust me? Smita Bernadet: even after hearing all what others say? kirty ekka: Yes, if I can't trust you I would surely not be marrying you. Smita Bernadet: Thanks for that answer kirty ekka: If they are bringing up your past then I would not delve into it. Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: thats all i wanted to know kirty ekka: Really ?? Smita Bernadet: yes kirty ekka: Questions over ?? kirty ekka: Now what ..... Smita Bernadet: yup over for today i guess Smita Bernadet: u get to ask now kirty ekka: Oh for today... Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: why are you so afraid of my questions? You have scored highest so far... kirty ekka: Send me a certificate ...!! Smita Bernadet: not now kirty ekka: Ohk Smita Bernadet: later...some fine day Smita Bernadet: Did your parents find any match? kirty ekka: They asked me many times if they should start looking for one kirty ekka: But i did not allow them Smita Bernadet: why? don't you want to take a chance of faith? kirty ekka: I think they do not know me and it could end up being a very disastrous move. kirty ekka: Because I know their choice. Smita Bernadet: how can you parents not know you? you are their only son kirty ekka: So what...?? Smita Bernadet: okay, how would be their choices? kirty ekka: Well they know nothing about me. Smita Bernadet: what about your sister? she knows about your likings? kirty ekka: Mostly my mother's friends's daughters kirty ekka: No, I am a strange, mysterious creature. Smita Bernadet: wat, then how will I ever know you? kirty ekka: I am quiet person at home. kirty ekka: You have the Q&As Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: I am like that because I can't talk without getting a gyan session. kirty ekka: So I don't talk much Smita Bernadet: what gyan session? you got into iit.. your a gyani kirty ekka: I meant to say that if I say something to my parents they end up giving me lots of gyan on it. Smita Bernadet: you should listen to them sometimes kirty ekka: I listen .... Smita Bernadet: So you never talk to them before taking any decision? kirty ekka: I talk to them about major ones kirty ekka: I include them in these discussions. kirty ekka: But never for bike trips, or other trips kirty ekka: For bike trips I let them know after I've completed it. kirty ekka: And for other trip I tell them 2-3 days before. Smita Bernadet: What will you do if your parents refuse to accept the girl you want to marry? kirty ekka: I should ask you that - Smita Bernadet: u tell me kirty ekka: I don't have imposing parents kirty ekka: I don't thin they would disagree with my choices. kirty ekka: What about you?? kirty ekka: ?? Smita Bernadet: wait Smita Bernadet: Even if they do, I'm going to convince them somehow. If they still don't then I will back off and don't know...may be i would run away to some far place and live for few years alone... kirty ekka: So how will it help?? kirty ekka: In this case, you don't have the guy and your fellas Smita Bernadet: I will accept and endure what I can't have and also I will convince that guy to go and get married to someone else. I don't want to get married without everybody's blessings. Smita Bernadet: My last boyfriend is santhal and he loves me a lot, however his parents have clearly denied that they cannot accept a catholic girl. Smita Bernadet: still he is fighting with them for me and I don't like this situation. kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: I told him that I cannot get married if your parents won't love me. Smita Bernadet: I am trying to search for a girl for him. Smita Bernadet: I need my kids to have their grandparents love. Smita Bernadet: If both the parents don't agree then whats the point? Smita Bernadet: all my friends tell me to run and get married but I refused. Its against my faith. Smita Bernadet: we don't hate each other but we are trying to separate . atleast I'm trying to move on Smita Bernadet: wait Smita Bernadet: listen to me fully first Smita Bernadet: He asked me to wait till december so that he can still convince them, but I have said clearly that I cannot if your parents cannot love me. I need everybody's blessings. I have told him about this website but I haven't told him about you. My cousin alone knows that I talk to you. Smita Bernadet: Look I don't mean to use you as my refuge. You are still free. Smita Bernadet: I really respect you and your decisions. Smita Bernadet: I believe that we met for a reason and I don't know what it is. kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: I like talking to you. But I don't know how we will be together as a person. Online chat is different than reality.. kirty ekka: Maybe God only knows Smita Bernadet: I even said "no" on our first message but I really wanted to talk to you after you showed your efforts to quit smoking. Smita Bernadet: I wasn't even about to send you an invite until you rang me up. Or else I wouldn't had contacted you at all. kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Perhaps that is why I feel so guilty about calling you up..!! Smita Bernadet: I just want to hold your hands right now and say Sorry , if I'm hurting you right now. I don't want to keep you in dark. kirty ekka: It's ok. Smita Bernadet: friends don't hide. right kirty ekka: Yes that is fine. Smita Bernadet: You are elder to me and much sensible kirty ekka: We'll I am not holding a grudge against you. It is what it is kirty ekka: And you can't do anything about it. Smita Bernadet: If you don't want to continue talking to me then I understand. I would respect your decision. I like talking. rest is your wish.. kirty ekka: I don't know what to say ... Frankly. Smita Bernadet: I won't deny though that I have some kind of sweet feelings for you. but I can't define it clearly. Smita Bernadet: ok then, we should take a break...if you want to Smita Bernadet: All those questions...meant a lot to me. nothing was for fun. I can assure you that kirty ekka: It's ok. There's no need to feel guilty. Smita Bernadet: what should we do now? Smita Bernadet: should I take your silence as a good bye? kirty ekka: I think that you are the one holding all the cards in your hands. Smita Bernadet: no i'm not kirty ekka: You are the one who gets to call the shots here Smita Bernadet: i already told you that i'm okay with not getting the guy i want to kirty ekka: And what if things change by your deadline. kirty ekka: If things turn up good for you two, I would not want to interfere in between. kirty ekka: I would not be in that path. Smita Bernadet: I don't even know if you want me or not. Chances of his parents accepting me are 99% because he has been trying since 8 yrs. I don't know kirty. If you want me to leave right now. I'll go. Smita Bernadet: sorry correction- Chances of his parents NOT accepting me are 99% kirty ekka: I know that's why I said you have the shots to call. kirty ekka: Do you love him ?? Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: but it's mild now Smita Bernadet: I have already made up my mind to move on Smita Bernadet: I know it's not going to happen Smita Bernadet: I have no reason to hate him too Smita Bernadet: I'm even looking for a girl for him Smita Bernadet: I have told him about this kirty ekka: Yeah, this you have said me before. Smita Bernadet: okay lets cut it short, I think I'm wasting your time and before I die of guilt, just tell me if you want me to stay or not kirty ekka: I would want you to stay Smita Bernadet: but I want the old you, nothing should change after knowing all the facts Smita Bernadet: could you? Smita Bernadet: please Smita Bernadet: I'm sorry, It's too much to ask kirty ekka: i'm also sorry... Smita Bernadet: so you can't be the old you kirty ekka: i' m not saying that  Smita Bernadet: why are you sorry for kirty ekka: it all began with my intrusion  Smita Bernadet: it's not your fault Smita Bernadet: it  isn't...you should stop blaming yourself kirty ekka: i would definitely be sad  Smita Bernadet: I shouldn't had accepted your hangout..but i did ..i think it's for good Smita Bernadet: we needed to hear each other out.. Smita Bernadet: it must be something good Smita Bernadet: has to be Smita Bernadet: what's on your mind? Smita Bernadet: do you hate me? kirty ekka: No kirty ekka: I have nothing and everything at the same time. Smita Bernadet: i know Smita Bernadet: atleast u don't hate
Smita Bernadet: I know i don't deserve anybody good kirty ekka: That would be a lie. I think you are a fine lady. Smita Bernadet: I don't feel so Smita Bernadet: not right now Smita Bernadet: I shouldn't had done this to you Smita Bernadet: I feel like killing myself Smita Bernadet: not actually killing..i mean i feel like vanishing off kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: I was going to comment. Smita Bernadet: look I cried for hurting u. I'm Sorry. Even if you deny, I know that I have hurt you in some mild form, and i really am crying...so sorry. And thanks for letting me stay. I'm honored. Smita Bernadet: are you sure you want me to stay? kirty ekka: Stay kirty ekka: Unless you must run away Smita Bernadet: Nothing makes me run away from you except your song kirty ekka: Hah kirty ekka: So tell me Smita Bernadet: I really am wondering how you are for real kirty ekka: You must have thought before joining the site about meeting other people. And must have thought about what you would have done if you did like someone there. kirty ekka: What did you think?? kirty ekka: I remember you talking about removing your profile post December. Smita Bernadet: honestly , I thought of getting married to the one on website if my parents approved kirty ekka: What did you have in your mind? kirty ekka: And your parents approve the current guy .. Smita Bernadet: I thought if by december nobody shows interest and nobody contacts me then I would get married to whomever parents decide Smita Bernadet: My parents like the current guy. He has visited my home many times as a friend. but as a lover they don't know. kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: What about the possibility where others contact you ?? Smita Bernadet: right now my parents are having financial crisis and I don't want to burden them with this marriage. But they have sent my photos to all my relatives to look for my match Smita Bernadet: others means? those who contacted before you? kirty ekka: Others who contact you and befriend you? Smita Bernadet: those possibilities are dead. The only one is this current friend of mine. kirty ekka: ?? Confusing Smita Bernadet: are u sleepy? Smita Bernadet: Look please frame your question again kirty ekka: I meant what if you meet some one from the site, the person likes you, and you like him Smita Bernadet: I am planning to remove it tomorrow from website kirty ekka: Don't do that because of me. kirty ekka: If that is what you want then be there Smita Bernadet: what about you? kirty ekka: I was going to delete it today for different reasons. Smita Bernadet: you are in 2 websites , thats why? kirty ekka: No others. Smita Bernadet: are you going to delete in all where ever you're profile is? kirty ekka: I was thinking that way kirty ekka: We'll leave that kirty ekka: You must be getting a strong sense of what you want to do. Smita Bernadet: no its all nonsense here Smita Bernadet: I deleted it Smita Bernadet: now Smita Bernadet: i deleted my profile kirty ekka: I understood. kirty ekka: Sorry boss kirty ekka: I have super guilt ridden you. Smita Bernadet: i don't deserve anything. Smita Bernadet: not you not anyone kirty ekka: That's a crap statement kirty ekka: I understand the predicament that you have Smita Bernadet: i don't know any kirty ekka: Do you think we should give ourselves a try in that direction? kirty ekka: If it truly is beautiful, going ahead would be the awesome choice we could face. Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: You seem sleepy.... Smita Bernadet: i'm not sleepy. Smita Bernadet: My eyes are teary kirty ekka: Don't cry babes. kirty ekka: Let's meet Smita Bernadet: it's too soon kirty ekka: Maybe answers would be clearer kirty ekka: Ok but that too Smita Bernadet: will one meet clear it? kirty ekka: Maybe yes maybe no. Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: Do you want me to call you now. kirty ekka: You seem super upset Smita Bernadet: no need...are trying to scare me with your voice? Smita Bernadet: I am upset, but no need to call. kirty ekka: Ok....forget it. Smita Bernadet: u still have my no. ?!!!! kirty ekka: Yes Smita Bernadet: why you didn't delete it? kirty ekka: I didn't declare that I would remove it. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Why did you delete it. kirty ekka: Don't say my thunderous voice rocked you hard Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I deleted because I didn't want to disturb you any more with my sorry messages kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: so I'm scared to meet you...i don't know why. It's a mixed feeling kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: but as you say we need to kirty ekka: When should this auspicious occasion be ? Smita Bernadet: in october? kirty ekka: Ok that far ?? kirty ekka: But ok. Smita Bernadet: yes I have exams kirty ekka: Oh I forgot 20th Smita Bernadet: I want to be mentally calm Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: Will I be able to see your Hercules biceps? kirty ekka: Haha. I don't know. Smita Bernadet: I wanted to kirty ekka: One day when I get a envy invoking size I would show them to you Smita Bernadet: wat is that supposed to mean? kirty ekka: Menacing size. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: don't go too big, it looks ugly...like some tumor growing! Smita Bernadet: so Smita Bernadet: are u sleepy? kirty ekka: I can see the time. Smita Bernadet: it flies kirty ekka: It works faster when we talk Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: what are your plans for weekend? will you go out with your singer cousin? kirty ekka: Have a lunch/ dinner tomorrow with her and her mom kirty ekka: What about you Smita Bernadet: no plans. I'll be in room n study. I'll cook paneer schezwan manchurian kirty ekka: Ok best of luck. kirty ekka: That sounds yummy actually Smita Bernadet: it always comes out yummy Smita Bernadet: so will you come down to chennai to meet me? kirty ekka: Yes can do that. kirty ekka: If you want awesome weather then you can come here. :) Smita Bernadet: yeah, we are neighbors Smita Bernadet: I'll see, I have no place to stay in bangalore...I have friends but I dont want to bother them, they are all married. kirty ekka: You can come at my place. kirty ekka: It is safer than the CM's villa .. Smita Bernadet: really? kirty ekka: Yes haha Smita Bernadet: will your lizards accept me? kirty ekka: Yes, they have no choice. Else they risk my fury Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Well, chances are less to come to bangalore, we'll see kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Ok. Girl. Go to sleep. Smita Bernadet: nini nahi arahi Smita Bernadet: you are sleepy? kirty ekka: No. Smita Bernadet: then talk kirty ekka: What ?? Smita Bernadet: anything Smita Bernadet: what's on your random thought right now? Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: hello? kirty ekka: Hi Smita Bernadet: internet problem,? kirty ekka: Am still here Smita Bernadet: i asked you something kirty ekka: Went to washroom. Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: so kirty ekka: My random thought. Smita Bernadet: whats going on your mind? kirty ekka: I dreamt yesterday that I am meeting you and then a man jumps in between, stabs me, and runs away. Smita Bernadet: wat nonsense kirty ekka: This seems possible now ...!! Smita Bernadet: i will save u then, Smita Bernadet: that part you didn't see coming? kirty ekka: Bernadet ke saare dewane mil ke dhoyenge mujhe Smita Bernadet: koi deewana nai hai mera. If they would had been then I woudn't had been unmarried till now Smita Bernadet: besides Smita Bernadet: You're a gym guy. Why can't you fight back? kirty ekka: I go to gym not to a mixed martial arts center Smita Bernadet: still you can give few punches and kicks kirty ekka: Haan that much I can deliver Smita Bernadet: what if someone misbehaves with me? won't you punch him? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: Yeah he will get his due. Smita Bernadet: how many push ups daily? kirty ekka: I can do 300 crunches daily. kirty ekka: I don't so push ups. Many people have advised against that. kirty ekka: Bench press with 70 kgs. kirty ekka: Nearly. kirty ekka: But I am becoming smaller after doing all this. Smita Bernadet: see whats the use of all that  if you can't beat up bad guys to save me...I expect this from a gym guy. Smaller means what? It's a good thing only right? Size doesn't matter, your strength within counts. kirty ekka: They will be killed kirty ekka: I won't try to beat them Smita Bernadet: then scare them kirty ekka: Ok. When situation comes kirty ekka: We will know what happened. Smita Bernadet: we spoke whole night! kirty ekka: Yeah. kirty ekka: Time is fast today. Smita Bernadet: I shouldn't stay at your place..we won't even sleep then... kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: we'll keep talking! kirty ekka: It should be normal. kirty ekka: Normal conversation. kirty ekka: Face to face. Smita Bernadet: Okay Smita Bernadet: don't be too strict kirty ekka: Strict about what ?? Smita Bernadet: your voice kirty ekka: Why is it scarier than your dad's?? Smita Bernadet: off course it is kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: I may not speak much...in person kirty ekka: That's why when I speak during meetings people shut up. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: I thought they get shocked. kirty ekka: How do people respond when you talk ?? Smita Bernadet: I will speak but I think twice before speaking kirty ekka: Oh 2 times only ...!! Smita Bernadet: may be more in your case. I rather not offend you in person or next moment i'll be thrown out of the window kirty ekka: Oh I won't do that to anyone. Smita Bernadet: then? out of door? kirty ekka: Choke grip for you Smita Bernadet: thats it... Smita Bernadet: khalaaas! kirty ekka: Naah tribal women are difficult to bring down. kirty ekka: Maybe I will need to call my neighbors too Smita Bernadet: so you have tried that's why you know? kirty ekka: Yes. Smita Bernadet: on whom? kirty ekka: So how baby papers do you have ?? kirty ekka: This cousin at Bangalore. kirty ekka: She is a super tamasha chick. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: what papers? kirty ekka: Patent exam Smita Bernadet: 3 kirty ekka: All on one day Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: 20th is prelims Smita Bernadet: others in october Smita Bernadet: Hey i think I should sleep, I'm not feeling well kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: Sleep then Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: God morning kirty ekka: Good morning Smita Bernadet: I just want to say thanks and Hugs...goodmorning. and happy saturday kirty ekka: Sweet girl sleep well. kirty ekka: Cook well and be well. Smita Bernadet: sweet boy dream well Smita Bernadet: don't get stabbed this time Smita Bernadet: kick them hard kirty ekka: Yeah I will try Smita Bernadet: why try? you have to Smita Bernadet: don't get killed kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: Sure Smita Bernadet: byee kirty kirty ekka: Bye Bernadet Smita Bernadet: when can we talk tomoro? kirty ekka: Ping me. Smita Bernadet: since its a holiday, can u give me a time? kirty ekka: You tell me. I will adjust mine. kirty ekka: I don't know when I will wake up. Smita Bernadet: me too Smita Bernadet: I'll see/// Smita Bernadet: byee for now kirty ekka: Bbyw Smita Bernadet: kirty Smita Bernadet: what are you doing? kirty ekka: Was sleeping till some while ago. kirty ekka: Cleaned my house and then lights went out so took a nap. Smita Bernadet: I will sleep in an hour, Smita Bernadet: thought of checking out on you Smita Bernadet: Am I disturbing you or shall we speak at night? Smita Bernadet: I was going through our chat history... kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: are you okay? Smita Bernadet: are you typing on your cell or you use laptop? Smita Bernadet: coz you're super slow Smita Bernadet: I guess you slept back.. Smita Bernadet: ok then kirty ekka: What did you eat kirty ekka: Yeah I am ok. kirty ekka: I am using my cell. Smita Bernadet: I had noodles and biryani. I'm planning to cook paneer for dinner. What did you have? I got up at 12 kirty ekka: When did you wake up ?? Smita Bernadet: 12 Smita Bernadet: yourself? kirty ekka: 9:30. Smita Bernadet: good boy kirty ekka: Am eating now Smita Bernadet: Why did you sleep for just 4 hrs? kirty ekka: Yes. That's why I slept in the afternoon. Smita Bernadet: ok then finish your lunch first... kirty ekka: I avoid afternoon nap. Smita Bernadet: finish eating then let me know kirty ekka: You can talk now. Smita Bernadet: I'll be around. c u Smita Bernadet: no you finish first Smita Bernadet: give me a missed call on my no. when you want to chat kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Will talk later then, I have to finish cleaning the house. Smita Bernadet: Mr. Kirty, are you done with your work? Smita Bernadet: don't be too late tonight since I need to get up early for church tomoro... kirty ekka: Hi Bernadet...what's up Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: how is the gym boy doing? Smita Bernadet: your house must be sparkling by now kirty ekka: I have not visited Gym for the week. Smita Bernadet: doesn't matter- that name still applies to you Smita Bernadet: are you cooking tonight? Smita Bernadet: I'm going to listen to your song tonight prior sleeping. Smita Bernadet: . Smita Bernadet: you sing well and play well too. kirty ekka: That's a lie. kirty ekka: I know how bad I really am. Smita Bernadet: I liked it. Smita Bernadet: It's not a lie. Smita Bernadet: Well it's not the best but it's not that worse either and I liked it. kirty ekka: I glad to know that you are the first person to like it. kirty ekka: Haha thanks. Smita Bernadet: I'm a good judge you know...a kind one kirty ekka: I've sent it to lots of people though kirty ekka: Ok that's why Smita Bernadet: Some don't appreciate when they are jealous ... kirty ekka: That is grace point. kirty ekka: Thanks. I would take it but. Smita Bernadet: but? kirty ekka: No but. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: So, your house is sparkling? kirty ekka: Yeah. Smita Bernadet: that's nice kirty ekka: I am thinking of buying acid to clean once again. Smita Bernadet: what about your kitchen with pets? Smita Bernadet: Why you want to clean your living room with acid? It's meant only for washroom. kirty ekka: I have strategically placed egg shells at various locations. I hope they see them. Smita Bernadet: haaah...funny...keep replacing those eggs every wek Smita Bernadet: week Smita Bernadet: why don't you try showing them your biceps? Then those Lizzz may scurry away kirty ekka: Ok I didn't know that. kirty ekka: Thanks for the gyan kirty ekka: They have seen me naked ..!! Probably they liked it and continue to stay !! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: oh no...all perverts under one roof! Smita Bernadet: may be all are female lizzz kirty ekka: If they are open for interspecies then they would probably overlook gender issues also Smita Bernadet: ahan kirty ekka: You don't have lizards in your room. Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: none Smita Bernadet: I can't stand them...i chase it away Smita Bernadet: I do admire their designs on skin though Smita Bernadet: some have unique patterns kirty ekka: I hate their skin Smita Bernadet: :- Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Did you go out anywhere? kirty ekka: Yeah am outside now. kirty ekka: Having momos nowa Smita Bernadet: I miss them Smita Bernadet: I eat momos when I go to delhi Smita Bernadet: It's very cheap there... Smita Bernadet: So you must be with your cousin or friends right now. You carry on. kirty ekka: It's ok. Smita Bernadet: when will you return home? kirty ekka: Late Smita Bernadet: so we won't be able to chat properly tonight...it must be difficult for you to concentrate on me kirty ekka: Did You did not go out today ?? Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: I was busy studying, eating n sleeping Smita Bernadet: any movie plans tonight? kirty ekka: No, have no movie Plans Smita Bernadet: are you controlling your smoking? Smita Bernadet: Do you like sweets? or you like spicy ones? kirty ekka: Yeah I am controlling smoking. Smita Bernadet: Do you like sweets? or you like spicy ones? kirty ekka: I like both of them. Smita Bernadet: what's in main course for dinner apart from momos? Smita Bernadet: Since you are out , I don't want to ask you questions tonight. Smita Bernadet: Do you like attending social gatherings like christmas ge-together, karma, sarhul? likewise? kirty ekka: I had momos and thukpa. Don't know if you know what thukpa is? kirty ekka: Social gathering is good time pass Smita Bernadet: i know wat it is Smita Bernadet: do you have tribal gatherings in bangalore? kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: They are held here. I have not been to any. kirty ekka: I have just started to go to churches a little while ago Smita Bernadet: why? you don't like to socialize? kirty ekka: Not because of that. kirty ekka: I didn't go to churches before kirty ekka: I socialized at pubs and bars. Smita Bernadet: I was the women's president of youth group over here...try going to AG church someday. The songs and worship sessions are too good kirty ekka: AG church, Ranchi ?? kirty ekka: Where is that ?? Smita Bernadet: pubs n bars- so you're still into drinking? no AG churcg bangalore Smita Bernadet: church kirty ekka: I know doranda, gossnrr kirty ekka: No I have changed very much Smita Bernadet: its in Ring Road, Hebbal, Bangalore kirty ekka: I have dropped my drinking ad pub activities to 1/10 kirty ekka: Ok that is very far. kirty ekka: I go to a st Anthony friary church here kirty ekka: I have some friends there so that is where I go Smita Bernadet: one day..not every sunday..i guess they have several services whole week kirty ekka: BTW what does AG stand for?? Smita Bernadet: their service is very good and broadcasted in God TV mostly Smita Bernadet: Assembly of God kirty ekka: Oh I didn't know that. kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: Sash was a easy guess Smita Bernadet: my roommate works in god TV. She took me once to the chennai one and I really liked it. kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: You can attend the english service kirty ekka: I tend to avoid religious people kirty ekka: They scare me ...!!! kirty ekka: With no redemption claims etc. Smita Bernadet: its nothing like that.. Smita Bernadet: chennai's AG church has the best ambiance. I'll take you one day. Smita Bernadet: Dim lights, music and full of praise...it's not like the hindi ones...screaming pastors and all that.. it's kind of soft... kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Ohm kirty ekka: Ohk kirty ekka: Not ohm Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: what are you typing kirty ekka: Oh and ok = ohk Smita Bernadet: okies Smita Bernadet: so...what next? kirty ekka: What next as in ..? Smita Bernadet: you had dinner now whats next? Smita Bernadet: are you going somewhere else or returning home? kirty ekka: Will drop her Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: Her mom is here. So will meet and then go back. Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: so you had a quality time today. kirty ekka: When is your church tomorrow kirty ekka: What church do you go to?? Smita Bernadet: I go to both roman catholic and sometimes to that AG church. AG one is far and St. Joseph's is walkable. So, tomoro I'll go to the nearby one- joseph's Smita Bernadet: it's at 9 a.m Smita Bernadet: Do you play billiards? Smita Bernadet: bowling? Smita Bernadet: chess? kirty ekka: Yeah am average good in that. Smita Bernadet: all of them? kirty ekka: That is above average in those two kirty ekka: Bowling and chess Smita Bernadet: what else do you enjoy playing? kirty ekka: Badminton. Smita Bernadet: cool...were you a champion in school? kirty ekka: Naaah I was super bad kirty ekka: I was hockey captain at IIT Smita Bernadet: that's good to know. Have you tried golf? kirty ekka: Hahah kirty ekka: I am too poor for that game Smita Bernadet: it's a boring one too kirty ekka: What did you eat now Smita Bernadet: i had egg rice Smita Bernadet: I don't eat too much, just enough because being in hostel I've lost my appetite kirty ekka: Do you have an infatuation for heels kirty ekka: I saw you on large ones Smita Bernadet: it's not infatuation. I like them a lot because they give a smart look and makes one look really hot. Besides, I can even use it for self-defense. Smita Bernadet: well, it feels good and confident in them. kirty ekka: Haha self defense kirty ekka: Like the goons are going to sit and wait for you to remove your shoe and hit them with it. Smita Bernadet: yes, they are very strong, I can poke anybody's eyes Smita Bernadet: well you never know, i am capable of doing that. Smita Bernadet: stop underestimating me. kirty ekka: Using Your hairpin would be a faster move Smita Bernadet: naa it may bend or slip from hand...I can make a hole in their skull with my heels kirty ekka: Nice kirty ekka: You're a sadist. Smita Bernadet: come on, I'm not a sadist. Smita Bernadet: It's for self defense and not fun.. Smita Bernadet: sadist is different term kirty ekka: Yeah I know. Smita Bernadet: so, reached home? Mr. hulk kirty ekka: Yeah at home now. Smita Bernadet: hmmm on time. good boy Smita Bernadet: say something kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: peace be with you too Smita Bernadet: why that glass shield on your face? Did you think I will hit you with my heels? kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: When we meet wear flats only kirty ekka: And a sareee. Smita Bernadet: sari....why? kirty ekka: kirty ekka: So that you can't chase me Smita Bernadet: really... Smita Bernadet: Why would I want to chase u? kirty ekka: To puncture my brain Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: wear your helmet then Smita Bernadet: did you get scared of my pink heels? besides I wear them only when traveling in car. Normally I wear heels of lesser height than the one you saw. kirty ekka: no i like girls on heels  Smita Bernadet: I wear flats only for running behind the train and office use. Smita Bernadet: please have mercy on me, don't ask me to wear sari on that day. I won't be comfortable. I can wear it only for occasions. kirty ekka: i was joking yaar Smita Bernadet: haah.. Smita Bernadet: wat a relief Smita Bernadet: you must be tired kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: i dozed off a lot in the afternoon  Smita Bernadet: why didn't you go to gym last week? kirty ekka: did not feel well physically  kirty ekka: leaving smoking suddenly causes digestion problems  Smita Bernadet: Oh then isn't there any solution? kirty ekka: drinking lots of water  Smita Bernadet: what else Smita Bernadet: water will heal it? Smita Bernadet: You find my poems funny, right? kirty ekka: no  Smita Bernadet: would you like another movie? kirty ekka: which one Smita Bernadet: that I won't tell Smita Bernadet: I'll just send over kirty ekka: your poems have a sad theme Smita Bernadet: yup, I write only when I'm sad Smita Bernadet: do you have a tattoo on your body? kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: do you have  Smita Bernadet: nope kirty ekka: do you want one Smita Bernadet: but I would like to for time being.. Smita Bernadet: yes I want atleast for  year. Smita Bernadet: After all our tribal ancestors crafted it. kirty ekka: they did it on the knuckles Smita Bernadet: they did everywhere kirty ekka: maybe i noted the ones only on the hands kirty ekka: i haven't seem anyone with one on their biceps Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: they did Smita Bernadet: I got one fake tattoo at iit fest Smita Bernadet: it was done with water paint kirty ekka: i think i saw that  kirty ekka: on the neck ?? Smita Bernadet: it was a butterfly Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: She made it too big..i wanted a small one. kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: I have a question kirty ekka: what is that ?? Smita Bernadet: Will you force me to do something that I don't want to do? and I want to do it later may be.. Smita Bernadet: in general.. kirty ekka: very vague question  kirty ekka: what is the activity? Smita Bernadet: come on Smita Bernadet: can be anything kirty ekka: like Smita Bernadet: going out with you kirty ekka: that too can be of different types kirty ekka: family function...etx. kirty ekka: no i wont be forceful  Smita Bernadet: wat about cleaning? kirty ekka: if you wont come along then i would either not go or just go myself kirty ekka: no not for cleaning  kirty ekka: if you dont like it ...  kirty ekka: dont do it  Smita Bernadet: i like it kirty ekka: probably i would have to do it  Smita Bernadet: but on my own time kirty ekka: or hire a maid and work with ther  kirty ekka: work with her  Smita Bernadet: I will help u out...I won't let you do it alone! Smita Bernadet: I don't want to keep maids Smita Bernadet: unless it's an emergency Smita Bernadet: Okay, suppose you want me to go for some office  function with you , whereas I need to visit an orphanage because they have an important activity, what will you do? Smita Bernadet: . kirty ekka: both need to do what is on their priority  Smita Bernadet: so you'll let me go to orphanage and you'll yourself attend that function? Smita Bernadet: I was thinking of attending both...1st half and 2nd half. kirty ekka: you are free to attend what interests you  Smita Bernadet: you could come to mine and I can come to yours. kirty ekka: yes that can happen kirty ekka: depends upon how important being there is both  kirty ekka: if one can't skip their function then there would be no alternate option Smita Bernadet: okay that's settled Smita Bernadet: It's so tough , how did our parents manage.. Smita Bernadet: Marrying and spending whole life together...it's so kirty ekka: i think they are great people... Smita Bernadet: whole life with same person!!!! Smita Bernadet: sounds bit boring  to me kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: what if we get bored of each other? kirty ekka: work harder Smita Bernadet: it can happen right? must have happened to our parents too kirty ekka: perhaps that is when then they fought  Smita Bernadet: I want to fall in love with my hubby everyday kirty ekka: yaah that is what the world wants with their spouse  Smita Bernadet: can be possible if we are in fellowship with god. I have a spiritual solution for this. I want to be that type of wife who can do that. Smita Bernadet: but the effort should be from both sides kirty ekka: yes  Smita Bernadet: When were you born Mr.? kirty ekka: june, 84 Smita Bernadet: right so do you even have a date? kirty ekka: 22 Smita Bernadet: I will have to put an alarm coz I can't remember dates and numbers. I don't even remember my parent's and sibling's kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: thanks in advance Smita Bernadet: sometimes i think that i have a numerical disorder! Smita Bernadet: It happens only with numbers kirty ekka: pk kirty ekka: 31st march - is that yours Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: how did you spy? kirty ekka: i have my own tricks  Smita Bernadet: Impressive Smita Bernadet: do you know nagpuri language? kirty ekka: sadiri  kirty ekka: 5/10 kirty ekka: people in my village make fun of me there  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: What other languages can you speak / understand? kirty ekka: you make lots of faces  kirty ekka: https://plus.google.com/u/0/+SmitaBernadetHosanaa/posts/NkvkG3PFiR7?pid=6024034005566854322&oid=104118269115803716833 Smita Bernadet: come on Smita Bernadet: stop scanning my pics kirty ekka: don't you get irritated ...wearing a ring.. kirty ekka: i just can't wear anything other than clothes  Smita Bernadet: I have lots and keep changing Smita Bernadet: I love accessories kirty ekka: is a blue one your favourite Smita Bernadet: no my favourite color is purple kirty ekka: ooh ok  kirty ekka: i was talking about the blue ring  Smita Bernadet: hey that pic you're talking about is damn funny...picasa automatically made it into animation Smita Bernadet: blue ring is not my favorite ring...It will be my wedding ring.. kirty ekka: which means Smita Bernadet: which means I'll buy a diamond one for myself kirty ekka: oh ok  Smita Bernadet: kidding Smita Bernadet: All my funky rings are for time being ..I won't regret if I lost them but my wedding ring will be my favorite one- blessed my God. Smita Bernadet: by God kirty ekka: you are super romantic  Smita Bernadet: how come romance is related to a ring! Smita Bernadet: is that sarcasm? again? kirty ekka: no this is not  kirty ekka: your statement on the wedding ring being the favorite one  kirty ekka: i was wondering how it would sound if you spoke the same words Smita Bernadet: I don't know myself either kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: what's your favorite color? kirty ekka: maybe purple/ lavender  Smita Bernadet: you too? Smita Bernadet: i thought it was blue kirty ekka: purple was the color of the rich during ancient times  Smita Bernadet: oh really, that's a royal choice! kirty ekka: yeah Smita Bernadet: So would you color your car as purple? kirty ekka: perhaps not  kirty ekka: not on a car Smita Bernadet: then? kirty ekka: red...black...white...grey... kirty ekka: depends on the car Smita Bernadet: we have a pink car! Smita Bernadet: my sister made that choice Smita Bernadet: aur bechare dad..drives it everywhere kirty ekka: tsk tsk kirty ekka: my sympathies..  Smita Bernadet: wats this tsk? kirty ekka: https://www.google.co.in/search?q=tsk+tsk&oq=tsk+tsk+&aqs=chrome..69i57.1735j0j7&sourceid=chrome&es_sm=93&ie=UTF-8 kirty ekka: if he takes that car to a LGBT club...they would probably give him parking  reserved for VIPs Smita Bernadet: your making me click .... yes I'll let my dad know, already he gets VIP privileges Smita Bernadet: so tell me more about yourself kirty ekka: hmm  kirty ekka: latest is the fact that i socialize less for the past one year  Smita Bernadet: any particular reason? kirty ekka: i think i did not want it  kirty ekka: mostly because of that  Smita Bernadet: and will continue to not socialize? kirty ekka: no... kirty ekka: things will change..  Smita Bernadet: would you like a TV in your bedroom? kirty ekka: i am a internet guy kirty ekka: if that is a smart TV then yes Smita Bernadet: laptop hanging on bedroom wall kirty ekka: haha..that is imaginative... kirty ekka: smart tvs are real cool...  Smita Bernadet: do you crack jokes often or only when required? Can make people around you happy? Or you are a serious person who speaks only when needed? kirty ekka: i think i joke everywhere  kirty ekka: even at meetings... Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the other’s family, are we prepared to move?... kirty ekka: if we are in love...we will need to sort it out Smita Bernadet: What if I have to stay away from you for few months..will you agree ? kirty ekka: yes... Smita Bernadet: Do you dance? kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: what type of dance? kirty ekka: nagin,  kirty ekka: adivasi Smita Bernadet: interesting kirty ekka: shaadi dance Smita Bernadet: yes i got it Smita Bernadet: so how many languages you said you could speak? kirty ekka: hindi, english, nepali, sadiri Smita Bernadet: kannad? kirty ekka: 1,2,3,4...i dont know....ok....go straight...dog...  Smita Bernadet: haah kirty ekka: have a very limited vocabulary  Smita Bernadet: nice to know kirty ekka: how well do you know tamil  kirty ekka: you have lots of tamil friens Smita Bernadet: I can speak tamil enough to express myself..not much. We speak English mostly. Smita Bernadet: Hindi very few. Moreover my hindi is very poor kirty ekka: what !!! hindi is bad!! Smita Bernadet: I was born with bengali on my tongue, then it shifted to marathi and then only i switched to hindi. I used to fail in hindi till 10th STD. Smita Bernadet: I scored highest in marathi... kirty ekka: oh  Smita Bernadet: Today I have forgotten bengali n marathi... kirty ekka: surprising  kirty ekka: is your mom a bong  Smita Bernadet: yes that's why I never read hind bible on alter during mass Smita Bernadet: no nothing like that...My school had no hindi when I joined. Smita Bernadet: Kolkata has only english n bengali that time in my class atleast kirty ekka: oh yes kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: mom is soreng... Smita Bernadet: kharia Smita Bernadet: dad is oraon kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: I can't write hindi properly Smita Bernadet: I can read though Smita Bernadet: speak also Smita Bernadet: I'm trying to improve on it kirty ekka: ok... kirty ekka: how do you manage at xaviers Smita Bernadet: hindi and english...wasn't that bad. Smita Bernadet: Hindi I couldn't score much kirty ekka: what was your subject kirty ekka: arts?? Smita Bernadet: I make a lot of spelling mistakes Smita Bernadet: nope it was botany Smita Bernadet: honors kirty ekka: ohk kirty ekka: i missed that Smita Bernadet: I'm planning to learn spanish Smita Bernadet: someday... kirty ekka: you can begin anyday  Smita Bernadet: I know kirty ekka: there are free courses Smita Bernadet: where? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: google it  Smita Bernadet: aaah right Smita Bernadet: My English isn't that great like yours. I speak a normal English.. kirty ekka: my english is average yaar Smita Bernadet: You must be into lot of novels... kirty ekka: 5/10 Smita Bernadet: Well it's higher than mine I feel Smita Bernadet: You like reading ? kirty ekka: i read news only  kirty ekka: just a week ago i bought a Paulo Coelho.. kirty ekka: and this was because i started on the book before and then lost the book.  Smita Bernadet: Please don't ever read fifty shades of grey..It's against christian values...It's so evil...is that the alchemist you're talking about? kirty ekka: noBrida kirty ekka: Brida Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: haha... Smita Bernadet: why you laughed? kirty ekka: now you have opened my eyes about 50 shades of grey  kirty ekka: now  i want to know the contents of that book  Smita Bernadet: please...it just teaches to torture others and rape...its equal to watching porn..please don't read it kirty ekka: ...i have watched porn..it did not shape my life though Smita Bernadet: don't Smita Bernadet: don't read it or watch it Smita Bernadet: the author seems possessed by some demon kirty ekka: i think it's just sex  kirty ekka: that they are talking about  Smita Bernadet: It's for those who are mentally sadic Smita Bernadet: it's torture Smita Bernadet: and gives ideas about how to torture..utter nonsense! Smita Bernadet: christians should avoid it...it's not right way of loving kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: boss Smita Bernadet: yes kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: what is Brida about? kirty ekka: about a girl who wants to learn magic from a highly revered teacher  Smita Bernadet: how fast can you finish that book? kirty ekka: can finish it in a day kirty ekka: but don't want that  Smita Bernadet: you and my roommate are alike! kirty ekka: does she not ask you as to why you are awake at nights nowadays Smita Bernadet: nope, she knows about you kirty ekka: ooh  Smita Bernadet: she was praying that I get somebody while I was planning to join this website.....she knows about you kirty ekka: hmmm.... Smita Bernadet: I never used to pray about that but she used to..for me Smita Bernadet: she had made a deal with god ..and look..you are here...as if you dropped from heaven Smita Bernadet: I still don't know whether you are the one or not...but as I told you, I've given all the control to god. kirty ekka: that would be a surpise to me..i'm not religious so god choosing me would be an out-of-the world thing Smita Bernadet: your thinking is limited..see god choses people for a reason. Being with that person will bring you closer to him or may heal your life. kirty ekka: can be  kirty ekka: so what sign will you get to know if it is me  Smita Bernadet: he can give anybody but there's always a reason, and we should just trust him kirty ekka: i was into deciphering signs, a long time ago, and i did get one for what i wanted  kirty ekka: maybe you should ask for one  Smita Bernadet: he always gives me...I don't have to ask. Sometimes he just speaks... Smita Bernadet: in subconscious Smita Bernadet: I can't explain kirty ekka: so till now did you get any regarding me? Smita Bernadet: yes i did..a lot kirty ekka: i am surprised again  Smita Bernadet: he only told me to click on your profile and read it..i wasn't about to coz your pic was not clear Smita Bernadet: even though I didn't want to continue after knowing that you smoke n drink, he told me to give you a chance Smita Bernadet: And still like a stubborn kid I didn't want to continue ..I wasn't checking your messages for 3 days thinking that I have denied and that must be our last. but god kept poking in my mind and asked to check hangouts on 3rd day...there was your message.. your message melted my heart. On hearing that you are willing to quit all that , God told me continue. Smita Bernadet: good things suddenly started happening around me and all that was a sign Smita Bernadet: I was confirmed that I won't contact you ever again and so I deleted your no. but oh GOD! he was constantly irritating (in lab i was not able to work..you were on my mind) me to check out hangouts..that was when I replied you after 3 days that I would love to be your friend. Smita Bernadet: I told you, if god wants then he will make it happen. kirty ekka: i would be surprised...  Smita Bernadet: you won't fathom it kirty ekka: not like that... Smita Bernadet: I rejected so many..everyday I got over 10 invites...you're the 1st to call Smita Bernadet: what were you thinking when you decided to call? Smita Bernadet: who put that idea in your head? Smita Bernadet: it was god... Smita Bernadet: you can deny it.. Smita Bernadet: but truth can't change.. kirty ekka: you getting 10 invites is believable...but then God vouching for me is hard for me to believe..  kirty ekka: well then....let me get into the matter... Smita Bernadet: may be for good or bad..i don't know...but we need to trust him kirty ekka: maybe i need to understand if it is what you are saying... kirty ekka: So, your questions that you ask...have you got different answers from your earlier companions  kirty ekka: did you agree with them ? Smita Bernadet: that's my story...now i don't know who gave you that idea to call. if you wouldn't had then I would had never contacted you because you did not match my preferences. kirty ekka: i don't think anyone else would perhaps answer them worse than i have... you could have done better but definitely not worse than mine  kirty ekka: sorry they could have done better but not worse  Smita Bernadet: yes, earlier I was not a believer,..I had no relationship with god. I never used to listen or talk to him. I was a catholic for name sake. I never used to pray, I had no faith. I changed only a year back. I became a believer.. kirty ekka: in all of your Q&As Smita Bernadet: I did not know Jesus untill a year back when he pulled me out of suicide. I am in love with him now. I see this world in a different way today. I've learnt to surrender my choices and desires to him. I've given my life's control to him. I wasn't like this before. I got my calling a year back only. And I changed myself. I started obeying him even when I didn't want to. Smita Bernadet: If you feel this talk is a crap then I have nothing to convince you. kirty ekka: no i'm not saying this is crap Smita Bernadet: I never asked any of these questions to any one before. You're the first person after I received the Lord. kirty ekka: i meant that i'm baffled  kirty ekka: i would need a soul searching too then  Smita Bernadet: that time will come only when god wants. You don't need to seek him, he will reach out to you, sometimes through people and circumstances around you. You can hear him only in silence..only if you want to. kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: i will find the answer too Smita Bernadet: so...we spoke about God today. It will make him so happy kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: you'll find most of them in the holy book. Smita Bernadet: My roommate has a testimony. kirty ekka: on what ? Smita Bernadet: I'll share with you some other time. kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: on god changing her life..reaching out to her...i have many of my own... Smita Bernadet: I was arguing with god that Kirty is not the type I want, why are you asking me to continue. But then I had to trust him completely. Over days after talking to you I found out that you're better than what I had always wanted for myself. And I still don't know what's going to happen but I need to trust god. Smita Bernadet: are you even awake? kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: will you talk something? Smita Bernadet: instead of just -yes-mo-ok Smita Bernadet: no Smita Bernadet: see God never forces us to do something we don't want to do. He has given us a free will. He will just tell you that this is right n that is wrong. Rest is our choice. Smita Bernadet: i could had still rebelled against him but I chose to talk to you inspite of all my desires. And I like you. kirty ekka: when i read about you...i was highly impressed.. ..there were many facets about you that was strong, bold and superb... but, then i tried to ignore you but, and could not....and then ended up calling you up and breaking your sleep  Smita Bernadet: tomorrow even if you reject me , I won't be angry..may be a bit hurt but then not sad.. I have learnt to endure. When god closes one door, he always opens another. We just need to see through our spiritual eyes... kirty ekka: you have shaken me Bernadet !! Smita Bernadet: is that a good thing? kirty ekka: i hope you are not a SIRI app  Smita Bernadet: i'm not Kirty..I am not Siri... Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Will that app talk about god that way? never..i bet kirty ekka: i'm suddenly reminiscing  Smita Bernadet: i don't own a smart phone....it's a basic phone...It's not siri...okay kirty ekka: i meant you are that App Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: its hilarious..stop saying that Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: So, how many times have i offended you till now  Smita Bernadet: only once by calling...but then that was supposed to happen and you couldn't had avoided it.. kirty ekka: And, i can't believe you said God that you don't want Kirty !! Smita Bernadet: yes i said that because of your smoking n drinking Smita Bernadet: I said I don't want kirty Smita Bernadet: i said why not some taller and non smoker guy who sings gospel songs. And you know what god said? he said - NO, this is what you get. kirty ekka: haha... Smita Bernadet: He has a reason.. kirty ekka: maybe you got high marks in your devotion Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: so you got a challenging task  Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: i believe that god will never give you something which you cannot handle.. kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: so are you still vibrating? Smita Bernadet: i mean are you still shaken? Smita Bernadet: can ask you something? kirty ekka: ask  kirty ekka: ?? Smita Bernadet: Inspite of my denial to continue further after giving the reason that I didn't want a smoker n drinker- Why did you decide to quit all this for life time? Was it worth doing for you? You clearly knew that you would get side affects and it's a tough choice. Then why did you decide to quit it for a girl whom you don't even know.. Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: i thought so many random thoughts that day kirty ekka: one line of thought went like this..It said 'ok, this is it'...and i thought to move on.. because this is what i expected to happen at these sites.... kirty ekka: maybe 3-5 secs later another thought hit me... which said 'quit smoking'....i grumbled but then i said why not because, i didn't dream to be smoking all my life. that is not what i had in plan...so, i thought to quit smoking and then contact you again..... I had a strong feeling for you from the start....every bright attribute i though of you had it... i could not shake it off  kirty ekka: ok, my parsing is not proper in the above statement...you would not get it in the first go  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: just makes me smile more Smita Bernadet: So, instead of sending me an invite why did you call? kirty ekka: that site has a bad interface..  kirty ekka: other reasons are hard to comprehend  kirty ekka: i don't understand what i was thinking then  kirty ekka: but i felt that there is also a equally likely probaility that  kirty ekka: it could be the end there itself kirty ekka: also, the words you chose to write led me to do these stuffs Smita Bernadet: what words? kirty ekka: the way i interpreted what you wrote  Smita Bernadet: i wrote so much.. kirty ekka: no ... kirty ekka: choice of words matter  Smita Bernadet: I don't know how will we find each other in person but we need to accept each other with all their weakest points and support each other to improve on them. kirty ekka: yes girl  kirty ekka: when are you planning to visit ranchi ? Smita Bernadet: next year Smita Bernadet: do i sound mature enough to be ready to take the responsibility of a marriage? kirty ekka: not during xmas etx.  kirty ekka: yeah.. Smita Bernadet: no..i don't think i will visit in xmass kirty ekka: if you would want to learn everything before marrying the.... kirty ekka: then..... kirty ekka: you would be too old to get married to anybody then  Smita Bernadet: not like that,,,ready mentally Smita Bernadet: or mature enough kirty ekka: what do you think about me ? kirty ekka: do i sound mature to you ?? Smita Bernadet: I don't know...you don't ask me any thing so that I can figure it out...I just know that you will protect me since your a gym hero and I know that you can take care of me.. kirty ekka: haha gym hero... kirty ekka: i better start lifting higher weights now  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Oh don't grow too much muscles..they look yucky to girls actually Smita Bernadet: why don't you ask me questions? kirty ekka: i think i find my answer by the time i frame my questions  Smita Bernadet: great Smita Bernadet: so what did you find ? is it satisfactory? kirty ekka: dangerous  Smita Bernadet: is that bad? kirty ekka: you have too much goodness...many i can't understand  Smita Bernadet: :-) Smita Bernadet: do you get annoyed every time I mention God? kirty ekka: i get annoyed when people use God a lot... but not today  kirty ekka: but there are reasons behind it... kirty ekka: i feel, some use outcomes as a sign that shows them that the outcome is God's will  kirty ekka: like if i wanted to be a physicist but am bad at physics....so, i instead just pray only and do no work...surely i won't succeed in my mission to be good at physics...and later if i accept that i can't be a physicist because i haven't done well in it...PERHAPS it is not in God's plan to make me a physicist ... kirty ekka: Then, this would be a mistake...i find many people like this... kirty ekka: But then, i can be wrong...maybe i saw something else and concluded something else  Smita Bernadet: I gave you a clear answer to this wen you asked me that student teacher question kirty ekka: yeah  kirty ekka: i got it  Smita Bernadet: When It is not for us then we need to accept and move on, we play our part as best we can. I use God for everything, do you think you can get used to it? Smita Bernadet: I see god in everything and I just can't stop mentioning him in every day life. Will you be annoyed every time? kirty ekka: understanding your psyche has mellowed that concern of mine kirty ekka: do you think i can keep you happy? kirty ekka: loved?  kirty ekka: satisfied? Smita Bernadet: i feel so....but will you? kirty ekka: i will aim for that... Smita Bernadet: but all my weird dreams..doesn't it bother you? kirty ekka: i thought about it ...  kirty ekka: i think they are your infatuations Smita Bernadet: i don't kirty ekka: well let time be the judge then  kirty ekka: if not, then it is good for you... Smita Bernadet: see wen u say that..it's an insult for my faith in doing all that kirty ekka: you would achieve something that you want  kirty ekka: i am super sorry again Smita Bernadet: I'm not saying that I will be able to do all that, but it's not impossible after all kirty ekka: "Impossible is Nothing" -  Aleksey Vayner Smita Bernadet: With a loving and supporting husband and god being on our side, what can you not achieve? One needs to have hope and faith. Hope is asking for rain and faith is carrying the umbrella. kirty ekka: waah  Smita Bernadet: Am I the type of girl you were actually looking for? kirty ekka: No  Smita Bernadet: what type you want? kirty ekka: i would never know the description of a person like you  kirty ekka: where are you ?? Smita Bernadet: i want to share a video with you Smita Bernadet: small rap kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: send it over Smita Bernadet: more like a poem..its my fvorite Smita Bernadet: stay Smita Bernadet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4OK9DmLpCY Smita Bernadet: watch it now Smita Bernadet: u there? kirty ekka: ok i think ive seen it  Smita Bernadet: can you watch it now? kirty ekka: i saw it on your page before Smita Bernadet: wen did u see? Smita Bernadet: did u play it? Smita Bernadet: if not then play it kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: yeh i saw it before  Smita Bernadet: did it make sense to you? or you just watched it.. kirty ekka: agreed to some things  kirty ekka: understanding others  Smita Bernadet: so , what's your plan for tomorrow? kirty ekka: was planning for church  kirty ekka: and then lunch  Smita Bernadet: I find chatting is so much better than phone calls...that's a wonderful plan. I will go to church, clean my room and go out for shopping some edibles. Smita Bernadet: I have a sad question for you, I don't know if it is correct to ask or not but you can chose not to answer...after reading Smita Bernadet: shall I ? kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: Suppose I die, will you remarry? kirty ekka: strange, i was going to ask you something like this kirty ekka: if i die...you can remarry kirty ekka: i don;t know what i will do..  Smita Bernadet: I also wanted to say the same thing that you have to remarry kirty ekka: but, i would want you to move ahead...and not visit my grave or anything like that  Smita Bernadet: If we have a kid, then it's compulsory for you to get remarried ...to the hell with the society..I want you to move on too kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: remarrying wont be a priority then perhaps  Smita Bernadet: no no....it's for the kid and you can't be alone like that Smita Bernadet: My friend, she recently got her father remarried prior her own marriage. She is a tribal too. kirty ekka: that is cool  Smita Bernadet: people opposed but she didn't care kirty ekka: yeah who cares about society Smita Bernadet: now everyone is happy in her family kirty ekka: i don;t think i have been helped once by it  kirty ekka: ok yeah maybe sometimes  kirty ekka: ok leave this chain of thoughts then  Smita Bernadet: okay.. Smita Bernadet: What if I turn out to be sterile? will you dump me? kirty ekka: No... kirty ekka: hahahah kirty ekka: i am laughing a lot but  Smita Bernadet: ur dead...just answer n stop laughing kirty ekka: i was just lazying...but this question woke me up Smita Bernadet: okay then tell me kirty ekka: what >>> Smita Bernadet: what if I can't give u children? kirty ekka: it's ok..  kirty ekka: you are cute enough ....i will have only one baby then  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: right...papa Smita Bernadet: can I adopt? kirty ekka: go bonkers  kirty ekka: not the anjelina jolie scale but !!! Smita Bernadet: off course Smita Bernadet: not Smita Bernadet: thanx Smita Bernadet: will you really be this same later? kirty ekka: no... kirty ekka: after marrying i will grow old...i just can't help it !! Smita Bernadet: i meant your thoughts kirty ekka: yes  Smita Bernadet: all what you are saying here...will it be the same? kirty ekka: yes,  kirty ekka: you can print them, archive them and store it in a room  Smita Bernadet: i would love to do that and read them over n over again when your offline kirty ekka: kirty ekka: make 2 copies  Smita Bernadet: 1 for u? kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: why are you so good? and sometimes adorable kirty ekka: probably its nothing about me and all about you..  Smita Bernadet: you do know to melt my heart...where do you get all these words from? kirty ekka: again its you Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: should we depart now? kirty ekka: ahhw are you sleepy  Smita Bernadet: no but need to get up for church... kirty ekka: yeah, i know that  Smita Bernadet: what to do...time ticks off Smita Bernadet: I still can't believe that I found someone like you...I really wish that you're just as adorable and real as you are online kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: thanks  kirty ekka: you are doing your magic on me  Smita Bernadet: will you play the guitar for me  if we meet at bangalore? kirty ekka: no problem  kirty ekka: which songs do you want 2 hear Smita Bernadet: that could be a surprise for me...you get to chose kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: okay then, I'll go to bed kirty ekka: why are you sweet to me  Smita Bernadet: well, I guess it's god's love that radiates through me.. you deserve to be loved kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Ok...Bernadet...sleep well  kirty ekka: you have around 4 more hours Smita Bernadet: you too, sleep well Kirty Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: bye kirty ekka: Bye sweet one  Smita Bernadet: bye hero kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Is your fb pics open to public or some are hidden? kirty ekka: everything is open to public  Smita Bernadet: have u finished your dinner? kirty ekka: no i ve had a heavy lunch and breakfast kirty ekka: what about you  Smita Bernadet: so how was your day? I will eat later.. kirty ekka: so i am thinking to have something more or not  Smita Bernadet: how was church today? kirty ekka: my day was slow and lazy  kirty ekka: church was good  kirty ekka: how was yours? kirty ekka: did you manage to attend the church in time  Smita Bernadet: was good..we had onam here..yup i got up in time Smita Bernadet: post church I slept again kirty ekka: ok   Smita Bernadet: hows the weather? kirty ekka: morning was hot and now its raining  Smita Bernadet: mast kirty ekka: i was stuck at my cousin's place for over 3 hours...i decided to get wet and then drive back home  kirty ekka: and its still pouring now  Smita Bernadet: its always like that in your place..I've witnessed it whenever I visit kirty ekka: how was your church  kirty ekka: felt good today ?? Smita Bernadet: church was good. English + Malyalam mixed. Felt so good. kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: tell me more kirty ekka: more about what  Smita Bernadet: you Smita Bernadet: my cousin said hi to you kirty ekka: A hi back to her Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: what did you eat so heavy? kirty ekka: so the church where i go, we have food stalls outside. kirty ekka: and they serve beef and chicken there, so i had beef and chicken burgers there kirty ekka: with my friends.. Smita Bernadet: gluttony is a sin did you know? kirty ekka: then we all went to have some tea at Koramangala..  Smita Bernadet: I've been there kirty ekka: after that we had planned for afternoon dinner at Nagarjuna...so i had a meal there which is super heavy  Smita Bernadet: good appetite kirty ekka: i went to nagajuna with my cousins and an aunt  Smita Bernadet: must had been fun. I don't eat much but enough for the moment. kirty ekka: and then i was dozing off at the cousin's place, thinking to be back by 6/7 kirty ekka: but then the sky poured ....and is still pouring  Smita Bernadet: I had new sets of questions... yes..i can hear that it's still pouring Smita Bernadet: you should try having some hot soup..in this weather kirty ekka: aaaha kirty ekka: nice idea Smita Bernadet: did u miss me? Smita Bernadet: i guess thats a no..okay kirty ekka: kirty ekka: what do you think Smita Bernadet: i shouldn't had asked kirty ekka: haaha kirty ekka: its quite obvious now...  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: ready for Q&A session? kirty ekka: wait... kirty ekka: tell me about your day  Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: what happened today? Smita Bernadet: well, nothing much. We had onam celebration at church. They sang mallyalam songs and was good. They served traditional sweets after the service. I met knew people and then returned back to my cozy bed. I slept for an hour by the time lunch was ready. I saw a movie- new hope- and studied a bit. Slept off again in the evening. That's all. I couldn't cook paneer today as my roommate had office today also. May be tomorrow I can cook. I'm planning to go shopping kal. kirty ekka: ooh  Smita Bernadet: she bought chicken fried rice so I thought cooking paneer would be wasteful and extra kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: wanna sleep early tonight? Smita Bernadet: do you know why I prefer chat over telephonic calls? guess kirty ekka: you have a bad connection  Smita Bernadet: i agree kirty ekka: some problem with your phone  Smita Bernadet: I'm using data card kirty ekka: you don't want your room mate to over hear Smita Bernadet: nope..that's a very funny answer..i have a big terrace..i can always go out..that's not the reason Smita Bernadet: guess hard..i told you yesterday Smita Bernadet: you're smart to guess.. Smita Bernadet: use your random thoughts kirty ekka: hmm Smita Bernadet: i think the net connection has problem from your end due to rain Smita Bernadet: your reply is too slow..but i have patience kirty ekka: no its not the net connection  kirty ekka: i was thinking hard  kirty ekka: what it may be  Smita Bernadet: i was chatting to canada few minutes back n it was pretty fast... kirty ekka: you had something about it Smita Bernadet: fine..the reason is Smita Bernadet: because I can always scroll back and read our conversation when you're offline. It makes me smile.I can keep these moments forever.. kirty ekka: oooh....haha... kirty ekka: i was scrolling through our chats to find out the answer  Smita Bernadet: i think I am more romantic than you kirty ekka: maybe or maybe not  Smita Bernadet: seems like Smita Bernadet: but as you say Smita Bernadet: time will tell Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: so my questions are waiting Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: you there? kirty ekka: tell me Smita Bernadet: suppose my music is going good and my album is out, I start earning more than you and people start liking me. Will ego come in your way? Will you behave irrationally and feel inferiority complex? kirty ekka: perhaps i will be proud of you Smita Bernadet: or will you be proud instead? Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: you know that I have my album to make. You know that I'll be acting in my video. Will it bother you? I don't want to take any model for it and pay extra when I myself can do it. Perhaps you too can act with me ?So, will your family like me acting and all that? Will you allow me? kirty ekka: i will support you  kirty ekka: be your fan kirty ekka: try to know enough about what you do so perhaps i can add some pointers for you Smita Bernadet: thanx... Smita Bernadet: you are not giving me any reason to not like you kirty ekka: ok...wait  kirty ekka: i dont think i will pull down my spouse  Smita Bernadet: now i have started to wonder- you're not SIRI right? kirty ekka: you're stealing my comments girls  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: a strange thought hit me now...  Smita Bernadet: okay lets fix a proper time so that we can chat everyday. What about 10 pm?  what thought? kirty ekka: well 10 is finr  Smita Bernadet: my roommate keeps commenting that I smile a lot these days Smita Bernadet: the reason being you kirty ekka: wow good to know that  kirty ekka: keep smiling... kirty ekka: that's the way to be  Smita Bernadet: and I sing a lot too...she was asking that what has got into me lately kirty ekka: well, i hope i don't disappoint you!! Smita Bernadet: better not kirty ekka: i was thinking today that to keep you happy is a real big task for me  Smita Bernadet: no..it's okay even if you would. I will understand and be quiet Smita Bernadet: It's has to be a team effort, even I have to keep you happy kirty ekka: i have knowingly stayed away seers and saints  kirty ekka: and to be actually be interested in one - that's irony in my life Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: sorry to put you into such a challenging position but I already warned everybody in my profile so that they get and idea of what type I am Smita Bernadet: Do you think you can do this? kirty ekka: this is among one of the reasons among several others that caused me to reach out Smita Bernadet:  I want to support you in whatever you decide to do in your life. Be it your 6 packs or your dreams. I want you to make it happen. I don't want you to stop going to gym infact i would like to join you too . Don't stop singing and playing guitar. Don't stop your outdoor vacations. Be the same as you are. kirty ekka:   kirty ekka: i would do the same for you too..you should reach out for your dreams...and know that i would be there if you would need me  Smita Bernadet: will you help me in the kitchen coz I'm not as great as your mum... kirty ekka: oh yes kirty ekka: my dad helps my mom  kirty ekka: the legacy would continue  Smita Bernadet: my dad too Smita Bernadet: I'm fond of gardening... kirty ekka: yeah don't stop  Smita Bernadet: can I do some creative designs on our house wall? Smita Bernadet: or you like empty walls? kirty ekka: i would not stop you on these  kirty ekka: that would be cool actually  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: what are your views on divorce? Smita Bernadet: just wanted to know Smita Bernadet: I don't want any...bible says it's a sin kirty ekka: i would not want to haveone  Smita Bernadet: so do you think i can keep you happy? can i take care of you? kirty ekka: if you would strive as hard as i would for you...we would be the happiest couple in the world...that is all i can say  Smita Bernadet: I will give my best kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: my question.. Smita Bernadet: yup kirty ekka: regarding smoking and drinking  kirty ekka: i would definitely not be taking up smoking again... kirty ekka: but, i think i may drink once in a while...  kirty ekka: so what do you expect from me regarding drinking...  kirty ekka: a total abstention or you would be ok with a few drinks???  Smita Bernadet: well once in a while is fine but doesn't mean every occasion (twice a week or every weekend). And I don't want you to get drunk and come home. Shout or beat up my kids. You'll have to inform me prior taking them and don't drive if drunk. If you can do this much then it would be very cooperative of you. kirty ekka: twice a week/ weekly is too frequent in my definition  Smita Bernadet: okay...i haven't tried any so i don't know the definition! kirty ekka: i was thinking in the line of once in several months or at some occasion  Smita Bernadet: oh you can do it baby kirty ekka: i have done it  Smita Bernadet: yes you can enjoy your drinks as long you stay sensible later :-) kirty ekka: ok...  kirty ekka: then there is no issue on the subject Smita Bernadet: can i have one of these to share with my daughter? I've always wanted to have matching ones http://i00.i.aliimg.com/wsphoto/v1/2024866180_1/Free-Custom-made-2-Pieces-199USD-Tulle-Long-Pearls-Champagne-Fashion-Family-Mother-Daughter-Dresses-Matching.jpg kirty ekka: wow  kirty ekka: your choice yaar kirty ekka: but i hope it's not an evening dress !!! Smita Bernadet: seriously? is that a yes!!! Smita Bernadet: don't worry, I won't wear too revealing ones.. kirty ekka: haaha  Smita Bernadet: I like gowns and maxi wears kirty ekka: I'm not worried  Smita Bernadet: any other questions? kirty ekka: i think most of our questions would be answered the day we meet  Smita Bernadet: hmm..I'm scared to fail Smita Bernadet: I think that you won't like me kirty ekka: success and failure will be ours  Smita Bernadet: can I brush and return? Smita Bernadet: i need to go brush Smita Bernadet: meanwhile check this out...for me n my baby.. http://www.dhresource.com/0x0/f2/albu/g3/M00/5F/60/rBVaHFRbEwmALS1cAAF28Pqtz58842.jpg Smita Bernadet: i'm back kirty ekka: what ....so fast Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: I'm an expert Smita Bernadet: dentist taught me how to do it kirty ekka: ok i will learn it from you then Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I'll take you to dentist..I go every year Smita Bernadet: it's a good thing Smita Bernadet: moreover you are more health conscience than me kirty ekka: hmm yes Smita Bernadet: ok tell me 5 things you cannot travel/stay without ? kirty ekka: water..food...soap....clothes..shlter kirty ekka: roti..kapda...makaan... Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: okay i'll tell you few weird things about myself. ready? may sound weird..don't know Smita Bernadet: I hug my bible and sleep. Smita Bernadet: I cannot bear sunlight. I use umbrella even for a short distance. Even if the day is shady...I use it to shield me off from tan. Smita Bernadet: I cannot stay without a lip balm or my lipstick. I never travel without my hair dryer. Smita Bernadet: I often forget my towel while going for bath. Smita Bernadet: I can't remember any dates and birth-dates..of anything related to numbers kirty ekka: your phone number ?? Smita Bernadet: let me check kirty ekka: do you remember that  Smita Bernadet: i think it's 9840891903 the other one i don't Smita Bernadet: i'm scared of fishes and birds...i can admire them but can't touch...or stay close to them Smita Bernadet: even small ones Smita Bernadet: even dead ones kirty ekka: so you don't eat chicken!! kirty ekka: and fish  Smita Bernadet: I drink milk and tea or coffee only after cooling them. Smita Bernadet: I eat  chicken and fish but when mum makes me wash them then that day I don't eat kirty ekka: why, you don't wash properly? kirty ekka: i was wondering what language do you use for conversation at your home  Smita Bernadet: I avoid cold edibles like drinks and ice cream because I easily get chronic cough and my singing activity gets hampered. It's not about washing..it's the sight of raw meat which I hate. Feels like I'm some monster. Smita Bernadet: I can wash and cook but will not eat. If someone else washes it then I can cook and eat. Smita Bernadet: I use hindi language at home. I don't know any other tribal ones. kirty ekka: and your hindi is bad kirty ekka: so how does things roll at your place Smita Bernadet: i can speak but can't read or write very properly Smita Bernadet: I have been trying to improve on it over these years..but not writing kirty ekka: ok.. Smita Bernadet: come on I ain't that bad neither good..I've improved kirty ekka: i might be bad at reading and writing hindi too....after not doing it for so many years Smita Bernadet: that's the reason I never used to go and read in church. Once they forced me and I was struggling hard. Later I said to myself that only at my wedding I'll have to do that again and never later. kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: ok...one strange analysis for you...  Smita Bernadet: not funny..imagine it will be recorded for life! Smita Bernadet: what? kirty ekka: Since, God is directing everything. And he's the one who led me to call you and you to have a look.  kirty ekka: Even though you did not want a smoking and drinking buddy you got directed to me...  kirty ekka: So, what do you think...did God want me to quit it or did God want you to have a smoking and drinking hubby?? kirty ekka: this is a fun analysis ....don't give a hard thought on it  Smita Bernadet: Look, he does things to make it better . To improve situations and heal relationships. He could had asked me to marry a prostitute so that I can make him quit. He is using me as an instrument. I've always prayed to him to use me for good will. He knew that I would make you do that and I'm positive about it. He won't want me to marry a smoker n drinker so that I too start doing it with him. right? kirty ekka: ok...fine Smita Bernadet: there's always a reason behind his deeds. kirty ekka: like i said don't think hard on it  Smita Bernadet: Besides smoking n drinking is not the only reason . kirty ekka: yeah i know that  kirty ekka: there would definitely be many things Smita Bernadet: See next time i ever see you smoking, I'll go and buy all the brands and put it on our dining table so that both of us including kids can smoke. Is that what you would like our family to be? kirty ekka: hmm  kirty ekka: no babes kirty ekka: chill down now... kirty ekka: !!! kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: kids learn from their parents. I already told you about my research work. I don't want us to suffer. kirty ekka: yes i know that..  Smita Bernadet: I was praying for months and asking god to give me a person who would accept me as I am. May be it wasn't my prayer but your parents prayer that he answered. Even your parents keep praying for you, right? kirty ekka: yes, i considered this possibility too  kirty ekka: you are taking words from my thoughts  Smita Bernadet: do you believe in prayer's power?
kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: well, somebody was praying for you and somebody was praying for me--my roommate as I said kirty ekka: ok..i am getting the connections  kirty ekka: how is your net connection now  Smita Bernadet: Look that doesn't mean that he didn't listen to my prayer. Did you even pray for your soul mate? Smita Bernadet: connection seems fine...why? Smita Bernadet: It's same as everyday but it was highest while chatting with my friend from canada. kirty ekka: i wanted to check how the voice calls on the hangouts work  Smita Bernadet: oh that won't work kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: why  Smita Bernadet: I don't have mike kirty ekka: oh... kirty ekka: are you on a desktop Smita Bernadet: are you tired of typing? kirty ekka: no Smita Bernadet: laptop kirty ekka: i have chatted with you, for days now kirty ekka: but, i don't even know how you sound like  Smita Bernadet: u spoke that day..and you even scared me kirty ekka: except for the fact that it is good  Smita Bernadet: u've heard me talk before kirty ekka: ok..leave it...perhaps later  Smita Bernadet: Well I sound kiddish at times and boring sometimes otherwise excited and when sad then mute kirty ekka: ok.. Smita Bernadet: Let's meet and then switch over to calls. What you say? kirty ekka: yeah...ok....sounds good  Smita Bernadet: Let's decide then only proceed for next step Smita Bernadet: As I said, I don't think you will like me in real. I may speak very less initially. And if your eyes are beautiful then I may get mesmerized and not speak at all. Smita Bernadet: you there? kirty ekka: yes  kirty ekka: am here Smita Bernadet: don't expect too much from me please Smita Bernadet: I'm a normal girl. nothing special about me. kirty ekka: kirty ekka: good to know that Smita Bernadet: so don't you have anything weird to share about yourself? kirty ekka: weird..things..  kirty ekka: i like spiky hair..  Smita Bernadet: may be i should ask your cousins Smita Bernadet: I love spiky hair on guys kirty ekka: haha...then i would remain single in this life Smita Bernadet: why single? kirty ekka: they will highlight all the weird idiosyncrasies...  Smita Bernadet: you want to stay single then fine Smita Bernadet: okay tell me more.. Smita Bernadet: as i said that i love spiky hair on guys, I used to make it for my friends during events using my hair spray kirty ekka: !! Smita Bernadet: yup... Smita Bernadet: i even did it for my brother once Smita Bernadet: say Smita Bernadet: anything else weird about you? kirty ekka: lots kirty ekka: ok..maybe i stare at the mirror a lot  Smita Bernadet: are you sleepy? your reply is so late Smita Bernadet: haah....that's natural..you're a gym hero...you need to do that kirty ekka: even when i became fat... kirty ekka: so the weird thing about my gym is this... kirty ekka: i think my confidence to engage in hostile combats has decreased after becoming fitter Smita Bernadet: why is that so? it does sound weird kirty ekka: i think i look tiny now!! kirty ekka: compared to my previous self..  Smita Bernadet: non sense....do you think size matters? kirty ekka: not in a fight...but before the fight it does matter Smita Bernadet: have you seen tom n jerry? jerry always wins kirty ekka: you can be weak but big and intimidate the opponent  kirty ekka: small and strong is a dangerous combination...people would want to test you...  kirty ekka: i heard of a gym enthusiast who is from kerala. Whenever he roams around over there people try to pick a fight him just to win a bet that these people have made with their friends... kirty ekka: he obviously is tired at their attempts...!! Smita Bernadet: how tiny have you become? are you tinier than me? kirty ekka: tiny mentally  Smita Bernadet: ooooo kirty ekka: do you like trekking, and road trips?/ Smita Bernadet: i've never got a chance to do so before but when I see in movies, I've always wanted to try. Smita Bernadet: I don't even know whether I have that kind of stamina since I've never tried it before kirty ekka: well you like walking on heels kirty ekka: trekking will be a piece of cake  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: will you carry me if I get tired? would be a refreshing exercise for you... kirty ekka: hahaha Smita Bernadet: I'm serious! kirty ekka: when you trek, you normally hold a 25 kilo bag on you...  Smita Bernadet: i am 48 now kirty ekka: that means yours 25 too.. kirty ekka: so i will be carrying 66 (my wieight)+48 (your weight)+25*2(bag's weight) Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: i only go to gym man...i am not tarzan!! Smita Bernadet: i thought you were ! Smita Bernadet: what if I get hurt n can't walk? kirty ekka: then i would have to carry you yaar... kirty ekka: no option then  Smita Bernadet: I almost forgot to tell you.. Smita Bernadet: about my health..sorry.. kirty ekka: what happened to you? Smita Bernadet: I get chest pain often if I forget to take my calcium tablets for a week Smita Bernadet: and Smita Bernadet: my mum has thyroid issues and I don't know if I have one , so I need to get it checked up soon. Smita Bernadet: sorry..i forgot to mention all this before kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: are you angry ? kirty ekka: No kirty ekka: why ?? Smita Bernadet: for not telling kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: not an issue Smita Bernadet: fine Smita Bernadet: will you ice skate with me when life permits? kirty ekka: yaa Smita Bernadet: I had always wanted to do it in a snowy christmas eve kirty ekka: you are like a little fluffy cat  Smita Bernadet: why do you say so? kirty ekka: Up to something  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I thought you meant that I was adorable like that fluffy cat kirty ekka: yeah adorable too....that is visually implied  kirty ekka: another weird thing is that i get violet when i am very afraid!! kirty ekka: probably, i would want to fight and fall then to run and fall  Smita Bernadet: haahaaa oh gosh! then in that case I'll have to shoo off all your lizzzzzz Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: yeah, these local lizards are weird..  kirty ekka: they don't adhere to global standards on scaring the lizard guide  kirty ekka: they are hovering around the broken egg shells  Smita Bernadet: do you have imported ones too? Smita Bernadet: haaha ...they are in love with the naked owner kirty ekka: haha Smita Bernadet: i think you don't know how to shoo them off Smita Bernadet: eggs won't work baby kirty ekka: i am afraid that they may jump one me and touch me  kirty ekka: jump on me and touch me  Smita Bernadet: you need to chase them with a broom Smita Bernadet: do it when you're not nude! kirty ekka: yucks...with a broom...i would need to change the broom then  Smita Bernadet: yes keep a separate one for them kirty ekka: haha...i'm not nude always Smita Bernadet: who knows...Lizz only knows kirty ekka: sometimes i just wander back to my tribal ways  Smita Bernadet: well if you keep giving a free show to these pervert lizards, then they would never go away Smita Bernadet: wear your clothes and take your broom and start off....how many are there? kirty ekka: they are increasing everyday... kirty ekka: i see new members everyday Smita Bernadet: you need to stop it or it will be really unmanageable one day Smita Bernadet: they lay eggs very fast... Smita Bernadet: they can stay without food for days. Smita Bernadet: they are highly poisonous kirty ekka: maybe i will spray something in the house  kirty ekka: before going to the office Smita Bernadet: remove all your belongings from the kitchen . Spray the liquid and lock the kitchen door from outside leaving some window open for them to escape kirty ekka: yeah i was planning that  Smita Bernadet: wash all your utensils prior use coz they may be infested kirty ekka: another weird thing...i've eaten dog meat Smita Bernadet: and infected Smita Bernadet: i've done too, I have friend from north Smita Bernadet: not like how you eat chicken kirty ekka: i had northeastern friends...who got them so i had them  Smita Bernadet: but it was mixed with her beef pickle dried kirty ekka: so in hostel we caught this guy having a plastic full of meat pickle... Smita Bernadet: I've had it too and was very yummy kirty ekka: someone shouted meat and like hungry africans we attacked to plunder Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: eveyone had both their hands full before disappearing.. Smita Bernadet: you're a monster from birth kirty ekka: afterwards when licked our hands dry...someone thought of asking what it was... Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: the answer shocked and maimed us then  Smita Bernadet: do you find moonlight romantic? kirty ekka: i haven't been on the roof for a long time now  Smita Bernadet: but what are your thoughts about it? kirty ekka: moon with a starry night  kirty ekka: will be romantic Smita Bernadet: If you can you create a romantic scene using moonlight in your imagination? how would it be? kirty ekka: i would like the moonlight to penentrate through the coconut trees in a area close to the sea Smita Bernadet: thats all? kirty ekka: tell me yours Smita Bernadet: mine is more romantic kirty ekka: you seem to have a more lucid one Smita Bernadet: I'm more creative Smita Bernadet: well its again a sea shore... moonlight right over the horizon touching the waves at a distance. The sky being dimly lit by the galaxy. The soft breeze on our face and hair flying in a gentle motion. Sitting on the sand and watching the glittering silver waters infront . soft music in the background.  Smita Bernadet: and no one to disturb near by... kirty ekka:  no coconut tree there ?/ Smita Bernadet: far way kirty ekka: hah Smita Bernadet: we are near the shore not under the trees Smita Bernadet: in my imagination the moon is over the horizon touching the waves Smita Bernadet: what? Smita Bernadet: not romantic na? kirty ekka: it's romantic...i like it  Smita Bernadet: seriously, you need to watch more romantic movies...your creation is so incomplete...okay now complete the one you started Smita Bernadet: after those trees? kirty ekka: i like both the options  kirty ekka: having the moon touch the water in the horizon kirty ekka: or have to see the moon though the trees kirty ekka: listen to the sound of the petrifying yet calm waves kirty ekka: have the sands in between our toes  kirty ekka: listen your hums and laughter kirty ekka: stare into a set of glittering eyes Smita Bernadet: does my eyes glitter? kirty ekka: it will when it reflects the moon and the stars Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: then yours will glitter too kirty ekka: fell the skin folds on your face when you smile  kirty ekka: i'll pause my imaginations here  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: was lovely... Smita Bernadet: if given a choice between (museum fort castle) and (beach hill waterfall)..where would you like to go? Man made monuments or nature's paradise? kirty ekka: natural places Smita Bernadet: you are just like me kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: do you have any queries ? kirty ekka: no Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: no query Smita Bernadet: ok, do you like fruit custard? kirty ekka: noo Smita Bernadet: then? kirty ekka: you like them?? Smita Bernadet: a lot Smita Bernadet: what do you like for dessert? kirty ekka: hmmm kirty ekka: rasgullas, kala jamun,  kirty ekka: rasmalai  Smita Bernadet: bengali mishti haan? kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: I should call you mishti kirty ekka: hulk sounds better !! Smita Bernadet: okies I'm glad you like that kirty ekka: btw i like hulk..  Smita Bernadet: Do you cry? or you can control your tears? kirty ekka: he is the most difficult foe for any superhero or badass  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: can mostly control.. kirty ekka: rarely cry Smita Bernadet: don't you feel like when you're sad? Smita Bernadet: or hurt kirty ekka: i feel sad  kirty ekka: and hurt kirty ekka: and mentally psyched kirty ekka: but no tears  kirty ekka: it is rare for me to shed a tear Smita Bernadet: forgive me for asking you a personal question? What did you do on the day she got married? Where you destructive? kirty ekka: but, sometimes while watching some videos on youtube, my eyes fill up Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: In my mind, she got married someone else much before  Smita Bernadet: tell me na Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: i was sad for over 3 months... kirty ekka: i knew the dates before hand  kirty ekka: she married someone else...everyday for these 3 months  kirty ekka: every conversation felt like the last one  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: i knew it was futile talking anymore...but that moment was all i had to cherish  Smita Bernadet: did you sleep? Smita Bernadet: could you sleep? Smita Bernadet: those 3 months...did you smoke n drink in pain? Smita Bernadet: what happened after 3 months? kirty ekka: I smoked and drank Smita Bernadet: you were 27 yrs old then? kirty ekka: I don't know kirty ekka: After that we talked once a year and now perhaps or even that. kirty ekka: Not even that. kirty ekka: It is a sad event for me and her. Smita Bernadet: I can understand Smita Bernadet: you were in relationship for how long prior her marriage? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: Less than a year. Smita Bernadet: I know that I can never replace her but I'll try to give my best. Smita Bernadet: It isn't easy for me either but I will try Smita Bernadet: and if you ever want to talk to her or meet her then I won't object kirty ekka: Ok thanks. kirty ekka: I am not planning to do anything like that. We have moved very at ahead in time. I would not do anything. kirty ekka: Only if fate leads us to cross paths again will I talk Smita Bernadet: hmm Smita Bernadet: i'm so sad suddenly kirty ekka: Well. Nothing matters now kirty ekka: I don't wish to go back in those memories again. Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: ok lets move on Smita Bernadet: wanna sleep? kirty ekka: Yes kirty ekka: Let's sleep. kirty ekka: Sleep well Bernadet Smita Bernadet: okay hulk..i am sending you my goodnight hugs.. Smita Bernadet: I don't feel like leaving you but you need to rest. kirty ekka: Warm hugs to you too. Smita Bernadet: bye kirty ekka: Bye Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: is that blue thing me? kirty ekka: it was meant to be  kirty ekka: but i did'nt see it properly  kirty ekka: i thought it was an octopus  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: octopus ...haah Smita Bernadet: I'm writing the body content for a new website that my friend is about to launch. They wanted me to do it. kirty ekka: cool kirty ekka: what is the site about Smita Bernadet: it's for customized t-shirts Smita Bernadet: later they will extend it to other apparels kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: are you cooking? kirty ekka: i ate break and eggs kirty ekka: and juice Smita Bernadet: bread? Smita Bernadet: that's a healthy diet..better than mine atleast kirty ekka: it was because i don't want to work  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: happens Smita Bernadet: you must be tired. How was your day? kirty ekka: tiring Smita Bernadet: that hectic... kirty ekka: i went late for meeting  kirty ekka: probably because i am not interested in the work  Smita Bernadet: so you feel like quitting that job? kirty ekka: but then later thought - to finish it  kirty ekka: i will quit when i get something to do that i want kirty ekka: For now, i am interested in doing things in product marketing..  kirty ekka: probably you too are doing a marketing stuff for your friends now  Smita Bernadet: yes i am Smita Bernadet: that too for free Smita Bernadet: because they are very helpful to me when I need tham. Smita Bernadet: them. kirty ekka: you must be good and renowned for it  Smita Bernadet: Perhaps once their site gets active, I'll get dresses for free Smita Bernadet: All their sponsorship request letters are written by me only..they always give me the writing part. kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: wow  kirty ekka: so you are good  Smita Bernadet: no I'm not that good but better than all of them among team members kirty ekka: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0470752/ kirty ekka: this is something that i have in mind...when i have a conversation with you  Smita Bernadet: let me check it out kirty ekka: it ends badly for the protagonist as he is doomed at the end  Smita Bernadet: okay...that's hilarious...not the movie..movie seems really interesting  and is my type. I'm definitely gonna watch it . Why do you keep doubting that I'm a non-human thing? kirty ekka: perhaps, because i have watched that movie..  kirty ekka: you seem unreal too  Smita Bernadet: why do i seem unreal? Smita Bernadet: just because I do a lot of activities? kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: yes that  Smita Bernadet: then? kirty ekka: but  Smita Bernadet: but? Smita Bernadet: you think I'm pretending to like you? kirty ekka: mostly because i can't imagine what goes on in your head  Smita Bernadet: and because I don't seem to age? kirty ekka: haha..... kirty ekka: you are eccentric maybe that's why  kirty ekka: no ponds cold cream advertisement and all over here !! Smita Bernadet: come on! what's so strange about me? I just try to use my potential to the fullest. I don't want to limit my activities to just few areas. I think I can do everything If I just try..what's wrong in just trying? Regarding my thoughts well you can always know it the day you fully know me. My one blink will give you a clue about whats going in my head.. kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: waiting to watch you blink someday then  Smita Bernadet: what juice did you have? kirty ekka: mango... kirty ekka: tetra pack juice  Smita Bernadet: ohh that..In chennai we only drink real fruit juice , cut and made instantly..I rarely drink the canned ones. kirty ekka: what did you eat kirty ekka: i don't have a good juice center neat my house Smita Bernadet: chicken with rice Smita Bernadet: whats your height again? kirty ekka: 167 cms  Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: why?? kirty ekka: suddenly the height ?? Smita Bernadet: I was imagining that's why kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: i was trying to sing your song today kirty ekka: aah you would have rocked  kirty ekka: you are goo  kirty ekka: good  Smita Bernadet: i didn't know the lyrics though kirty ekka: hmm kirty ekka: it is a good song ...but has a sad theme Smita Bernadet: If I wear my 5 inch heels then I may tower you, right? I should get heeled shoes for you too then kirty ekka: it's ok.. i don't mind...looking up !! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I won't like looking down kirty ekka: you walk on the road... i will walk on the pavement kirty ekka: what is your height ?? Smita Bernadet: Those 5 inch heels are not meant to be used on road, It's for those who travel in car and walk on tiles. kirty ekka: i think you are 5'2 kirty ekka: add 5 to it ... kirty ekka: we might nearly be level.. Smita Bernadet: yeah i think i am around that Smita Bernadet: I have questions Smita Bernadet: I'll go brush n come Smita Bernadet: 2 min kirty ekka: pl kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: bernadet returns! kirty ekka: with a series of questions..!! Smita Bernadet: yup..parental questions Smita Bernadet: ready? kirty ekka: i had parental questions for you too !! Smita Bernadet: you can ask later.. Smita Bernadet: okay, if your child fails in exams, what step will you take? Will you scold him infront of his teacher n friends or scold him privately or talk to him politely and try to figure out his/her weakest point? Additionally what steps will you apply? kirty ekka: I wont laugh or scold kirty ekka: i will work with him and make him real good at it  kirty ekka: i will smile at him  Smita Bernadet: what if he fails again? kirty ekka: that won;t happen kirty ekka: i am good at teaching  Smita Bernadet: then teach me too kirty ekka: anytime... kirty ekka: but what? kirty ekka: you are versatile  Smita Bernadet: teach me to teach good kirty ekka: hmmm  kirty ekka: surely  Smita Bernadet: ok your turn kirty ekka: no you go on  Smita Bernadet: suppose the child beats up somebody at school and the principal complains, what will be your action? kirty ekka: whose child?? Smita Bernadet: our kirty ekka: i will talk to him...try to understand why he fought. If the reason was worth, i would appreciate him else will make him understand why abstaining is important kirty ekka: well will tell him to abstain in both the cases kirty ekka: but will punish him with chores if he was stupid in his judgement kirty ekka: what will you do?? Smita Bernadet: I'll give him a bible lecture ask him to forgive and forget kirty ekka: i think if you give bible lecture for everything then the importance of the bible will depreciate  kirty ekka: i felt the same when my mom reprimanded me  Smita Bernadet: nope I don't think so, my kids should have a spiritual touch in their life from the start.  kirty ekka: by including stories from Jesus calls as well  kirty ekka: kids should have a spiritual touch  Smita Bernadet: they should be sensitive and sensible kirty ekka: yeah Smita Bernadet: yup... kirty ekka: it gives moral guidance as well kirty ekka: but i think too much of anything is overdose... kirty ekka: i would use different tactics everytime  Smita Bernadet: bible is never too much...if you enjoy it.. kirty ekka: to find out which one works kirty ekka: yes if you enjoy it...  Smita Bernadet: they will....kids have always been attracted to Jesus kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: my kids should be different from others, they should be prompt in understanding moral values. kirty ekka: ok mumma Smita Bernadet: it all depends on how to convey the message to them..i won't ask them to read the bible, instead I'll create stories and make them aware of what wrong did they do and why they should not repeat. kirty ekka: well don't add your own fiction to it... Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: the parables were only meant for Jesus  Smita Bernadet: not the parables...my own stories Smita Bernadet: I'll create them.. Smita Bernadet: giving the same message kirty ekka: well i was furious years later when i learnt that my mom made her own stories  kirty ekka: it is better to quote the bible as it i think  Smita Bernadet: parables would be way beyond their understanding.. kirty ekka: it is lucid enough  Smita Bernadet: your being furious is baseless... see the message should be clear, doesn't matter if it was a pig or a crow Smita Bernadet: I would had loved if your mum was mine kirty ekka: i heard stories of ghosts chasing men and all  kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: well all that I wont talk..i myself stay away from ghost stuff Smita Bernadet: I encountered 2 souls once long back.. Smita Bernadet: I fought bravely.. Smita Bernadet: I was in 8th STD then kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: will hear in detail when we meet  Smita Bernadet: I can tell you some other time with action kirty ekka: i will like the animations Smita Bernadet: I had so much of faith that time also.. Smita Bernadet: what about your questions? kirty ekka: forgot  kirty ekka: will ask when i remember Smita Bernadet: what will you do if the child demands some expensive stuff that is not required for him/her? will you pamper them and spoil them? kirty ekka: no yaar will keep them practical  Smita Bernadet: what if they want a smart phone in 8th grade itself? Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: what will you say? kirty ekka: i think by that time,,all phones will be smart  kirty ekka: so they will get it  Smita Bernadet: no , no one is getting any phone till they clear their 12 std kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: they would be free to use mine  Smita Bernadet: they can use yours but should not own a private one till they learn the value of money Smita Bernadet: hey don't you spoil my kids ----papa kirty ekka: haah Smita Bernadet: I don't want to pamper with whatever they demand for ... kirty ekka: ok..anyways there is a limitation on what they will get Smita Bernadet: good Smita Bernadet: I don't want them to be a rich spoilt brat ..so any questions? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: if we fight and i am at fault, how will you respond Smita Bernadet: the thought of it makes me laugh Smita Bernadet: are you admant? Smita Bernadet: adamant kirty ekka: only when i am stupid Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I will squeez your cheeks first kirty ekka: Oh God !! kirty ekka: then we can't fight also!! Smita Bernadet: see problem solved Smita Bernadet: .. Smita Bernadet: but if you make me really angry.. Smita Bernadet: then Smita Bernadet: I think I'll just admit that I'm at fault and I'll say sorry to you till you yourself realize that it was your fault. kirty ekka: hehe kirty ekka: if you do pull my cheeks, i will crush you with a tight bear hug  kirty ekka: this is funny though Smita Bernadet: I'm stronger than you, you can't crush me kirty ekka: you arms would be tiny to go around me  Smita Bernadet: I can escape... kirty ekka: you won't be able escape such a thing Smita Bernadet: wat if i die? you will crush a doll like me kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: affectionate ones only Smita Bernadet: ahhann Smita Bernadet: suppose I don't pick your calls whole day, will you freak out? kirty ekka: maybe  kirty ekka: but good that we don;t call  kirty ekka: but i wont call you full day also  Smita Bernadet: I meant that if I don't pick your call even once Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: depends how far into relationship are we into  Smita Bernadet: I'm talking in a marriage! Smita Bernadet: hello? kirty ekka: ooh ok kirty ekka: depends on where you are Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: Will you allow me to talk to my last boyfriend after marriage? Before I met you, he's been my best friend, he was with me in all my pain, we want to be friends forever. kirty ekka: yeah that is your choice  Smita Bernadet: any conditions? kirty ekka: none  Smita Bernadet: can I help him even in the middle of night? emergency cases? kirty ekka: yeah go ahead...  kirty ekka: sensing from your conversations i am sure i am gauging you properly Smita Bernadet: he often used to ask financial help suddenly... kirty ekka: if there is something on your mind you can go ahead  Smita Bernadet: look i know him since 9 yrs, he has always taken care of me like my parents do. Before I met you, we had promised each other to shape our career. It's my dream to make him a pilot and it was his dream to see me as a singer. Now suddenly when things are changing, I cannot start hating him. He is still my friend and this laptop I use is his only. I owe him for his friendship. kirty ekka: It's fine.. kirty ekka: have a fruitful friendship  Smita Bernadet: sarcastic kirty ekka: noo  kirty ekka: its fine i understand you can have good friends  kirty ekka: i would not be jealous or insecure about it  Smita Bernadet: It's not his fault that his parents don't accept me and I can't just start hating him or break my friendship...9 yrs is not a joke. kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: ok i get it  kirty ekka: i think it's absolutely nice to have good friends  Smita Bernadet: I really would appreciate that. thanks Smita Bernadet: whats on your mind? kirty ekka: i was thinking... kirty ekka: what if we go a long path together, and then your dad does not like me?? Smita Bernadet: why won't he like you? are you not respectful towards elders? kirty ekka: no...nothing like that Smita Bernadet: do you argue with them? kirty ekka: maybe say doen't like me Smita Bernadet: there should be a reason, right? kirty ekka: i don't know... Smita Bernadet: don't give him any reason to do that and rest i'll handle kirty ekka: my previous friend's dad did not even know me and stated his judgment  kirty ekka: that entire family judged me.. basing their decisions on thin air  Smita Bernadet: can you be specific and tell me that what they actually said? I'm guessing that it must be the age difference issue... kirty ekka: yeah that's the thing they had Smita Bernadet: what they said? that you can't take care of her, you're not matured enough to take her responsibility? kirty ekka: no, they fixed the marriage with a guy without her knowledge kirty ekka: and when she said no kirty ekka: the dad threatened to die/ suicide etc.  Smita Bernadet: what! kirty ekka: i didn't feel right then Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: going ahead felt very selfish  Smita Bernadet: you did the right thing Smita Bernadet: wat if you married her and she lost her dad? would you had been happy? no right? kirty ekka: no... Smita Bernadet: same thing in my case kirty ekka: but it could have been a mental game he had played on me  Smita Bernadet: we never know that ...but I would had done exactly what you did. kirty ekka: so, i wanted to know - say this thing happens in your case too  kirty ekka: your dad too promises some crazy thing  kirty ekka: so, will that be the end ? Smita Bernadet: My dad has clearly told me that if I have anybody in mind then I should inform my mum so that they don't fix anywhere else kirty ekka:  oh ok  kirty ekka: ok...i am done  Smita Bernadet: after marriage if he starts hating you then we'll see kirty ekka: he can only be jealous then  Smita Bernadet: my mum dad had love marriage against the wish of my paternal parents so they will understand what love is...i believe kirty ekka: he would be wishing that he could have kept his wife as happy as i would have kept you  kirty ekka: !! kirty ekka: so no way... we would cross paths  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: you do know to melt my heart Smita Bernadet: oh it's not dead yet kirty ekka: i will melt it and take it away with me  Smita Bernadet: then? how can i stay without a heart? kirty ekka: only by my side  Smita Bernadet: I'm scared Smita Bernadet: what if we don't like each other in person kirty ekka: if you don't like me...tell me  kirty ekka: don't shy kirty ekka: i will let you be as you were  Smita Bernadet: thats tough...for a girl who empathizes a lot...may be i'll have to write n give you. if you don't like me then please don't tell me on my face...I may go mute kirty ekka: i would prefer to have it said than to read about it  Smita Bernadet: fine Smita Bernadet: it will be hard to let you go then Smita Bernadet: the virtual form of kirty Smita Bernadet: say kirty ekka: ?? kirty ekka: i will be sad  Smita Bernadet: i thought you wanted to say something Smita Bernadet: I will be full of guilt then, I won't open any profile ever Smita Bernadet: And I'll keep blaming myself forever for hurting you kirty ekka: then..lets do a thing  Smita Bernadet: I'll be mad at myself kirty ekka: only talk on phone after we meet  Smita Bernadet: is that the solution? kirty ekka: you have a sweet voice...it will be dangerous to let that go also  Smita Bernadet: but Smita Bernadet: we will talk only if we like each other in person, right? if we say NO, then we won't require phone, right? kirty ekka: or never  Smita Bernadet: yeah that will be better Smita Bernadet: we have no right to play with emotions of other person kirty ekka: it would be cruel but better  Smita Bernadet: i know Smita Bernadet: let's get back to normal. it's freaking me out kirty ekka: So, when in october do you want to meet  Smita Bernadet: I've still not decided if I should come to you or you should come here kirty ekka: i will come..i have a friend who lives there somewhere close to IIT  Smita Bernadet: okay then how will you play guitar then? coz I wanted to hear kirty ekka: i will not be able to send you back to chennai sad.. Smita Bernadet: so thoughtful of you kirty ekka: After that meeting  Smita Bernadet: i can endure..i've done that before.. Smita Bernadet: crying n returning...someone did that to me Smita Bernadet: that too on my birthday Smita Bernadet: . kirty ekka: well shit does happen all the time  kirty ekka: and one more thing, if you feel like this before meeting, then too you can say it to me  Smita Bernadet: feel like what? kirty ekka: not liking me  Smita Bernadet: I like you kirty ekka: good to know that Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: i think we have doomed each other with the conversation before  kirty ekka: lets aim for good friendship Smita Bernadet: sure.. kirty ekka: have no pressure and be open and candid  Smita Bernadet: okay, i would do that Smita Bernadet: may be one meet won't be enough...people take years to know each other still never get along and finally divorce. I get so scared to think that way. Smita Bernadet: thats why i bring god in between these types of situations kirty ekka: hmm kirty ekka: so, I hope God is being consistent and has not told you anything else !! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: he said that in the end it's your choice and whatever happens you need to face the consequences. kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: anyways, lets change the topic Smita Bernadet: it makes me freak out Smita Bernadet: can we talk something really nice? Smita Bernadet: i want to go to bed happily Smita Bernadet: when I clean the room, I play songs on high volume and then work. How do you do? kirty ekka: same thing Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: It's the first time i'm doing something like this  Smita Bernadet: what? kirty ekka: i can't believe i am  kirty ekka: talking to you over chats kirty ekka: and planning to talk only after we meet  Smita Bernadet: It's first time for me too kirty ekka: that too after several conditions  kirty ekka: my friends will laugh at me, if they know this kirty ekka: this is so not me... Smita Bernadet: it's a good thing, there should be some discipline in our lives. I already told you that I want to be slow and not jump into conclusions. People who wait get the best. kirty ekka: lets hope you are right !! Smita Bernadet: if this relationship works out then we'll have an awesome story to proclaim Smita Bernadet: . kirty ekka: out of the box  Smita Bernadet: yes kirty ekka: then i have a very long interview  Smita Bernadet: :-do you like any other hair styles other than spikes? Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: i liked long hair before  Smita Bernadet: did it suit you? kirty ekka: but was forced to cut super short hair by an incharge  kirty ekka: first 2-3 days i was embarassed kirty ekka: but then found it awesome  kirty ekka: so it has been spiky since class 8  Smita Bernadet: wow that's a long time! Smita Bernadet: What if after marriage I become bald? my hair falls? will you still like me? kirty ekka: i will get you blue eye lens  kirty ekka: you will look hotter than ever then  kirty ekka: but i won't take you to Batra's Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: get me stylish wigs also kirty ekka: no wigs kirty ekka: i would like a baldy wife  Smita Bernadet: for a change....sometimes??? Smita Bernadet: fine then I'll get a tattoo on my bald head Smita Bernadet: . kirty ekka: i like you in pony tails kirty ekka: what do you like in you  Smita Bernadet: I love every hairstyle because all look good on me.. kirty ekka: ahha kirty ekka: i feel so too Smita Bernadet: every body says that Smita Bernadet: my sister says, "didi, tumhare upar sab kuch accha kyun lagta hai, tum jo bhi pehenti ho, sab may cute lagti ho" kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: you have a cute sis too !! Smita Bernadet: they call me barbie doll at office kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: do you have nick names? kirty ekka: lots Smita Bernadet: tell me all kirty ekka: some i liked some i didn't Smita Bernadet: start from iit days Smita Bernadet: what about school days? kirty ekka: ok from home kirty ekka: Sunny is the nickname Smita Bernadet: hmm Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: then came gabbar singh kirty ekka: then came kroor singh kirty ekka: then came cartoon  Smita Bernadet: danger kirty ekka: then when i went to hostel kirty ekka: which had only chinky kids  kirty ekka: so they called me Blackie Smita Bernadet: hilarious kirty ekka: then damian thorne  kirty ekka: then a teacher called me dancing girl  Smita Bernadet: what!! Smita Bernadet: funny kirty ekka: then ...i went to DAV  at ranchi  kirty ekka: there my friends called me Kanta toli  Smita Bernadet: thats unique! kirty ekka: because of my hairstyle !! Smita Bernadet: haaaahaaa Smita Bernadet: nice one kirty ekka: they called me kroor singh here also  Smita Bernadet: were you so "don" like? kirty ekka: no teen attitude only.. kirty ekka: then at IIT kirty ekka: ok here too i was the only black kid  Smita Bernadet: you're not black! kirty ekka: among my friends  kirty ekka: oh i want to be black  kirty ekka: they are the coolest people on the planet right now  Smita Bernadet: but you're not, I'll show you what black is..you come here to chennai... kirty ekka: ok being black african american is a dream for me  kirty ekka: i find them cool Smita Bernadet: yes I like africans that's why i want to adopt an african girl kirty ekka: then we ourselves took up names from characters in famous series  kirty ekka: i was T Bag from "prison break" kirty ekka: he was a very sly character and used to kill everyone  Smita Bernadet: ahhan Smita Bernadet: matches u kirty ekka: then came  kirty ekka: tabrez kirty ekka: alam kirty ekka: then Teddy Smita Bernadet: oh Smita Bernadet: did your girl call u teddy? kirty ekka: no all these were from friends only  Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: then when i became super fat due to drinking and i went home... all the cousins began singing "Bear, bear, Teddy bear " kirty ekka: which was super embarrassing  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: now? Smita Bernadet: are you still fat? kirty ekka: thinner than 95% of people  kirty ekka: i turned fat for 5 years only  Smita Bernadet: what? kirty ekka: ok sorry  Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: 95% of my friends... Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: so that's the history  Smita Bernadet: amazing list !! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: now it's HULK kirty ekka: oh yeah  Smita Bernadet: which nick name you liked the most you said? kirty ekka: Kanta Toli !! Smita Bernadet: cool one Smita Bernadet: so sunny... kirty ekka: 2-3 people used to call me that..2 went back to kroor singh andonly one is left who calls me that  kirty ekka: you girls must be having nice ones  Smita Bernadet: i didn't had any when I was in school. My parents call me- Banchoo Smita Bernadet: at home... Smita Bernadet: it sounds like some monkey's name to me! god knows from where this popped up in their head kirty ekka: it's stil cuter than 90% of the names i 've got  kirty ekka: maybe 99% of them  Smita Bernadet: i'ts like Ban- of bun (bread) and choo Smita Bernadet: I don't allow everyone to call me by that name. Smita Bernadet: Only those whom I love... kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: then when I was in xavier's, boys called me as aishwariya because of my open hair. Smita Bernadet: My cousin sis calls me as -bunchut (short for banchoo) Smita Bernadet: In loyola they called me- sassy girl Smita Bernadet: In lab my friend calls me as- smithsonian Smita Bernadet: and office staff people call me as barbie doll Smita Bernadet: oh yes Smita Bernadet: one more Smita Bernadet: my maternal cousins call me as - thandi didi Smita Bernadet: that hindi one thandi.. kirty ekka: ok one more at office someone called me Guddu  Smita Bernadet: don't know why Smita Bernadet: guddu kirty ekka: they heard some bhojpuri song and thought i was bihari  Smita Bernadet: may be because you're chubby kirty ekka: and listen to a bhojpuri singer called gundu rangeela  kirty ekka: Eeeww Smita Bernadet: haahaa funny Smita Bernadet: are you chubby cheeked? kirty ekka: yes  Smita Bernadet: then I would squeeze daily Smita Bernadet: my principal used to do that to me kirty ekka: https://web.facebook.com/kirty.ekka/photos
kirty ekka: https://web.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10155895282815243&set=t.755366375&type=3&theater Smita Bernadet: wait kirty ekka: the second one would be closest to my latest  Smita Bernadet: I've seen them all Smita Bernadet: it says that the content isn't available kirty ekka: ok there is one with 3 guys and one girl  Smita Bernadet: wait Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: didn't find any kirty ekka: ok.... kirty ekka: that is not my photo kirty ekka: is my friend's kirty ekka: and he must have kept the settings that way Smita Bernadet: possible Smita Bernadet: its oka Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: may be your profile pic is latest kirty ekka: yeah then this is latest  Smita Bernadet: you do have chubby cheeks then Smita Bernadet: keep it maintained kirty ekka: that is at 73 kgs kirty ekka: i am 66 now  Smita Bernadet: ohh Smita Bernadet: so? its all gone? kirty ekka: ?? Smita Bernadet: If i keep pulling then may be your chubby cheeks may come alive Smita Bernadet: . kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: don;t do that then  kirty ekka: https://web.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=2029927553088&set=t.755366375&type=3&theater kirty ekka: this is how school looked  Smita Bernadet: you don't like chubby ones? it looks cute and adorable kirty ekka: not on me  ok?? kirty ekka: i would like it on other people  Smita Bernadet: your friend's settings are strict. I cannot see those pics kirty ekka: wow..i didn't know this  Smita Bernadet: take a print screen n send over in this chat kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: haaha Smita Bernadet: you look like a cute monkey kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: . kirty ekka: then people were right to call me bandar  Smita Bernadet: hmm you still have cheeks Smita Bernadet: You like collar shirts? kirty ekka: yes nowadays Smita Bernadet: is that hard rock cafe? kirty ekka: No kirty ekka: legends of rock  kirty ekka: koramangala Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: I've been here Smita Bernadet: to top terrace kirty ekka: aaahaa Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: it's a smoking zone! yuck..but I love their dragon chicken and cheese balls kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: now i think i wont be able to sit down there  kirty ekka: it stinks kirty ekka: ok...i will need to sleep at 2:30  Smita Bernadet: their dragon chicken is actually shaped like dragons and yummy too Smita Bernadet: oh ..i didn't track the time at all. sorry kirty ekka: you are making me consume electricity everyday  kirty ekka: i can't pay ssuch high bills Smita Bernadet: sorry kirty ekka: kirty ekka: that was a joke  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: You're an ITEM yaar  Smita Bernadet: i don't get your JOKES kirty ekka: who can be serious about this !! kirty ekka: electricity bill!! Smita Bernadet: why don't you switch off the lights and chat? kirty ekka: eyes will pain  Smita Bernadet: dim light? night bulb? Smita Bernadet: kirty kirty ekka: no i dont like them  Smita Bernadet: I find dim yellow light extremely romantic kirty ekka: you know ...when i think about you sometimes i feel so excited  kirty ekka: and sometimes so terrified  Smita Bernadet: why? Smita Bernadet: i'm not siri you silly kirty ekka: i don't know  kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: same here.... Smita Bernadet: excited and terrified by your voice kirty ekka: my boon and my curse Smita Bernadet: but you sing good kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: naughty girl  kirty ekka: don't lie  Smita Bernadet: i won't lie kirty ekka:  i will practice yaar Smita Bernadet: when it comes to singing! Smita Bernadet: you should sing with me Smita Bernadet: ok then, let me tuck you, in your bed....sleep well hulk kirty ekka: aaah Smita Bernadet: happy tuesday..good night. hugs. kirty ekka: GNite  kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: bear hugs  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: feels cozy... Smita Bernadet: bye kirty ekka: bye kirty ekka: When do you wake up in the morning ?? kirty ekka: Hi there ?? Smita Bernadet: hey, sorry for keeping u waiting. How was your day? kirty ekka: My day was nice. How as yours ?? Smita Bernadet: today I'll show you my family pics kirty ekka: Oh let's have a look at them then. Smita Bernadet: wait then kirty ekka: You surely have a big family. Smita Bernadet: i have to download first... Smita Bernadet: may be it will take time... kirty ekka: Its taking so long to attach the file. Smita Bernadet: tell me how was ur day? kirty ekka: Was busy with a work...on industry marketing. Smita Bernadet: what was for dinner? kirty ekka: I had chicken curry and rice. kirty ekka: I got it from outside. kirty ekka: The lizards are freaking me out in the kitchen. kirty ekka: So I sprayed pepper all over my kitchen. Smita Bernadet: hey, you need to kill them! or chase kirty ekka: It does work but tomorrow I would sprinkle it all over the kitchen. kirty ekka: I am not going to kill them. kirty ekka: I would have to dispose off their bodies then. Yucks :( Smita Bernadet: lets see whether your experiment works kirty ekka: Egg shells was a failure. kirty ekka: One of them was sitting on the egg shells. Smita Bernadet: funny..they are resistant species kirty ekka: How was Bernadet's day? kirty ekka: What was the damsel up to today...? Smita Bernadet: her day was fine, had a small birthday party for one brother in the evening and today is mother mary's birthday too yound college boys think that i'm of their age ..uff! kirty ekka: so you got fans there !! Smita Bernadet: yaar..school kids line maarte hain.. Smita Bernadet: nonsense! kirty ekka: haha Smita Bernadet: ya..they ride bicycle but turn behind again and again and ride forward..what if they hit something ! kirty ekka: omg  kirty ekka: that smaal kids kirty ekka: that small kids... Smita Bernadet: yes they must be in 8th grade kirty ekka: haha  Smita Bernadet: not funny..i get scared Smita Bernadet: if they fall down then? kirty ekka: next time catch their ears, pull it and walk on the road  Smita Bernadet: haaaha kirty ekka: haha funny !! Smita Bernadet: today also after the party one college boy asked my age and got shocked to know that i am 5 yrs elder to him..yet he said that you look so SOFT! and young...what am I supposed to do? kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: oh you' re beautiful...did i not say that before !! Smita Bernadet: yes but i look really kiddish..what if i look like your daughter beside you? kirty ekka: haha... kirty ekka: its fine...i will refuse to hand over your hand to eager dudes  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: so how do you deal with such things? kirty ekka: do you get angry or feel happy ?? Smita Bernadet: i got used to it now but in college i scold all my juniors and force them to call me madam or akka or didi kirty ekka: so what is your age?? Smita Bernadet: hey! Smita Bernadet: i'm 16 kirty ekka: in spirit !! kirty ekka: kirty ekka: maybe that's why you're sweet  Smita Bernadet: yes..i think i look young because of my diet..i don't drink nor smoke and i avoid sunlight- it causes aging of cell. also I don't use much cream stuff kirty ekka: Wow kirty ekka: That is hard work right there ...!! Smita Bernadet: so tell me about your parents. What's are their names?? kirty ekka: My dad's name is Henry Ekka kirty ekka: Mom's name is Violet Mejhren Ekka kirty ekka: What are your parent's name ?? Smita Bernadet: Your mum has a pretty name kirty ekka: Her friends call her Mijhu Smita Bernadet: My father is Srimanim Belkhas Kujur and mum is Susheela Soreng Kujur kirty ekka: An my dad's friends call him Hendry Smita Bernadet: nice Smita Bernadet: what about your sister? kirty ekka: I think your dad's name itself decided his future. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: It sounds like an author's name. kirty ekka: My sister is Beena Stella Ekka kirty ekka: So whom do you get your looks from..?? Smita Bernadet: mum kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: but dad's color...i wish i got my dad's height too kirty ekka: How tall is he? kirty ekka: Btw did you eat? What did you have?? Smita Bernadet: i think he is 5.7 Smita Bernadet: yes I had rice with cabbage... kirty ekka: Ok little taller than me. kirty ekka: Ok a funny fact then. kirty ekka: I am taller than my dad. kirty ekka: My dad says he is taller than his dad. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: And My dad says that his dad was taller than my dad's grand dad Smita Bernadet: my youngest sis- sushruti , she is doing her law 1st yr kirty ekka: I wonder sometimes ...that one time people in my house were very short ?? kirty ekka: And maybe that's why our old houses had ceiling that was so low. Smita Bernadet: may be Smita Bernadet: can be possible...:-) kirty ekka: She looks like you kirty ekka: She looks sweet Smita Bernadet: I'm taller than her! kirty ekka: You still look fragile Smita Bernadet: thats my middle sis- stuti(she's in JNU left one) with sushruti on right Smita Bernadet: this is clear- stuti my 3rd sibling who is in JNU kirty ekka: Hey you all are cute yaar Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: wait i can't find my bro..he keeps changing his looks..he had long hair then short now he's bald! kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: don't have a proper one...he is Apoorvashree Bernard ..in JNU  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: he is next to me... kirty ekka: He is your rough copy Smita Bernadet: that's my parents. Well mayur my bro (nick name) plays guitar as well and sings too. Smita Bernadet: she is webby- my sister.. Smita Bernadet: so? kirty ekka: Wow kirty ekka: You all look cool to me. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: all thanx to my mum kirty ekka: wow kirty ekka: Why Smita Bernadet: my dad was in JNU and mum was staying in delhi with her family. She used to sing in choir every sunday  and that's when dad fell in love with her..He used to bunk his sunday meal and eat at mum's place... kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: I am smiling here Smita Bernadet: they got married after lots of ojection from my father's side kirty ekka: Why did they object ...? Smita Bernadet: mum is kharia and dad oraon kirty ekka: Ok. Like that. Smita Bernadet: show me your family kirty ekka: I thought Christians overlook all this. Smita Bernadet: no..they don't that's why i don't want to settle in jharkhand or bihar kirty ekka: kirty ekka: This is the cousin who sang the song with me. Smita Bernadet: okay..sweet voice wali kirty ekka: Her name is Nini..she works in Bangalore. I visit her often. We are quite compatible with each other. Smita Bernadet: nice to hear kirty ekka: I just formatted my phone so won't have much pictures here Smita Bernadet: thats ok Smita Bernadet: you both look alike by nose Smita Bernadet: so you parents? Smita Bernadet: your kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: That's the house and that's me with some weird hairstyle I had once Smita Bernadet: i like your hairstyle Smita Bernadet: and your house is a bungalow! ..so big kirty ekka: I will look at my comp for photos Smita Bernadet: I stay in a flat... Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: That is my dad's house and mine. kirty ekka: I used to stay in a flat. Smita Bernadet: dad's in the sense your paternal grandparents? kirty ekka: No my fathers Smita Bernadet: your mum? kirty ekka: Wait I am looking for pics kirty ekka: Ok can't find right now. Smita Bernadet: its okay kirty ekka: There were in my cell but then I had to format it and due to some error was not able to do a proper backup. Smita Bernadet: later then Smita Bernadet: tell me more Smita Bernadet: wait I'll show you my younger days Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: with my mum Smita Bernadet: look at my hat! i was already stylish Smita Bernadet: and Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: seriously..i look like a monkey- no wonder they named me Banchoo kirty ekka: I was about to say that kirty ekka: That you look like a tiny monkey Smita Bernadet: then my mallika sherawat look wait Smita Bernadet: kidding Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: i looked like a bengali kid..i even spoke bengali then kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: spot the monkey here kirty ekka: Middle one Smita Bernadet: yup...i still don't know how to eat with hand..I use spoon still kirty ekka: You had fancy bands since childhood Smita Bernadet: I can't eat rice with hand Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: oh you missed this one Smita Bernadet: my mum is so cute kirty ekka: Simple woman Smita Bernadet: she is stylish... Smita Bernadet: air india na kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: now she is simple Smita Bernadet: that's my holy  communion time- i got best reader's award kirty ekka: You've got too much of make ups Smita Bernadet: and that was my favorite hangout zone kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: oh it was very cozy spot Smita Bernadet: didn't you go to gym today? kirty ekka: I went Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: cool Smita Bernadet: are you upset about something? Smita Bernadet: mum did that makeup on me..what to do Smita Bernadet: hey? Smita Bernadet: you get vanished! kirty ekka: No I am here. I am trying to get my phone 's network on my laptop. Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: I'll tell you my brother's weird behaviour.. Smita Bernadet: whenever he goes to washroom, Smita Bernadet: he'll wear what ever chappal lies infront the door.. Smita Bernadet: whether it fit him or not... Smita Bernadet: he once wore my heels and went! kirty ekka: Haha. Smita Bernadet: I had a big fight with him that day kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: You bad girl.. Can't share your heels Smita Bernadet: wasn't funny though coz his feet are bigger than my sandal..and he makes it big and loose for me kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: don't you try that on me! kirty ekka: What kirty ekka: Sarcasm or wearing your heels Smita Bernadet: so? Smita Bernadet: wearing my heels kirty ekka: I will share the pics tomorrow then. Smita Bernadet: . sure share the pics kal..now talk to me Smita Bernadet: are you allergic to anything? kirty ekka: Smelly people kirty ekka: Bad food Smita Bernadet: same here kirty ekka: Stinking dogs Smita Bernadet: oh dogs wont smell like rose! Smita Bernadet: every dog smells kirty ekka: They need to be taken care of. Smita Bernadet: mine too Smita Bernadet: nope they sweat a lot Smita Bernadet: but mine is not that bad kirty ekka: Lizards and snake. I don't like them Smita Bernadet: i like the pattern on them kirty ekka: I just thought suddenly- you keep that dog in your flat. kirty ekka: How do you manage that Smita Bernadet: any food allergy? kirty ekka: No till now. Smita Bernadet: mum takes care of her, she gets her own balcony to stay kirty ekka: None till now. Smita Bernadet: i forgot to tell you that I am allergic to AC..I can't stand it for long hours. kirty ekka: I don't like ac. Smita Bernadet: besides I have dust allergy kirty ekka: Except In cinema halls, restaurants, and office. Smita Bernadet: when ever I travel in AC bus or car i vomit or feel dizzy if they don't open the windows..so i avoid travelling in them..but AC train is fine and flight is okay Smita Bernadet: my fingers start itching and skin too if exposed to dust...so i immediately was it.. Smita Bernadet: wash Smita Bernadet: it kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: thats why i avoid holi kirty ekka: Let me tell you a funny incident Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: So I had a friend who was married and has a kid. kirty ekka: So I invited him and his family to my house without informing my parents. kirty ekka: So he, his wife, and the daughter. kirty ekka: So I said my friend to enter my house 2 mins late and entered holding his wife's hand and holding the daughter in my arms. kirty ekka: And entered the house and just sat down on the sofa with them. kirty ekka: And kept looking at the floor for 2 mins whenever they asked who is she .... kirty ekka: That was quite hilarious ....to watch them so confused. Smita Bernadet: yes..indeed..and scary too for your parents..did you do it deliberately? Smita Bernadet: but hilarious kirty ekka: Yeah it was staged Smita Bernadet: then next what ? kirty ekka: We planned before entering the house. kirty ekka: Then after my friend entered I ha to break it up. Smita Bernadet: then? kirty ekka: My dad said - oh, I got so confused what was happening. kirty ekka: My mom was also taken aback. Smita Bernadet: you are devilish Smita Bernadet: poor dad kirty ekka: I think in their mind they thought that she was my wife and the kid was mine. Smita Bernadet: Didn't you smile when they were confused? Smita Bernadet: obviously kirty ekka: That's why I was looking at the floor. Smita Bernadet: but didn't you smile? kirty ekka: Afterwards... kirty ekka: I said chai wai pilao koi kirty ekka: Mehman hai Smita Bernadet: i must admit, you're quite an actor Mr. Ekka.... kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: naughty kid Smita Bernadet: what you did in gym today? kirty ekka: Today was back and biceps and 10 mins of cardio. Smita Bernadet: sounds cool...whatever that is... kirty ekka: Cardio - running ex. Smita Bernadet: ahhan kirty ekka: For weight training you normally combine a base muscle with a minor one. Smita Bernadet: hmmm....very informative kirty ekka: Like triceps and chest Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: Biceps and backs kirty ekka: And legs and shoulders Smita Bernadet: i would like to see you do that someday if life permits kirty ekka: These are well known combinations kirty ekka: Join me Smita Bernadet: would love to kirty ekka: Anytime then. Smita Bernadet: your sister is married, right? kirty ekka: Yes. Smita Bernadet: so, in that big bungalow only mum n dad stay? kirty ekka: Yes. Smita Bernadet: no maid? kirty ekka: No. Smita Bernadet: hmm interesting parents kirty ekka: I become the house help when I go. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Like driver...server... kirty ekka: I have many roles there Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: i can imagine you kirty ekka: I am going home this month end kirty ekka: Will attend a marriage of a close childhood friend too during this break. Smita Bernadet: do they really pay you 12 lakhs per annum at hp? what you do with all that money? You save it or send it home? My parents told me to save mine and not send home..but my sisters use it at times... kirty ekka: 12 is less yaar Smita Bernadet: are you kidding me? 12 is not less kirty ekka: I am looking for a different role else I could be getting more Smita Bernadet: but bangalore is way too costly kirty ekka: My expenses are like that Smita Bernadet: so you save none? kirty ekka: I have started saving Smita Bernadet: good kirty ekka: Hey and 12 is average. Not a big deal. Smita Bernadet: well there are many who get very less , yours is better..i guess..well if you feel it is less then try for higher ones kirty ekka: I would not want to know yours Smita Bernadet: my dad may have issues with your job..he has always wanted someone working in government sector..my income is nothing ...it is just like a pocket money. I cannot manage a family with it..that's why I'm trying for better ones. kirty ekka: No I am interested in a particular kind of job and am studying for that and meeting people who so that kind of job in the company. Smita Bernadet: but don't worry... kirty ekka: If I and you wish to be married later on but your dad objects, then I will convince him. Smita Bernadet: we can handle it... Smita Bernadet: convincing my mum is easy...just enter the kitchen and cook with her..she'll be impressed kirty ekka: If I am allowed to enter your kitchen, then my chai will win over anyone Smita Bernadet: you can enter..even if my mum objects you just don't listen kirty ekka: So because I smoked and drank tea together, I had build a passion for having good tea. Smita Bernadet: oh i see kirty ekka: So I know the best tea junctions in Bangalore kirty ekka: And many people have appreciated the tea that I make. kirty ekka: But, my dad doesn't like my tea. kirty ekka: He is weird ..!! Smita Bernadet: i don't drink tea except for chilled winter mornings with bread omelet n cheese...:-) I will try your tea Smita Bernadet: for sure..but i cool it down always...then drink Smita Bernadet: your dad has a traditional taste may be... kirty ekka: Maybe Smita Bernadet: did you make spiky hair today also? kirty ekka: I keep short hair so spiky is the kinky way to go Smita Bernadet: will you keep it for ever? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: Maybe Smita Bernadet: don't you like a change? kirty ekka: It has become a habit now. kirty ekka: I head headaches if my hair is long or obstructs my eyes. kirty ekka: ***I have headaches Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: right you even don't like dim lights in room kirty ekka: To sleep I need perfect darkness Smita Bernadet: it gives a warm romantic atmosphere..try it one night and leave your door or window open for a soft breeze..lie in your bed and put some soft music on..you should try Mr.... your profile says that one should enjoy the romantic side of life too Smita Bernadet: while relaxing... Smita Bernadet: not while sleeping kirty ekka: Join me then I will try. Smita Bernadet: you don't need me...you can still try Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: so which floor do you stay on? kirty ekka: 1st Smita Bernadet: does breeze enter your flat? do you have any balcony? kirty ekka: I have sort of balcony... Since no one comes to my corner I have it to myself. kirty ekka: But it stared at the apartment so its of no use kirty ekka: *stares at Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: hmm... Smita Bernadet: so any questions today? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: You go like usual Smita Bernadet: what will you do if you loose your job suddenly? after marriage.. Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: I will get a new job. Smita Bernadet: do you have a back up plan? kirty ekka: Give interviews .,,, loosing job is not the end Smita Bernadet: because instantly no one will appoint you.. kirty ekka: I think I would be able to handle it. Smita Bernadet: how? with your savings? kirty ekka: Savings will be used definitely kirty ekka: I would be living like a miser for some time before I get a job Smita Bernadet: ok...i hope that day never comes but life is full of unexpected stuff. I would help you out. Don't worry kirty ekka: Oh thanks god Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: one more thing Smita Bernadet: never ever force me to sing anywhere (your family or friends or event) when I don't feel like doing it. I hate when people do that to me. kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: I won't kirty ekka: I am not good at forcing people. Smita Bernadet: what if you say- honey please??? please don't do that and do emotional atyachaar ! Smita Bernadet: because you're good at melting my heart and you can easily persuade me...but try not to..i'm begging Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: u there? Smita Bernadet: are you talking to somebody else? kirty ekka: Public display of affection kirty ekka: No I typed on the laptop and saw that the file is still being sent. kirty ekka: Like kissing, holding hands, hugging in the public. Smita Bernadet: I'm not following you..I said that don't persuade me affectionately to go n sing... kirty ekka: No this is my next question. Smita Bernadet: oh Smita Bernadet: whats it again? kirty ekka: Displaying affections publicly Smita Bernadet: well, I like holding hands but not when elders are around. And kissing I don't mind as long as we are on a vacation out of India. Hugging is common, I do it here also. Smita Bernadet: what about you? kirty ekka: I don't mind. I support these. Smita Bernadet: yes bangalore is famous for all these Smita Bernadet: I've witnessed them kirty ekka: It's nice to so PDA and see PDA kirty ekka: Do PDA AND SEE PDA Smita Bernadet: whats that? kirty ekka: Noticing kirty ekka: Nothing Smita Bernadet: well I take care of the people around me, if elders are present I feel like maintaining some manners Smita Bernadet: I'm like that... kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: I don't support every activity of youngsters of today.....some discipline is very mandatory ... otherwise if it's abroad then I won't object to any of these... kirty ekka: Good or bad doesn't change by place ok..!! kirty ekka: It is either good or bad everywhere kirty ekka: I see no harm in it so I encourage people kirty ekka: By not staring at them when they are doing that. Smita Bernadet: its about people around, look....if someone does it in the midst of people who are not used to looking at it, it may make them uncomfortable. I agree with your statement and I'm not saying that it's bad. It should be done where people are alike. If my german friends visit my house and start kissing infront of my parents then I would definitely not allow them. You can do it if you are with people of your kind. Smita Bernadet: if I have people of this generation around me then I wouldn't mind...but if there are elders then I will never. It's just respect and not a matter of right n wrong kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: I got it. Smita Bernadet: it doesn't make me less romantic. It's just my respect for the older generation who are not used to it. kirty ekka: Ok ok boss Smita Bernadet: not boss kirty ekka: Bernadet Smita Bernadet: yes Mr. Ekka kirty ekka: Do lots of people call you Bernadet Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: only you kirty ekka: Strange.. kirty ekka: I don't know why I like it. Smita Bernadet: someone used to call me Berny Smita Bernadet: people like hosanaa and bernadet but they call me hosanaa Smita Bernadet: what else do you like kirty ekka: Oh people call you hosanna too Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: You kirty ekka: :) Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: So what kind of nature do you have ?? kirty ekka: Are you happy or sad?? Smita Bernadet: right now? kirty ekka: Yes Smita Bernadet: nature is permanent but happiness and sadness keeps fluctuating. Right now I'm happy kirty ekka: Also, I wanted to know whether you have a copy of hat you wrote on The matrimonial site. Smita Bernadet: u make me happy kirty ekka: I liked it. Smita Bernadet: which hat? kirty ekka: Copy of what you wrote kirty ekka: There were some good liners Smita Bernadet: can't recall kirty ekka: Hmmm Smita Bernadet: you mean what I wrote on my profile? kirty ekka: Yes that Smita Bernadet: Well I don't have a copy but I remember it somewhat kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: I deleted all that day because i was very upset on myself Smita Bernadet: why didn't you copy n keep it? kirty ekka: I didn't want to be infatuated Smita Bernadet: then why are you asking for it now? Smita Bernadet: okay i'll write it and gmail you whatever I can recall kirty ekka: Because I could always view it before but not now. kirty ekka: On don't take so much pains now. kirty ekka: Ok don't take so much pains Smita Bernadet: oooooh why do you want to view it baby kirty ekka: Gyan Smita Bernadet: nonsense! what gyan Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: On relationship Smita Bernadet: then I would positively write it all again Smita Bernadet: do you want the exact copy? kirty ekka: I will use it as a guide and try to critique it. Smita Bernadet: send me a copy of yours too ..even I like it Smita Bernadet: can you? kirty ekka: I feel afraid of you at moments. kirty ekka: I don't know why Smita Bernadet: same here... Smita Bernadet: afraid like as if I'm pretending all this? Smita Bernadet: Kirty? kirty ekka: Why do you feel like that. Smita Bernadet: hey kanta toli..where r u? Smita Bernadet: then what re you afraid of? Smita Bernadet: say kirty ekka: You Smita Bernadet: yes you should, sometimes i bite !! kirty ekka: Hehe Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: okay tell me Smita Bernadet: do i look like a vampire to you? kirty ekka: Not looks Smita Bernadet: why are you afraid of me and if that is so then why did you call me? Smita Bernadet: you could had just avoided me kirty ekka: Even kids you aces for that Smita Bernadet: i even denied you in the beginning kirty ekka: We'll leave it. Smita Bernadet: i'm not getting any of it kirty ekka: It's my mind that plays tricks on me. Smita Bernadet: i want to know your mind... Smita Bernadet: don't walk away like that Smita Bernadet: explain it Smita Bernadet: i want to know you Smita Bernadet: will you allow atleast? Smita Bernadet: can you try to tell? Smita Bernadet: time is ticking...tell na kirty ekka: I think that you are too good to be true kirty ekka: Too pious..but you make me discard this notion in discussions kirty ekka: I think something everyday kirty ekka: But then discard it after drawing conclusions from our discussions. kirty ekka: But then the thought process takes time. kirty ekka: And I am quite uneasy then kirty ekka: That's it. kirty ekka: ???? Smita Bernadet: I don't know what to say...all I can say that I mean what ever I write here and I am real. kirty ekka: Yeah I believe that. Smita Bernadet: I'm not too good.. Smita Bernadet: I'm a normal girl... kirty ekka: Ok now don't be condescending Smita Bernadet: fine kirty ekka: What do you fear kirty ekka: I think I watched Spider-Man a lot. kirty ekka: He also had cold feet with Mary Jane. Smita Bernadet: i fear nothing actually other than persecution kirty ekka: What persecution Smita Bernadet: persecution of those who follow the cross. i fear nothing other than this if you are asking for another fear then ask again kirty ekka: See now this kind of statement you make - and expect me to believe that you are a normal girl !!!! kirty ekka: ;) Smita Bernadet: what yaar....a normal can talk this way.. Smita Bernadet: i know i'm abnormal Smita Bernadet: maybe Smita Bernadet: abnormal is the right word for me kirty ekka: No not that kirty ekka: You are fine girl. Smita Bernadet: thanx to approve that kirty ekka: This answers me kirty ekka: This amazes me kirty ekka: Not answers Smita Bernadet: uff..what amazes you? kirty ekka: You Smita Bernadet: kirty, whats going on your mind! kirty ekka: What are you ?? Smita Bernadet: you tell me!! kirty ekka: Well nothing I think kirty ekka: Randomness Smita Bernadet: then I am nothing kirty ekka: Ok leave it. Smita Bernadet: what am I? Smita Bernadet: fine kirty ekka: I I am full of bullshit sometimes. Smita Bernadet: may be you can't explain kirty ekka: Maybe Smita Bernadet: is my definition so hard?...what is Bernadet?.. kirty ekka: Ok I will sleep at 2:20/30 Smita Bernadet: i know kirty ekka: Bernadette st. kirty ekka: Lourdes?? Smita Bernadet: may be you just don't believe me     you think I'm unreal, I'm siri app, I'm not normal... kirty ekka: Ok. Maybe Smita Bernadet: i already wrote on my profile that I'm a mysterious person, I am complicated. But if you really like me then you can surely try to unwind me kirty ekka: Hmmm kirty ekka: :) Smita Bernadet: hold my hands kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: seriuosly... kirty ekka: Ok Smita Bernadet: seriously Smita Bernadet: ok hold my hands and just remain silent...atleast imagine it... let silence speak Smita Bernadet: sometimes you should rest your mind..you think too much which is not required... kirty ekka: Ok guru Smita Bernadet: no guru Smita Bernadet: no boss Smita Bernadet: i am very good at head massage you know Smita Bernadet: you need some i guess kirty ekka: Wow. Smita Bernadet: when I massage then people sleep off kirty ekka: Wow kirty ekka: I that case you are perfect Smita Bernadet: no body is perfect kirty ekka: A while back you said you are nobody ;). Smita Bernadet: okay...come i'll give you some massage and then let's put you to bed..it's time for you to sleep ... Smita Bernadet: go switch off your lights...goodnight kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: thats you after massage kirty ekka: I will rock you to sleep Smita Bernadet: you need to sleep before i do Smita Bernadet: sleep well Kirty...hugs Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Good nite Bernadet...!!! kirty ekka: Tight, warm hugs 2 u Smita Bernadet: its too tight and too warm...a little less please kirty ekka: Hehe not listening anymore Smita Bernadet: then I'll have to sleep in sweat!...bye kirty ekka: Bye kirty ekka: kirty ekka: that me my dad..my mom..and a cousin - 'Shweta" in Mysore at St. Philomena church  kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: i am trying to send some pics across  kirty ekka: come over  kirty ekka: anytime kirty ekka: not in front of people  kirty ekka: who does that sort of thing ??? kirty ekka: privately melting your heart is ok  kirty ekka: not publicly  kirty ekka: do you like PDAs kirty ekka: Public Display of Affectio  kirty ekka: affection  kirty ekka: like kissing, hugging, etc. in public  kirty ekka: ok ok  kirty ekka: i got it madam kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: when was this church pic taken? Smita Bernadet: you look slim in that other pic though. Smita Bernadet: I was just wondering today that - Smita Bernadet: we met online- Smita Bernadet: we read about eachother- Smita Bernadet: we found that we fit in our habits and likings- Smita Bernadet: we answered all the questions- Smita Bernadet: we can compromise in few cases- Smita Bernadet: BUT Smita Bernadet: where is the spark of love? Smita Bernadet: Do we love eachother? Smita Bernadet: I mean..we should find out if we have love or not- Smita Bernadet: and honestly  I don't know how to find that out... kirty ekka: i'm not getting anything.. Smita Bernadet: whatever be the case...that thing should be there...right? kirty ekka: go slo kirty ekka: slow Smita Bernadet: liking is different...loving is different... Smita Bernadet: you get back to work now.. Smita Bernadet: you can reply later Smita Bernadet: bye kirty ekka: oiiee tell fast  kirty ekka: Yeah, I was having thoughts about the same thing...!!! kirty ekka: I too want passion in the relationship. kirty ekka: Hi will ping at 11. Smita Bernadet: hey you there? Smita Bernadet: So this passion has to develop naturally within us or else it won't last for long. I need to pray about this. kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: sorry i disturbed you today kirty ekka: I will not comment that I did not have any passion till now. kirty ekka: Did you have any?? Smita Bernadet: yes i did but I don't know the depth of it kirty ekka: Did you feel like this before Smita Bernadet: before means? kirty ekka: Before with anyone Smita Bernadet: yes i did and you did too kirty ekka: Was now in any way different than before kirty ekka: It was different for me in many ways. Smita Bernadet: well for me it seems the same as before except that God was never involved. kirty ekka: We'll God's the only difference now for me. kirty ekka: Well Smita Bernadet: for me too Smita Bernadet: what else can be done to find out? Smita Bernadet: meeting is also a part of finding the missing parts though.. kirty ekka: I don't think anything can be done kirty ekka: You can always feel it kirty ekka: And you can't fake it. Smita Bernadet: okay so we need to monitor our seed of love in another's heart  or something like that?  or what ... kirty ekka: One would know when one is in love Smita Bernadet: are you in? or you too need to figure that out? kirty ekka: Yes I would too need to find that out. Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: So till now have you been irked by me. Smita Bernadet: i think it will take time, It's not even a month since we both met..we should let the  time work here Smita Bernadet: No i've never been annoyed by you Smita Bernadet: never so far Smita Bernadet: what about you? kirty ekka: No Smita Bernadet: so do you agree that we need time to find what's missing? kirty ekka: Yes.... kirty ekka: That is why we went to that site. Smita Bernadet: yes kirty ekka: To explore if we could find a soul mate there whom we could love and find comfort in his/her love. kirty ekka: Warna we would have been looking for arranged marriage... Smita Bernadet: i think you're right kirty ekka: So be truthful to yourself else we would have failed the purpose. Smita Bernadet: ok so we found each other but that magic has to happen....I want to feel how I am when you are with me and also when you're away...I need to find whether I can stay without chatting with you or not...I want to know do we really miss each other when we're away kirty ekka: Is there something that you fear about me....you talked about compromises Smita Bernadet: i said compromise because may be later I might have to...a little bit.. Smita Bernadet: is that a good idea? i don't know kirty ekka: There will always be compromises kirty ekka: Only love can make it look good Smita Bernadet: i agree Smita Bernadet: ok so we found each other but that magic has to happen....I want to feel how I am when you are with me and also when you're away...I need to find whether I can stay without chatting with you or not...I want to know do we really miss each other when we're away kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: ok means? Smita Bernadet: we should be away and check? kirty ekka: Somethings above we can do presently. Smita Bernadet: how kirty ekka: Let me know how you will feel if we do not talk for 3 days kirty ekka: Mix around with your friends so that you don't feel lonely Smita Bernadet: ok and can i msg you if I cannot stand it even a day? Smita Bernadet: i have no friends other than my roommate kirty ekka: Let's contemplate for this 3 days. Smita Bernadet: fine kirty ekka: Ok don't worry I am staying alone. And it would be Saturday / Sunday when I could meet friends for the weekend Smita Bernadet: can i check your pics in these 3 days? or that's also forbidden? kirty ekka: No your wish....do what you want.... kirty ekka: Maybe meditate also Smita Bernadet: fine Smita Bernadet: i will pray Smita Bernadet: instead of meditating kirty ekka: I will try praying kirty ekka: But a quick note here God responds to you and not to me .. Smita Bernadet: lets not look at each others pics for these 3 days because if we do so then we wouldn't miss each other much...conclusion will go wrong kirty ekka: Ask him what he wants for the two of us? Are our intentions for each other pure. Smita Bernadet: god will respond, you can hear only when you're calm... Smita Bernadet: I asked him already kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: but his answer was a bit difficult to make it practical kirty ekka: What was that... kirty ekka: And So, Sunday we meet next. kirty ekka: Sunday night ... Smita Bernadet: well, the feeling of hatred comes from the evil, likewise the feeling of love comes from God. If we want to love somebody, we need to ask him to give us that feeling. He said the more you love me, the more you'll love each other. And I can't force YOU to love him, right? That's an inborn attempt. The more we try to know him, the more we'll know each other. That's why families that pray, stay together. It's a triangle here. kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: fine then Smita Bernadet: 3 days... kirty ekka: I am getting what you are saying.. Smita Bernadet: do you? kirty ekka: Yes Smita Bernadet: i'm glad Smita Bernadet: feel like hugging you right now kirty ekka: Oh now don't make 3 days difficult for me. kirty ekka: I am already little sad kirty ekka: I don't know what the outcome can be. Smita Bernadet: me too kirty ekka: I feel like a long embrace Smita Bernadet: fine then i won't hug you... kirty ekka: Well let's chronicle our search.. Smita Bernadet: okay...we'll do it when we return like day 1 to 3 Smita Bernadet: tonight let's not waste this moment... kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: We are both eccentric soul searchers now. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: okay tell me Smita Bernadet: where is your office in bangalore? kirty ekka: CV Raman nagar kirty ekka: Bagmane tech park kirty ekka: Y?? Smita Bernadet: hmmm because my roommate's fiance is in hp too and in bangalore kirty ekka: What bizZare thin to happen Smita Bernadet: his name is noel leonard antony and he's from tamilnadu Smita Bernadet: i came to know about it few hours back Smita Bernadet: that he too is in p Smita Bernadet: hp kirty ekka: So is it a arranged marriage for them. Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: arranged kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: I felt so Smita Bernadet: do you know him? kirty ekka: No, I don't Smita Bernadet: as expected ... Smita Bernadet: so tell me how was your day at work? Smita Bernadet: what did you cook today? kirty ekka: Ok he works at electronic city kirty ekka: I ate outside again. Smita Bernadet: who? noel? kirty ekka: Yes Smita Bernadet: what did you eat then? non veg? kirty ekka: Convey my regards to your roomie Smita Bernadet: she said thanks to you kirty ekka: Burger and fried chicken Smita Bernadet: nice combo kirty ekka: I still don't like my kitchen kirty ekka: The lizards are not be seen but I am psycho about them. Smita Bernadet: do one thing...hire a maid for 1-2 days to clean up your kitchen mess kirty ekka: Ok that I can do thanks for he suggestion Smita Bernadet: you are getting paranoid and it's totally normal..even I get it Smita Bernadet: saturday n sunday can be fixed for your kitched...mission Smita Bernadet: kitchen Smita Bernadet: you're really good in spying...no wonder you spotted out noel.. Smita Bernadet: I've been to that philomena church, mysore. I celebrated my christmas there in 2006 Smita Bernadet: with my xavier buddies Smita Bernadet: are you there? Smita Bernadet: oh please those 3 days start only after 2.30 am Smita Bernadet: hey? kirty ekka: Hi Smita Bernadet: don't vanish on me Smita Bernadet: !! kirty ekka: 2:30 is very late for me Smita Bernadet: ok then 12.30 kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: Girl Smita Bernadet: sure about that or you wanna go now? kirty ekka: No we can talk Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Ok I wanted to chronicle how I come to the answer and what is it actually Smita Bernadet: now? kirty ekka: kirty ekka: So this is my Gym Smita Bernadet: looks good Smita Bernadet: gym hero kirty ekka: How would you start your journey Smita Bernadet: what journey? kirty ekka: Give a brief idea on how you plan on doing it.. kirty ekka: Asking god Smita Bernadet: i already asked god...in simple words... kirty ekka: My question to god would be the following: 1- are you the one.. 2- if yes then, do we have his blessings Smita Bernadet: I just asked him that Lord if he is the person you want me to be with then you have to make it happen. You give me the heart to love him. I want to if you want that too... Smita Bernadet: thats how you talk to him? Smita Bernadet: he'll get scared...you need to believe his existence. Where's your faith? kirty ekka: Sorry reframing it kirty ekka: 1- is Bernadet the one kirty ekka: 2- are we going to be blessed ? Smita Bernadet: he will bless us anyway..it's for free ..whether Bernadet is the one or not Smita Bernadet: his love is unconditional Smita Bernadet: blessings too kirty ekka: :) Smita Bernadet: be real with him when you talk...just as you talk to your earthly dad... Smita Bernadet: short and simple talk Smita Bernadet: that's all... kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: I will learn in the next 3 days then Smita Bernadet: don't push yourself too hard on this...recall what I said? it should be an inborn effort..not just because I said so Smita Bernadet: if you eat cheese Smita Bernadet: then how will your gym work? Smita Bernadet: don't you think it will build up fat? Smita Bernadet: i just said Smita Bernadet: because you had burger tonight kirty ekka: No I had chicken burger without mayoneese Smita Bernadet: they always add cheese kirty ekka: No I ask them specifically not to while ordering Smita Bernadet: smart boy Smita Bernadet: they must be getting scared by your voice kirty ekka: Only you get scared kirty ekka: I don't know why kirty ekka: Sweet Bernadet gets scared by me..!!! Smita Bernadet: i'm sure girls must be getting scared..you can ask few on road randomly and watch them running away kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: I will try tomorrow Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: say- hey there gorgeous- do you get scared of my voice? that's it..in a blink you'll find them gone kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: I will be caught and paraded by police after that kirty ekka: I am not listening to you Smita Bernadet: oh that would be fun..see you'll get fame and I can come visit you in jail kirty ekka: Pervert caught, on the streets of Bangalore - will the news say Smita Bernadet: you'll get the title of- MOST WANTED! kirty ekka: I've heard they get raped in the jails Smita Bernadet: no one can rape u... kirty ekka: I am not goin to jail Smita Bernadet: they aren't mad to get killed kirty ekka: I will give a million dollars to stay away Smita Bernadet: you have that much? kirty ekka: Ok baby Smita Bernadet: its 7 min more Smita Bernadet: wait Smita Bernadet: look I'm pulling you..aaaah you're a heavy hulk Smita Bernadet: stay 5 min kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: Say something Smita Bernadet: will you stay quiet? Smita Bernadet: I think I'll miss you kirty ekka: I feel the same kirty ekka: But wait kirty ekka: How would we know it is god kirty ekka: Our emotions may take over and we may only focus on things that we want to see Smita Bernadet: you need to have a clear mind to see through the unseen... Smita Bernadet: so suppose Smita Bernadet: then make this 3 days a month kirty ekka: Ok till 40 we will talk kirty ekka: Now give instructions fast Smita Bernadet: if its infatuation then it will go away in a month..and then...i don't know!!!! Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: 3 days Smita Bernadet: forget a month..i can't do that Smita Bernadet: hey I don't have any instructions...god doesn't spoon feed me! He can show you the opportunity , it's up to us to grab it or let it go Smita Bernadet: kirty Smita Bernadet: it's okay..we'll see in 3 days. kirty ekka: Ok Smita Bernadet: it's raining here kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: I wih you the best then. kirty ekka: Wish you the best Smita Bernadet: so  i'll miss you...wish you the same.. no peeping in pics kirty ekka: May we get what we set out for Smita Bernadet: come here, let me give you a cozy hug kirty ekka: I would miss you too Smita Bernadet: go and sleep well. kirty ekka: Bye my sweet Bernadet. Smita Bernadet: my hulk Smita Bernadet: byee Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: you said 3 days...don't make it 3 and a half kirty ekka: hey kirty ekka: you had said 1 month before !! Smita Bernadet: u want 1 month then fine kirty ekka: hehe no kirty ekka: i would have to set an alarm on my phone then !! kirty ekka: i have missed you... Smita Bernadet: missed you too Smita Bernadet: u didn't even reply my email Smita Bernadet: you are so bad kirty ekka: i am still exploring the concept from a religious point kirty ekka: I' sorry, i wanted to reply Smita Bernadet: if you feel nothing..then just tell me..I'll walk away kirty ekka: Nooooo kirty ekka: it is not that kirty ekka: you were critical on not being - unequally yoked kirty ekka: i am understanding to see what do i need to give you what you want kirty ekka: So, i have begun my journey keeping the spiritual aspect paramount Smita Bernadet: give me your phone no. kirty ekka: 9686955441 Smita Bernadet: thanx kirty ekka: why? Smita Bernadet: for emergency case kirty ekka: oh kirty ekka: i thought we are going to talk kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: we will talk after the meet only kirty ekka: so what did you find out kirty ekka: in these 3 days Smita Bernadet: you are dead! didn't you get anything from my email????? Smita Bernadet: is my email hard to understand? kirty ekka: no kirty ekka: i thought you would look for God's direction Smita Bernadet: I gos all that Smita Bernadet: I can't write everything... Smita Bernadet: got kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: Just tell me your feelings and if you didn't feel anything strong then just tell me for heaven's sake.. I'm feeling so embarrassed...shouldn't had sent you that email. kirty ekka: i have a strong feeling for you kirty ekka: don't get embarassed kirty ekka: it is lovely ...i loved it Smita Bernadet: you still feel that I'm not the one, right? kirty ekka: No i dont have such a feeling Smita Bernadet: and your profile is still on the website? kirty ekka: i have not talked to anyone since i've talked to you.. Smita Bernadet: that's a different thing kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: so, 3 days ago you wanted to ascertain the following things: kirty ekka: is this lust/ infatuation? kirty ekka: are we meant to be together? kirty ekka: is this God's plan for us? kirty ekka: and even i wanted to know this.. kirty ekka: also i felt that if you could have a conversation with God then why not me kirty ekka: so i set on a spiritual path to answer the above questions for me too kirty ekka: maybe i should call you up kirty ekka: now!!!! kirty ekka: ??? Smita Bernadet: i'm down a little bit...don't kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: look he will never force us... Smita Bernadet: it's our will..he has given us a free will..It's not like he will punish us for not obeying him...you can still deny if you don't want this. Smita Bernadet: he can show you what's best for us, rest is our choice kirty ekka: Bernadet I would want to continue... kirty ekka: i will share my thoughts on the subject that i have been maintaining for the 3 days Smita Bernadet: glad to know that.. kirty ekka: i was not able to do a soul searching yesterday...i reserved that time for night and felt tired yesterday kirty ekka: so my conclusions are pending !! kirty ekka: and maybe if i would share my thoughts about us Smita Bernadet: that means you are not sure about me Smita Bernadet: i will try to keep my emotions down hereafter Smita Bernadet: ok so, you can take your time kirty ekka: no kirty ekka: wait kirty ekka: i will send you what i've documented so far Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: so it's not in a proper order kirty ekka: nevertheless, should shed some light Smita Bernadet: waiting... Smita Bernadet: did you have your lunch? Smita Bernadet: are you sending? kirty ekka: have sent you right now kirty ekka: it may look like a rookie's work... Smita Bernadet: email? Smita Bernadet: let me check then kirty ekka: yeah on email...you just scared me...i thought i send it to someone else kirty ekka: let me know if you've got it Smita Bernadet: i got it Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: should I read it now? kirty ekka: yeah kirty ekka: you wanted it Smita Bernadet: okies kirty ekka: so have a look kirty ekka: let me know what you feel Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: ok in the mean time i would get my lunch and be back in 15 mins Smita Bernadet: go hurry up kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: I'm impressed again. I must admit that I haven't documented anything like that, and I am not well versed in Bible- I'm just a beginner like you. I think you are going to lead me in this spiritual journey... I feel blessed to have found you. You are yourself a blessing in my life. I'll document my days later and send over..I'm over joyed to know that you still want to continue with me. Yesterday I had a bad feeling..It was like I lost you after marriage and I was all alone with my baby. That moment struck me like blade. I thought to myself that what if I never got enough moments with you and give you my love. I really want to take care of you. Be yours forever faithful and love you everyday as if it is my last....I think I wrote too much... kirty ekka: so those were my thoughts about you and marrying you Smita Bernadet: Is it okay for you if we talk on phone after meeting? Or is it too much to ask? Am I being over confining? kirty ekka: i was thinking about that too kirty ekka: i don't mind not talking before Smita Bernadet: we are chatting anyways...it's similar talking kirty ekka: but also think about what we would achieve my doing that - Talking, only after meeting kirty ekka: but everything has its on pros and cons kirty ekka: you are welcome to introduce anything...i am all ears Smita Bernadet: ok then call me...I'm bit scared...It's a weird feeling...don't know why..may be it's your voice..I just want to be honest with you, I sit with my dictionary while chatting with you. Smita Bernadet: I guess it's been 2 weeks since we met kirty ekka: hi kirty ekka: are you there Smita Bernadet: sorry I'm late kirty ekka: oh it's ok  Smita Bernadet: you want to talk on phone? kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: should i call Smita Bernadet: yes call me kirty ekka: Hi there Smita Bernadet: hi...vishal Smita Bernadet: how was today? kirty ekka: Hi sorry for calling you up. You must be busy. Smita Bernadet: I missed you Smita Bernadet: sorry is not required kirty ekka: I missed you too. kirty ekka: My day went well. Smita Bernadet: I think you have the right to disturb me whenever you wish to kirty ekka: How was yours?? Smita Bernadet: It was as usual.. I was reading Romans chapter from Bible just now..it's so tough one kirty ekka: Aah no. I would not want to disturb you :) kirty ekka: Ok. Romans Smita Bernadet: yes... Smita Bernadet: so, what did you have for meal? kirty ekka: How are your studies going on? Smita Bernadet: going fine...doesn't seem to end! kirty ekka: I ate outside. I found an insect in the kitchen and got grossed out. Smita Bernadet: haah...your too funny...Vishal gym guy scared of insect Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Not scared I get grossed by them. Smita Bernadet: funny Smita Bernadet: your expressions must be like this when you see one kirty ekka: I am thinking of cleaning my kitchen specially an throwing every open item in the bin before I leave kirty ekka: Yeah it was like that. Smita Bernadet: your kitchen should be labeled as as an insect museum kirty ekka: Ok. Yes Smita Bernadet: so....how was your gym? what did my hulk do today? Smita Bernadet: how was your ppt? kirty ekka: What did you eat? Did you cook anything today? Smita Bernadet: nope I cook only once a while...I has chicken paratha Smita Bernadet: had kirty ekka: Gym went fine. Smita Bernadet: any increment? kirty ekka: Haha. Yeah Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: thats good to know kirty ekka: Have increased 5 pounds for an exercise Smita Bernadet: I did zumba + pilates kirty ekka: So it's like that Smita Bernadet: ohhh! accha Smita Bernadet: jee kirty ekka: Pilates ?? Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: its a form of exercise kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: check in youtube kirty ekka: Ok will do so. kirty ekka: I didn't know you exercise too..!! Smita Bernadet: i did for my tummy...yahan ka rice kha ke, I'm getting too much of starch deposit. And I have no other way to avoid rice...I am reducing my tummy..small tummy Smita Bernadet: Me and janet do it together...Its been a year now. Smita Bernadet: We aren't regular but we try to do whenever possible. kirty ekka: Hahaha you girls ...!!! Smita Bernadet: not funny Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I need to fit my sexy wedding gown...that's why kirty ekka: Yes kirty ekka: Haha...after that ....no more exercise ..!! kirty ekka: You would look great in anything ...some people look good in anything ...like you. Smita Bernadet: no no..no...i want to be fit as long as my body supports..I will continue...I already told you once...Let people say- "oh look at that hot couple!" Smita Bernadet: . Smita Bernadet: so you're leaving on 18th? Smita Bernadet: you there? Smita Bernadet: tussi kahan ho? kirty ekka: hi  Smita Bernadet: I'm here kirty ekka: sorry my internet connections are giving up on me  Smita Bernadet: if it continues then we'll see Smita Bernadet: may be we'll move over to phone...but bear with it till my exams kirty ekka: my cell phone's went out and then my personal comp is in shambles...so i had to take out my office laptop Smita Bernadet: oh kirty ekka: yeah you better do well in the exams  Smita Bernadet: i will...give my best kirty ekka: there are so much sacrifices being made  kirty ekka: !! Smita Bernadet: I'm not a genius Smita Bernadet: hey! Smita Bernadet: now don't pressurize me Mr. I ain't brainy like you! kirty ekka: i am also no brainy  kirty ekka: i am only pushing you  kirty ekka: slowly Smita Bernadet: slowly...i see Smita Bernadet: you asked me the other day whether I was shy or not... kirty ekka: so..?? Smita Bernadet: so, I'm not shy unless it's required of me kirty ekka: you are sharmili Smita Bernadet: haah kirty ekka: well nice Smita Bernadet: stop.. Smita Bernadet: well off-course I'm not shameless at-least kirty ekka: haha  Smita Bernadet: I'm low on internet MB so I couldn't watch the videos you sent me, but I downloaded them as mp3 and heard them...2 more are yet to be heard. kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: and I'm guessing that you may not have watched what I sent you kirty ekka: no !!! not yet  kirty ekka: you detailed the story to me before and now you want me to watch the movie  Smita Bernadet: yes kirty ekka: its like watching it two times now  kirty ekka: ok i will watch it today Smita Bernadet: it has lot more to what I said. It has hiking in it too Smita Bernadet: its about marriage Smita Bernadet: so you should watch it kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: i have bookmarked it ...i will watch it  kirty ekka: before tomorrow Smita Bernadet: as per your convenience ... Smita Bernadet: I have 1 weird wish... kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: tell me  Smita Bernadet: I want to try lifting you... Smita Bernadet: don't laugh Smita Bernadet: !!! kirty ekka: haha Smita Bernadet: let me try atleast kirty ekka: ok i will let you try...i will get a zandu balm before that Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: well you do zumba kirty ekka: do you dance then  Smita Bernadet: sometimes I dance... Smita Bernadet: but I'm not very good at it but I can dance if I learn it Smita Bernadet: I used to when I was in school.. kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: I used to teach kids christmas dance for plays kirty ekka: maybe you know how to dance well Smita Bernadet: And when I'm very sad, I just dance in my room to any song I feel like kirty ekka: that is why you asked me questions on dancing before  Smita Bernadet: I asked so that I could take you to dance with me on a romantic moonlight eve kirty ekka: ohk  Smita Bernadet: like a soft ball dance kirty ekka: we will do lots of practice before Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: when do you think we should meet  kirty ekka: which tentative dates  Smita Bernadet: any of the weekends.. kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: after you return Smita Bernadet: 18th might be an exam kirty ekka: october Smita Bernadet: yup kirty ekka: or sept ? kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: i will remember to plan something later than 18th then  Smita Bernadet: that would be ideal kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: so.. kirty ekka: so what ?? Smita Bernadet: I'm just thinking about you kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: look for jobs in bangalore also  kirty ekka: what kind of jobs are you interested in?? Smita Bernadet: I already am.from the time..before I met you Smita Bernadet: genetics...fertility clinics... Smita Bernadet: molecular lab work.... kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: what else? kirty ekka: sounds cutting edge technology to me  Smita Bernadet: my dad keeps calling me to ranchi for job...but I denied kirty ekka: my dad does the same too  kirty ekka: well our 1 hour is over now   Smita Bernadet: that early? kirty ekka: else we would be talking till the sun comes out  Smita Bernadet: oh yeah Smita Bernadet: we hardly spoke! Smita Bernadet: and already kirty ekka: lets talk for 10 mins on phone.. Smita Bernadet: no no... kirty ekka: and then finish for the day  kirty ekka: okay okay... Smita Bernadet: oh please..that 10 min will be very difficult for me Smita Bernadet: pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeez kirty ekka: lets not then Smita Bernadet: 10 min means an hour or 2 kirty ekka: no only 10 mins kirty ekka: i will cut the call  Smita Bernadet: I won't feel like parting then kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: It's okay...we need to sacrifice few desires kirty ekka: leave it  Smita Bernadet: now give my hugs then I shall leave kirty ekka: Bernadet ... kirty ekka: HUGS Smita Bernadet: hugs to you to my prince...charming kirty ekka: study well...baby Smita Bernadet: have a sound sleep... Smita Bernadet: until tomorrow.. kirty ekka: hmmmmm Smita Bernadet: hugs again..and I just squeezed your chubby cheeks kirty ekka: you take care  Smita Bernadet: good night... kirty ekka: Good night kirty ekka: dear kirty ekka: hi do ping me when you are free kirty ekka: and if you are busy that is ok too Smita Bernadet: hey handsome Smita Bernadet: sorry for the delay kirty ekka: hi awesome  kirty ekka: if you are in the middle of something then complete it, no need to get disturbed at the moment Smita Bernadet: I was transferring some movies for my friend so port wasn't free Smita Bernadet: it's done now kirty ekka: hehe ok  kirty ekka: i thought you were mugging something  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I was... Smita Bernadet: so? Smita Bernadet: how you've been whole day? kirty ekka: it was a free day today for me  Smita Bernadet: today also! kirty ekka: all work have been completed  Smita Bernadet: you have a cool job kirty ekka: the review has to come form other people  Smita Bernadet: so you're an expert kirty ekka: had one review tomorrow but it got postponed to fridaycos we have a holiday here kirty ekka: sorry have on review tomorrow kirty ekka: *one review Smita Bernadet: they should definitely pay you more kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: yeh  kirty ekka: what were you learning today  kirty ekka: completed maths ?? Smita Bernadet: math n current affairs....I did as much as  my brain could grasp kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: I was telling janet today Smita Bernadet: that Smita Bernadet: what if Smita Bernadet: you n me both get settled Smita Bernadet: with our hubby in bangalore Smita Bernadet: that would be fun Smita Bernadet: We both -she n me can Smita Bernadet: enjoy so much Smita Bernadet: i meant her n me Smita Bernadet: janet n I can go zumba together kirty ekka: yeah ...you will have a partner to run away to if you get annoyed !!! kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: What other option do I have if you leave me n go with your friends? kirty ekka: when is she getting married ? Smita Bernadet: november kirty ekka: i will carry you everywhere  Smita Bernadet: what! that's just for saying....you'll change ... Smita Bernadet: i've heard that people don't remain romantic and same after marriage... kirty ekka: i know you will keep me mesmerized
Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: what if you find some other hottie? kirty ekka: i am settled with his hottie  Smita Bernadet: I'm blushing here.... kirty ekka: i would let them know that my heart bleeds at letting them go.. Smita Bernadet: wait..mum on phone kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: take your time  kirty ekka: don't be hasty Smita Bernadet: i won't Smita Bernadet: haah....i was talking in hindi Smita Bernadet: wat a relief... Smita Bernadet: done Smita Bernadet: so? Smita Bernadet: what did you eat? kirty ekka: do you talk in hindi to your mama  Smita Bernadet: yes,,they force me to Smita Bernadet: my dad scolds me if he hears me speak in english kirty ekka: ohk ...maybe he too knows the fact that hindi sounds cute on you Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: You find my hindi funny and over here my friends make fun of my tamil! Smita Bernadet: They do the same thing as you...if I say a word in tamil- they laugh and ask me to repeat it kirty ekka: i like your hindi Smita Bernadet: I've improved a lot but I don't like hindi movies kirty ekka: unlike your friends who find it funny Smita Bernadet: i can speak but I struggle to read & write it... Smita Bernadet: my friends find my tamil funny kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: I wish you were with me, I would had taken you for a walk on beach kirty ekka: we will definitely sit by the beach.. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: i was talking about right now sitting there Smita Bernadet: anyways Smita Bernadet: did you sleep early yesterday? kirty ekka: yes, i got tired and then dozed off  kirty ekka: why do you ask  Smita Bernadet: wanted to make sure if you had enough sleep kirty ekka: oh yes...i did  kirty ekka: what about you...are you getting enough of sleep  Smita Bernadet: more than enough infact kirty ekka: if you dont then the tiredness would make you remember less Smita Bernadet: i know Smita Bernadet: so I wanted to ask you tha same question what you asked me...what if you find that I have flaws? Smita Bernadet: afterwards? kirty ekka: if it is something that can be improved/ taken care of then i would work with you together  kirty ekka: else would accept it as a part of the parcel  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: What if you get tired of looking at my face everyday? kirty ekka: firstly, that seems impossible. You are lovely, But, to answer you - i will close my eyes and keep you close Smita Bernadet: do you even mean that? seems hard to believe kirty ekka: well then know a fact...you are beautiful  Smita Bernadet: what if I am not well and I put on weight and I'm not pretty anymore ? kirty ekka: internally and externally  kirty ekka: does not matter to me  Smita Bernadet: will you take your moti wife everywhere then? kirty ekka: it happens to every one  kirty ekka: yeah i will..and also will make sure that you don't go back hungry from a party  Smita Bernadet: I don't eat much... Smita Bernadet: just enough kirty ekka: but i will take you out for jogging too !! Smita Bernadet: suppose I'm sick and your friends wants you to join them for camping , will you go and leave me with a maid? kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: we will go  together, next time  Smita Bernadet: Will you scold me if I'm late to home? kirty ekka: no  Smita Bernadet: what will you do If I want to spend my lovely evening with my lovely hubby alone , while all your friends are asking you to join a party which is really not that necessary? kirty ekka: you  Smita Bernadet: will your priorities change after marriage? kirty ekka: i currently attend very few parties kirty ekka: but will you ask me to boycott all such meetings Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: once a while If I want you to be with me...? kirty ekka: haha that won't be a problem Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: i have a guess on what you plan to do.. Smita Bernadet: i have no plans Smita Bernadet: i'm just asking kirty ekka: you would ask me every possible question and then later highlight it  kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: may be...may b not Smita Bernadet: what is your favorite breakfast? kirty ekka: you are smart !!! But, i am now aware of your genius plan kirty ekka: eggs (sunny side up), bread toast, boiled eggs, and nice tea Smita Bernadet: I sometimes feel that I'm the husband here!.... kirty ekka: husband asks few questions and does everything  kirty ekka: i don't see that happening here .. kirty ekka: plus husbands are rough and rugged ..you are not  Smita Bernadet: and the breakfast that you mentioned--to my surprise...we share the same taste. it's my all time  favorite too.... Smita Bernadet: ok ok Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: when I go home---i'm the one to finish eggs every alternate day kirty ekka:  super surprising  kirty ekka: i eat atleast 4 eggs in the breakfast  kirty ekka: then probably 2-4 more later Smita Bernadet: I eat 2 eggs....5-6 bread with butter...and tea..well..if we both eat the 1 full bread packet and half a dozen egg would get over every morning kirty ekka: except for the yolk in the sunny side eggs i throw away the yolks in other eggs Smita Bernadet: yolk put tummy Smita Bernadet: i know Smita Bernadet: hey..i do the same! kirty ekka: haha maybe you can ask you mum to send her doggy  Smita Bernadet: i eat the yolk of half boiled omlette and discard to boiled ones yolk... kirty ekka: the doggy will get lots of carbohydrates  Smita Bernadet: both of us have same eating habit when it comes to egg kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: u n me....it's really coincidental... Smita Bernadet: my webby is too old to eat yolk now Smita Bernadet: What's your sleeping pattern? just wanted to let you know that don't sleep on your chest- it increases tummy size and also disturbs digestion at night. kirty ekka: oooh i sleep on my chest  Smita Bernadet: seriously...you need to correct it then kirty ekka: ok will do so then  kirty ekka: i didn't know it was bad  Smita Bernadet: whole body's weight comes on chest- even breathing is disturbed as lungs are not fully dilated Smita Bernadet: try sleeping on side ways or straight but not on chest kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: you have a royal bed! with so many pillows around. I have only 1...I'm jealous of you now kirty ekka: no problem  kirty ekka: come and stay here then Smita Bernadet: Someday when it's right kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: do you want to go for trekking etc.  Smita Bernadet: why not? kirty ekka: ladakh ?? Smita Bernadet: I would love to Smita Bernadet: but I'm very susceptible to cold..I try to stay in warm places...once I get cold , It's very difficult to get rid kirty ekka: oh yes i now remember  kirty ekka: i thought about this scenario about us kirty ekka: before  kirty ekka: we will see how can be acclimatized for all that cold  kirty ekka: that's why you should come to ranchi  kirty ekka: ENDURE the cold there and learn how to deal with it  kirty ekka: i know you can endure a lot !!! Smita Bernadet: I might spoil your trip and fun, instead of enjoying you may end up taking me to doctor..so I honestly don't know... Smita Bernadet: For my body to get used to chillness , it may take years. A month's vacation in ranchi won't boost up my immunity Smita Bernadet: And if my voice goes away...I cannot stand it... I cannot even sing Last december when I got cough, It got healed only last month! Smita Bernadet: I wasn't able to sing for all those months kirty ekka: WOW ...8 months to heal kirty ekka: do you stay in an AC room there Smita Bernadet: yes...it became a mild asthma Smita Bernadet: I was taking inhaler...as per doctor Smita Bernadet: I don't have AC in room but my lab does Smita Bernadet: as i said, I'm allergic to AC. I cannot stay in it for very long. kirty ekka: maybe your lab had huge cooling requirements Smita Bernadet: It's difficult for a singer to avoid icecream and cold drinks..but I have to do it all these years kirty ekka: hmmmm ok  Smita Bernadet: I don't eat n drink anything cold...I melt my icecream and leave my cold drink for room temperature, then only have it kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: it's not only the temperature. I have dust allergy...if I do not cover my nose in pollution, the next moment I start sneezing kirty ekka: you have affluent diseases and symptoms !! Smita Bernadet: so doctor told me to use mask and my sister bought me one from tibet...I use that often. Smita Bernadet: My dad has strictly told me not to avoid mask so I make sure that I take care of my health... Smita Bernadet: Its not a disease.. kirty ekka: ok i get it  Smita Bernadet: I'm just susceptible to cold...whereas, I can bear hot weather wasily Smita Bernadet: easily kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: i see Smita Bernadet: I just need to take precautions Smita Bernadet: If I do all what is required then I stay normal kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: Sorry Smita Bernadet: I'm not perfect kirty ekka: yeah i know that  Smita Bernadet: Last time went for christmas, I couldn't enjoy anything...I was having very bad cough and cold Smita Bernadet: So I decided not to go when it's chill kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: I tried every medicine..nothing happened. finally the doc said that it has turned into asthma... Smita Bernadet: now I'm alright kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: I discontinued those inhalers Smita Bernadet: Sorry for spoiling your ladakh plan I will try to stay warm then if you take me Smita Bernadet: I will try to come to ranchi this winter...okay kirty ekka: hey i didn't know that winter is so difficult for you  kirty ekka: it seems it is hard for you to acclimatize to cold weather  kirty ekka: so no worries at all remember your health is prime  Smita Bernadet: it wasn't before but now that my body has adjusted to chennai, I find it really difficult. Every time I visit bangalore, I fall sick. Smita Bernadet: bangalore has lots of rain...the day it rains, I start feeling cold kirty ekka: i will visit you @ chennai...don't be disturbed  Smita Bernadet: if I keep staying in that place for a year then I think I'll adjust to it then..It's just a matter of time i guess Smita Bernadet: You must be thinking that what a burden this girl is kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: i am not thinking that way..so you should also not think that i am thinking  Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: ok what did you eat today? kirty ekka: got food from outside  kirty ekka: had chicken and phulkas Smita Bernadet: sounds yummy kirty ekka: BTW we have overshot the time limit for a hour kirty ekka: you need to dash back to your books  Smita Bernadet: hmmmmmm don't feel like kirty ekka: haha Smita Bernadet: but....I'll force myself now... Smita Bernadet: You are so like magnet kirty ekka: bye dear  Smita Bernadet: Please can you try to be less adorable ? Smita Bernadet: Sleep well my prince charming. Goodnight then kirty ekka: bye beautiful chennai queen  kirty ekka: study well and take good rest  Smita Bernadet: bye bye ...hmm ..i will . bye kirty ekka: Not here?? Smita Bernadet: I'm here Smita Bernadet: hi...how is my prince? kirty ekka:  fine kirty ekka: how is the Chennai beauty today Smita Bernadet: I'm fine but I'm loosing weight kirty ekka: Wow..i plan to loose weight but am unsuccessful  kirty ekka: what are you doing !!! Smita Bernadet: I was just doing some math kirty ekka: oooh  Smita Bernadet: my chubby cheeks are going away Smita Bernadet: I need to eat more i guess Smita Bernadet: how many eggs you had today? kirty ekka: 3 Smita Bernadet: so how did your day go? anything interesting? kirty ekka: today was a holiday  Smita Bernadet: ahan Smita Bernadet: so what did you do whole day? kirty ekka: went for shopping ...needed to buy a external hard drive for my father  kirty ekka: so got a 1 TB drive  Smita Bernadet: cool! so, did u watch that link I sent? kirty ekka: the suicide one i watched  kirty ekka: the other one is not there  Smita Bernadet: oh... Smita Bernadet: how come..it was running on mine Smita Bernadet: anyways, do you have shops in bangalore that sell long winter coats? because here we don't... kirty ekka: could be that my net connectivity was not right  kirty ekka: yes sure, there are lots of shops here  Smita Bernadet: If I come to Ranchi then I need to buy one Smita Bernadet: I want long ones Smita Bernadet: knee length kirty ekka: yes...the overcoats..you will get them here Smita Bernadet: May be i'll have to come to bangalore to shop kirty ekka: nice to hear that Smita Bernadet: so, what else you did apart from shopping? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: reading and studying some documents kirty ekka: on storage systems  Smita Bernadet: good Smita Bernadet: study well Smita Bernadet: you know, when I was searching for a partner, I made sure that he didn't serve the armed forces, navy, police, railway and bank... Smita Bernadet: from my early days I never wanted any of those kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: why not the bankers?? kirty ekka: armed forces guys are also respectable...atleast i respect them  Smita Bernadet: I hate bank job so I didn't want a banker...and kirty ekka: haha..ok Smita Bernadet: I didn't want to be a widow soon so no way ----no army, navy n police. They are very hostile in nature... kirty ekka: ok. kirty ekka: were you solving maths the entire day? Smita Bernadet: what about you? Didn't you want someone who is a engineer like you? Smita Bernadet: no i was doing current affairs with math Smita Bernadet: why? are you going to take my test now? kirty ekka: no nothing like that  kirty ekka: i think i would not have wanted an engineer  Smita Bernadet: i cannot do math whole day...i will become crazy Smita Bernadet: why not and engineer? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: i don't know... Smita Bernadet: come on, there must be a reason Smita Bernadet: tell me kirty ekka: well no reason at all  Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: probably i would have liked them too  kirty ekka: it depends on the girl  kirty ekka: if she is good...well everyone will like her  kirty ekka: i have no animosity towards engineering girls  Smita Bernadet: got it Smita Bernadet: did you go to gym today? kirty ekka: yes at 4 in the evening ...it was going to be closed after 7 due to Ganesh chaturthi  Smita Bernadet: So, hows your weight now? kirty ekka: 66.9 Smita Bernadet: is your gym near by? kirty ekka: yes o go to Snap Fitness which is around 100-200 meter away from my house  Smita Bernadet: 66 is fine? how much you had said you wanted it to be? kirty ekka: college - 60 kirty ekka: after college 80 Smita Bernadet: how much you want? kirty ekka: now i want to be 60 -62  Smita Bernadet: ok let me check your BMI kirty ekka: it must be normal now  Smita Bernadet: hmm its normal Smita Bernadet: I have a surprise for you when we meet kirty ekka: wow  kirty ekka: what would that be  Smita Bernadet: please don't guess Smita Bernadet: or else you'll spoil it kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: so how many days it's been since you last smoked? Smita Bernadet: and how's your health due to it's side effects? kirty ekka: 21st aug i quit kirty ekka: it is fine now  Smita Bernadet: okay...coz I was worried for you kirty ekka: so 27 days till now  kirty ekka: why?? Smita Bernadet: you only said that your stomach was paining kirty ekka: side effects wane after a period  Smita Bernadet: and you were feeling uneasy kirty ekka: ok..yes i was  Smita Bernadet: now? kirty ekka: not now ...now i'm ok with my body Smita Bernadet: I miss you voice...so I'm planning to listen to your song prior sleeping Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: hmmm  kirty ekka: don;t laugh this time !! Smita Bernadet: can i smile atleast? Smita Bernadet: i will try not to laugh kirty ekka: haha yes  Smita Bernadet: but can't promise though kirty ekka: why do i keep on doing embarrassing things !! Smita Bernadet: what did you do? Smita Bernadet: It's a sweet song Smita Bernadet: in your thunderous charming enchanted voice kirty ekka: i would need to make you listen to it when i am there  Smita Bernadet: I like it a lot kirty ekka: and then see the true reactions  Smita Bernadet: my reactions would still remain the same Smita Bernadet: finally i deleted that pic kirty ekka: oh  kirty ekka: you need to be careful with me...i can criticize anything  Smita Bernadet: then I'll have to delete all of it Smita Bernadet: someday kirty ekka: Nooo kirty ekka: hmmm i am learning my lessons  kirty ekka: i need to keep quiet  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I find that photo of yours very cute and funny where you have a namaste pose.. Smita Bernadet: your eyebrows raised like Rock kirty ekka: well that was the intention .... Smita Bernadet: i know Smita Bernadet: i can make out kirty ekka: at the moment of photography my friends were nagging me  Smita Bernadet: i can imagine it kirty ekka: they were shouting out that this christian dude only wants to pose in front and has no bhakti etc.  Smita Bernadet: haah Smita Bernadet: true only kirty ekka: yes they knew me well  kirty ekka: i like your pic in saari  Smita Bernadet: the person who has bhakti will face the statue unlike you facing your back kirty ekka: nice logical inference  Smita Bernadet: i'm smart Smita Bernadet: which sari...that green one? Smita Bernadet: at brinda's wedding? kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: you are dressed more than the bride  Smita Bernadet: I was the only one who draped it myself..other girls took help from me....hey...not at all....i had the least jewelery among all kirty ekka: you're lucky no one kidnapped you  kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: whole shadi crowd went mad..every body wanted to talk to me. All the kids thought that I'm from China!!! I don't know what led them to believe that. And all the elders were coming one by one and talking to me. I was like one foreigner among them. I actually felt like a celebrity that day...all my friends were teasing me! Smita Bernadet: Even I feel lucky that no one kidnapped me that day. Smita Bernadet: I looked very different because the shadi was in a very interior village of coimbatore and I with my pink hair color and fringe haircut..i looked different to them kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: i am right in my guess then Smita Bernadet: every body was taking photo with me one by one...I was hiding behind my friends to escape kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: you must have had an awesome time there  Smita Bernadet: yes i did...for the first time in my life I got to know how celebrities experience these moments... kirty ekka: diva material  Smita Bernadet: so... Smita Bernadet: you like my sari or me? Smita Bernadet: I want to see you in kurta some day kirty ekka: both Smita Bernadet: or sherwani kirty ekka: hey how do you go to ranchi  Smita Bernadet: flight kirty ekka: hmm Smita Bernadet: via delhi Smita Bernadet: I halt at delhi if I feel like or else I don't kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: direct flight isn't there kirty ekka: yes i know  Smita Bernadet: it's either via kolkata, patna or delhi... Smita Bernadet: I meet all my cousins at delhi n then go to ranchi kirty ekka: i was having a funny thought today  kirty ekka: lets travel together to ranchi  Smita Bernadet: are you serious? Smita Bernadet: I cannot travel in train...I get mad kirty ekka: haha i too have never travelled  Smita Bernadet: I've never traveled so I'm not used to it. Smita Bernadet: From the day I was born I've been flying kirty ekka: this would be like getting stuck with each other for 3 days atleast ..!!! Smita Bernadet: I can take train for short routes only kirty ekka: yes  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Wow  Smita Bernadet: I can't stay without taking bath for 3 days!!!! kirty ekka: don;t sweat then  Smita Bernadet: you are used to it, i know kirty ekka: plus AC too is not good for you  kirty ekka: man this plan is foiled from the start !! Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: ok...we can go to delhi and roam around over there  Smita Bernadet: how can I not sweat if a hot guy like you travels with me? kirty ekka: haha Hottie is complaining  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: do you have friends at delhi? kirty ekka: i have but would not be meeting them then i guess  Smita Bernadet: will you have a place to stay there? Smita Bernadet: I'll be at JNU or my mosi's place kirty ekka: i have lots of places to hangout there  kirty ekka: where does your mosa stay  Smita Bernadet: I haven't planned it yet coz my job is my priority here..I don't know.. Smita Bernadet: I can't recall the area... kirty ekka: i would probably stay with my cousins, from ranchi, there  kirty ekka: gurgaon area Smita Bernadet: ok that's too far Smita Bernadet: it's like extreme ends kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: hmm  kirty ekka: lets see that later  Smita Bernadet: waise nice thought kirty ekka: yeah ...come to bangalore instead kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: If you're planning to expose me to winter and roam about then you'll have to keep me warm too... kirty ekka: surely...the cold won't bite you  Smita Bernadet: If I plan for ranchi then I would definitely come to bangalore for shopping kirty ekka: Get Rupa along with you ... Smita Bernadet: haaha Smita Bernadet: I want a coat...not rupa Smita Bernadet: I like long coats..gives a smart look Smita Bernadet: where are u? Smita Bernadet: Ya, bangalore will be cold, I'll make sure I have something to keep me warm there Smita Bernadet: i think your connection has gone kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: you will get your apparels here  kirty ekka: it wont be a problem finding them here  Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: u there? kirty ekka: yes am here now  kirty ekka: sorry for the disruptions Smita Bernadet: where's this jonah fall? Smita Bernadet: its okay kirty ekka: yes, have you been there  Smita Bernadet: no kirty ekka: i think that is my father's favorite location   kirty ekka: he takes everyone there ... Smita Bernadet: pic is good, you make funny faces often... Smita Bernadet: and why is the pic so blurred? I mean you all are blurred kirty ekka: my pics don't come well ...thats why i make funny faces  kirty ekka: have you downloaded it  Smita Bernadet: nope kirty ekka: it is not blurred .. Smita Bernadet: wait kirty ekka: it is a 2.4 MB file Smita Bernadet: little blurred as compared to the landscape Smita Bernadet: I downloaded it kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: this was 2014 winter  Smita Bernadet: okay....it's nice...your mum looks a bit like my mun. today I sent ecards to both my sisters saying that I miss you...they replied that- didi koi problem hai kya? what happened? Smita Bernadet: I was just missing them...a lot kirty ekka: i see kirty ekka: sisters are mostly very cool with each other  Smita Bernadet: yeah kirty ekka: i haven't met fighting sisters till date  Smita Bernadet: Have you celebrated valentine's day ever? kirty ekka: this year was the first time... i celebrated  Smita Bernadet: oh Smita Bernadet: how did you celebrate it? kirty ekka: went out to a restaurant and had some food and wine  Smita Bernadet: with boys or girls? kirty ekka: So this was with a girl Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: was it fun? Smita Bernadet: sure must had been kirty ekka: yes it was ok  Smita Bernadet: It's good that you left smoking.. kirty ekka: yes i know...why do you remember it suddenly  Smita Bernadet: just like that kirty ekka: ok this V day with the girl  kirty ekka: we met on facebook...she said that she was interested in me...but i felt emotionally detached...but then thought that maybe its because of my past relationship that i don;t feel attached....so decided to give it a try...but then there were the usual relationships' test kirty ekka: and it did not stand those tests...maybe i was biased about it a lot  Smita Bernadet: so you decided on 1 day itself? kirty ekka: no i gave it time to decide ... Smita Bernadet: what tests? kirty ekka: distance tests Smita Bernadet: I'm interested to know kirty ekka: how does the relationship fare if you are far away  kirty ekka: etc.. kirty ekka: others are common  Smita Bernadet: distance doesn't make any difference...so what did you find about this distant relationship thing? kirty ekka: she is not the one  Smita Bernadet: how? just because of distance? kirty ekka: no... kirty ekka: when you say someone you love them...actions should display your emotions  Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: i agree Smita Bernadet: didn't she show any emotion? kirty ekka: i didn't find that happen Smita Bernadet: then what happened? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: i think she is a fine girl... maybe she said and did things she had no idea about  kirty ekka: i hold no grudges against her...  kirty ekka:    i think she is a fine girl... maybe she said and did things she had no idea about  Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: so are you'll still friends? kirty ekka: No kirty ekka: we failed to be friends  Smita Bernadet: you defriended her from fb? kirty ekka: No she did that  Smita Bernadet: oh girls are like that kirty ekka: i don't understand her  Smita Bernadet: atleast she was clear about it kirty ekka: but she calls me up sometimes !! Smita Bernadet: oh Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: and she misses u? kirty ekka: still its ok  kirty ekka: i don't ask these silly questions  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I meant does it seem from the way she talks? kirty ekka: i don;t know... Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: i have not tried to give those thoughts any room to grow ... Smita Bernadet: so you had a good v-day kirty ekka: yes it was fun though.... kirty ekka: could have been better...but  Smita Bernadet: she's from your city? kirty ekka: from Ranchi  kirty ekka: not from bangalore  Smita Bernadet: better in the sense? Smita Bernadet: so you celebrated your v-day in ranchi? kirty ekka: could have gone to better places  kirty ekka: no i was in bangalore Smita Bernadet: oh you wanted to roam about more Smita Bernadet: it's not about being to better places, it's about being with eachother!!! Smita Bernadet: no matter what place is it kirty ekka: no we landed at the wrong restaurant.. the couples here were boring... Smita Bernadet: you wanted interesting couples? kirty ekka: i meant i wanted to find the spark .... Smita Bernadet: why would you want that? kirty ekka: the music and the lights should have been better  Smita Bernadet: do you think if you were surrounded by couples kissing and hugging then you and her would had found your SPARK! kirty ekka: no  Smita Bernadet: do really think ambiance matters? kirty ekka: a genuine feeling of affections should be there  Smita Bernadet: that can happen in a silent place also... kirty ekka: yes it is true  Smita Bernadet: you don't need your surroundings to be romantic if you have that spark within you kirty ekka: i meant to say that ...probably beginning with laughter would have been better Smita Bernadet: so how did it begin? with a cry? kirty ekka: no...long walks to find out a restaurant that was having a free table  Smita Bernadet: it happens... Smita Bernadet: so what... Smita Bernadet: it was a busy day kirty ekka: then we found a italian place and sat there  Smita Bernadet: anyways..now I'm thinking where to take you for lunch kirty ekka: yeah i stay in indiranagar.. that is where several restaurants are ...and all were full because of V day Smita Bernadet: I cannot afford expensive once with great ambiance... Smita Bernadet: and you need to be ready to walk... Smita Bernadet: coz I'm going to make you walk a bit kirty ekka: i was thinking of borrowing a bike from my friend there Smita Bernadet: chennai traffic is crazy Smita Bernadet: it's better if you don't Smita Bernadet: no one follows the rules here kirty ekka: i will follow the public  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: no you are travelling with me in auto kirty ekka: BTW how was your V Day Smita Bernadet: traveling Smita Bernadet: I was working in lab on v-day kirty ekka: oh...:( Smita Bernadet: don't be sad Smita Bernadet: I'm not kirty ekka: No proposals for the Madrasi beauty?? Smita Bernadet: I believe that everyday can be v-day when both of us are together Smita Bernadet: proposals kirty ekka: yes that is true .. Smita Bernadet: nope, I keep my own attitude, guys think a lot before approaching me so no...no one did in my campus because all knew that I already had one kirty ekka: ok... kirty ekka: i see Smita Bernadet: I just called up my guy and wished on phone Smita Bernadet: he was in ranchi Smita Bernadet: last year it was so Smita Bernadet: what else? kirty ekka: so, what kind of food do you like.. kirty ekka: where do you usually venture out ??/ kirty ekka: southern/ northern/ western Smita Bernadet: I try everything...nothing in particular. southern is already served at my mess so I avoid that when I'm out Smita Bernadet: I like pizza but you don't. I like rajasthani and punjabi...I like the usual northern cuisine too.. pasta i hate...and chinese is fine but not my favorite..i love momos kirty ekka: i was thinking pizza now  kirty ekka: i nearly eat momos here daily  Smita Bernadet: i know Smita Bernadet: here momos are too costly so I avoid them Smita Bernadet: it's 90 Rs for 6 pieces Smita Bernadet: non sense kirty ekka: haha ok  Smita Bernadet: in delhi its 1 Rs per piece kirty ekka: hey that too is not the case right now  kirty ekka: 1 Rs momo is past now  Smita Bernadet: so I stuff myself with momo when ever I go to delhi Smita Bernadet: I had it 2 yrs back Smita Bernadet: delhi is very cheap for momos... Smita Bernadet: one full area over there is filled with momo shops Smita Bernadet: alone Smita Bernadet: variety of them..of every kind Smita Bernadet: you there? kirty ekka: wow...my mouth is watering now... Smita Bernadet: you made me hungry kirty ekka: i am thinking of what to stuff in my mouth Smita Bernadet: they have fried and steamed and baked...veg and non-veg too... Smita Bernadet: in veg also they have varieties same for non-veg ones Smita Bernadet: hello? Smita Bernadet: you there? kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: eating biscuits  kirty ekka: out of hunger kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: you should eat less and I should be the one stuffing Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: if you talk like this, what can i do? Smita Bernadet: you started baby Smita Bernadet: I think I'll also munch something kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: i have a south indian snack...it's like coin shaped kirty ekka: banana chips? Smita Bernadet: made of daal and fried with spices kirty ekka: ooh  Smita Bernadet: so be ready to walk when you meet me kirty ekka: i am eating Nice biscuits Smita Bernadet: nice kirty ekka: are you planning to wear high heels during this long walk ? Smita Bernadet: haahahh no silly Smita Bernadet: my heels will spoil Smita Bernadet: it's meant for tiles Smita Bernadet: and clean surfaces kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: but I'll wear lesser heeled one kirty ekka: wear flats ..you would have back pain otherwise Smita Bernadet: not flat Smita Bernadet: i'll wear flat only when it rains Smita Bernadet: heels are not related to backpains kirty ekka: i hope it rains  Smita Bernadet: its a myth Smita Bernadet: hey... Smita Bernadet: why you're afraid of my heels? I won't dig a hole on your skull kirty ekka: no ...not about the heels..i was thinking rain would be cool  kirty ekka: i am sure you would look cool in any shoe  Smita Bernadet: I won't get wet..I don't like it in city..it's acid rain Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Acid rain - do the roads melt away after the rains Smita Bernadet: rains are good in country side Smita Bernadet: acid rains damage the painting on walls, corrodes off the surface Smita Bernadet: buildings get discolored Smita Bernadet: since chennai has industries...it's acid rain kirty ekka: Oh my sweet little baby B Smita Bernadet: unlike the ones in villages and wilderness kirty ekka: the hour has come upon us, dictating us to part Smita Bernadet: if you want to get drenched with me then we can go to any outskirts kirty ekka: i can do that...:)  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: then the next day you'll find me sneezing Smita Bernadet: so..you're leaving? kirty ekka: but then i will keep you warm  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: give you nice tea in the morning with sunny side eggs and butter toasts  Smita Bernadet: yummy kirty ekka: i will want to make you sick then  Smita Bernadet: hey naughty boy Smita Bernadet: hmm...now we need to leave Smita Bernadet: you better msg me when you're on vacation Mr. Smita Bernadet: you are supposed to leave tomorrow, right? kirty ekka: 19th  kirty ekka: morning .. Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: I'm missing u already kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: so, you'll be meeting your v-day friend..there..and then don't forget me. kirty ekka: we will meet and have great fun later!! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: yes hope so kirty ekka: No...I'm not meeting my V-day friend  kirty ekka: she is my childhood friend  Smita Bernadet: i'm talking about v-day girl Smita Bernadet: not the bride kirty ekka: oh she won;t be there Smita Bernadet: anyways...just don't forget me kirty ekka: nevertheless if we meet if shall not forget you  kirty ekka: that is my promise  Smita Bernadet: and the search you have started for God, please don't let it fade away because that's the only thing that's keeping you n me together. kirty ekka: surely... kirty ekka: we will talk in details post 20th  Smita Bernadet: yeah..we'll talk on phone then Smita Bernadet: bbye my prince kirty ekka: Adios...my friend.. Smita Bernadet: friend...ok Smita Bernadet: then friend kirty ekka: sorry  kirty ekka: that is how i talk to my friends at office before i leave kirty ekka: just brought it here too  kirty ekka: kirty ekka: don't get offended and all !! Smita Bernadet: bye then FRIEND kirty ekka: Adios amigos is what i say  Smita Bernadet: yes....i can see that kirty ekka: bbye then sweet heart  Smita Bernadet: please don't say if you don't mean it... kirty ekka: sleep well...wake up and seize the day again  Smita Bernadet: ya...goodnight... kirty ekka: ??? Smita Bernadet:  i will.. you too kirty ekka: i would not be able to pen it down if i didn't intend to  kirty ekka: you don;t think a lot  Smita Bernadet: then where's my vishal hugs? kirty ekka: have been instantly sent to you telepathically  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: okay then kirty ekka: i will crush you someday  kirty ekka: don;t be so cute  Smita Bernadet: I'll lift you one day Smita Bernadet: don't be so adorable kirty ekka: wow if that happens... i will take a photograph !! Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: bye babes Smita Bernadet: adios kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: prince..:-) Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: hello kirty ekka: moi baby how are you  Smita Bernadet: you're so punctual ! Smita Bernadet: I'm fine my sugar Smita Bernadet: how you've been? kirty ekka: hehe...you're making me conscious ....i'll try to be late tomorrow  kirty ekka: i am fine....the day went well kirty ekka: and i' need to pack and clean my house before i leave  Smita Bernadet: yes, you told me so Smita Bernadet: all ready n set? kirty ekka: so..i am putting all the required stuffs in one place...and then i will decide which bags to use  Smita Bernadet: what about your kitchen? kirty ekka: yes that too...that kitchen is the reason why i am cleaning my house  Smita Bernadet: what time is your departure? kirty ekka: 9:20 Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: am Smita Bernadet: it's very early Smita Bernadet: you need to leave around 7 itself kirty ekka: yes... Smita Bernadet: did you book the cab? kirty ekka: i will take a airport shuttle...that starts from a stop near my house  Smita Bernadet: ooh Smita Bernadet: that's very convenient then kirty ekka: it's hourly  Smita Bernadet: What will I do when you're away... kirty ekka: i will be there baby  kirty ekka: don't worry  Smita Bernadet: just come back soon Smita Bernadet: and have lots of fun Smita Bernadet: there kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: send me pics of yours daily kirty ekka: what time is your exam Smita Bernadet: 10-12 Smita Bernadet: on the very same day we have Karma festival too... Smita Bernadet: so I'll attend both kirty ekka: hmm  kirty ekka: don kirty ekka: don't worry about Karma kirty ekka: much  Smita Bernadet: I'll attend that after exam around 3..all are expecting me kirty ekka: wow kirty ekka: people are waiting for their diva !! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: nothing like that Smita Bernadet: It's in my own college and my juniors and new people and families will be there..so I have to go Smita Bernadet: It's once in year and I really want to meet all kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: what did you do today? apart from packing? Smita Bernadet: had gym? kirty ekka: oh i have to pack  kirty ekka: i didn't go to gym  kirty ekka: i went to buy a bag which i think i have no use if  kirty ekka: no use of  Smita Bernadet: and did you cook today? kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: ate outside  Smita Bernadet: chicken? kirty ekka: yes that protein Smita Bernadet: :- Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I was thinking really hard today as to where to take you for lunch kirty ekka: so...Amma's canteen !! Smita Bernadet: I can't afford too expensive yet it should be near my hostel so that it's easy for me to return at night Smita Bernadet: hey! Smita Bernadet: no amma ok Smita Bernadet: I cannot Smita Bernadet: and you should be ready to walk a bit coz I'm going to make you walk kirty ekka: no problem... Smita Bernadet: no bike...only bus or auto Smita Bernadet: I don't want to get tanned in this heat Smita Bernadet: . Smita Bernadet: say something kirty ekka: ok anywhere is ok with me  kirty ekka: carry an umbrella... kirty ekka: i think you have infatuation for one!! Smita Bernadet: I cannot stay without my umbrella...I'm going to die holding it... kirty ekka: haha Smita Bernadet: I never travel without it.. kirty ekka: someone stole my umbrella from outside my house  Smita Bernadet: Once I get tanned it takes months to go away so I don't risk it Smita Bernadet: heheh Smita Bernadet: but I won't share my umbrella with you! Smita Bernadet: moreover you don't need it, you like being tanned Smita Bernadet: Be careful, those UV rays are not healthy kirty ekka: i don't like it but holding an umbrella is also not my style  kirty ekka: i look for shades to walk under Smita Bernadet: it's about protection n not style...most people end up getting skin cancer and it also causes aging ... kirty ekka: ok doctor kirty ekka: my office....saves me from cancer  Smita Bernadet: If you roam in chennai without umbrella you may spoil your health kirty ekka: ok if i find men carrying umbrella there...i will buy one then  Smita Bernadet: people over here are used to but why to risk..that's why I take precaution Smita Bernadet: hey... kirty ekka: haha you are a timid character...!!! Smita Bernadet: others are fool Smita Bernadet: why do you think I look so young? Its because of my umbrella...It stops me from aging Smita Bernadet: Its not rocket science...It's very simple to understand.. kirty ekka: ok ok  Smita Bernadet: i'll stop now Smita Bernadet: you have such a soft face...don't expose it to that cruel sun....please kirty ekka: ok i will try my best  kirty ekka: maybe it will rain then  kirty ekka: when i come  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: when I was in my masters course.. Smita Bernadet: I once got a fungal contamination on my cheek Smita Bernadet: it was really bad Smita Bernadet: and none of the doctors could treat it Smita Bernadet: It was there for whole 2 yrs... Smita Bernadet: my M.Sc went like that... Smita Bernadet: and that's when my last guy proposed me Smita Bernadet: just imagine...with all that infection on my face he still liked me a lot Smita Bernadet: I was overwhelmed Smita Bernadet: I asked him that don't you find me ugly? don't you feel yucky? Smita Bernadet: He said- no...so what if you have...It will go away one day...you're still pretty Smita Bernadet: that was real love.. kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: anyways kirty ekka: ?? Smita Bernadet: nothing kirty ekka: when was this ...the proposal and all!! Smita Bernadet: 2009 kirty ekka: wow that far back !! Smita Bernadet: yes...infection was there around 2008 Smita Bernadet: It went away only in 2010 kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: you are of janet's height Smita Bernadet: I was measuring myself with her today... Smita Bernadet: When I wear my 5 inch heel..I tower her also kirty ekka: 5 inch !!! Smita Bernadet: heheh...we need to get you heeled shoes Smita Bernadet: yes that pink heel of mine in that pic is 5 inch kirty ekka: i am ok.....with my height... Smita Bernadet: ya you can walk on the pavement.... kirty ekka: if you want to wear the shoe...it is fine..i won't have any problem Smita Bernadet: i won't wear it on road.. Smita Bernadet: It's not meant to be Smita Bernadet: It's for tiles... kirty ekka: yes you said me that before Smita Bernadet: anyways once I ran wearing 3 inch heels on slippery floor kirty ekka: i will take you to a tiled hotel then  kirty ekka: so what happened ? did you fall? Smita Bernadet: no I didn't! to my surprise...i didn't Smita Bernadet: but I ran like crazy Smita Bernadet: I was searching a doctor Smita Bernadet: I forgot that I was on heels kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: It was delhi airport kirty ekka: doctor for whom? what happened then? Smita Bernadet: my youngest sister got seizer and she fell down, her mouth was foaming and we got scared. mum was crying and no one was helping..so I ran and got the doctor Smita Bernadet: she never got after that Smita Bernadet: she's healed kirty ekka: which sister  kirty ekka: stuti Smita Bernadet: youngest..sushruti the lawyer kirty ekka: oh i thought stuti is the youngest  kirty ekka: she looks like that Smita Bernadet: stuti is in jnu Smita Bernadet: she's 3rd kirty ekka: so whom are you most attached to among your family and relatives  Smita Bernadet: both sisters Smita Bernadet: you? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: to different cousins at different points of time  kirty ekka: currently the youngest one  Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: do you know why girls apply lipstick? Lets see what men think about it kirty ekka: shall i google? Smita Bernadet: no Smita Bernadet: you tell me Smita Bernadet: what you think kirty ekka: to get red lips...perhaps humans find red lips juicy...and girls know it...and thus they use it to increase their attractiveness  Smita Bernadet: no  hehehhh no kirty ekka: one more guess Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: let me think hard Smita Bernadet: it's very simple...have you ever applied vaseline? kirty ekka: ok...wait  kirty ekka: that is moisturizer  kirty ekka: wait i think it's because of this reason  Smita Bernadet: yes kirty ekka: SO....lipsticks must have first been applied on the white women  Smita Bernadet: I ask this to every boy kirty ekka: i knew it  Smita Bernadet: i get funny answers from them kirty ekka: then is that why gloss is also there for then?? Smita Bernadet: none being the correct ones though kirty ekka: what was the funniest  kirty ekka: why not simple vaseline then ?? kirty ekka: why red lipsticks ?? Smita Bernadet: I'll tell you..wait kirty ekka: red has something to do with the overall attraction quotient etc.. Smita Bernadet: no Smita Bernadet: wait I'll tell u kirty ekka: that is why we have the slogan - RED HOT  Smita Bernadet: arreee no Smita Bernadet: all wrong kirty ekka: Plump, red, lips are a sign of fertility and well-being. We are programmed to find them attractive. Pale thin lips are a sign of illness, after al kirty ekka: someone on google wrote this...i was correct baby!! Smita Bernadet: arrree wait Smita Bernadet: some idiot wrote that may be kirty ekka: During arousal in mammals the sex organs fill with blood and are flushed red. Naturally healthy lips and cheeks are rosy red in healthy sexual beings. This flush of red is simulated in the use of rouge and lipstick. The reddening of the face symbolises youth, sexuality and fertility.  kirty ekka: this could also be the case Smita Bernadet: stop guessing! Smita Bernadet: let me type kirty ekka: ok pls go ahead madam Smita Bernadet: I'm not talking about RED...I just said lipstick...it comes in every color even black n blue Smita Bernadet: so.. Smita Bernadet: let me Smita Bernadet: type kirty ekka: i was talking about the red ones  Smita Bernadet: I asked about lipstick...not red ones kirty ekka: well the best one i found  kirty ekka:    Women wear lipstick because men are turned on by it. Men are turned on by women who want to turn on men. There are some other theories about about youthful appearance, simulation of arousal, but none of those sound as credible as the simple explanation above. Smita Bernadet: its all wrong kirty ekka: haha Smita Bernadet: wrong must be written by some man Smita Bernadet: ask me instead! Smita Bernadet: ask a real girl instead of googling kirty ekka: ok please tell me  Smita Bernadet: We girl's dress up for ourselves, not for others... we wear lipstick because it keeps the lips very soft (has moisturizer) and smells good the whole time..tastes good too and has Vitamin A too. Some girl's like colors...some don't. So they either go for lipstick of natural color or whatever color they want to. Wearing lipstick feels good within...feels happy...It's not done for boys. Well most girl's don't like red ones..like me...and some like weird colors like black n blue... Smita Bernadet: and same goes with make-up too Smita Bernadet: it feels good within Smita Bernadet: we don't need to do it for others... Smita Bernadet: that's an answer from a real girl who does that... Smita Bernadet: same goes with cloths kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: i meant we do it for ourselves kirty ekka: i would want to check your lipsticks  Smita Bernadet: i have just 1 kirty ekka: will it make my lips soft and keep me happy from within? Smita Bernadet: my mum has 10 kirty ekka: she was an airhostess...the job demands it  Smita Bernadet: heheh...I'll get you a natural colored one then kirty ekka: you know  kirty ekka: we would meet atleast a month from now  Smita Bernadet: oh that far Smita Bernadet: will you stay the same? Smita Bernadet: what if your mind wanders away? Smita Bernadet: what if you get someone better than me? kirty ekka: baby kirty ekka: that won't happen  Smita Bernadet: people say that... Smita Bernadet: anything is possible kirty ekka: that won't happen kirty ekka: you are in fact positing thoughts into me  Smita Bernadet: sorry kirty ekka: and if we really take this relationship seriously .....this would be our test  Smita Bernadet: are you serious about me? or are you still ? kirty ekka: why do you think that i will run away with some one  Smita Bernadet: doesn't matter what I think... kirty ekka: tell me  kirty ekka: ?? kirty ekka: why are you worried for no reason? Smita Bernadet: i don't know..you can because there are better ones than me out there. And you are free to chose even now...so it was on my mind kirty ekka: well the same goes true for you too  Smita Bernadet: I have committed to god...so I won't kirty ekka: i am also committed to god !!! Smita Bernadet: okay... Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: if i disgust you later when we meet.....don't stop....just run Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: If you disgust me on purpose then? kirty ekka: God won't be angry with you Smita Bernadet: just because you wanted me to run? kirty ekka: yes, then you run away!! Smita Bernadet: what if you're the one who wants me away and you do that on purpose? kirty ekka: then don't you think that it is better for you to run away kirty ekka: but i am sure i won't be doing that Smita Bernadet: so you'll break my heart deliberately kirty ekka: no baby  kirty ekka: don't think useless things  Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: i think that we have found a beautiful harmony in each other.. Smita Bernadet: I am in accord with what you said kirty ekka: but like you i have never married before...so we have lots of unanswered questions  Smita Bernadet: you don't even ask much Smita Bernadet: how am i supposed to answer then? kirty ekka: ok so my silence is causing you to think that Smita Bernadet: if we stay as best friends and take every day one step at a time... we can do it kirty ekka: yes..dear.. Smita Bernadet: we'll have to make a joint effort here Smita Bernadet: a selfless one kirty ekka: btw you are in direct conversation with God...then why do you worry  Smita Bernadet: it won't be a smooth road but I'm sure we'll have fun together Smita Bernadet: I worry because we have a free will. Smita Bernadet: He never forces us to do what he wants.. Smita Bernadet: he has given always gives us a choice Smita Bernadet: and when a door closes, there's always another one open...but the thing is I have been through a lot lately...and I don't know how many more are there kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: dear don't worry... kirty ekka: i too have the same anxieties  kirty ekka: maybe since we have not met each other and we are distant from each other....these anxieties would be there  Smita Bernadet: Look you have your free will too. you can always back off any time...and I'll then have to move on...because I really like you so far and I want you to make a wise choice..I don't want you to regret later that why did I marry her, I could had got someone better kirty ekka: i like you too... kirty ekka: and also want you to know me ....so that you too don't feel that you are stuck with me  Smita Bernadet: The other day when played guitar for me, I felt like hugging u It was romantic Smita Bernadet: thanx Smita Bernadet: it was a lovely surprise kirty ekka: welcome dear Smita Bernadet: do you do that to others too? or I'm a fool to think that I was special? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: no... kirty ekka: you are special girl!! Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: what are the deal breakers for you....if you have a list of questions let me know... kirty ekka: if i don't measure up....i would let you know that  Smita Bernadet: when a question pops up in my head..I will let you know for sure kirty ekka: ask all the critical ones early.... Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: we'll see Smita Bernadet: after meeting Smita Bernadet: I'm scared of myself that I won't be able to stop myself from hugging you the day we meet :-) Smita Bernadet: PDA  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: then don't stop Smita Bernadet: what if amma jails us for PDA kirty ekka: i will bribe the cops !! Smita Bernadet: hehehhh Smita Bernadet: what if it fails? kirty ekka: then will let the state correct me  kirty ekka: an you as well  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: did you correct your sleeping pattern? kirty ekka: maybe  kirty ekka: i don't know what happens after i doze off Smita Bernadet: you're a baby you know? Smita Bernadet: I think I'll have to keep checking on you whole night! like your mum Smita Bernadet: I mean if we get married then....... kirty ekka: kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: i got that part Smita Bernadet: ok ...just try to sleep correct..it will take a few weeks practice only Smita Bernadet: kirty? you heard? kirty ekka: i read  Smita Bernadet: i said Smita Bernadet: it's for your own good baby Smita Bernadet: just try please kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: see I'm blinking...pleeeez kirty ekka: disco lights !! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: If you don't then I'll have to make a cute face to compel you kirty ekka: well Bernadet....do you feel negative about us some times ?? Smita Bernadet: negative in the sense? kirty ekka: the reasons for your anxieties  Smita Bernadet: ya i feel insecure at times but hey that's natural...coz I really like you Smita Bernadet: but that doesn't mean that you can't back off...you have your own choice kirty ekka: hey you need to know that i like you too  Smita Bernadet: if you want to back off, do let me know early Smita Bernadet: you are my teddy bear kirty ekka: you are a super special girl...you should be knowing this  Smita Bernadet: do you have bad table manners? coz that's the only thing that can make me run away on the day we meet kirty ekka: very unique...eccentric...and charming kirty ekka: yes... kirty ekka: i like to stuff my mouth with lots of food and then talk aloud !! Smita Bernadet: haah... Smita Bernadet: then we are not eating together Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: we'll see then how much you talk aloud kirty ekka: ok... Smita Bernadet: if you really like me then you will never embarrass me that way...i know Smita Bernadet: i will feed you... Smita Bernadet: no stuffing Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: hmmm  kirty ekka: i actually don't know how to eat.... kirty ekka: it would be very appropriate for you to teach me how to do it... kirty ekka: even if it requires feeding me Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: neither can I eat rice with fingers..I always go for spoon..And I am a slow eater Smita Bernadet: so you are a pakka baby Smita Bernadet: what else you don't know baby? kirty ekka: Haha badmas... Smita Bernadet: so...you should now go and pack your stuff kirty ekka: I am doing it slowly. I need to take stuffs for 2 weeks. Smita Bernadet: I'll keep you back with me in chennai if I like you that day... kirty ekka: Hmmm....why not come to Bangalore Smita Bernadet: oh you have all plans to kidnap me already? kirty ekka: Yes foolproof ones Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: what if you don't let me return ? Smita Bernadet: I can't take that risk kirty ekka: Then ask Janet to courier your belongings Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: not possible Smita Bernadet: suppose.. Smita Bernadet: suppose if Smita Bernadet: we like each other a lot...then will you inform your parents or you'll take some more time to analyze? kirty ekka: Then will want to go to Ranchi and meet each other's folks and let them know kirty ekka: What do you think is right?? Smita Bernadet: I think that's absolutely right Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I want them to know so that they don't waste their time searching for another kirty ekka: Does your dad like your guy friends..?? Or he hates everyone ?? Smita Bernadet: he likes my last guy ...so he will like you too kirty ekka: It will be super fun if he hates everyone Smita Bernadet: if he hates then how will you approach him? kirty ekka: We could have a sort of Cold War Smita Bernadet: then? Smita Bernadet: what? Smita Bernadet: will you kidnap me? kirty ekka: Nothing will need to butter your mom then. Smita Bernadet: oh my mum is easy..just enter the kitchen and cook something nice and feed her Smita Bernadet: she will be all yours kirty ekka: Then I see no reason why I should lose against your dad ..!! Smita Bernadet: be diplomatic with my dad...he's a politician... Smita Bernadet: mum never takes any decision without my dad's consent Smita Bernadet: he may have issues with gov. job kirty ekka: No worries Smita Bernadet: i think my dad is possessive for me...i meant his daughters kirty ekka: Yeah girls' dads ...!!! Smita Bernadet: its funny though kirty ekka: They are a menace to the society ...!!! Smita Bernadet: they can't stand another guy loving their daughter more than them Smita Bernadet: don't call them menace..or I wont let you become one Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Hahaha kirty ekka: Funny kirty ekka: Funny fact.... kirty ekka: Now I get it. Smita Bernadet: so? Smita Bernadet: are you packing while you're chatting ? kirty ekka: Yeah am packing little by little Smita Bernadet: do you want me to leave? kirty ekka: No go on. Smita Bernadet: It's okay..you pack and don't miss anything... kirty ekka: Unless you want to. Smita Bernadet: I may distract you kirty ekka: No it's ok. kirty ekka: I can manage Smita Bernadet: I want you to sleep on time.. kirty ekka: It's not possible today. Smita Bernadet: do you want me to wake you up tomorrow? or you'll manage on time? kirty ekka: I don't sleep much on traveling days kirty ekka: I can manage. Don't worry. Smita Bernadet: i want you to take care of your eyes...sleep enough... kirty ekka: What stall did you open at the Xmas mela? Smita Bernadet: suddenly? Smita Bernadet: was years back Smita Bernadet: why? kirty ekka: Was just thinking, if I had ever by chance laid my eyes on you Smita Bernadet: my dad n mum opened kirty ekka: Momo shop?? Smita Bernadet: ya but I was helping them around... Smita Bernadet: no Smita Bernadet: It was not edibles Smita Bernadet: My mum doesn't know how to make momo..you can teach her.. kirty ekka: I only know how to eat.. Smita Bernadet: It was games, warm clothes, decorative items... Smita Bernadet: it was fun kirty ekka: I can guess. Smita Bernadet: we had a shop at samlong...before...my dad got bored after VRS and before he joined social work , he opened a general store Smita Bernadet: we used to have loads of fun that time Smita Bernadet: I learnt business sitting there...along with our studies we used to help me out and learn business in our free time......boys used to throng at our shop just to see me n my sisters Smita Bernadet: i meant we used to help dad out kirty ekka: Haha I guessed that about the boys. Smita Bernadet: we had it for 2 yrs then dad got a petrol pump on gumla highway Smita Bernadet: well he has handed over the pump to someone else for the time being Smita Bernadet: Don't think that I'm rich...I'm not Smita Bernadet: we are a middle class family kirty ekka: Haha that's a joke now !!! Smita Bernadet: no Smita Bernadet: it's not Smita Bernadet: we are going through financial crisis Smita Bernadet: that's why I can't marry early....I don't want to be a burden to them...I need atleast a year kirty ekka: OK. Smita Bernadet: or if god wills then less than 6 months kirty ekka: You said it before Smita Bernadet: I need to have a job so that I can fund my wedding Smita Bernadet: are you in a hurry? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: No kirty ekka: Marriage happens only once... kirty ekka: Will want to think and act patiently for it. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I just cannot imagine anyone better than you...I don't think that better one even exists Smita Bernadet: hey cookie ...I should leave now kirty ekka: Baby Smita Bernadet: where's my hugs? Smita Bernadet: jaldi do kirty ekka: I want to give more than hugs Smita Bernadet: for now hugs is more than enough kirty ekka: Probably get glued to you with a fevicol Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: I am waiting for your exams to get over soon. Smita Bernadet: you need to control my dear sugar kirty ekka: Do well and get it ok. Smita Bernadet: yes I'll do my best baby Smita Bernadet: ok then... kirty ekka: Bye dear kirty ekka: Sorry to keep you up so late. Smita Bernadet: happy journey...and enjoy...and miss me- HUGS kirty ekka: My sweet lovely chennai beauty kirty ekka: Goodnight Smita Bernadet: sorry is not required because we may not be able to talk while you're away so it compensates for the loss Smita Bernadet: goodnight you too my prince charming kirty ekka: Bye bye dear. Smita Bernadet: sayonara kirty ekka: Hehe Smita Bernadet: hey there kirty ekka: hi there Smita Bernadet: are u busy? kirty ekka: no tell mw Smita Bernadet: nothing...just like that Smita Bernadet: are you guys still out? kirty ekka: no we came back  Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: i will share some pics that we took today  Smita Bernadet: you must be fatigued kirty ekka: no  Smita Bernadet: oh kirty ekka: we took a taxi to go to vadala  Smita Bernadet: you're still active kirty ekka: there we met Reshma Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: then Ritwick the finance to my friend drove her car to nariman  kirty ekka: and then i drove it back  kirty ekka: to vadala Smita Bernadet: I was so tired but I went and met all at get-together Smita Bernadet: that's nice Smita Bernadet: to hear Smita Bernadet: that you are enjoying kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: It's drizzling here Smita Bernadet: did you stuff yourself today? kirty ekka: still stuffing  Smita Bernadet: why? Smita Bernadet: gluttony ... Smita Bernadet: is a bad habit Smita Bernadet: what are you stuffing? kirty ekka: chicken  kirty ekka: i think you said me before that gluttony is a sin  Smita Bernadet: ya..i read in bible Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: eat then...concentrate on it kirty ekka: how was your karma  Smita Bernadet: mast kirty ekka: how many people were there? Smita Bernadet: lota..packed up Smita Bernadet: lots kirty ekka: wow  kirty ekka: how much did you dance  Smita Bernadet: so? what did Mr. Ekka do today? kirty ekka: i didn't see any crowd there  Smita Bernadet: I didn't dance..didn't feel like Smita Bernadet: we didn't take much pics kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: what else? has the rain eased? kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: but in the morning it was deadly Smita Bernadet: so...how are your friends? kirty ekka: am uploading some pics Smita Bernadet: waiting kirty ekka: https://photos.google.com/u/0/photo/AF1QipNJxSgW7HENunq6gqLMNbKuCC2rGVGI_GKTcZ8R kirty ekka: check if this is visible  Smita Bernadet: nope kirty ekka: give me 5 mins Smita Bernadet: okies Smita Bernadet: I was so tired but still I was smiling at the function....forcing myself Smita Bernadet: my face looks so drained out Smita Bernadet: people were calling me to join dance but I refused...wanted to rest Smita Bernadet: i met one of my very old college friend 2002..my chemistry lab partner - out of the blue... Smita Bernadet: was fun talking..and met all the families whom I've known after settling here. kirty ekka: ok...how many are there Smita Bernadet: more than 500 Smita Bernadet: but many didn't come today Smita Bernadet: some don't like to socialize kirty ekka: you know all of them!! Smita Bernadet: like the iit madras students...over here..i invited them but they refused to mingle with us because the have superiority complex disorder! Smita Bernadet: I don't know all 500 but I am aware of their existence kirty ekka: did you get any invite now kirty ekka: ?? Smita Bernadet: wat where? kirty ekka: https://plus.google.com/u/0/photos/+SmitaBernadetHosanaa/albums/6196647604974112481?authkey=CKCtnuK_7dOJYA kirty ekka: https://goo.gl/photos/zfbMX4Q3VKiTLfgL7 kirty ekka: the second link ...!! Smita Bernadet: yes...let me check///looks cool Smita Bernadet: I like your single pics Smita Bernadet: and I must say...all three of you are of the same size.. Smita Bernadet: I can see your nerve cuttings...you do exercise a lot at gym :-)..... kirty ekka: Which pic ??!!! Smita Bernadet: your single ones kirty ekka: hey you look fresh in your pics Smita Bernadet: no i don't Smita Bernadet: you should see when I look fresh..that's not fresh kirty ekka: wow.... kirty ekka: so this is not even a proper trailer of your beauty kirty ekka: !!!! Smita Bernadet: I feel like hiding somewhere from you Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: all of them are my super juniors Smita Bernadet: you there? Smita Bernadet: raining here....feel like having samosa kirty ekka: why do you want to hide  Smita Bernadet: feels like sometimes kirty ekka: i scare you? Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: you know that kirty ekka: tell me  Smita Bernadet: well....sometimes when you call me beautiful....I get scared... kirty ekka: why, you are beautiful?? kirty ekka: not just physically  Smita Bernadet: let me tell you....I don't have a flawless skin...sometimes my photos surprisingly comes really good by mistake... kirty ekka: it is ok ....don't fear... Smita Bernadet: neither do I have a great body... Smita Bernadet: I'm not like you....a perfect gym guy...with right things at right place... kirty ekka: haha....i am not the top 5% people at my gym!!! kirty ekka: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL BERNADET... kirty ekka: i want you to know that ,,!!! Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: best thing about your pics are your smiles  kirty ekka: it seems spontaneous and looks good on you Smita Bernadet: I'm smiling right now kirty ekka: keep smiling then  Smita Bernadet: I've downloaded your pic..I'm going to set it on my incoming call Smita Bernadet: i meant your incoming call kirty ekka: i've set your saree pic for incoming calls from you  Smita Bernadet: this sari? kirty ekka: the saree which you wore for the wedding in coimbatore kirty ekka: that one  Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: this is also lovely...you know how to dress well  kirty ekka: i would need to change my wardrobe to match in style with you.. Smita Bernadet: this saree is a gift from my father to my mum ....it's her favorite one and I got it from mum forever now Smita Bernadet: he went to some abroad place...can't recall...he bought it for mum... kirty ekka: ok...then your dad has good taste in sarees too Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: no.... Smita Bernadet: not like that... Smita Bernadet: he knew what mum likes Smita Bernadet: other wise his choices are funny kirty ekka: haha ok...i see  Smita Bernadet: i wore my 3 inch heels today Smita Bernadet: I never wear sari without heels kirty ekka: so, how large a crowd came to take selfie etc. with you  kirty ekka: kirty ekka: the junta would be flabbergasted at your arrival !!  Smita Bernadet: come one.....not everywhere does it happen....that was a very interior village in coimbatore...that's why I was the odd man out... kirty ekka: odd beauty out !! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: every girl is pretty....even your sis kirty ekka: yes i know that kirty ekka: that's why i said odd beauty out  kirty ekka: not beauty discovered  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: so? what else? Smita Bernadet: I feel like talking to you whole night...it's been so long kirty ekka: i want to talk to you ...full night today  Smita Bernadet: so it's a mutual feeling kirty ekka: i was hoping you don't doze off  Smita Bernadet: i won't... kirty ekka: and janet does not get nauseous   Smita Bernadet: if I do then I'll listen to your song.... Smita Bernadet: janet went off to bed Smita Bernadet: have u seen janet? Smita Bernadet: she's the one common in most of my pics kirty ekka: is she the one in .... kirty ekka: wait...let me show the link  kirty ekka: let me guess Smita Bernadet: we both together... Smita Bernadet: those pics kirty ekka: the girl in https://plus.google.com/u/0/+SmitaBernadetHosanaa/posts/UWZPk18dvsJ?pid=6188516052539269874&oid=104009479420176154146&authkey=CPaezLj6wNDSWw Smita Bernadet: yup kirty ekka: ohk good guess then  kirty ekka: she looks bright  Smita Bernadet: hey that was too easy... Smita Bernadet: yes she looks very bright Smita Bernadet: when you're with Jesus it shows on your face...that's the reason for her brightness kirty ekka: kirty ekka: is her fiance religious too.. Smita Bernadet: no Smita Bernadet: he is still on his way n he is willing to learn more from her kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: are you done stuffing? Smita Bernadet: or still going on? kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: we all ate little bit of rice Smita Bernadet: what is manisha's surname now? kirty ekka: minz Smita Bernadet: okay...cool Smita Bernadet: I went crazy speaking in hindi today... kirty ekka: hah kirty ekka: so there is a pic of me, her, and her fiance sitting in a sofa  kirty ekka: all doing time passing stuffs Smita Bernadet: i saw that... Smita Bernadet: all of you look the same by size kirty ekka: haha oh my god  Smita Bernadet: don't tell her Smita Bernadet: she'll kill me kirty ekka: haha she knows....that  kirty ekka: she was slimmer before...but has become fat now  kirty ekka: i keep on pulling her leg on this issue  Smita Bernadet: I don't wanna be....that's why I have planned on cutting down my temptations kirty ekka: that is good...health is important after all  Smita Bernadet: health and figure kirty ekka: figure accompanies health  Smita Bernadet: not always...it varies at times kirty ekka: is there a cafe in chennai that allows people to stay and talk the entire night ?? Smita Bernadet: you look so adorable on my phone now Smita Bernadet: no idea.... Smita Bernadet: never needed it before Smita Bernadet: so don't know Smita Bernadet: you look so adorable on my phone now kirty ekka: your thoughts are adorable baby Smita Bernadet: do you in bangalore? Smita Bernadet: i mean do u have kirty ekka: there might be some restaurants that don't close  Smita Bernadet: cafe like that there? kirty ekka: 3 stars perhaps  kirty ekka: that remain open the entire night  kirty ekka: which pic have you selected Smita Bernadet: hmmm wanted to select all but... Smita Bernadet: this one Smita Bernadet: https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipPvF7i2o4g8_ZJbwrqRQIABJfF-KyM793N_Y13bXCkNWBsg-q-LGUZIkcNAasxLJw/photo/AF1QipN6aEsHw2knVwip0xq6z0Ae3BEgmkuuZm3NU1Hd?key=UTZjVk1ubW43YXUxZ21LT3IwTjJjWVVLM1Z3Y1l3 kirty ekka: ok ..i like this pic too  Smita Bernadet: i like what you're wearing kirty ekka: wow...the stylish diva likes that !!! Smita Bernadet: I'm glad you're not hairy...you're just as I wanted kirty ekka: i will take that as a complement  Smita Bernadet: you deserve that Smita Bernadet: what else? kirty ekka: when did you notice that you were all into style and all  kirty ekka: ok...do they have mass also for Karma at chennai  kirty ekka: i have been to karma before....and they tried to relate the event to christianity... is it like that too at chennai  Smita Bernadet: karma is devoid of mass but we do have hindi service every 2nd sunday of the month Smita Bernadet: no karma has no mass kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: but we all celebrate....the non catholics come to our  christmass gathering and we go to their karma-sarhul and sohray...so we all mingle as at a cultural level kirty ekka: it must be fun...that way...  Smita Bernadet: yes it is kirty ekka: was this at loyola...i have never seen how loyola looks like  Smita Bernadet: i was never so socially active in ranchi...I have started it only here because I was the president once upon a time Smita Bernadet: women's youth president Smita Bernadet: i was nominated kirty ekka: yes you said me that  kirty ekka: wow yaar  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: how long was your tenure  kirty ekka: women's youth president for which society? Smita Bernadet: i guess it was 3 yrs Smita Bernadet: yes 3 or 4 Smita Bernadet: I've always been like that.. Smita Bernadet: I like to lead Smita Bernadet: like my dad kirty ekka: perhaps that is the reason why you got nominated  Smita Bernadet: no..they were not getting anybody so they just told me to accept the offer and I agreed without hesitation. Earlier me they had selected my friend but she refused to accept it. Smita Bernadet: least did they know that I was the right person... Smita Bernadet: we enjoyed a lot... Smita Bernadet: I tried new things every time... Smita Bernadet: i used to control all the volunteers...it was fun and a very responsible job.conducting meetings..arranging  venue, and all that kirty ekka: i can imagine... kirty ekka: so you got all that you wanted... kirty ekka: change and public management ... Smita Bernadet: no it was a learning process for me...as I had not done that before in ranchi...except as a class representative in xaviers Smita Bernadet: i am imagining you right now did you correct your sleeping habit? kirty ekka: in the process kirty ekka: what do you imagine me doing? kirty ekka: when you do imagine Smita Bernadet: i think you are lying down and typing?.....don't know ..just a wild guess "-) Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: yeah...that is true kirty ekka: you too might be in your bed... Smita Bernadet: mine is a laptop...I'm sitting kirty ekka: really Smita Bernadet: yes kirty ekka: my bad  Smita Bernadet: why? kirty ekka: bad guess Smita Bernadet: ahhan Smita Bernadet: see I'm smart na? kirty ekka: yes you are  Smita Bernadet: what's you're favorite color? kirty ekka: i like purple..dark blue... black...red Smita Bernadet: so many...hmmm Smita Bernadet: good to know kirty ekka: why suddenly  Smita Bernadet: why not ? Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: so the other day you asked me Smita Bernadet: for my song collection? Smita Bernadet: why? kirty ekka: i wanted to understand your thoughts  kirty ekka: i wanted to how you perceive the world.. kirty ekka: and different emotions  Smita Bernadet: but my choices are weird..u may not like it kirty ekka: i liked the movie- i'm in love with a church going girl  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: so you didn't even see the 2nd one that I sent you kirty ekka: hey that link is not working properly kirty ekka: that is your fault... Smita Bernadet: it works on mine Smita Bernadet: ok so which play list of mine you want? the secular ones alone or everything mixed? kirty ekka: mixed Smita Bernadet: that's so many...I'll send you the names instead.... kirty ekka: hmm...you can create a youtube channel and send me the link  Smita Bernadet: okay sure...some won't be there on you tube kirty ekka: i will then listen to THE BERNADET COLLECTION Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: where do you have the time to hear them? kirty ekka: will download and listen to it ...on my phone  Smita Bernadet: okay then gimme sum time kirty ekka: yeah take your time  kirty ekka: no hurry at all  Smita Bernadet: i really appreciate your efforts to understand my thoughts kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: then send me your list too lets see which ones turn out to be common for both...will be fun kirty ekka: ok... i will compile it tomorrow... kirty ekka: do you want lyrical videos  kirty ekka: in the playlist for all songs Smita Bernadet: anything Smita Bernadet: as per your convenience Smita Bernadet: you are so silent kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: nothing like that  kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: then kirty ekka: no reason at all  Smita Bernadet: on phone too...sometimes there's just silence and I like that too Smita Bernadet: At times I feel that we can actually say so much by just being silent kirty ekka: ok... kirty ekka: good thing then... kirty ekka: i thought you were going to say - Say something  Smita Bernadet: :-) Smita Bernadet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AuJrEBtmM1Q kirty ekka: i have heard this song a lot before  Smita Bernadet: i know kirty ekka: why do like it so much Smita Bernadet: but it will make more sense now kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: don't you ? Smita Bernadet: I too heard it many times but never actually was able to relate it to myself with anyone...but today I can kirty ekka: kirty ekka: i will listen to it tomorrow... kirty ekka: and feel for myselt Smita Bernadet: I'm listening now kirty ekka: nyself kirty ekka: do you joke a lot ? kirty ekka: how humorous are you? Smita Bernadet: when I feel like Smita Bernadet: when situation is appropriate Smita Bernadet: when I'm happy kirty ekka: you look so fragile yaar  Smita Bernadet: Well....I am at times Smita Bernadet: I can't go on joking around everytime Smita Bernadet: It might hurt somebody kirty ekka: fragile is a general comment kirty ekka: like in the current dress today Smita Bernadet: I'm not that type of person who says- "It was just a joke, I didn't know that it would hurt you that bad " kirty ekka: i totally like your outfit...and am highly surprised that your dad bought it Smita Bernadet: so, I avoid joking sometimes kirty ekka: ok...i see
Smita Bernadet: oh thanx kirty ekka: i joke about things that people find things ok to joke about  kirty ekka: it depends upon my relationship with them...in some cases we are more open and in others normal etc... Smita Bernadet: I purposely did not wear a necklace with it nor bangles nor finger ring...thought of being simple today kirty ekka: its too good  Smita Bernadet: Oooo I'm glad that you liked it honey kirty ekka: it makes me hard to believe that you take care of your siblings Smita Bernadet: i know....everybody says that kirty ekka: you yourself look like a person who should not be put out in the sunshine  kirty ekka: or rain Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: so you'll have to take extra care of me....handle with care...fragile piece kirty ekka: i will baby  kirty ekka: i will make sure that i do  Smita Bernadet: I believe you will kirty ekka: kirty ekka: did you not plan for a movie today Smita Bernadet: i was watching it little by little Smita Bernadet: I shall continue tomorrow with that movie kirty ekka: which movie is it  Smita Bernadet: the one lamb- It's a drama Smita Bernadet: so tell me more about u Smita Bernadet: do you have any criminal record kirty ekka: not yet Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: i know you have... kirty ekka: you are a smooth criminal...!! kirty ekka: tell me one surprising fact about you.. Smita Bernadet: I'll take that as a sweet romantic compliment by my prince charming Smita Bernadet: I once (alone) fixed the burnt iron box and also a very old tape recorder which the mechanic couldn't fix it kirty ekka: ok...i'm surprised  Smita Bernadet: not a tape recorder...it was a music system of olden times...the mechanic said that he hasn't seen anything like that before so he refused Smita Bernadet: I tool knife..screw driver...every possible item and spent my day fixing it and I did it very easily ---I was In my plus two that time Smita Bernadet: I was like a puzzle game for me...I liked it kirty ekka: waah Smita Bernadet: so...you're surprised kirty ekka: yes i'm kirty ekka: the botanist knows electronics as well Smita Bernadet: the fact is I knew very little yet I managed without anybody's guidance...my dad doesn't even know it Smita Bernadet: my granny was shocked when the music started playing. She said - "what did you do? It's been like that for more than 5 yrs" kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: ok...Bernadet baby Smita Bernadet: you're leaving? kirty ekka: i can't stop closing my eyes kirty ekka: am so sorry  Smita Bernadet: fine Smita Bernadet: it's okay kirty ekka: what time are you planning to wake up tomorrow Smita Bernadet: that's why I don't lie down and do stuff...makes me drowsy kirty ekka: i can sleep on a chair as well  Smita Bernadet: I'll wake at 8.30 and sleep again at 10.30am kirty ekka: sofa...etc.. Smita Bernadet: I miss you...come back soon Smita Bernadet: goodnight baby kirty ekka: Bernadet,,,my sweet little baby Smita Bernadet: bye Smita Bernadet: warm hugs to you kirty ekka: bye bye...sweet girl  kirty ekka: gnite Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: precious Smita Bernadet: are you busy? Smita Bernadet: kirty Smita Bernadet: byee then kirty ekka: Hi I came from navi Mumbai to chakala Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: are you tired? kirty ekka: I get flabbergasted by Mumbai every time. kirty ekka: Right now it's about ganpati festival Smita Bernadet: oh yeah...i know how it is kirty ekka: No am not tired kirty ekka: Are you tired..?? Smita Bernadet: no I'm not... Smita Bernadet: are you still outside? kirty ekka: Yeah Smita Bernadet: when will you return? kirty ekka: In an hour at least Smita Bernadet: are you driving? Smita Bernadet: Okay then , I'll be awake by the time you return. kirty ekka: No outside having food with college friends Smita Bernadet: then carry on Smita Bernadet: we'll talk once you're back...go and enjoy kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Sure dear. Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: ok...this is a very embarrassing pic of mine. My grandmom was trying to kill me nude I guess... I look so fragile... don't comment on it...you are FORBIDDEN ! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: and this is with my sweet cousin minakshi Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Hahaha Smita Bernadet: and that's me in boy-cut hairstyle...I look like a bengali kid..I had really big protruding rabbit teeth in front. It used to be visible even after my lips were closed.. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: You were cute USA Smita Bernadet: usa? what's that short form for? kirty ekka: Meant to say yaa...phone corrected it to USA kirty ekka: Hahaaha Smita Bernadet: I know ....u must be laughing a lot kirty ekka: The naked pic is awesome. Smita Bernadet: those were my milk teeth...my dad had to take me to dentist to pluck it out... Smita Bernadet: i told you not to comment! kirty ekka: It looks like someone caught a frog Smita Bernadet: hey! Smita Bernadet: you are dead! kirty ekka: Or like a child who is being ordained Smita Bernadet: you just can't stop commenting!..the more I tell you not to..you actually end up doing that Smita Bernadet: ok..check this...this ones at marine drive... Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I've sent you that video...but I'm normally not like that so don't judge me Smita Bernadet: okies..byee for now adorable one Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: check the playlist at http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLqR4nYxU9eQQ4UB74wNkN38KO6RvvdZwR&jct=ZdyAQr3tmnz-rdHuBEldHPuljSdeTQ Smita Bernadet: hey..thanx..I'll do that baby Smita Bernadet: so far..the only song which stands mutual in both of our playlist is- Whistle :  Flo rida kirty ekka: I liked the akon song during college Smita Bernadet: i like that akon song so much that sometimes I just don't care where I am present and I just put it on play on full volume ... the songs which I have sent you are the ones which I repeatedly hear. Smita Bernadet: my mum is asking me not to come home in christmas and just study . I told her that we'll see.. kirty ekka: Even i like that song of Akon...but its been a long time since I've heard it ... kirty ekka: i used to hear it during college....and sing out loud.. kirty ekka: but only in my room Smita Bernadet: so Smita Bernadet: whats up with u? kirty ekka: lazying around ... Smita Bernadet: hows everybody? Smita Bernadet: i was doing some research on the origin of HIV as you had almost got myself to doubt my awareness...so It's not related to polio... kirty ekka: ok...ithink i read it somewhere  kirty ekka: people are fine here....i have a rice field here...basmati is planted here...maybe this year we will get basmati ... Smita Bernadet: thats great..sounds interesting Smita Bernadet: did u hug your mum? kirty ekka: she kisses me  Smita Bernadet: ahan... Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: wet kiss...eeekkkkswwww Smita Bernadet: hahahh Smita Bernadet: then what is dry kiss like? Smita Bernadet: so you don't like kisses...hmmm . I will keep in mind kirty ekka: Cheek touching only Smita Bernadet: funny Smita Bernadet: explanation Smita Bernadet: so, what did mum feed you today? Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: don't u even bother to reply? kirty ekka:  reply to the sms  Smita Bernadet: i don't want to talk to u kirty ekka: you wrote 'Bye for now' Smita Bernadet: i thought u vanished kirty ekka: which meant - we will continue this talk further kirty ekka: atleast that is what it sounded to me like  Smita Bernadet: u must be busy now kirty ekka: no... kirty ekka: there is nothing to do... kirty ekka: there is sort of curfew in the city. all the shops are closed.. Smita Bernadet: what r u doing at home then? kirty ekka: nothing...  kirty ekka: what are you doing? Smita Bernadet: I'm searching for a night dress online Smita Bernadet: what about u? what did u have for lunch? kirty ekka: ...uuuummmmm kirty ekka: yes i had lunch  kirty ekka: i think i am overeating....i need to cut back on my food Smita Bernadet: what u had? kirty ekka: rice...sabzi...and mutton curry Smita Bernadet: so rich diet kirty ekka: yes...what to do... kirty ekka: i have to workout somewhere Smita Bernadet: do it on your terrace then Smita Bernadet: at evening kirty ekka: yes...will go to a dam here tomorrow... in the morning....and then run .... Smita Bernadet: cool Smita Bernadet: how come your net connection was bad at night...and it seems fine now? kirty ekka: i found a new spot  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: what's mum doing? kirty ekka: she had to go back to her school where she works kirty ekka: she has to stay there Smita Bernadet: did u drop her? Smita Bernadet: i mean in the midst of so much chaos in the city? kirty ekka: no i woke up at 12... kirty ekka: i didn't know about it... Smita Bernadet: so dad dropped her? kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: when will she return? kirty ekka: i don't know... Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: u must be getting bored stuck at home? Smita Bernadet: is the situation that bad outside? Smita Bernadet: I'm worried for my father...he keeps roaming about Smita Bernadet: u there? kirty ekka: how is chennai's weather today kirty ekka: i think ranchi is fine  kirty ekka: all the major religion populations are nearly well distributed kirty ekka: so the chances of full fledged war like scenario is low...besides we have the army close by too  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: weather over here is hot but the nights are cool breezy flooded with silver moonlight and lots of stars...pretty romantic Smita Bernadet: i love chennai.. Smita Bernadet: don't feel like leaving it Smita Bernadet: where are you vanishing in between? Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: you there? Smita Bernadet: pics? kirty ekka: tryin to send Smita Bernadet: u there? Smita Bernadet: I rang u Smita Bernadet: janet went to beauty parlor...i just escorted her kirty ekka: hmm your bond of friendship travels inside the parlor too  Smita Bernadet: yes baby...she also escorts me...whats in that? kirty ekka: nothing... kirty ekka: there must be huge discussions in the parlor  kirty ekka: have you had your dinner Smita Bernadet: no i was busy on phone with u while she was getting her treatment done while we were in parlor Smita Bernadet: no i have yet to eat.. kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: what about u? kirty ekka: not yet ...will have in some time... Smita Bernadet: did you meet mum? Smita Bernadet: did dad ask about my phone call? kirty ekka: no not till now... kirty ekka: yes i met mom  Smita Bernadet: may be he didn't mind me calling you..I guess i was ringing u continuously thrice Smita Bernadet: u have yet to send me mum  n dad's pics Smita Bernadet: n paddy fields too kirty ekka: really have i not send you one till now  kirty ekka: sorry a pic of my mom and dad Smita Bernadet: u have...but i had asked for this time ones...now when u are with them kirty ekka: ok this time i've not taken  Smita Bernadet: so...how much more have u become chubby my baby? kirty ekka: will take some pics in the marriage Smita Bernadet: so...how much more have u become chubby my baby? kirty ekka: haha...i am not planning to become chubby again  Smita Bernadet: i wanted to pull your chubby cheeks Smita Bernadet: hey kirty ekka: tell me  Smita Bernadet: why do u keep vanishing on me kirty ekka: do you know how to reduce the size of pictures...all the pictures that i have taken are 7 MB large Smita Bernadet: ya i know Smita Bernadet: use microsoft picture manager...but y do need it? Smita Bernadet: you can attach upto 20 MB per gmail Smita Bernadet: or attach using google drive kirty ekka: yeah..but attaching takes time...out here the network is not proper Smita Bernadet: okay...then don't Smita Bernadet: do it when your under coverage area Smita Bernadet: when you go out somewhere...you should send me Smita Bernadet: pics Smita Bernadet: i had some parenting questions for you Smita Bernadet: but i'm thinking of asking after we meet Smita Bernadet: i wanted to hear u Smita Bernadet: feels incomplete without it kirty ekka: wait  kirty ekka: i will download a software and try it kirty ekka: give me some time  Smita Bernadet: you talk to me now... Smita Bernadet: leave that pic... Smita Bernadet: it will soon be bed time n then u'll be gone Smita Bernadet: see u never listen to me Smita Bernadet: bye kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: did u finish eating? kirty ekka: kirty ekka: yes i ate Smita Bernadet: oooooolala that's so pretty n green Smita Bernadet: so you eat from this? or sell it? kirty ekka: you Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: so those are your chicks Smita Bernadet: 3 roosters n a hen kirty ekka: kirty ekka: this is the first batch of this house kirty ekka: probably we will eat it all  Smita Bernadet: where are the babies? kirty ekka: chicks and cocks  kirty ekka: they fight a lot kirty ekka: ok rooster !! Smita Bernadet: how cruel of u kirty ekka: what have i done Smita Bernadet: 1st batch looks nice for those birds Smita Bernadet: cruel to eat your own pet kirty ekka: Hmm Smita Bernadet: so, what else do u have in store for me ? kirty ekka: Ok I don't mind eating these chickens. kirty ekka: But my dad and mom are sentimental about them Smita Bernadet: see i knew you are a monster.. kirty ekka: I have no attachment with them. kirty ekka: But I never get to eat them. kirty ekka: They have all died natural death here kirty ekka: kirty ekka: i was talking about the rice  kirty ekka: the chickens are the 3rd batch  kirty ekka: 2 other batches have dies kirty ekka: died kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: okay so you have a well too Smita Bernadet: is it deep? kirty ekka: hahah kirty ekka: my wishes never get fulfilled  Smita Bernadet: never? not even once? kirty ekka: we have a well kirty ekka: they all got some disease and died  kirty ekka: before they could end up in my stomach Smita Bernadet: god saved them from that hell of yours kirty ekka: they got bird flue  kirty ekka: flu Smita Bernadet: are u serious? kirty ekka: Yes kirty ekka: Network is super bad here Smita Bernadet: yes its bad Smita Bernadet: but we have no other way... kirty ekka: what did you do today kirty ekka: learnt something new Smita Bernadet: should had but no..I went to church...returned n found my door locked so i had to wait for janet till she returned from office. then had lunch n slept off. evening went out with her then had dinner..that's all. we are having tap water crisis in hostel. kirty ekka: Hmmmm good kirty ekka: At least you spent time outside your hostel. Smita Bernadet: ok teach me something new then...yes i went out of my hostel for a change Smita Bernadet: is your field towards west? kirty ekka: I went to a cousins place...I think I am the only one who likes her. She has managed to piss off everyone else. Smita Bernadet: why do you say so? kirty ekka: There were some kids there. I taught them mathematics. Smita Bernadet: ooooh....so your a maths genius kirty ekka: Because I've seen people avoid her. Smita Bernadet: why people avoid her? it's sad kirty ekka: That was class 8 course. kirty ekka: She is a personality kirty ekka: I think that only a handful people are find of her. Smita Bernadet: found of her kirty ekka: Perhaps that is why I like her. She is Bindas. Smita Bernadet: cool kirty ekka: **fond of her. Smita Bernadet: so people aren't fond Smita Bernadet: of her... Smita Bernadet: just becoz Smita Bernadet: she's bindaas? Smita Bernadet: that's weird kirty ekka: not their definition of bindas Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: btw there is huge history  kirty ekka: someday i will explain it  Smita Bernadet: sure Smita Bernadet: so tell me how was the mass? kirty ekka: long  kirty ekka: 2 hours...??? Smita Bernadet: so did you sing in church? kirty ekka: no it was in hindi kirty ekka: sadiri ...oraon... mix kirty ekka: i don't know much about it  Smita Bernadet: oh.. Smita Bernadet: same here Smita Bernadet: even i did not sing kirty ekka: you need to learn then  Smita Bernadet: if you teach me only then kirty ekka: well yesterday, when you asked your friend about the Samson story ...was she too surprised like me  Smita Bernadet: no Smita Bernadet: she knows me Smita Bernadet: she is very kind n patient with me Smita Bernadet: she knows that I don't own an old testament and I often ask her lots of stuff so she wasn't surprised Smita Bernadet: she knows that i'm a beginner kirty ekka: ok....i see  kirty ekka: i thought you are at expert level  kirty ekka: well good to know ... Smita Bernadet: look...i had already mentioned in my chats that i'm a freshy and if you can't recall then you can scroll our chat back to top and check for yourself. I have never boasted infront of you. And when it comes to Bible- I am really honest with my words kirty ekka: good you have a nice friend  kirty ekka: hey i know that  kirty ekka: .... kirty ekka: i remember saying that Mr. Gandhi didn't like the old testament  Smita Bernadet: no...long before that i had told you when you told me that the only line you recall from bible was..."knock n it shall be opened up for you...." Smita Bernadet: it was long ago Smita Bernadet: before you wrote me that 5 page document kirty ekka: Yes. kirty ekka: Baby Smita Bernadet: I have never flaunted that I know Bible well. and since we first started discussing the word of God, I've always admitted that I have just started reading so I don't know much Smita Bernadet: I even remarked that you are going to lead me when it comes to Bible Smita Bernadet: since you knew the most important verses and parables kirty ekka: Well, let's do it then. Smita Bernadet: okay... Smita Bernadet: so are you going to teach me old testament? kirty ekka: Quiz .... Smita Bernadet: oh my gosh! Smita Bernadet: i'm going to fail Smita Bernadet: u didn't even let me revise kirty ekka: Who is probably the only person to touch God..not Jesus Smita Bernadet: where did you get that from? Smita Bernadet: are you googling out? kirty ekka: no  Smita Bernadet: where you a genius in bible quiz? Smita Bernadet: were you kirty ekka: haha no  kirty ekka: we had these course in school  Smita Bernadet: is it abraham or moses Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: i don't think they have touched him kirty ekka: don't draw the logic that jesus and god are same and say Joseph...and mary  kirty ekka: i am talking about Jesus' Dad Smita Bernadet: adam eve? Smita Bernadet: you know that I have no idea...right? Smita Bernadet: so why don't you just tell me? kirty ekka: Ok. No n kirty ekka: There is a guy with whom God came to wrestle. Smita Bernadet: can you spill out the suspense? Smita Bernadet: i am not going to google or ask janet! Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: have u slept off? kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: jacob  Smita Bernadet: what happened there? kirty ekka: in genesis  Smita Bernadet: type faster please kirty ekka: i just know that he wrestled with god  Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: next? kirty ekka: Hmmm kirty ekka: Who baptized Jesus Smita Bernadet: john the baptist Smita Bernadet: at jordan river Smita Bernadet: i guess jordan kirty ekka: Ok that was easy Smita Bernadet: yes thanx Smita Bernadet: master kirty ekka: Baby ... Smita Bernadet: what? Smita Bernadet: u need to sleep? kirty ekka: No Smita Bernadet: are you even typing? kirty ekka: Tell me kirty ekka: Something funny that happened today with you. Smita Bernadet: nothing funny, boys n girls at church thought that I was a college fresher till I told them my age. Nothing funny happened as such. kirty ekka: The pic that you sent me.. Was it taken today ?? Smita Bernadet: yes evening kirty ekka: Hmmmm kirty ekka: You are super pretty. kirty ekka: Super beautiful. Smita Bernadet: didn't know that...I think I look older now kirty ekka: Don't joke kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: another friend said that i was looking hot...well i disagree Smita Bernadet: i look cute but not hot! Smita Bernadet: hey furry cat Smita Bernadet: that cat is scaring me that way kirty ekka: You have silky hair Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Lots of well maintenance huh...!! Smita Bernadet: i take extra care of my hair more than any other part of my body Smita Bernadet: you were the first person to comment on my pic Smita Bernadet: didn't expect that from u ... kirty ekka: Ok. :) Smita Bernadet: today a guy came up to me after church and said that you looked more prettier in saree.... Smita Bernadet: well i was wearing a long dress today Smita Bernadet: now i can't keep wearing saree always kirty ekka: All diwanas at your church huh Smita Bernadet: i don't dress up to please others... Smita Bernadet: he is very younger to me Smita Bernadet: I like gowns and dresses more than saree Smita Bernadet: have you seen angels in saree? they are always in gown/dress kirty ekka: Indian angels... kirty ekka: Kali...laxmi..and Durga Smita Bernadet: nope...bible angels Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Ok no kirty ekka: How was your mass. Smita Bernadet: was good...choir was too melodious kirty ekka: I think the topic today was envy here... Smita Bernadet: all guys were in choir kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: How long are your masses Smita Bernadet: 1 hr Smita Bernadet: at AG church 1.30 hrs kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: What time did you go ? kirty ekka: Do you go alone or do you take your friends with you ? Smita Bernadet: i go alone for english mass...today was in loyola campus in hindi so I took 4 hindi girls from my hostel. when i go to AG worship sessions, I take janet along. Smita Bernadet: the one I go alone to is just 7 min. walking kirty ekka: kirty ekka: This is my colleagues' marriage. kirty ekka: The guy in suit is getting married. Smita Bernadet: when was it? kirty ekka: This year 2 months ago Smita Bernadet: looks good Smita Bernadet: this single guy looks handsome...what's his name? kirty ekka: Some of the girls' friends got the placards. kirty ekka: They asked us to use them. kirty ekka: That guy ..!!! Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: that single guy kirty ekka: Belongs to you already Smita Bernadet: ahaan Smita Bernadet: ...ye lo...dry kiss kirty ekka: Thanks miss. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Is dry kiss Ka badla jaroor milega Smita Bernadet: i will defend strongly !!! kirty ekka: Chennai main Smita Bernadet: I'm a fighter kirty ekka: Hehe kirty ekka: You will be tested then. Smita Bernadet: we'll see Smita Bernadet: Mr. Ekka Smita Bernadet: what does Ekka mean? Smita Bernadet: i forgot kirty ekka: Tortoise Smita Bernadet: hmmm Smita Bernadet: i couldn't hear your voice enough for today kirty ekka: If I speak now, the house will echo Smita Bernadet: i know kirty ekka: Dad will wake up thinking ghost has come. Smita Bernadet: i'm not asking you to Smita Bernadet: hehehhhh kirty ekka: What do you think should happen first kirty ekka: Marriage or love ..!! Smita Bernadet: i want to marry whom I love Smita Bernadet: there's your answer kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: All answers are correct Smita Bernadet: all? Smita Bernadet: you hardly asked any Smita Bernadet: !! kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: What sort of questions do you want me to ask ?? Smita Bernadet: thought of asking after meet kirty ekka: Leave it. It will come automatically kirty ekka: What do you want to ask after meeting ?? Smita Bernadet: was on kids kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Shaadi kare pehle...!!! Smita Bernadet: i just wanted to know how much responsibility are you capable of taking in worse situations Smita Bernadet: ya Smita Bernadet: i'll ask later kirty ekka: Maybe most of your questions would be answered by observing me Smita Bernadet: what does marriage mean to you? Smita Bernadet: or are you doing out of compulsion ? Smita Bernadet: do even want to get married? Smita Bernadet: do you think it's important? kirty ekka: No. kirty ekka: Not doing out if compulsion. kirty ekka: I would have then let my parents choose one for me then. kirty ekka: *out of compulsion kirty ekka: I want to get married so I am looking out to marry. Smita Bernadet: ok what does being in marriage mean to u? kirty ekka: That is a big question kirty ekka: Maybe we will call and discuss this Smita Bernadet: its a small one Smita Bernadet: do you have an essay on it? kirty ekka: It's a part of life that I want Smita Bernadet: that's it? kirty ekka: Want to be happy in my marriage and work towards happier life everyday. Smita Bernadet: what if it's not happy everyday? can't be for fact! kirty ekka: Would be making lots of efforts socially..physically...professionally...mutually ... Etc. kirty ekka: Happiness doesn't come freely for anyone you need to make effort towards it. Smita Bernadet: in this i look like scooby dooby doo cartoon's velma character kirty ekka: You look like you. Smita Bernadet: do you have a medical condition among your parent's family? was there any sudden deaths or someone affected with a serious condition? Something which I should know? kirty ekka: no...there has not been an incident like this  kirty ekka: i need to have a healthcheck up  Smita Bernadet: so what r u doing now? I have to go to college tomorrow Smita Bernadet: There's Ph.D award function..of my very good senior. Smita Bernadet: don't you have bible lessons for me tonight? kirty ekka: !! Smita Bernadet: ... Smita Bernadet: i feel like an idiot waiting like a fool thinking that you will contact me kirty ekka: i am sorry  Smita Bernadet: no need kirty ekka: very sorry .... Smita Bernadet: I'm sorry.. Smita Bernadet: was my fault..shouldn't had missed you kirty ekka: if next time i need to drop off....and tell you that i would call back...then i would let you know by when kirty ekka: please ...i am really sorry....i got caught up with lots of things that we were talking about... Smita Bernadet: don't do it if you don't feel like Smita Bernadet: i think it's clearly my fault. I get too attached and then keep assuming that the other person too misses me the way I do. And thus I end up hurting myself because of my own stupidity. kirty ekka: i was talking to her about you...though did not give her the entire story..but gave her some idea about me thinking about you...  kirty ekka: it was not for seeking her opinion and all ....it was a For your Information types talk  kirty ekka: then we were talking about marriages in general...and how do we know that this it etc... Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: by drawing parallels from other people lives... kirty ekka: and by the way...it is Ok to miss other people  Smita Bernadet: I'm not angry...just sad a bit coz I don't like waiting in vain kirty ekka: yes...i understand what you are talking about....i myself behave stupidly sometimes...  kirty ekka: this is entirely my fault... kirty ekka: much like you i too think, speculate, and contemplate about us being together Smita Bernadet: so who is this cousin of yours? kirty ekka: she is my mother's elder sister's daughter kirty ekka: she is the one in the pic with the church in the background kirty ekka: she is my badima's daughter Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: is she married? kirty ekka: no she is not  Smita Bernadet: 2 hrs! what were you talking? kirty ekka: lots of things...house...career..marriage etc..  kirty ekka: other cousins...bangalore...then you Smita Bernadet: is she elder to you? kirty ekka: yes she is  Smita Bernadet: whats her name? kirty ekka: shweta Smita Bernadet: nice Smita Bernadet: so what did you tell about us? kirty ekka: i didn't tell her how me met  kirty ekka: but i think she has an idea Smita Bernadet: how come? kirty ekka: i talk to her a lot...when we talk  kirty ekka: we are quite close to each other Smita Bernadet: what did you speak about me then? Smita Bernadet: does she like me? will she? kirty ekka: i don't think she has reasons for not liking you...till now  kirty ekka: i said about what you do...occupation etc.. Smita Bernadet: I like her height... kirty ekka: where you are from...but not your name till now.. kirty ekka: i don't want her teasing me  Smita Bernadet: why do you think that she'll tease you? kirty ekka: call out your name aloud..when i talk  kirty ekka: maybe she would do that  Smita Bernadet: she is just as naughty as you are kirty ekka: i dont know...but i dont want to give her any option  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: I soon need to get a job or else your family would definitely not like me kirty ekka: you'll get a job .... kirty ekka: work hard you will be there Smita Bernadet: yes baby Smita Bernadet: thanx for those warm words Smita Bernadet: if God got us together then he will help me out with rest too...he can't leave me on my own like that kirty ekka: in case you do not have a job...this won't result in people not liking you.. kirty ekka: they would be surprised though...because the trend is on being financially independent these days Smita Bernadet: that's what everbody sees in a girl..prime most Smita Bernadet: everybody kirty ekka: people do look... kirty ekka: for the guys it's a deal breaker ... kirty ekka: like you detailed me before kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: I feel like squeezing your cheeks kirty ekka: i think you are smart enough to get a decent job and do well in life Smita Bernadet: why are you so far Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: i too hope so Smita Bernadet: but recruitment process isn't transparent anymore these days Smita Bernadet: it's tough kirty ekka: do your best...that is the best you can do.. Smita Bernadet: Let's see, I will try with every might kirty ekka: besides getting good things in life...has never been easy  kirty ekka: its just that our parents dont complain  Smita Bernadet: I just want job satisfaction Smita Bernadet: so did shweta didi see my pic? kirty ekka: yes..i showed her.. kirty ekka: your recent pic on the terrace.. Smita Bernadet: what!!! oh no Smita Bernadet: should had shown the sari one kirty ekka: i showed her that pic before Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: what is she doing in job? kirty ekka: so she gave me a book on marriage  kirty ekka: to read kirty ekka: she is a lawyer and used to work in delhi at Pangea.. Smita Bernadet: that's so sweet of her.. kirty ekka: but then her mother had cancer so she came to nurse her... kirty ekka: sadly badima expired.. Smita Bernadet: when did she pass away? kirty ekka: and badababa doesnt want to move out of his house and so she stays with him kirty ekka: last year kirty ekka: or a year before  Smita Bernadet: she's the only sibling ? kirty ekka: no there are three of them kirty ekka: two of them are in delhi Smita Bernadet: elder to her? kirty ekka: yes  kirty ekka: she is the youngest Smita Bernadet: married? kirty ekka: one is married  kirty ekka: one is not Smita Bernadet: boys? Smita Bernadet: oh kirty ekka: both girls Smita Bernadet: no no Smita Bernadet: must be girls Smita Bernadet: you're the only male kirty ekka: yes !!! kirty ekka: i am the only male !!! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: so you're everybody's beloved kirty ekka: nooo way... Smita Bernadet: i guess so... kirty ekka: i think the eldest sister is everyone's beloved  Smita Bernadet: everybody loves to hangout with you when you're around kirty ekka: hmmm no one ever said me anything like - they love hanging out with me etc.. Smita Bernadet: show me your sisters pic please Smita Bernadet: search n send later kirty ekka: i dont have any now  Smita Bernadet: must be somewhere...scan it then or download it later Smita Bernadet: ok so... Smita Bernadet: I studied today Smita Bernadet: And I'm going to campus kal Smita Bernadet: I'm just counting the days as to when you'll be back here kirty ekka: bangalore is still not chennai  Smita Bernadet: whatever Smita Bernadet: its the same Smita Bernadet: near by Smita Bernadet: just an overnight journey kirty ekka: so Shweta gave me a book on marriage  kirty ekka: i don't know whats in it.. Smita Bernadet: what's the name- is it " I take thee Rebecca? kirty ekka: i married you kirty ekka: this is the name Smita Bernadet: oh....okay...people say this book is good too for catholics... http://www.thomasnelson.com/i-isaac-take-thee-rebekah Smita Bernadet: on marriage.. Smita Bernadet: We should read it kirty ekka: did you read it  Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: i will soon Smita Bernadet: you read the one you have n pass it on to me kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: I, Isaac, Take Thee, Rebekah - is more from Bible point of view Smita Bernadet: Its written by the husband... Smita Bernadet: I'll get a copy n pass it on to you...likewise you can do the same kirty ekka: this book is too from the bible  Smita Bernadet: that's good to know Smita Bernadet: Let's do it then Smita Bernadet: You should start reading yours...and I'll see when to buy mine kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: marriage is hard work! Such a big responsibility... Smita Bernadet: scares me a bit though kirty ekka: everyone gets scare kirty ekka: scared Smita Bernadet: yes.. Smita Bernadet: so? kirty ekka: but you need to go through it... kirty ekka: but you need to think well and act in the best judegement Smita Bernadet: and once we get in there's no way out! kirty ekka: only death  kirty ekka: can make us part !! Smita Bernadet: I don't think even death can make me apart from him....It's for eternity kirty ekka: Naah after death...people are not married  Smita Bernadet: not physically...i know kirty ekka: if you go to hell - the fire will be the only thing that you remember  Smita Bernadet: I am going to heaven....I'm sure of it Smita Bernadet: I am saved Smita Bernadet: I am a born again Smita Bernadet: My love for my soulmate is eternal...I'll carry it beyond grave kirty ekka: and if you go to heaven - then you won't remember that period  kirty ekka: heaven is heaven after all !! kirty ekka:    and if you go to heaven - then you won't remember that period  Smita Bernadet: just as Jesus did Smita Bernadet: sure I will...I will make a deal with Jesus... Smita Bernadet: People remember each other in heaven... Smita Bernadet: I have a true story of a kid who died..went to heaven, came back and accounted many amazing facts which neither of the parents had told him before...you should watch this movie... Smita Bernadet: It's a book and now a movie " Heaven is for Real" Smita Bernadet: based on true testimony Smita Bernadet: of a kid Smita Bernadet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ClOXe6qBYY Smita Bernadet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=10xmDugncz0 Smita Bernadet: he's the boy now grown up Smita Bernadet: take out time n watch it someday...He will surprise you. Smita Bernadet: hello? Smita Bernadet: baby? u there Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: yes i am here  kirty ekka: i was reading stuffs on it  Smita Bernadet: see God made relationships to last forever Smita Bernadet: Nobody forgets anybody.. Smita Bernadet: As Jesus remembers us, we will always remember eachother...though physically we may not be in marriage anymore Smita Bernadet: will you talk to me now? u can read later Smita Bernadet: will you stop ! and talk to me? kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: read the reviews now  Smita Bernadet: reviews may be misleading...specially by non believers Smita Bernadet: just read it and rate it yourself...don't go on what others think about it...your likings are different than others kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: i will check it  Smita Bernadet: so, can I cuddle you now? I need to sleep early tonight. kirty ekka: Anytime Smita Bernadet: You seem little off today Smita Bernadet: again you're so silent Smita Bernadet: what's the matter with you? Smita Bernadet: are you even listening to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! kirty ekka: sleep well Bernadet  kirty ekka: network baby ...network Smita Bernadet: stay for a while then kirty ekka: my sweet little girl.. Smita Bernadet: you are there and I am here....one of us is at the wrong place kirty ekka: kirty ekka: sad thing truly kirty ekka: have you gone  kirty ekka: already  Smita Bernadet: nope Smita Bernadet: just thinking about u Smita Bernadet: what should I do to keep you close to me? kirty ekka: i began regretting as to why i planned a leave this large kirty ekka: or a WFH this large Smita Bernadet: I think I should buy more pillows to sleep with...like you have 4 kirty ekka: yes buy... Smita Bernadet: cool Smita Bernadet: I'll buy a big teddy bear too Smita Bernadet: bigger than my size Smita Bernadet: I'll cuddle n sleep on it kirty ekka: no ...no teddy bear kirty ekka: i saw Ted ...they are not innocent  Smita Bernadet: haah Smita Bernadet: are you serious? kirty ekka: Ted the movie  Smita Bernadet: i know what ur saying kirty ekka: it;s a super cool teddy bear that can speak  Smita Bernadet: I'll buy a dumb teddy bear big enough to fit me kirty ekka: haha you enjoy Smita Bernadet: I can't enjoy but atleast be content a bit Smita Bernadet: Can't talk to it though Smita Bernadet: it won't have spiky hair n cute eyebrows.... Smita Bernadet: won't have strong n cozy shoulders Smita Bernadet: won't call my name... kirty ekka: baby  Smita Bernadet: won't cuddle me back kirty ekka: we will cuddle for super long duration  Smita Bernadet: I don't understand...I haven't met you yet I have such profound n warm feelings for you...Is it even right? kirty ekka: i think we need to meet soon  Smita Bernadet: somebody please tell me...is it even right! kirty ekka: i dont know baby...i feel confident about you too...  kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: mostly i want to hear you speak  Smita Bernadet: in hindi? kirty ekka: see you speak kirty ekka: in every language possible  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: don't do hindi... kirty ekka: i will kidnap you then Smita Bernadet: I'm ready to walk into your web trap myself... kirty ekka: hmmm  kirty ekka: i would love it  Smita Bernadet: but promise me that you'll let me go n not keep me Smita Bernadet: till we are together again kirty ekka: yes..definitely Smita Bernadet: so.. Smita Bernadet: this feeling for you...is growing day by day...seems it might explode me kirty ekka: don;t explode... Smita Bernadet: can't help it kirty ekka: kirty ekka: baby  kirty ekka: i am all smiles here Smita Bernadet: I'm blushing here kirty ekka: send me your blushing pic Smita Bernadet: oh no no....you can witness it when we meet kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: okay so this is the toughest part... Smita Bernadet: seems like it's my last day with you every time I say bye kirty ekka: bye bye  kirty ekka: sleep well  kirty ekka: and have an exciting tomorrow Smita Bernadet: I think you enjoy saying byee to me kirty ekka: haha no Smita Bernadet: here I don't feel like and look at you... Smita Bernadet: your bye sounds very cold to me kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: its not  Smita Bernadet: then why can't i feel you? your byee is so dull kirty ekka: haha  Smita Bernadet: not enough to last whole night kirty ekka: you can't see me smiling when i am chatting with you Smita Bernadet: Even I'm smiling baby kirty ekka: so obviously you won't know how much i enjoy talking to you  kirty ekka: when would you be free tomorrow Smita Bernadet: pata nai Smita Bernadet: when I'm free, I'll give u a missed call. kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: 11.30 to 12.30 I'm in hall kirty ekka: i'm busy 1-2 tomorrow kirty ekka: i have a meeting  Smita Bernadet: okies..I'll bear in mind Smita Bernadet: come here..let me...goodnight. Hugs....n hugs kirty ekka: Goodnight...baby.. kirty ekka: hugssssss  Smita Bernadet: goodnight honey kirty ekka: yes bbye sweetheart  Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: take care baby Smita Bernadet: i'm showing your pics to my friends Smita Bernadet: Today when you asked me whether am I referring to Bible to seek answers to my questions about marriage and my findings on this journey,...I didn't have an instant reply. I knew it but wasn't able to compile and pen it down from my subconscious mind. Partly it's from my personal conversations with Jesus and signs and partly from incidents around me and rest from Bible sayings. Though I knew what I am supposed to do next- that is read more of Bible and books on marriage which are written from Bible's point of view and go through movies based on Bible and marriage, instead my mind was suddenly clouded by a horrific thought. This made me really sad and doubtful about myself. I kept thinking that may be Vishal is not sure about me and that's why he is referring Bible and asking me these queries , may be he thinks that I'm not the one, May be he doubts this whole meeting process and God bringing us together,  why is he asking me all these questions? May be he feels that God has someone better than me for him...may be he is not satisfied with our conversations and is still looking for the right girl and right answers which I am unable to provide. Am I the one? I have started doubting that what if I'm not the one and I ruin his life. What if I fail to satisfy him, what if he regrets having me .. I'm feeling so blue...I think just reading through Bible won't give me much insight instead I need to just talk to Jesus. Let him walk into my life and lead me holding my hand as a Father does. I will just let things happen on their own because I trust him, I have faith in him. He will just let me know. Off course I would read all the books that's possible and try to look at the holiness of marriage from God's point of view that is the Bible. I just want to let you know that I'll write it down and email you once I feel that it's complete. Smita Bernadet: I dropped my laptop (really heavy) on my right foot and it's paining. Laptop got saved so I'm glad it fell on me. Smita Bernadet: Have difficulty walking. Smita Bernadet: I have started doubting myself because I feel that you doubt me. Smita Bernadet: I want you to quote where you read that said, " Love is more important prior marriage and Marriage is important prior love"..? If you quote it then I can try to interpret too and know more about it kirty ekka: Hey Bernadet, first relax. I am not doubting you. You know, It's a fact that an empty vessel makes a lot of noise. I am an empty vessel!!! But want to know lots of answers instantly and I further get restless when I don't find answers. Well, you are the one who is responsible for making me walk closer to God. I am thankful to you for that. But then walking in this direction to answer a key question in life is a new concept to me and is resulting in a flood of further new questions and a bit of anxieties. I would not like to consult a third human being for the relationship/ experience that we share and want to grow. Other people would not have an idea about the closeness we share. It's us who need to decide what we need to do about ourselves. I feel at peace with you. There is a certain satisfaction that I obtain from you. I find you trustworthy and also know for sure that you have a golden heart. I really like you and the person you are. Marrying a person like you, would delight me. But, also I feel limited in my own abilities to understand and guarantee a hurdle free marriage. I think that relationships are doomed to fail because they lack the depth and maturity required. I want to understand clearly and not fail in this quest. My aim is that we both walk spiritually together, understand the divine plan and be 100 percent sure in our choices. I think that my three days of introspection is spilling over further. I am also happy to know that you are brimming with life and happiness. It shows that we are doing something right and we just need to get everything right. Do let me know what you think after all we need to quarrel !!!! Smita Bernadet: you want to quarrel? where did you get it? quote it then..Let me see kirty ekka: I read it in the book that I read. Smita Bernadet: but can you check if it's there in the Bible? kirty ekka: Though we did quarrel a bit initially. :) Smita Bernadet: when did we quarrel? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: Yeah right you are so respectful kirty ekka: I just read "I married you" kirty ekka: The authors name is Walter .... kirty ekka: The point that he wanted to make is that having a quarrel before the marriage gives an idea on how we react when we are angry. Smita Bernadet: are you calling me respectful ? and on what basis? Smita Bernadet: quarreling should occur spontaneously..genuinely..we can't create one.. Smita Bernadet: I don't feel like quarreling with those whom I love coz I don't want to loose them, rather I would just admit that it was all my fault and say sorry. kirty ekka: Yes you are a respectful person. Basically jo izzat dete hai unko hi izzat milta hai. kirty ekka: You are respectful in the way you talk. kirty ekka: Oo don't be so chweet...how will we quarrel...!!! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: so you are dying to quarrel Mr.? Smita Bernadet: Mind you then we'll have a wrestle!!! kirty ekka: Wrestling you will win... kirty ekka: That's why I want to quarrel. kirty ekka: Ok. I will take bath and come. Smita Bernadet: come soon kirty ekka: Ok b kirty ekka: Hi I'm back kirty ekka: Did you ear again. kirty ekka: Eat Smita Bernadet: hmm...you took longer than me Smita Bernadet: yes baby, i had my supper kirty ekka: Eating also kirty ekka: I did not eAt supper. I am having it now. Smita Bernadet: ok... Smita Bernadet: why didn't you? Smita Bernadet: have it then.. kirty ekka: I was not feeling hungry. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: papa won't mind you eating late? Smita Bernadet: ok i won't disturb...just finish eating kirty ekka: No he has become cool now. kirty ekka: Perhaps I went to the Sunday mass at 6 am that's why Smita Bernadet: that's so sweet of you my prince Smita Bernadet: ok u eat kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Hi again. Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: what did you eat honey? kirty ekka: Roti and phul kobi kirty ekka: What about you Smita Bernadet: I had idli-upma with some south indian curry and apple juice and egg and veg biryani and mishti kirty ekka: After hogging in the afternoon. You can eat a lot !! Smita Bernadet: I had little of everything baby Smita Bernadet: so? kirty ekka: Ok well enjoy while you can. Smita Bernadet: you finished that book Smita Bernadet: are you planning to return it ? if not then can I read? kirty ekka: I am quite sorry but do I make you anxious? Smita Bernadet: yes kirty ekka: Hmm sorry for that. Smita Bernadet: I cried Smita Bernadet: didn't want to tell you though kirty ekka: Please don't cry darling ..... Smita Bernadet: i was crying...not now kirty ekka: Baby promise me you won't cry about this again..... Smita Bernadet: i got scared, I had this thought that what if we are infront of the Lord's alter..taking vows and suddenly you step back and decide not to get married on our marriage day! kirty ekka: I am so stupid.....I am making you go through hell on earth. Smita Bernadet: it's fine..you have a free will kirty ekka: Hey...don't you believe a word I say praising you. kirty ekka: I feel you are a super great person baby. kirty ekka: You are extraordinary in many ways. Smita Bernadet: what if you say one day that " you are super great, nothing is wrong with you...it's just me..I think I don't want this...You'll get better than me"????? kirty ekka: No it's not that. Smita Bernadet: is your hair wet now? kirty ekka: I don't think that will happen. kirty ekka: I am very sorry Bernadet. My choice of words were not wise. Smita Bernadet: forget it Smita Bernadet: so, is your hair wet now? kirty ekka: Where did you cry?? kirty ekka: In the room or on the terrace .??? Smita Bernadet: terrace kirty ekka: Since you are closed to god among the two of us, I don't get that picture that you get. Smita Bernadet: and in washroom kirty ekka: I am this anxious sometimes and now I've got you into it. kirty ekka: **I am thus anxious kirty ekka: When I come to meet you at Chennai, you get to punch me for this Smita Bernadet: I am not angry..just sad Smita Bernadet: i can't punch for that Smita Bernadet: moreover..I'm planning to come to you over there..not final yet kirty ekka: I am feeling so bad...I've let an adorable person like you become sad. kirty ekka: My beautiful queen please don't cry .... Smita Bernadet: It's fine..atleast I spoke to God about it kirty ekka: From the next time.... kirty ekka: I think we should pray together sometime. Smita Bernadet: can we do it before we go to bed everyday? Smita Bernadet: you can type it or get a prayer from somewhere and share it here. Smita Bernadet: we both can read it and then sleep.. kirty ekka: :) kirty ekka: Yes. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: ok now...I'm fine...no need to feel bad Smita Bernadet: come here..let me hug you kirty ekka: You will get lots of kisses with the hugs now ;) Smita Bernadet: dry kiss only kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: you only said that you find wet  kiss YUCKS kirty ekka: Wet kisses are reserved for biwi Smita Bernadet: well I'm not biwi! kirty ekka: :) Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: What do you think - can we be a happy miya Biwi Smita Bernadet: We'll try to be..we'll not be happy always but we'll ask God to guide us through all the sadness and help us to be happy and content with each other..and with whatever little we get Smita Bernadet: Righ now, when we are so happy without being with each other...Imagine...how much more happier we'll be when we actually be together ? Smita Bernadet: *Right Smita Bernadet: This is the reason why distance is important sometimes... Smita Bernadet: makes us grow closer infact and miss each other more kirty ekka: Yes ....I think we would be happy. We are doing and talking the right things to start a relationship. Smita Bernadet: I like you so much Kirty kirty ekka: I like you a lot too. Smita Bernadet: I'm recalling that day when I told " Jesus..I don't want Kirty " Smita Bernadet: It was all about his will being done n not mine kirty ekka: I think I need to develop an intimate understanding with god. Smita Bernadet: Will happen baby...he's knocking at your door..you need to let him in kirty ekka: I have to understand more. Smita Bernadet: it will happen only when God wants..not according to your timings Smita Bernadet: when the time is ripe baby.. Smita Bernadet: just keep preparing yourself for that big day.. kirty ekka: Then why do you get sad and cry !!! kirty ekka: Don't do it again ok baby. Smita Bernadet: because God has given you a free will, he won't force you to marry Smita if you don't want to... kirty ekka: I am so far away and I feel bad if you do it kirty ekka: My sweet baby should be happy Smita Bernadet: I've learnt to wipe my own tears baby...I've been through a lot Smita Bernadet: I won't do it again. I will try Smita Bernadet: I'm not good in conducting prayers...I just know how to talk to God personally.. kirty ekka: Hey that is a god thing kirty ekka: Good thing Smita Bernadet: I wish you were here with me now Smita Bernadet: your presence itself would be enough to keep me warm Smita Bernadet: you forgot about my foot! Smita Bernadet: you didn't even ask once... kirty ekka: Yes I will hold you closely kirty ekka: Because you didn't cry for your foot Smita Bernadet: ya but my foot got hurt na Smita Bernadet: you didn't even give a healing touch to it kirty ekka: Haha cone over to Bangalore. We will study your foot in details. Smita Bernadet: by the time I come there...my foot won't require a doctor kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: You can drop a laptop on your foot again. Smita Bernadet: How can you laugh! I'm in pain here Smita Bernadet: Yeah right! I'll drop the laptop on my foot as well as on yours kirty ekka: Someone has to be well to get the other person to hospital kirty ekka: Me...!!! Smita Bernadet: why hospital??? We'll give a foot  massage to eachother...with warm oil kirty ekka: Haha sure sure Smita Bernadet: 2 days bedridden  kirty ekka: Who said you that ?? Smita Bernadet: no body...I'm a doctor na Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: You are a different doctor kirty ekka: Not the ortho one Smita Bernadet: I have studied human body too... Smita Bernadet: I was a medical aspirant once upon a time kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: 2 days bedridden for both of us....after the massage therapy...how will it heal? Smita Bernadet: you should listen to Dr. Bernadet kirty ekka: Cuddling Smita Bernadet: hey.... kirty ekka: Ok Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: you're so cute Smita Bernadet: cutie baby of mine... Smita Bernadet: I wish you were a small baby so that I could actually carry you in my arms kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: I'm serious!!! Smita Bernadet: come back..I'm gonna give you a lemon rub...and chandan rub too.... kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: someone needs to take care of you Smita Bernadet: so..let me kirty ekka: I am happy with my pre fair and lovely looks. Smita Bernadet: it's about de-tanning baby Smita Bernadet: you've tanned a lot.. Smita Bernadet: lemon is just a blast of vitamin C Smita Bernadet: it's healthy for skin.. Smita Bernadet: you will become CHIKNA Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Haha haha Smita Bernadet: then people will say....Hey Chikne! kirty ekka: Hagahagagahahahaha Smita Bernadet: so? deal? Smita Bernadet: haan bolo na jaan kirty ekka: Lol kirty ekka: I will die laughing tonight. Smita Bernadet: don't die Smita Bernadet: pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez Smita Bernadet: I need u Smita Bernadet: It's actually a very refreshing therapy... kirty ekka:   Smita Bernadet: you will feel soft and smooth kirty ekka: ok we will see..on the condition that you too apply it Smita Bernadet: fine!!!! kirty ekka: and there are no photographs kirty ekka: i am already feeling stupid !! Smita Bernadet: heheh....okay deal kirty ekka: for agreeing  Smita Bernadet: no pics...promise Smita Bernadet: oh my sweet sweet heart...I feel like squeezing you..thanx Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: feels good Smita Bernadet: I am thinking how many lemons will we require kirty ekka: haha  kirty ekka: now don't over do it  Smita Bernadet: haaaha Smita Bernadet: okay... Smita Bernadet: you're too sweet yaar... Smita Bernadet: how will I stay with u? kirty ekka: get police protection and we wil do insurance before meeting  Smita Bernadet: I am broke to afford either of those kirty ekka: you can write a mail to jayalalitha Smita Bernadet: haaha...no no she may jail u instead Smita Bernadet: it's okay...I'm ready to be in your traps Smita Bernadet: just let me sleep when i'm tired...my kidnapper Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: have you slept off? kirty ekka: No Smita Bernadet: my phone's inbox n outbox is flooded with your number only kirty ekka: I was thinking of asking you about it. Smita Bernadet: so? Smita Bernadet: ready for bed? kirty ekka: Yes. Dear kirty ekka: You sleep well Smita Bernadet: i wish we could talk whole night we'll do that when we meet kirty ekka: And remember not to cry again Smita Bernadet: okay...I won't kirty ekka: I don't want that to happen kirty ekka: If you do cry.. Take a selfie and send me Smita Bernadet: i can feel your hand touching my cheeks ...I don't own a camera baby...I won't cry...I'll try not to...can't promise though kirty ekka: Ok. Sweet girl. Sleep well kirty ekka: And be happy always Smita Bernadet: wait lets pray Smita Bernadet: Father God, Thank you for the privilege of love, intimacy and friendship. We come before you and ask that you would be with us in our new relationship. Help us to know each other more, to understand one another deeply and learn how to support and care for each other. Come weave a beautiful tapestry of worship and praise into our growing love. Fill our hearts and minds with your dreams and fill us with excitement about the future. We seek to reflect you in our relationship, to reveal you to our friends and family and to honour you with our minds and words. Lord, thank you for bringing us together. Amen. Smita Bernadet: join your hands and read it Smita Bernadet: Amen kirty ekka: Amen Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: ok honey kirty ekka: Goodnight Smita Bernadet: hugs n kisses Smita Bernadet: goodnight Smita Bernadet: come soon. byee..I'm dying here..don't forget Smita Bernadet: let me know when you're available
kirty ekka: Hi dear. Smita Bernadet: hey baby Smita Bernadet: did you have your supper? or are you skipping it? Smita Bernadet: i have not got my results yet baby kirty ekka: I had my supper. Was feeling hungry boss Smita Bernadet: good that you had...don't skip like that! n don't call me boss kirty ekka: Ok. I know that Smita Bernadet: you're adorable at times..I don't know what to do when you act so cute...you become a child sometimes Smita Bernadet: there's a child hidden in you kirty ekka: You know it's you who has the cute mind...everything looks cute that's why. kirty ekka: You are the cute one baby !! Smita Bernadet: you're enchanting baby kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: I'm in love with your voice these days...I know..I know...thunderous one! Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: were your students happy with the fruity  Smita Bernadet: yes they were so very delighted...they have invited me to a treat party .. kirty ekka: haha your party has just started Smita Bernadet: they are treating me Smita Bernadet: they want me to join Smita Bernadet: i look like a kid in that dress they gifted me kirty ekka: really....!!! kirty ekka: is it a frock with a ribbon to tie at the back  kirty ekka: like a bowtie Smita Bernadet: and it fits me exact....if that dress was a little more smaller, i wouldn't had got into it at all...yes its a frock without ribbon Smita Bernadet: ribbon can be tied separately also kirty ekka: were there girls in the group too... kirty ekka: how did they know your size  Smita Bernadet: girls n boys both kirty ekka: so the girls must be real talented  Smita Bernadet: none of them knew my size..they just guessed it kirty ekka: in that group  Smita Bernadet: they said, "didi, when we saw this dress, we got reminded of you so we immediately bought it" kirty ekka: i think that you are a highly loved personality Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: you're a thief..stealing everyone's hearts and minds Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: can you give me 5 min..baby, I'll be back soon kirty ekka: ok sure Smita Bernadet: i'm back baby kirty ekka: kirty ekka: welcome back kirty ekka: welcome back Smita Bernadet: what's the magic behind your smile Mr.? you are smiling a lot these days ? kirty ekka: you are making me smile...think....gasp....etc. Smita Bernadet: achaaaaa? Smita Bernadet: i don't want you to be devoid of smile...not when you're with me kirty ekka: not smiling with you....its impossible Smita Bernadet: what's the first thing you want to do when we meet? Smita Bernadet: go where? kirty ekka: depends upon the time  kirty ekka: i have no idea Smita Bernadet: how long do you want me to stay? kirty ekka: we will the spirit of the moment decide what to do  kirty ekka: Zeitgeist Smita Bernadet: okay but how long do you want me to stay? kirty ekka: i was thinking of coming there  kirty ekka: first Smita Bernadet: any particular reason? Smita Bernadet: why? Smita Bernadet: ??? kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: i felt that i should take the journey first  kirty ekka: you can come later  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: you're so responsible Smita Bernadet: I'm highly impressed kirty ekka: i am interested in seeing Chennai through your eyes.. kirty ekka: how is it possible that someone loves chennai !!! i need to understand this too  Smita Bernadet: i don't know...none agree with me though Smita Bernadet: i don't know if you can see through my eyes or not...it's just me may be.. Smita Bernadet: you may not like the weather Smita Bernadet: it's not well maintained like bangalore Smita Bernadet: people run away from here to stay at your city and never come back... Smita Bernadet: I don't know why I love this place Smita Bernadet: I'll try to take you to golden beach Smita Bernadet: It would be mine first time too kirty ekka: wow..you've never been to the beach Smita Bernadet: this is a private beach..golden beach Smita Bernadet: here there won't be any beggars n sellers disturbing us Smita Bernadet: I don't know Smita Bernadet: there's a park too over here.....I'm so confused now..where to go Smita Bernadet: i just want a place to relax n talk kirty ekka: well we will check it out kirty ekka: yes ....me too  Smita Bernadet: I just want a place so that I can return to hostel prior 8.30 pm Smita Bernadet: somewhere near by Smita Bernadet: my hostel kirty ekka: yes...either the cool beach or a quite place  kirty ekka: anything would do  Smita Bernadet: beach is far from my place Smita Bernadet: golden beach is out of town...wait mum calling kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: my brother has got dengue attack..he's admitted now Smita Bernadet: in delhi kirty ekka: ok...i am afraid  Smita Bernadet: mosi family is there to take care kirty ekka: lots of mosquitoes bit me too kirty ekka: i need to be careful... Smita Bernadet: you don't be nude baby Smita Bernadet: use odomos cream..it really works... Smita Bernadet: all out is useless Smita Bernadet: don't get sick..don't do this to me kirty ekka: haha ok kirty ekka: i wont get dengue Smita Bernadet: don't show off your muscles to those vampires kirty ekka: hmm Smita Bernadet: stay undercover , use odomos Smita Bernadet: what are you wearing right now? Smita Bernadet: do you have a shirt on? kirty ekka: short pants and vest Smita Bernadet: oh no no...go in and stay under fan...away from mosquitoes kirty ekka: ok...my house has nets on all doors and windows. kirty ekka: so there are very few mosquitoes Smita Bernadet: stay inside then Smita Bernadet: are you within your room? kirty ekka: yes yaar kirty ekka: relax ok  kirty ekka: dengue can't kill me Smita Bernadet: over confidence is not right Smita Bernadet: just take precautions... Smita Bernadet: are you in your room or not? kirty ekka: yes  Smita Bernadet: don't be on terrace or near garage Smita Bernadet: okayy Smita Bernadet: so, Smita Bernadet: what else honey? Smita Bernadet: did you study? kirty ekka: vwey little kirty ekka: very little Smita Bernadet: oay Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: so my baby had a relaxed day today..hmmm Smita Bernadet: what are you planning to gift manisha? kirty ekka: what about you Smita Bernadet: what about me ???? kirty ekka: did you study Smita Bernadet: I was in campus baby kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: had a chilled out day today  Smita Bernadet: yes i had a quality time with all my loved ones. This is how the moon looks right now from my terrace..it's so silver and romantic.. Smita Bernadet: stars scattered like diamonds and lots of breeze kirty ekka: great day then  Smita Bernadet: I love celestial bodies, I've always admired them.. Smita Bernadet: are you getting my messages? kirty ekka: yes i am  kirty ekka: i got your image now Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: don't you like moon? kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: i want to see shooting stars Smita Bernadet: I had witnessed shooting stars long back...3 at a time Smita Bernadet: and I immediately wished for my 1st boyfriend...and it came true also a few years later kirty ekka: haha kirty ekka: i think it was not the shooting stars Smita Bernadet: it's so fast..I mean these shooting stars...by the time you keep wondering that is it really the one...blink! they're gone...I know the difference between a rocket n star.. Smita Bernadet: diwali rockets don't travel horizontally...they are always vertical and stay for a long time.... kirty ekka: i thought a spacecraft type rocket Smita Bernadet: funny kirty ekka: i have seen the world space center  Smita Bernadet: spacecrafts don't have trails and they too don't travel horizontally...when they take off Smita Bernadet: look...i know what i saw..okay..will you stop doubting it kirty ekka: i'm not doubting yuo  kirty ekka: i like the skyline that you have tonight Smita Bernadet: i saw 3 at a time within the difference of few seconds...in the same area...you tell me will 3 space rockets will travel that close...they will collide if they do so... Smita Bernadet: you should be here in chennai Smita Bernadet: chennai's moon is very romantic Smita Bernadet: i'm glad you like our skyline baby Smita Bernadet: but if you are here then I won't be able to enjoy the moon with you ...sadly my entry time is 8.30 kirty ekka: ok dear i believe you kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: my baby kirty...I need foot massage...the right one.. kirty ekka: i know your timing now  Smita Bernadet: may be your golden touch is all it needs kirty ekka: you will get one Smita Bernadet: get what? kirty ekka: massage Smita Bernadet: oh...i see Smita Bernadet: and what timing are you talking about? kirty ekka: hostel timing kirty ekka: and what is the morning timing Smita Bernadet: i wish I had a friend outside or else I would had stayed there and thus would had got enough time to spend with you at night Smita Bernadet: morning is 7 kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: we will find a way dear Smita Bernadet: you know , we chennai girls cover ourselves like terrorists and travel...because of heat n pollution. I too go to office like that. Only my eyes will be visible, or else not even that, I'll put my sunglasses over it. kirty ekka: dont worry Smita Bernadet: its common here... Smita Bernadet: protects our skin too kirty ekka: ooh i did not know that Smita Bernadet: on top of all this I even use my umbrella....janet too kirty ekka: ok....i travel with only shirts and pants on !!! Smita Bernadet: i know... Smita Bernadet: you like getting tanned and polluted in sun n dust Smita Bernadet: it feels safe to travel under mask...people don't stare at our faces...pretty girls specially prefer it kirty ekka: okkkkk kirty ekka: i see now  kirty ekka: i think that the people who stare, stare at all the girls Smita Bernadet: well, we girls over here travel like that... Smita Bernadet: end of the conversation! kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: tell me what are you gifting the couples? kirty ekka: money Smita Bernadet: why? Smita Bernadet: that's a lazy option kirty ekka: wont want them to carry things and go back to mumbai kirty ekka: but still ok... Smita Bernadet: hahahh. get something home delivered to mumbai then..or get them a travel package to some nice place kirty ekka: most of the gifts are left at home by the people kirty ekka: a friend of mine only brought back to bangalore a mixer from ranchi Smita Bernadet: give something that they don't have to carry...or a small one that they won't mind carrying.. Smita Bernadet: check online for ideas ...anyways..it's your wish kirty ekka: ok will check  Smita Bernadet: so,,i think at marriage party your parents will try hard to show you a match for you Smita Bernadet: parents do that I guess Smita Bernadet: never happened with me though... kirty ekka: i think i will have company there  kirty ekka: there will be a cool sis of mine there  kirty ekka: and i have some friends of manisha too whom i know  Smita Bernadet: oh I see, so you're famous amidst girls kirty ekka: no i am not at all famous  kirty ekka: no one even knows me  kirty ekka: i am no one  Smita Bernadet: you will become famous with me then kirty ekka: surely... kirty ekka: after all you are the public's darling  Smita Bernadet: I have funny questions for you..chumma Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: ask me  Smita Bernadet: okay..there is no intention behind asking them...It's chumma Smita Bernadet: just wanted to know Smita Bernadet: which toothpaste do you use? kirty ekka: dabur lal dant manjan Smita Bernadet: seriously? Smita Bernadet: do you get that in bangalore? kirty ekka: yes... kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: paste or powdered one? kirty ekka: are my teeth bad  Smita Bernadet: no....just tell me next..what shampoo do you use? kirty ekka: anything that i feel like  Smita Bernadet: currently? kirty ekka: whenever i cut my hair...i buy lots of sachets and come bacl kirty ekka: back Smita Bernadet: name of the product? Smita Bernadet: ?? kirty ekka: hmmm.... Smita Bernadet: sunsilk? loreal? dove? Smita Bernadet: mud? kirty ekka: head and shoulders.....then dove etc. Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: then which deodorant do you use? Smita Bernadet: ?? kirty ekka: latest was dove Smita Bernadet: are you serious? Smita Bernadet: that's for women....so mild kirty ekka: deosi use many  kirty ekka: i don't have any hair only  Smita Bernadet: so Mr. Dove...okay next..what soap you use? Dove? Smita Bernadet: Lux? kirty ekka: dettol and fame  Smita Bernadet: ahan... Smita Bernadet: do you really use dove deodorant? I still can't believe it... kirty ekka: no not dove deo Smita Bernadet: then? Smita Bernadet: diesel deo? kirty ekka: i use..nike, adidas, playboy, kamasutra ... i go by the packaging and the mood (at the moment of buying) kirty ekka: no  Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: you're too moody? kirty ekka: i know that you use a lot of materials  Smita Bernadet: like? kirty ekka: ive seen a pic of your closet  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: me and janet share Smita Bernadet: so, what did u see in my closet Mr.? Smita Bernadet: hello?? Smita Bernadet: what?? kirty ekka: Lots of things kirty ekka: It was there with your nails picture. Smita Bernadet: thats a common table...I buy and never use it Smita Bernadet: some of them are my medicines kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: you're funny Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: why funny Smita Bernadet: when you said, " I know what all you use"...when you actually don't know...makes me laugh and pull your cheeks kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Even I know that it's not the entire sample space. kirty ekka: But it is some of them. Smita Bernadet: why don't you just ask me instead of assuming? kirty ekka: Ok what is the oil you use. Smita Bernadet: oil for what? cooking or hair? or body? Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: You have a body oil too !! kirty ekka: What is the hair oil and the body oil. Smita Bernadet: sometimes yes Smita Bernadet: hair oil i use none...body oil is the one that's traditional...sarso oil with garlic boiled..home made for body pain relief Smita Bernadet: can be used for dry skin too Smita Bernadet: and in winters Smita Bernadet: chest pain Smita Bernadet: nd cold Smita Bernadet: and kirty ekka: I am shocked. Smita Bernadet: why? Smita Bernadet: I use serum instead of hair oil...Loreal hair serum Smita Bernadet: my hair is good because it's in my genes...i inherited it kirty ekka: Ok good loreal's serum..!!!! Smita Bernadet: next? kirty ekka: Nice natural hair then. kirty ekka: What creams do you use kirty ekka: For body and face etc. Smita Bernadet: no cream for face....only night cream while sleeping- lakme ..but not everyday..and none for body unless it's too dry- himalaya for now..keeps changing according to aroma...sometimes i use only ayurvedic neem wax on face but only while sleeping..day time none kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Your skin looks silky..is it so? Smita Bernadet: it's not silky i don't know... Smita Bernadet: it's normal i guess kirty ekka: Soft and smooth Smita Bernadet: may be kirty ekka: Hmmmm you do look soft though Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: depends on the weather Smita Bernadet: i do have mosquito bites though...I'm not flawless kirty ekka: Wow Smita Bernadet: what wow??? kirty ekka: The mosquito bite is the only anomaly on your skin Smita Bernadet: there's one more thing Smita Bernadet: it's hereditary in my dad Smita Bernadet: My father has it and my brother too and me also Smita Bernadet: sisters don't have it Smita Bernadet: it's not a disease..chill Smita Bernadet: it's not a threat! kirty ekka: ??? Smita Bernadet: well, I have mild blemishes on my upper back...So I avoid deep back dresses...It's not a disease...It's just the skin color.not ugly though..and even janet has it...both of us are so same... but its not rough...skin is still smooth...... Smita Bernadet: its hereditary for both of us kirty ekka: Hey no problem Smita Bernadet: my brother has lots..mine are mild..i think it's male to male specific...that's why my sisters don't have it Smita Bernadet: u there? kirty ekka: Ok dear don't worry about it. Smita Bernadet: I'm feeling shy right now kirty ekka: Why dear Smita Bernadet: i told you..i'm not flawless kirty ekka: I wanted a flawed girl Smita Bernadet: don't joke kirty ekka: There is no flawless person in this world. Smita Bernadet: I have always been haunted about it that what will my husband think kirty ekka: Hmmm don't worry kirty ekka: Love can't be shallow Smita Bernadet: i just wanted to be honest with you so...only Smita Bernadet: you must me thinking something kirty ekka: About your blemishes no ..!! Smita Bernadet: any other questions ? kirty ekka: I have stretch marks !!! Smita Bernadet: obviously....excercise causes that..it's natural Smita Bernadet: exercise Smita Bernadet: when you become thin suddenly from fat...the skin shrivels and when you grow suddenly from thin to fat then also skin stretches....It's expected of you dear Smita Bernadet: stretch marks are temporary Smita Bernadet: it fades away Smita Bernadet: but mine are permanent Smita Bernadet: so? Smita Bernadet: have u slept off? kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: are those lovely flowers for me? oh thanks so much honey Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Lord Jesus, Grant that I and my Kirty may have a true and understanding love for each other. Grant that we may both be filled with faith and trust. Give us the grace to live with each other in peace and harmony. May we always bear with one another's weaknesses and grow from each other's strengths. Help us to forgive one another's failings and grant us patience, kindness, cheerfulness and the spirit of placing the well-being of one another ahead of self. May the love that brought us together grow and mature with each passing year. Bring us both ever closer to You through our love for each other. Let our love grow to perfection. Help us to be loyal and faithful to each other now and forever. Amen. Smita Bernadet: goodnight my pillow kirty ekka: Hi Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: 2 min..I need to apply cream on my body kirty ekka: Ooho kirty ekka: I think you do know hue to dance and you are also good at dancing. kirty ekka: I think you do know how to dance and you are also good at it. Smita Bernadet: yes baby, i can dance...but depends Smita Bernadet: and I get irritated when someone forces me to dance when I don't feel like kirty ekka: Hmmm...I see. Smita Bernadet: but I'm not expert at it Smita Bernadet: so? how was the food? Smita Bernadet: what did you have? kirty ekka: I think you would be better than me. I've seen that girls are more graceful than boys in dancing the tribal dance. Smita Bernadet: i don't think so...I'm okay kind kirty ekka: Food was fine...i think its a normal menu here. Smita Bernadet: i can't dance with people who stamp my feet...if it happens..I just change my position.. kirty ekka: But still the menu at this was a little different. There were fruit salads etc. Smita Bernadet: sounds yummy Smita Bernadet: send me the pics tomorrow kirty ekka: Ok I will send you some pics. Smita Bernadet: not now Smita Bernadet: just talk to me Smita Bernadet: so, did you change and got freshen up? kirty ekka: Ok. Bernadet. :) kirty ekka: Yes I changed. I removed my suit when I went back in the evening. kirty ekka: It's so hot here. Everyone was complaining. Smita Bernadet: oh...sad Smita Bernadet: so, did you get time to miss me? Smita Bernadet: chennai is not that hot...these days Smita Bernadet: It was okay under fan Smita Bernadet: I'm lucky to have a beach kirty ekka: I was thinking about you. Thinking lots of things. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: And a mosquito bit me in my nose!!! kirty ekka: On my nose ..!! Smita Bernadet: heheh...on nose.. Smita Bernadet: becoz it's so prominent..that's y Smita Bernadet: good that it didn't bite on your lips kirty ekka: Haha funny mosquito with a humor Smita Bernadet: atleast the mosquitoes of ranchi aren't pervert like the chennai ones kirty ekka: God!!! Where do they bite you ?? Smita Bernadet: in all the wrong places Smita Bernadet: because they find access to it... Smita Bernadet: ok..lets not imagine Smita Bernadet: !!!!! kirty ekka: Cover up girl !!! Smita Bernadet: can't Smita Bernadet: unless it's cold kirty ekka: Only I will bite you ...let the mosquitoes know !! kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: ok okay lets not imagine!!! kirty ekka: Haha haha ok. Smita Bernadet: what? Smita Bernadet: say something kirty ekka: So dead girl....tell me how do manage to make everyone love you ?? I have to learn this trick from you. kirty ekka: Dear girl ... Not dead girl ....!!! Smita Bernadet: who is loving me? they just like me Smita Bernadet: i just try to mingle..that's all kirty ekka: You are such a like able person. Smita Bernadet: i'll make you like me if you get exposed to my radiations for long time Smita Bernadet: then everyone will start loving you too kirty ekka: I was thinking about you and reasoned that you have a beautiful outlook towards life. Smita Bernadet: thanx for those kind words Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Baby this is a fact ... You should know this. Smita Bernadet: it's Jesus working through me..that's all. I try to see the world in a different way..the way he saw it kirty ekka: :) Smita Bernadet: i have yet  to see the remaining songs on your playlist.. kirty ekka: Ok. I will update them as soon as possible. Smita Bernadet: take your time... Smita Bernadet: I won't check all in a day Smita Bernadet: i have to make a 2nd playlist too kirty ekka: Ooook Smita Bernadet: for you only my prince charming Smita Bernadet: I'll show you varun's pic..he is very mischievous brother of mine...my student infact...he transfered your  pic to his phone and was teasing me to admire you on his big screened phone...he's the one i was talking about..my tambi Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: he's a cute imp Smita Bernadet: he used to buy for me stuff...even though when I deny it... kirty ekka: Thanks a lot baby. kirty ekka: For the play list. kirty ekka: I can see the picture and understand thd reason why they think you are their batch mate. Smita Bernadet: the pleasure is all mine...It was your wish and how could i deny? kirty ekka: You indeed look like a baby. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: may be it's just the hairstyle...my fringe cut Smita Bernadet: have you seen me without a fringe cut? Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: where did u vanish? kirty ekka: What's a fringe cut btw..?? Smita Bernadet: google it kirty ekka: I have seen you with the ponytail. Smita Bernadet: have you seen me without a fringe cut? Smita Bernadet: did you google out? kirty ekka: Is it the scooby doo's gilma cut kirty ekka: Google -.....there's no internet here. Smita Bernadet: yup https://www.google.co.in/search?q=fringe+hairstyles&biw=1023&bih=645&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ved=0CBsQsARqFQoTCJnshvr-ocgCFYkIjgodE58FAA Smita Bernadet: oh wait then Smita Bernadet: this is fringe cut... Smita Bernadet: and this is without fringe but 2009 pic of mine Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: this is also 2009 pic kirty ekka: You look like a sis of mine. Smita Bernadet: funny kirty ekka: You were so skinny !! Smita Bernadet: yes...hostel food..too much stress n studies Smita Bernadet: no pocket money Smita Bernadet: what else do you expect ? kirty ekka: I heard it. .... kirty ekka: Before /; kirty ekka: :( Smita Bernadet: you were opposite of mine then !! kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: hehehhhh kirty ekka: Yes kirty ekka: You've become awesome now. Smita Bernadet: yes it's all jesus Smita Bernadet: it shows on my face n life Smita Bernadet: he's the one who did this to me kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: Baby I can't control my sleep now. :( Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: come here..I'll make you sleep. kirty ekka: Don't feel like leaving but feel heavy Smita Bernadet: Goodnight baby. Smita Bernadet: Don't feel like letting you go Smita Bernadet: but you need to rest honey Smita Bernadet: byee kirty ekka: Don't let the lustful mosquitoes bite you Smita Bernadet: I told them what you told me to tell them i hope they won't dare now Smita Bernadet: sleep well beloved kirty ekka: My sweet baby ... kirty ekka: Sleep well and dream well. kirty ekka: Bbye sweet heart kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: My prayer in my words:-                                 Sweet Jesus," I love you", you know that right? And you also know that how much I adore Vishal..I find him extremely charming . I can for sure feel you working through us from the very start even though it took me 3 days to realize that. Father, I need you to take care of my baby. Keep him safe, he's right now away from me. Be with him every moment and keep mum n dad in your warm aura. Show them that you've always loved them. Please bring my honey back safe n sound because my heart is longing to unite with his soul. I am highly grateful for the soulmate you've chosen for me, really..I mean it Lord. You have fulfilled your promise to me,..thanx father. Guide me papa so that I can be faithful and honest in this relationship and fill me with the zeal to care, respect and love Kirty as you want me to do . I love you Jesus. Amen.. ...happy day to you then Smita Bernadet: This pic is few months back, you wanted a pic of me blushing..so here it is; and my fringe hair is tucked back with a band. kirty ekka: Blushing in the lab..why ? kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: I think I know this girl in red sari...Can't recall her name Smita Bernadet: and why dont you smile more? Smita Bernadet: you should show your teeth..looks good on u ... Smita Bernadet: anjali n her husband's height is good. Smita Bernadet: I was assuming that anjali would wear a gown. Smita Bernadet: r u back? kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: hmm so this was saraat...by the way whom are you looking at? that cute girl? Smita Bernadet: you look good Smita Bernadet: r u still busy? Smita Bernadet: so I went to this shop and liked only 2 gowns...which were kept as trial. Smita Bernadet: this is called A-Line fit gown Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: this one is Mermaid gown Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: They are not of my height...when you go their you choose the type you want then select designs from their catalog and give your measurements. This alone ranges from 20K to 35K...apart from that is the sandals, veil, hair and other accessories.. So..I am going to save my money hereafter. I've always wanted to become a fairy once in my life and I can't sacrifice it at all. If people don't allow me to wear gown then I'll never get married...that's final. I get to choose my guy and I get to choose what I wear. It's once in life...can't compromise it at all. no no never!  By the way I like the mermaid style... Smita Bernadet: If I order from abroad then it may go 10K higher...I'll wait till I have that kind of money.. Smita Bernadet: Did you know that It's supposed to be a bad luck if the groom sees his bride's gown before their wedding kirty ekka: yes i was going to say you that  kirty ekka: that its bad luck for the groom to see the bride in her wedding dress kirty ekka: you look so beautiful in these dresses kirty ekka: i liked the first one more than the second one...though it is simple it looks more gorgeous  kirty ekka: i am wondering how the sarso tel and lasoon has got you such a beautiful body  Smita Bernadet: did you eat? kirty ekka: yes, i ate Smita Bernadet: are you still alone? kirty ekka: no  kirty ekka: my dad is back  kirty ekka: we had food together Smita Bernadet: are your things packed? kirty ekka: no not yet Smita Bernadet: so, you are getting nostalgic? kirty ekka: i will pack tomorrow... kirty ekka: `you are just too beautiful Bernadet.. kirty ekka: which gown did you like btw? Smita Bernadet: i am not "too".....i am "ok" type. I like the mermaid type..and I am very girly..I love flowers a lot..on my hair on my dress... kirty ekka: if you wear a gown and go to her marriage...some one will surely kidnap you  Smita Bernadet: No one will do that because I will be wearing my heels!! I can dig a hole in their skull.. Smita Bernadet: I'll be wearing my purple gown kirty ekka: hmmm.....beauty don't underestimate your charisma  Smita Bernadet: I bought it for my video album shoot but ....anyways kirty ekka: send the purple gown pic  Smita Bernadet: u have seen it...that christmas album Smita Bernadet: black n purple kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: i am trying to view it again  Smita Bernadet: if my money gets credited then I'll buy new or else I'll be wearing this kirty ekka: well so a day nicely spent then Smita Bernadet: yes indeed kirty ekka: did the local started functioning.  kirty ekka: it gor derailed before kirty ekka: is that the pic in which i had commented  kirty ekka: wow... kirty ekka: do you look gorgeous in every dress that you wear  Smita Bernadet: got derailed before..but now i have no clue....wait mum Smita Bernadet: i'm back Smita Bernadet: she was asking me when did we return and where does janet's groom work... kirty ekka: your conversations are so quick  Smita Bernadet: I said hp and she though its hindustan petroleum kirty ekka: most people think that... kirty ekka: so i say hewlett packard first followed by HP Smita Bernadet: then I elaborated it to her...funny..I'll have to do it again when I tell her about you...then she will be shocked that both girls must had planned their grooms kirty ekka: else they start asking questions on oil etc. Smita Bernadet: did you sleep off with that yuckman last night? Smita Bernadet: you finished reading it? kirty ekka: yes....i finished it  Smita Bernadet: did you Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: finished it and forgot that you need to msg me goodnight? kirty ekka: i finished it this morning  kirty ekka: i woke at 5 yesterday for the church  kirty ekka: slept briefly for 2 hours but then was too tired Smita Bernadet: you just had to type 1 word and press the send button..this is why I don't like getting too attached to people and wait in vain. I should be careful hereafter. I was so angry on you that I decided never to hug you. Smita Bernadet: never kirty ekka: baby i miss you too.. kirty ekka: at my place...the network is not nice... Smita Bernadet: you made me wait for that 1 goodnight hugs....I will never hug u ever kirty ekka: i see no network in my cell for 5 mins sometimes.. kirty ekka: and need to resend a sms 2-3 times Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: why don't you keep your own tower!!!! Smita Bernadet: go and complain n get 1 tower on your roof kirty ekka: hmmm... Smita Bernadet: forget what i said Smita Bernadet: it's nonsense kirty ekka: i will have to find a valid person to complain to  Smita Bernadet: telecom minister? Smita Bernadet: or Airtel ? kirty ekka: when do you want me to come to Chennai Smita Bernadet: My results will be out this weel it seems kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: then accordingly I'll let you know. kirty ekka: what will you do post november 15 kirty ekka: will you change your city etc. Smita Bernadet: You just resume your normal life now...don't think of traveling ..take rest..go to gym.. kirty ekka: yes i need to go to gym... Smita Bernadet: I wish to change my city as soon as I grab something... kirty ekka: i have eaten so much here at Ranchi Smita Bernadet: I want to flee as soon as janet leaves kirty ekka: my flight tomorrow is from 1:30  kirty ekka: and then have a connecting flight from kolkata at 9:30 Smita Bernadet: 1.30 AM? kirty ekka: will reach bangalore at 11:30 at night kirty ekka: should reach house by 1 in the night Smita Bernadet: okay..so it's 1.30 PM Smita Bernadet: Will you stay within airport for connecting one? kirty ekka: maybe  kirty ekka: it will be hot in kolkata Smita Bernadet: and humid..don't go out kirty ekka: i may probably take a rest room there at the airport  Smita Bernadet: hmmm...rich guy kirty ekka: no option yaar kirty ekka: the seats at the airport are not comfortable  Smita Bernadet: hmmm...you have rich choices kirty ekka: in my opinion that is the cheap choice...if i go out to a bar and start drinking...then i need to pay for taxi, up and down, and the food and the drinks  Smita Bernadet: i slept whole 7 hrs at delhi airport..alone in freezing cold with my foot on trolley and back on the seat..I was shivering. kirty ekka: i have also done that... Smita Bernadet: i got sick the next day kirty ekka: if i was still smoking i would have taken the bar option... kirty ekka: now i don't want to face the heat for no reason  Smita Bernadet: just rest in the room...and don't miss your flight back Smita Bernadet: from kolkata kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: tell me do you have good job options in bangalore  Smita Bernadet: don't get lost n misplaced...you look like an adorable teddy bear...what if someone hypnotizes you and takes you away? I won't even get a xerox copy of you ever... yes I have good job options but I'll have to wait because right now there's no vacancy. Jobs are plenty...in my interest too..but I'll have to keep hunting with patience. I've sent 18 resumes and got reply from none in this past 1 week. Smita Bernadet: walk in interviews are best Smita Bernadet: and currently it's not open.. Smita Bernadet: I'll have to wait Smita Bernadet: Maam has asked me to stay here till october full coz my 2nd paper is going to be published and I'll have to sit with her to finalize it. Smita Bernadet: I am planning to tell her that I cannot come to lab beyond october since I'm moving back home, thus finish this paper work prior that kirty ekka: oh you're moving back to home Smita Bernadet: she has been delaying my 2nd paper since august! Smita Bernadet: no I'm not moving back home! I'll have to lie to her or else she will keep me here till december kirty ekka: ok i understood  Smita Bernadet: I have submitted it to her for corrections now she has been sitting over it and delaying it kirty ekka: wow you are smart...you will have 2 publications under your name  Smita Bernadet: she is not ready to give me my experience certificate, that's why I got a letter of recommendation from her senior that is our coordinator..alteast I'll have some kind of proof of work done when I apply in other places Smita Bernadet: yes 2 paper Smita Bernadet: so baby, tell me when you want to sleep kirty ekka: doesn't matter kirty ekka: i have lots of work early in the morning.. kirty ekka: we can talk though unhindered  Smita Bernadet: work like what baby? kirty ekka: washing clothes Smita Bernadet: and? Smita Bernadet: you need to rest coz you have to wake up early and travel continuously..sleep in some time..okay kirty ekka: maybe would need to go to my mom's workplace and pick her up  kirty ekka: then pack  kirty ekka: finished kirty ekka: hey its ok  kirty ekka: we can talk  kirty ekka: and when i get back to bangalore i need to meet a dentist and get a health checkup Smita Bernadet: why? you should rest...i don't understand..You should be energetic tomorrow.. kirty ekka: this is the personal week plan  kirty ekka: i will sleep in the flight  kirty ekka: that is the useless time...will not be able to do office work then Smita Bernadet: you sleep now n in flight too. Hows that? Smita Bernadet: how come you're net is working? kirty ekka: !!! Smita Bernadet: I couldn't sleep last night at all. kirty ekka: because i forgot to say bbye .. Smita Bernadet: I was laying down n trying to get some sleep but kept flipping instead ...YES!!!all because of you Smita Bernadet: I HATE YOU Smita Bernadet: i kept listening to music but it didn't work either Smita Bernadet: I was looking at your pics and it became 5 am kirty ekka: i am sorry baby Smita Bernadet: That's when I slept Smita Bernadet: I slept from 5 am onwards and my maam rang n woke me up at 11 am kirty ekka: i will henceforth make sure to hug you tightly before sleeping Smita Bernadet: forget it,,,you're not hugging me...I am not hugging you... I have decided it kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: you made me crave so much kirty ekka: Smitu Bernu Kuju Smita Bernadet: no Smita Bernadet: stay that way...you will know how it feels to long for 1 warm hugs Smita Bernadet: one virtual hugs! that's all I wanted from you...1 msg!!! you couldn't kirty ekka: i had the bbye message draft on my cell...and sent it ...but the network broke...and then i waited ...it did not come back.. kirty ekka: right now i am sitting in a different room  kirty ekka: the room where i sleep has low network coverage Smita Bernadet: ok now don't make that cute face on me....It's melting me right now kirty ekka: man...you will kill me  Smita Bernadet: that sorry face of yours kirty ekka: if after marriage, you begin tormenting me like this kirty ekka: "no touching"..."no hugging" ..."no kissing"...etc.. kirty ekka: "no food" Smita Bernadet: will be fun Smita Bernadet: food you can cook yourself Smita Bernadet: then DON"T MAKE ME CRAVE FOR IT OR I WILL TOO DO THAT ON YOU!!!! Smita Bernadet: if you do it to me then it's correct and reasonable? And If I do it then it's a torture? kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: i did unknowingly  kirty ekka: i succumbed to my body's weakness Smita Bernadet: I understood your problem but if you neglected it inspite of all the favourable conditions then I would really do the same to you kirty ekka: you are being sadistic  Smita Bernadet: be in my shoes!!! kirty ekka: those heels Smita Bernadet: be me and see... Smita Bernadet: you should have empathy Smita Bernadet: be sensitive kirty ekka: surely, i understood your condition too darling  Smita Bernadet: i am telling for future sake Smita Bernadet: forget about last night..shouldn't happen again Smita Bernadet: I hate waiting in vain kirty ekka: i won't keep you waiting  Smita Bernadet: how will you feel if i keep you waiting and don't reply? kirty ekka: cheer up now Smita Bernadet: I'm fine now but it really disturbed me. Smita Bernadet: I would never do that to you but you did that to me.. Smita Bernadet: moving on now...i learnt from it Smita Bernadet: we haven't even met n we are having a cold war here Smita Bernadet: I've always been too good for others Smita Bernadet: all my fault kirty ekka: :) it's good that you are super good. Let others learn from it kirty ekka: i'm getting you  kirty ekka: I think that the connection deteriorates at night. kirty ekka: the connection has turned bad again  Smita Bernadet: I think it happens only when a flight passes by kirty ekka: i don't think so, there is no flight at the moment and the connections suddenly went bad Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: so what did you do today? kirty ekka: maybe someone at the tower needs to toggle some switch at fixed intervals but delays in the night Smita Bernadet: is it? kirty ekka: read yuckman kirty ekka: then had 2 meetings Smita Bernadet: did you study signaling Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: one in the afternoon and the other in the evening  kirty ekka: i learnt digital signal processing not signalling Smita Bernadet: okies Smita Bernadet: okay listen, don't keep assuming that I'm beautiful! I don't want to shock you when we meet. I am a normal looking person... Smita Bernadet: somehow my flaws aren't visible in the pics Smita Bernadet: okay! kirty ekka: Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: i don't know what you see !!! Smita Bernadet: I wish I could see Smita Bernadet: it through your eyes kirty ekka: i am happy that you can't see what i see.  Smita Bernadet: i know what you see... kirty ekka: else, you would have disappeared out of range... Smita Bernadet: i can tell what you see in me, Smita Bernadet: you see my big ears, my deformed eyes, ....god knows what else kirty ekka: haha... kirty ekka: nice trick to know  kirty ekka: but you can guess.. Smita Bernadet: that's all i know kirty ekka: hmmm Smita Bernadet: so you are 165.5 cm? kirty ekka: what about the strange beauty with dark eyes, long hair, big heart, sweet soul, large smile etc.  kirty ekka: i am happy you don't see her  !! Smita Bernadet: ya right n blemishes kirty ekka: yes, i am 5'5.5 Smita Bernadet: does that 0.5 make any difference? kirty ekka: yes and the blemishes...the thyroids.  kirty ekka: yes. Smita Bernadet: i have no thyroid kirty ekka: it may come... Smita Bernadet: it's within range kirty ekka: with that your hair will go Smita Bernadet: no my hair won't go kirty ekka: your figure too will go as a side reaction to medicines Smita Bernadet: only if it comes Smita Bernadet: it's very common these days..thyroid among women Smita Bernadet: my patients have it kirty ekka: well if that happens.. kirty ekka: i will try to maintain an awesome figure  kirty ekka: and make all the girls jealous of you and me being together inspite of everything  Smita Bernadet: don't get diabetes please...stay away from too much sweet...moreover, sweet causes ageing ...i don't take much sweet Smita Bernadet: that's y i look young kirty ekka: ok  Smita Bernadet: eat in limits Smita Bernadet: you have to grow old with me...not before me and don't you dare leave me alone ... kirty ekka: kirty ekka: yes am here Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: i want to hold you in the similar fashion  kirty ekka: and make you go to sleep  kirty ekka: me being the larger one in the pic  Smita Bernadet: look carefully...that teddy is getting suffocated..it's so tight kirty ekka: it is time, someone needs to hold you tightly now Smita Bernadet: how long are you willing to do that? kirty ekka: every night kirty ekka: day will not be possible  kirty ekka:   Smita Bernadet: all your life? kirty ekka: kirty ekka: yes... Smita Bernadet: grandpa.... kirty ekka: dont get heavier than me or else you would need to hold me like that Smita Bernadet: I'll hold you for sure Smita Bernadet: if you don't run away kirty ekka: haha Smita Bernadet: that's us Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: i want you to be like that...big fluffy cozy warm n yet strong Smita Bernadet: and kirty ekka: kirty ekka: that big is difficult Smita Bernadet: i want you to hold me like this when I cry kirty ekka: i would need to travel to japan and obtain counsel from the yokozunas there Smita Bernadet: no need to travel kirty ekka: wow  kirty ekka: even i have dreamed of holding you close like that Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: but youre not crying  Smita Bernadet: when I cry... Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: u there? kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: so Smita Bernadet: whatelse? kirty ekka: i cant wait to meet you Smita Bernadet: me too...i just hope it doesn't rain that day Smita Bernadet: wear that favorite shirt of mine... kirty ekka: which one is that Smita Bernadet: same way as in the pic Smita Bernadet: blue with white flowers kirty ekka: where in which pic  Smita Bernadet: uff! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: more than you I am aware of your shirt it seems kirty ekka: oj ok  kirty ekka: i was thinking of wearing this only kirty ekka: i hope ive not left it in mumbai  Smita Bernadet: hey.. kirty ekka: i could not find it in ranchi  Smita Bernadet: you are dead! Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: then i hope that it rains  Smita Bernadet: y? Smita Bernadet: ahhan my heels! kirty ekka: that shirt attracts heat Smita Bernadet: okay n attracts me too kirty ekka: hhe Smita Bernadet: you are honey n i am bee Smita Bernadet: what will you do if I pull your cheeks? kirty ekka: baby kirty ekka: bear hug Smita Bernadet: haah...I will pull and run away,...before you could react kirty ekka: i will let you pull  kirty ekka: and pull you clos kirty ekka: close Smita Bernadet: i can slip away...I am soft Smita Bernadet: chikni kirty ekka: then i will grip your clothes...!!! Smita Bernadet: how dare you!!! Smita Bernadet: my dress Smita Bernadet: my innocent dress kirty ekka: surely you wont run away without your dress Smita Bernadet: I'll find a way Smita Bernadet: out Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: hmmm kirty ekka: you will get lots of kisses Bernadet ... kirty ekka: here, there, everywhere kirty ekka: i hope there are no vigilantes Smita Bernadet: oh no....I will apply lots of coconut oil on myself so that you can't... kirty ekka: i will carry tissue paper and come  kirty ekka: thanks Smita Bernadet: then i will carry my oil bottle...thanx kirty ekka: you want to bet  Smita Bernadet: i will be prepared to defend you... Smita Bernadet: bet what? kirty ekka: on kisses Smita Bernadet: can I vanish please Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: don't do that....okay kirty ekka: you can't vanish Smita Bernadet: I'm not used to it kirty ekka: don't do what?? Smita Bernadet: kisssssssssssing so much kirty ekka: aaahaan  kirty ekka: no i can't stop now kirty ekka: i've decided  Smita Bernadet: my heart is beating so fast by the thought of it...I would explode if you do that ...please..look i'm a fragile baby Smita Bernadet: have some mercy on this baby girl kirty ekka:   kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: are you willing to spare me now? kirty ekka: yes relax now  kirty ekka: to prepare for later Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: well...by that time I'll try to prepare myself Smita Bernadet: I'll get used to it slowly slowly Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: baby girl Smita Bernadet: kya? kirty ekka: jaldi milo Smita Bernadet: teek hai Smita Bernadet: i'm dying to be with u kirty ekka: i want that too kirty ekka: deeply Smita Bernadet: hugs kirty ekka: tight hugs to you too dear Smita Bernadet: how long it has been since we met? kirty ekka: 1month+ kirty ekka: why Smita Bernadet: and we are mad for eachother! without even meeting! that's so magical kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: only God can do such a miracle Smita Bernadet: your 20 seconds of courage.(phone call) ....and look where are we! Smita Bernadet: we finally found our spark! congrats to us kirty ekka: thank god i made that call  kirty ekka: though i feel stupid about it  kirty ekka: and yes surely congrats to us  Smita Bernadet: we not to keep that spark burning...baby Smita Bernadet: we need to Smita Bernadet: we need to keep this spark burning kirty ekka: get your coconut oil  Smita Bernadet: oh no Smita Bernadet: big bottle...done kirty ekka: haha Smita Bernadet: if that doesn't save me then castor oil will kirty ekka: mitti tel!! kirty ekka: ok baby kirty ekka: i am very sleepy now kirty ekka: have lots of hugs for you tonight Smita Bernadet: me too...lets sleep then.....1 kiss for you tonight... Smita Bernadet: goodnight Smita Bernadet: my beloved prince kirty ekka: only 1 Smita Bernadet: hugs n hugs kirty ekka: why Smita Bernadet: yes only 1 for your forehead Smita Bernadet: 1 for nose Smita Bernadet: that's all for the time being Smita Bernadet: sleep now kirty ekka: sweetheart ...sleep well   kirty ekka: kisses to you too  Smita Bernadet: u too honey...get up n pack all Smita Bernadet: miss u..see u soon kirty ekka: Bye Smita Bernadet: sayonara Smita Bernadet: have you left for airport? kirty ekka: Yes I am at the airport now. Smita Bernadet: you must be with your family right now kirty ekka: No thy stopped me at the airport and left. Smita Bernadet: oh... Smita Bernadet: my parent stay till I leave their sight and mum accompanies me till the aircraft gate Smita Bernadet: so, did you have your lunch? Smita Bernadet: how long is the journey till kolkata? Smita Bernadet: 30 min? kirty ekka: My parents feed me and drop me at the airport gate. Smita Bernadet: there's a project vacancy at karnatak university and I'm going to apply Smita Bernadet: Karnatak University, Dharwad-580 003 Smita Bernadet: oh crap! seems it's out of town.... Smita Bernadet: I don't think I'll apply then... Smita Bernadet: looks like 6 hrs from your place...no way..leave it. I'll search for something else. This is a different district inside Karnataka kirty ekka: Ok it takes 45 mins to reach Kolkata from Ranchi Smita Bernadet: Hey sweetheart, there's no need to do semen analysis test. It's only for those couple's who cannot conceive within 1-2 years of marriage. In this case both the partners are supposed to do the chromosome test and other tests and in worse cases a DNA study is a must. So, relax...go and get your other important tests done. Smita Bernadet: And I measured my waist,It's 28. Jeans is not measured by waist...because It is a low waist jeans. Smita Bernadet: Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for this covenant that we share. Thank You for our relationship so sweet, and the gift of a life-long companion and friend. This is a holy union ordained by You–a blend of two souls growing together as one. It’s love personified by Your power and grace. This is really isn’t about us, Lord. It’s about glorifying You through the way that we live. May we never cease to love each other. May we never take a single word lightly, or go back on a promise we made. Help us to be the couple you want us to be. Help us to fulfill each and every one of our vows, to love, honor, protect, and support each other through better or worse. In the name of Jesus we pray. Amen. Smita Bernadet: Goodnight honey kirty ekka: Amen to your prayer baby. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: sleep well my teddy bear Smita Bernadet: msg me once you land and take rest. Kisses n hugs. kirty ekka: I landed already. Am taking the bus now. Smita Bernadet: hey baby, I have been calling and speaking to HR dept. of clinics at Bangalore.  I got a call from Pune also, I had submitted my resume to them long back so they just called me up to ask where I was staying right now. They didn't say anything and just cut the call. Lets see. And yeah, I am not writing exam on 18th, my name isn't there in the list. May be God has other plans for me. I am trying hard. Okay. Just give me more time. Take care baby.... Smita Bernadet: we can meet any weekend...right now I'm really irritated by myself Smita Bernadet: u rang me baby Smita Bernadet: Hey baby, lets meet first and finalize things soon. Then move ahead accordingly... I don't want to keep you waiting for long. Moreover you are not getting older, you are getting mature enough  for girls to go gaga over you . Smita Bernadet: Survey done worldwide have shown that women are attracted to men more whose age is over 30. So, Chill !! you are NOT growing old. This is the ripe age when men are most handsomely attractive kirty ekka: ok i see... Smita Bernadet: I was thinking of staying in Bangalore and continue my job search so that it will be easier for me to attend walk in interviews too. We'll see in the end of October if I can shift. Lets see, I have lots of stuff at room, mine is a family pack with many bags. I thought of staying initially at your place then moving on to a hostel once I get a job. I doubt whether it's a good idea or not . kirty ekka: I would be delighted to have you stay with me, if you would want to stay with me. Since, I stay at Indirangar, which is the heart of the city, it is well connected with other parts of the city. It could be good for you too. And yes, you can take your time to decide on your next steps.   Smita Bernadet: Only on 1 condition. That you won't disturb me when I study. And I want the hall room..you can have your bed room... Is there a Church near by? kirty ekka: yes there are churches nearby kirty ekka: select your type and go there Smita Bernadet: I think It would be a burden for you if I come. Leave it. Smita Bernadet: did you have your meal? Smita Bernadet: I'm so sorry, it's too much to ask of you I feel. kirty ekka: kirty ekka: I am planning to take the tests marked in the picture. kirty ekka: This would cost me 5.9k. Smita Bernadet: why are you doing the 1st and the last test? Don't you think the last one is enough? I mean just go and say diabetes...don't go into subcategories. Smita Bernadet: go for the last one only if your 1st tests are positive. Or  else you don't require them. kirty ekka: The last one is consultation only I think Smita Bernadet: that's what...you need it only if you are positive in the 1st kirty ekka: Ok. I got it. Smita Bernadet: so when's your date? kirty ekka: i am planning for the tests tomorrow kirty ekka: they will come over to my house and take the sample kirty ekka: http://www.srlworld.com/content/64/packages.html# kirty ekka: i am planning for  HEALTH CHAMPION PACKAGE (PLUS) kirty ekka: with HIV and Hepatatic C included in it kirty ekka: this will be 2650+650+725 kirty ekka: manipal hospital seems to overcharge kirty ekka: so i am  going for srl kirty ekka: ok you would have to select karnataka and bangalore in the link that ive provided Smita Bernadet: SRL is fine. Smita Bernadet: I cannot see HIV test in this package.. Smita Bernadet: wait let me check the other packages Smita Bernadet: 650 hiv, + 2650 health plus+ 1450 hepatitis C... Smita Bernadet: what is this 725 for? and 100 Rs. for visit...seems fine to me kirty ekka: 2650 is the price for health champion package plus. Smita Bernadet: SRL is a good company. We get chemicals from them at lab. Smita Bernadet: in know that..I rang them up. Smita Bernadet: Whats this 725? kirty ekka: 725 for hepatitis c Smita Bernadet: she said 1450 Smita Bernadet: did u ask clearly? Smita Bernadet: confirm it again coz hepatitis has a,b,c Smita Bernadet: OK I'm going for shower. I'll see you once I'm back Smita Bernadet: It's raining so much here, I'm fed up. kirty ekka: Wow there is rainfall and you're cribbing!! Smita Bernadet: seems like you've already started to keep distance from me? Its 12 n you haven't yet rang me. What r u upto Mr.? kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: I couldn't find any pic in salwar. This is the only recent one I got. It was taken this June Smita Bernadet: This was after my M.Sc with jenifer. This is our loyola college church. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: it's 2012 pic kirty ekka: hmmm you look beautiful in everything   kirty ekka: and, i have booked the tickets to chennai and back with you  kirty ekka: i have taken all required printouts  kirty ekka: My friend stays at adambakkam. I will be reaching there on Friday evening at 8/10 pm Smita Bernadet: okay That's cool Smita Bernadet: Come soon, need to talk a lot to you.. kirty ekka: I will be meeting my previous flat mate from Bangalore and Mumbai. Smita Bernadet: okay then..are you sleeping there itself? kirty ekka: No I will come back. I don't like sleeping over at someone else's place. kirty ekka: I want a long peaceful sleep especially during the morning. Smita Bernadet: okay honey.. Smita Bernadet: then I'll see you after my exam Smita Bernadet: byee kirty ekka: Ok my baby Smita Bernadet: Hey baby, my honey. I was thinking about you and prayed for both of us. I wrote this prayer for us dear. Let's pray, "Sweet Jesus, I love you. I thank and adore you for giving us the pleasure of having each-other as our soul-mate. Life was pretty tough for us in the past and we've reached a long way today. It feels like magic and is the best thing that has happened in all these years.  We trust you completely in this relationship. We had never imagined that you would grant this miracle in our life. We have discovered profound love and extreme peace in one another and all the credit is yours. We are planning ahead to stay together and know more about us. So, be with us in this desire to love,respect and protect each other. We also want your guidance in having a pure relationship till we actually get married in your holy presence. Help us to avoid our carnal temptations so that we can control our desires and not to indulge in something that would offend you. Help us to stay faithful and honest to one another for now and forever. Desires would be very strong but help us to avoid them till we get married. Lord, be in all our decisions. Thank you Jesus. Love you always."  Amen Smita Bernadet: Honey I know that it would be difficult to control our desires most of the time and we will have to limit it. So, no going down below the shoulders. I feel so shy writing this but I have to. Lets love each other deeply without loosing our sanctity baby. I am dying to be in your arms honey. Smita Bernadet: adambakkam to my place nungambakkam is 30 min. and then from here to central railway station is 20 min. kirty ekka: Amen to your beautiful Prayer baby. Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: I have emailed my dad about us and waiting for his response. I have sent you a copy of the email. Smita Bernadet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDaJL5EHOOk Smita Bernadet: I just wanted to let you know that you are my baby monkey. Smita Bernadet: I was talking about maxi gowns...I like these types of dresses a lot. https://www.google.co.in/search?q=maxi+dresses&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ved=0CEEQsARqFQoTCPvErP6w5MgCFYQbjgodBhcC8A&biw=1023&bih=645#tbm=isch&q=maxi+gowns+weddings Smita Bernadet: hey Smita Bernadet: r u there? kirty ekka: hi thr kirty ekka: sm not sble to connect kirty ekka: dont kniw ehy Smita Bernadet: i am trying to call u Smita Bernadet: but it's getting disconnected kirty ekka: me  Smita Bernadet: ya but i am able to call janet and not u kirty ekka: Same with me Smita Bernadet: i even removed my sim n reinserted Smita Bernadet: wat the hell!! Smita Bernadet: wats happening..else ring me on docomo Smita Bernadet: we were tg pics with janet's gown...i took her veil for fun Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: okay look at this pic and tell me will this be ok if i wear it with saree in janet's wedding? Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: this earing n bindi..with saree..will it be okay? Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: did u eat? kirty ekka: You look awesome girl. Smita Bernadet: okay....then I'll wear it like this only kirty ekka: You have become beefy Smita Bernadet: because of u only Smita Bernadet: hail kirty Smita Bernadet: have u spoken home dear? kirty ekka: Oh no. A previous flat mate came to my house after gym. kirty ekka: So am eating outside. Smita Bernadet: so u won't speak tonight Smita Bernadet: to ur parents? kirty ekka: Hey baby. Sorry. My mom said me that she won't be at home this Friday. kirty ekka: This was on Tuesday. kirty ekka: She could either come for church in Sunday. Or else come next Friday kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: looks yummy Smita Bernadet: i cooked schezwan chicken salami with mutter paneer Smita Bernadet: baby my angel Smita Bernadet: what r u doing? i'm eating my supper kirty ekka: Planning to meet a friend and drink port wine. Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: You always cool schezwan items Smita Bernadet: yup kirty ekka: Cook*** Smita Bernadet: we both like it a lot kirty ekka: There is bhindi in one and chicken in another. Smita Bernadet: yes baby, i saw that.. Smita Bernadet: i'm missing u here Smita Bernadet: send me you today's photo...i want to see u Smita Bernadet: your** kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: my baby monkey kirty ekka: I'm feeling bored now. Smita Bernadet: umaah!! kirty ekka: Come here and give. kirty ekka: Chat kisses don't work ;) Smita Bernadet: ummah..filhaal isi se kaam chalaiye Smita Bernadet: today's evening pic kirty ekka: You look great girl... Smita Bernadet: haah Smita Bernadet: wen will u be free of port wine? Smita Bernadet: it was raining pitchfork here...we went with great difficulty, tomorrow we have to go to T nagar again...still pending kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: still out? kirty ekka: What Did you manage to buy today kirty ekka: I came at 10 here kirty ekka: Sorry 10:30 Smita Bernadet: we got tiara for her gown, i got necklace and we bought edible items and personal items kirty ekka: Ok. Finally the tiara. Smita Bernadet: veil and silver sandals are pending kirty ekka: Ok. The salwars etc. Smita Bernadet: that's done kirty ekka: What are you planning to wear then. Smita Bernadet: when? kirty ekka: Janet's event Smita Bernadet: sari on wedding day and gown on reception kirty ekka: Did you buy the gown dear. Smita Bernadet: i have no money Smita Bernadet: i will wear the old one only kirty ekka: Which one Smita Bernadet: i am saving money to buy janet's wedding gift kirty ekka: Let's do that shopping together. Smita Bernadet: this gown Smita Bernadet: okay honey kirty ekka: This looks nice Smita Bernadet: i don't know...if janet's mum tell me not to wear this gown as it has black in it then I'll wear some old salwar kirty ekka: When was this taken Smita Bernadet: last christmas...at hostel Smita Bernadet: this is my another friend- joy. she's married n settled in Pune kirty ekka: She looks very young. Smita Bernadet: yes tamiliyans marry young kirty ekka: What's the sign you're making kirty ekka: Nike's?? Smita Bernadet: are you out of house now? kirty ekka: No Smita Bernadet: that sign is for smile..i invented it kirty ekka: Is there something you want to tell Smita Bernadet: what? Smita Bernadet: i love you Smita Bernadet: soul mate kirty ekka: I love you Smita bernadet Smita Bernadet: i love you a lot Smita Bernadet: how come the internet is fast today? Smita Bernadet: other times u keep typing Smita Bernadet: it's still a bit slow though kirty ekka: The house is on the terrace Smita Bernadet: oh..ur sleeping here itself? kirty ekka: No I go back. Smita Bernadet: all your friends have rooms on terrace kirty ekka: I don't like to sleep at someone else's place. Smita Bernadet: yes i recallled...u have already informed me kirty ekka: Naah this one and the chennai friend Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: come home soon...i'm waiting Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Baby Smita Bernadet: my heart...my life ..i miss u so much... Smita Bernadet: can't wait to hold your hands Smita Bernadet: am i disturbing u? u carry on... Smita Bernadet: call me wen u return Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: Keep talking I am not disturbed. Smita Bernadet: can i keep kissing? Smita Bernadet: janet told me that port wine can make you drunk. he is planning to get it and make me drunk Smita Bernadet: she is planning** Smita Bernadet: I'll put sugar if it's bitter kirty ekka: Ok buy - Port Wine 1000 Gold. Smita Bernadet: wat kirty ekka: I've got it today. I find it good. kirty ekka: It is sweet and nice. Smita Bernadet: janet has gone crazy... Smita Bernadet: i told her not to but..she's like ...I want to have a bachelor party kirty ekka: Hmmm come to Bangalore Smita Bernadet: at first she said that she wants to try vodka as she has never had before but i scolded her kirty ekka: Hey let her have it. Smita Bernadet: she wants both of us to get drunk and party before she gets hitched ....she's gone crazy... kirty ekka: Stay at the house and have it. Smita Bernadet: why ME!!!! Smita Bernadet: noel doesn't drink... kirty ekka: Ok. You can refrain have the wine instead. Smita Bernadet: so she is pulling me...this is her 1st attempt kirty ekka: I thought you would try this at her house kirty ekka: I think you can arrange this at her place. Smita Bernadet: she wants it in hostel Smita Bernadet: at home lot's of work will be there Smita Bernadet: i'll let her know about that port wine u suggested Smita Bernadet: hmmmmm janet...ki shadi... Smita Bernadet: i want a place to kiss u when u come to meet me kirty ekka: If you want vodka use sprite along with it. kirty ekka: Or orange/ apple juice Smita Bernadet: i am not interested to have any form of alcohol kirty ekka: You can suggest her instead then Smita Bernadet: no no...it will be difficult if she gets drunk n starts shouting or acting weird in hostel. both of us will be thrown out then kirty ekka: That won't happen I'm sure. kirty ekka: You're over reacting. :) Smita Bernadet: i cannot risk it kirty ekka: Then have outside at a nice place Smita Bernadet: okay kirty ekka: It's good to know you guys are pumped up for the wedding. Smita Bernadet: she is kirty ekka: That's good !!! Smita Bernadet: little bit...not very excited as she still hasen't got any spark kirty ekka: What spark is she looking for?? Smita Bernadet: love Smita Bernadet: emotional attachment from her side kirty ekka: I'm sure equations will change after she takes the vows Smita Bernadet: i wish it does Smita Bernadet: so...wen will u return? kirty ekka: We are also watching DCH Smita Bernadet: wats that? kirty ekka: dil chahta hai Smita Bernadet: okies kirty ekka: It's an awesome movie. Smita Bernadet: i know kirty ekka: Right now ..they were at the station in Australia and a drunk man was coming close to preeti Smita Bernadet: every guy imagines himself in hero's position kirty ekka: HaahA kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: Preeti is reminding me of you Smita Bernadet: y? kirty ekka: Smiles ...and many other things Smita Bernadet: wat many other things? kirty ekka: Eyes kirty ekka: Innocence kirty ekka: Beauty Smita Bernadet: I'm not innocent kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: What do you do girl ...!!!! ;) Smita Bernadet: in what sense? kirty ekka: Why are you not innocent ..?? kirty ekka: You look so Smita Bernadet: i may look innocent but do you think that I really am ? kirty ekka: Hmmm hmmmm kirty ekka: Ahem kirty ekka: Devil Smita Bernadet: exactly kirty ekka: I thought you were a diva..you turned out to be a devil Smita Bernadet: see now we both match kirty ekka: Ok diva Smita Bernadet: ok karlo Smita Bernadet: kaarlo kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: khal-ro Smita Bernadet: uff...it's so difficult to get a name for u...u like none kirty ekka: Khal drogo Smita Bernadet: fine kirty ekka: Ok Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: OK kirty ekka: Amor Smita Bernadet: no Smita Bernadet: it sounds so bengali kirty ekka: Ok now it does sound bong Smita Bernadet: hosanaa? Smita Bernadet: tiara? Smita Bernadet: pari? Smita Bernadet: litchi kirty ekka: Hosanna Smita Bernadet: ? kirty ekka: But that is what all your friends call you kirty ekka: Pari is for daughters Smita Bernadet: i like tiara Smita Bernadet: sounds cute Smita Bernadet: for our baby girl...wat u say? kirty ekka: Wait..... kirty ekka: We will argue about that later kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: i'm kidding Smita Bernadet: ya right Smita Bernadet: wat about Delilah? kirty ekka: For whom Smita Bernadet: me Smita Bernadet: ??? select something... Smita Bernadet: Shea? kirty ekka: Shia la bouf is an American actor Smita Bernadet: that i don't know...just choose a name that u like kirty ekka: Danerys kirty ekka: Jane Smita Bernadet: beauty and beast... kirty ekka: This is good Smita Bernadet: haah Smita Bernadet: do you want to call me Danerys just because u are fascinated by khal? because i have no similarities as such kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: We are beauty and the beast Smita Bernadet: i like Danerys...but i need an explanation Smita Bernadet: is it just because u like khal? kirty ekka: I like beauty and the beast Smita Bernadet: adam eve? kirty ekka: Let's try beauty and the beast for some one. kirty ekka: For some time. Smita Bernadet: okay don danaadon done! Smita Bernadet: by the way even this is good- Samson & Dalila kirty ekka: Dalila was a prostitute I think, in the bible kirty ekka: Google and check Smita Bernadet: but name is nice Smita Bernadet: delerina? is fine then...okay so...beauty n beast Smita Bernadet: so my beast...how long will u stay out? kirty ekka: Will head back in some time Smita Bernadet: okay..i'll go n brush now....then I'll kiss u  Smita Bernadet: c u later...call me wen ur back kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: watch the videos that  i've sent u Smita Bernadet: send me ur pic Smita Bernadet: i wanna see u kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: hey naughty Smita Bernadet: dikhao na Smita Bernadet: orangutan Smita Bernadet: nice curtains kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: Bandari Smita Bernadet: no i'm not....u r the one with a tail kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Where did you find the tail. Smita Bernadet: infront Smita Bernadet: defect hai..should had been behind Smita Bernadet: hmmm.... kirty ekka: Haha funny Smita Bernadet: send one more pic with a smile n show ur teeth kirty ekka: Darling kirty ekka: Show me your pic kirty ekka: Do you manage to buy the things Smita Bernadet: i have no camera kirty ekka: Laptop ??? Smita Bernadet: we couldn't find a silver sandal and veil Smita Bernadet: no camera in laptop...phone came is useless Smita Bernadet: t nagar was so dirty..we got dirty in water and was raining and whole chennai was shopping today at t nagar Smita Bernadet: too crowdy kirty ekka: So did you get your stuffs Smita Bernadet: i didn't get anything for myself, I'm waiting for my sari to arrive...accordingly i'll buy the necklace set kirty ekka: Let's shop for that together..what so you say?? kirty ekka: What do you say?? Smita Bernadet: people will scold me here if i don't wear jewelery.....it's mandatory here Smita Bernadet: necklace? kirty ekka: Ok. kirty ekka: If you don't mind obviously. kirty ekka: What kind of saree are you wearing. Smita Bernadet: you will not like t nagar...i am planning to buy from there only...it's dirty n crowded kirty ekka: I don't mind Smita Bernadet: do u have myntra app? on phone? kirty ekka: Wait i will download. Smita Bernadet: t nagar is very  ....crowded and bad..people brush and rush against Smita Bernadet: type this in myntra app:- Florence Pink & Blue Jacquard & Chiffon Fashion Saree kirty ekka: You do have a pink one already Smita Bernadet: it's a different pink Smita Bernadet: that was wine pink n this is florescent pink type Smita Bernadet: u see the pic then tell me kirty ekka: Ok...!!!! Smita Bernadet: janet selected it with me... Smita Bernadet: its 5000 but i got in diwali discount for 1700 kirty ekka: It is awesome. Smita Bernadet: u like it? kirty ekka: Yes it looks beautiful Smita Bernadet: thanx...it looks royal Smita Bernadet: both me n janet selected it... kirty ekka: Yes. kirty ekka: That's a great choice I would say Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: type texco- black & white maxi dress... kirty ekka: Search for Kaiju on google Smita Bernadet: its 922 ....i want to gift this to janet on wedding Smita Bernadet: i saw this movie... Smita Bernadet: forgot the name...it had kaiju... kirty ekka: I think it means giant beast kirty ekka: That's why I said. Smita Bernadet: aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh!!! Smita Bernadet: komodo is better Smita Bernadet: okay did u check that dress for janet? Smita Bernadet: she likes this dress a lot but never bought it...can we gift this to her? kirty ekka: Wait let me check. Smita Bernadet: it's on discount now kirty ekka: In myntra or amazon Smita Bernadet: myntra Smita Bernadet: ?? Smita Bernadet: r u eating? kirty ekka: Yes Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: r u done komodo? kirty ekka: Eating done. kirty ekka: R u asleep ?? kirty ekka: kirty ekka: This too looks good. kirty ekka: It would suit every mood Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: i like it too but i wanted a different color Smita Bernadet: lets get this for her... Smita Bernadet: I'll order it through my account Smita Bernadet: i have to use janet's phone to order it...since i can't have this app kirty ekka: Or give me your address and I shall have it shipped to your place kirty ekka: Let me know the size of the dress too. Smita Bernadet: I'll give u my login account kirty ekka: Is it meant to be a surprise Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: i will put it in my shopping bag then u can do the rest kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: Ok fill it. I will do the rest tomorrow. Smita Bernadet: Login- smitabernadet@gmail.com Smita Bernadet: Pass- complicated4u kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: i have added it to my bag...you can go straight there and click the stored address... Smita Bernadet: ya it's funny kirty ekka: Ok I will do that tomorrow. Smita Bernadet: sure Smita Bernadet: what ever items i like..i store it in my wishlist kirty ekka: Ooh yes Smita Bernadet: wat r u upto? kirty ekka: Lying down and watching a movie kirty ekka: What are you doing Smita Bernadet: I'm doing some work online...have u returned? kirty ekka: No I will stay here kirty ekka: It's far from my house. Smita Bernadet: usually u don't Smita Bernadet: hmm that's y your replies are faster kirty ekka: This is very far that's why. kirty ekka: Plus there has been rainfall. Smita Bernadet: okies Smita Bernadet: wat r u watching? kirty ekka: Pacific rim Smita Bernadet: your friend is married? Smita Bernadet: oh i've watched it Smita Bernadet: twice kirty ekka: Yes but his wife is not here Smita Bernadet: kaiju kirty ekka: She works in Ranchi Smita Bernadet: do they have kids? kirty ekka: And he stays with a friend here kirty ekka: No. Not so fast. Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: must be boring staying away from eachother kirty ekka: I don't ask him these questions. Smita Bernadet: u can't kirty ekka: Feels quite embarrassing. Smita Bernadet: but it must be boring for sure kirty ekka: Yeah I m sure Smita Bernadet: so can u stay away from me after marriage? kirty ekka: Let's get married to find that out kirty ekka: !!! Smita Bernadet: not required Smita Bernadet: you can still predict Smita Bernadet: this is what i use- tampons: http://www.ob-tampons.com/product-details/supertampons kirty ekka: :) Smita Bernadet: goodness... Smita Bernadet: shouldn't had disclosed Smita Bernadet: let's forget it kirty ekka: Whom are you talking to ? kirty ekka: Are you talking to someone else too..? Right now?? Smita Bernadet: u only Smita Bernadet: forget tampon Smita Bernadet: can u call in 5 min.? Smita Bernadet: i'm about to shut the system kirty ekka: Ok. Smita Bernadet: c u then Smita Bernadet: byee kirty ekka: Bye Smita Bernadet: umah Smita Bernadet: can we try to be best friends? kirty ekka: yes...lets be that Smita Bernadet: i saw zivame...i saw the ones you've selected. I liked few of them Smita Bernadet: but i feel shy Smita Bernadet: i will select it myself kirty ekka: Hmmmm Smita Bernadet: i told u to select from the one i have shortlisted kirty ekka: Which ones do you like kirty ekka: You talked about 2 pieces kirty ekka: There was only 1/2 there Smita Bernadet: i will send u later... Smita Bernadet: i think i forgot to add them to my list Smita Bernadet: i like http://cdn.zivame.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/small_image/225x/040ec09b1e35df139433887a97daa66f/3/1/311647beige_2.jpg Smita Bernadet: http://cdn.zivame.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/small_image/225x/040ec09b1e35df139433887a97daa66f/_/r/_ref__1.jpg_1.jpg Smita Bernadet: http://cdn.zivame.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/small_image/225x/040ec09b1e35df139433887a97daa66f/p/e/penny_plus_ultra_soft_floral_front_bikini_brief_-_black_1.jpg_6.jpg kirty ekka: What does this link contain. kirty ekka: The ones selected by me that you like Smita Bernadet: pic Smita Bernadet: don't view now...go and work Smita Bernadet: concentrate on your work Smita Bernadet: So, I saw the movie species because it is scientific as I am a biotechnology student. You saw it probably due to nudity and mating (may be) but for me it was about DNA recombination, creating new genetic species, extra terrestrial creatures and experiments. I was always fascinated by NASA and becoming an astronaut.. going in hunt for new life...exploring the space. I usually watch movies which involve aliens.  Prometheus was the worst of all. I liked transformers and predator the most. Splice-movie is also about DNA recombination, weird experiment between human and animals and it's consequences. Movie- The Fly was extremely gross!  Do you know that there are many black labs which work underground and do illegal experiments which are against nature. Many scientists are kidnapped and forced to work there and when they deny then they are killed or their families are threatened. It's highly confidential and has no escape whatsoever. Many scientists do on their own will and get paid a lot. Some do for fun and fame. They feel proud when they create these creatures successfully.  Hitler started it (he had underground labs) and it still prevails unnoticed today. There are lunatic scientists who like to be "playing Gods" and they do not hesitate experimenting on their own kids too. They combine DNA species and try to produce, many times the species do not survive because of the unnatural conditions around (their bodies are burnt before they can be discovered) and sometimes they even escape into the natural environment. People who spot them think that they saw an alien or beast. We have my underground labs but no one knows it's locations. They are highly equipped and hidden by satellites like AREA 51. It's sad but true. You won't find much about them on internet. Smita Bernadet: We still have underground labs but no one knows it's locations. They are highly equipped and hidden by satellites like AREA 51. It's sad but true. You won't find much about them on internet. Smita Bernadet: **** Smita Bernadet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQtT-Tv_tZ4 Smita Bernadet: watch this..It's not boring at all.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5CaQViXtLaE Smita Bernadet: This is my favorite movie...one of my... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jf-zFWXx6Ug kirty ekka: I think you also worked in one underground lab. kirty ekka: You used to tell me that when rains came it got flooded. kirty ekka: It seems like a confession to me. Smita Bernadet: nonsense Smita Bernadet: call me Smita Bernadet: I was hunting for vacancies and I've sent many today. Please pray for me Kirty. Goodnight. Smita Bernadet: y u didn't reply my msg? wen did u wake up? Smita Bernadet: ​take this, you'll be on time and we can spend saturday​ well...check ur gmail Smita Bernadet: for 7th 3.35 am Smita Bernadet: baby
kirty ekka: tell me  Smita Bernadet: i received your call but couldn't hear Smita Bernadet: i got the myntra dress Smita Bernadet: now only Smita Bernadet: i opened n checked but belt is missing Smita Bernadet: I think i have to talk to customer care and inform them Smita Bernadet: anyways it's a petty issue Smita Bernadet: they are good in exchanging Smita Bernadet: I'll handle it Smita Bernadet: I've done exchanges and returns many times...it seems this will be small for her, i need to get the next size. Smita Bernadet: did u book ur ticket? kirty ekka: i think i will get the confitmation  kirty ekka: lets see Smita Bernadet: okay Smita Bernadet: if it doesn't then? Smita Bernadet: will you get that 3.35am? Smita Bernadet: it's diwali weekend.. Smita Bernadet: okay then carry on Smita Bernadet: lubbu Smita Bernadet: luv---u kirty ekka: hmm Smita Bernadet: hmmm Smita Bernadet: i'm fed up with ants... Smita Bernadet: i sprayed mortein n killed many but they are eating cloth now. It bit me on eyes at dawn today and same with janet...same eyes. And now it bit me on boobs. I crushed it . How do they reach to these places . I don't get it Smita Bernadet: okay eat well Smita Bernadet: when will u be free honey Smita Bernadet: ? Smita Bernadet: call me if possible kirty ekka: Wait for 5-10 mins Smita Bernadet: jeanet has given her marriage card for both of us and she said thank you for the wedding gift. It looked pretty on her but I have exchanged it for the next bigger size. kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Thanks to jeanet...!!!! kirty ekka: :) Smita Bernadet: is that fish? Smita Bernadet: so you missed the train ticket. That's why you should listen to me next time. Smita Bernadet: Or I shouldn't had listened to you and just gone ahead with booking. kirty ekka: ok boss kirty ekka: http://www.cleartrip.com/hotels/details/211114?c=111115|121115&r=2,0&compId=&fr=39&ur=1&urt=Featured# Smita Bernadet: http://www.tripadvisor.in/Hotel_Review-g1162480-d1584921-Reviews-Blue_Bay_Beach_Resort-Mahabalipuram_Tamil_Nadu.html#REVIEWS Smita Bernadet: http://www.travelguru.com/hotels/India/MAHABALIPURAM/sea-breeze-beach-resort-00001329?checkInDate=13-11-2015&checkOutDate=14-11-2015&numRooms=1&rooms[0].adult=1&rooms[0].children=0&currencyCode=INR kirty ekka: sea shore garden resort seems nice Smita Bernadet: http://www.hotelseabreeze.net/tariff.php Smita Bernadet: take this. kirty ekka: ?? Smita Bernadet: nothing Smita Bernadet: okay so i am finalizing the hotel. Smita Bernadet: It's the one you selected. Reason being that...after giving a lot of thought, I realized that it's just about 1 night. We will also go see the crocodiles. They even have night safari. It's definitely  far more better than seeing boring temples and rocks. Well, the actual mahabalipuram is 45 min. away from this resort. From Chennai we will take a state bus from CMBT bus stand to crocodile park. Blue bay is situated exactly half way of chennai n mahabalipuram.  We don't have to go till bus stand because it's further down. So reaching blue bay from chennai is very easy. But! returning will be difficult. Because the buses start from mahabalipuram and by the time it reaches blue bay, it may be very crowded. So, it depends on luck. So, how do you suggest to book it? I can call and keep it blocked in my name since you've already canceled it. We'll go even if it rains...I'll get my rain coat Smita Bernadet: i want to hold a baby croc in my arms like this and take pics Smita Bernadet: It's confirmed. Smita Bernadet: You're train is 12509 Guwahati express. Departure 23.30 pm arrival is 6 am. Smita Bernadet: one more thing. Is it necessary to go to the resort? because it's not the right time. I'm broke. It won't be nice if you keep paying for me everywhere. So think about it and let me know. Come fast... Smita Bernadet: Stay in the same hote: Smita Bernadet: hotel: Smita Bernadet: Sangeetha guest house. No 4, Thirumurthy Nagar Main Road, Nungambakkam, Chennai - 600034, Near G G Hospital Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: REVIEW LINK? kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: thanx darling Smita Bernadet: chennai has an opening, should i apply? Smita Bernadet: but i'll have to stay minimum for 1 yr Smita Bernadet: dad spoke at st. john's medical institute, he knows a farther over there. I'm waiting for the response Smita Bernadet: and listen, i am trying for abroad too kirty ekka: Hey I think you should apply wherever you see best kirty ekka: Try wherever you want baby. Should not be a problem Smita Bernadet: but i want us to be together, i am confused where to apply. I am getting jobs outside my area of interest also. Smita Bernadet: send me the rest pics Smita Bernadet: love ya Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: Like it kirty ekka: We are watching Bangistan Smita Bernadet: I miss chatting with you. Smita Bernadet: vishal... Smita Bernadet: sometimes i feel like you don't think that we can be happy together. I feel that you wanted a different person. Right now, i feel so far away from you even wen you are near me. This makes me very depressed. Studying in this condition is not right for me. I miss my hulk even when I'm with you. Felt like kissing you but you had no interest. It's been more than 12 hours since we kissed n hugged properly. If this is the situation prior wedding then it may be worse post wedding. Sorry if I hurt your genitalia. I will book my ticket first thing tomoro morning. I feel i/m not the one for you. You need a more mature girl. I'm not feeling happy. Anyways, I'll try to study now.   Smita Bernadet: Thanx for everything kirty ekka: what .....is this???  Smita Bernadet: baby Smita Bernadet: Okay!!!! finally, I'm back but again in the wrong time. Well, it looks that you are relieved from heavy duty. Here I went mad when janet started talking about sex n condom. I was like """WHAT!!!!!!"""" Why is she telling me!!!! She just said that she is scared of getting pregnant and I told her to take precaution. Then she said that she has read it somewhere that inspite of condom, people can get pregnant. Now I am scared...IF MY PERIODS DON"T COME THEN I"M DOOMED!!!!!! I'm praying for my periods to finally start but it's not happening. I am missing you a lot here. You, your hands, your kitchen, your utensils, your bed, everything. Feel like embracing you. I miss your smell. Thanx for the hot shower. I love you. I know I gave you a hard time, disturbed your peace of mind and I don't want that to happen often. I will try my best to keep my problems under my skin. Or try to solve it myself. Honey, my choco candy, come on 13th please...only if the weather is pleasant here. I love you my HULK. Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: hey darling  Smita Bernadet: yes i received that 100 Rs in IOB kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: will give you rest then kirty ekka: talk to your dad too if you are going home kirty ekka: or else you would get bored in bangalore  Smita Bernadet: wait Smita Bernadet: wait wait don't transfer kirty ekka: ko kirty ekka: ok wny kirty ekka: why Smita Bernadet: i havent received it yet... Smita Bernadet: just checked again carefully Smita Bernadet: i'll let u know wen i receive it... Smita Bernadet: my mum said that there is no money to travel by flight. Smita Bernadet: And train ticket i won't get now. Smita Bernadet: that's why i may have to stay back. Smita Bernadet: my parents are going to delhi by flight so they will be using the money for themselves hence i'll have to travel by train or stay back kirty ekka: hmmmmm kirty ekka: how ill you stay alone then  kirty ekka: how will you stay alone  Smita Bernadet: will have to stay in house only kirty ekka: hmm think of something else  kirty ekka: that does not sound like a nice solution  Smita Bernadet: u want me to go back to chennai? Smita Bernadet: will i get tatkal tickets? kirty ekka: let me come home and then think kirty ekka: check if you have received that i've sent you  Smita Bernadet: i can stay alone, i've done that at hostel and at home too kirty ekka: one worry at one time  Smita Bernadet: not received till noe Smita Bernadet: now kirty ekka: IOB bank kirty ekka: ?? Smita Bernadet: i told those people that i will pay the fees by tomoro Smita Bernadet: ya Smita Bernadet: they said okay Smita Bernadet: and they will send the invoice at your office address Smita Bernadet: because in chennai no one is there to receive it kirty ekka: ok  kirty ekka: ok....my bank syas that the transfer mas been made kirty ekka:    EFT TO UTR#CITIN15611775196- -SMITA BERNADET KUJUR -SA -X7468 -INDIAN OVERSEAS BANK -CHENNAI -LOYOLA COLLEGE, CHEN Ref No :- 0920771752 Smita Bernadet: ok let me check again Smita Bernadet: no baby Smita Bernadet: not got till now. just wait for 4 hrs. usually it takes that long Smita Bernadet: still i didn't receive that 100 rs. Lets wait till night n check again. Smita Bernadet: try this account no. with same details Smita Bernadet: 171201000017468 Smita Bernadet: send me minimum this time Smita Bernadet: lets check Smita Bernadet: that 100 Rs. of yours will come back to your account if not received by anybody kirty ekka: that 100 bucks is gone  Smita Bernadet: 171201000017468    in this the first 5 digits are my branch code and last five digits are account no. ..use this now n transfer 50 Rs. kirty ekka: send me the IFSC code Smita Bernadet: your 100 Rs. will get credited back to u. don't worry Smita Bernadet: ifsc:- IOBA0001712 kirty ekka: good i didnt transfer the full amount  Smita Bernadet: i know kirty ekka:   INDIAN OVERSEAS BANK City* CHENNAI Branch Location* LOYOLA COLLEGE, CHENNAI IFSC-IOBA0001712 MICR Number* 600020088 IFSC Code* IOBA0001712 Smita Bernadet: micr no. i am not aware of Smita Bernadet: just transfer 2 Rs. then Smita Bernadet: i think u can do that ....10 Rs.??? kirty ekka: i have made 11 rs kirty ekka: check and tell me Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: not yet.. Smita Bernadet: i'll check after few minutes kirty ekka: it should be transferred now kirty ekka: short number is used for same bank transfer   kirty ekka: the long number is used for different banks kirty ekka: as far as i remember Smita Bernadet: i will call up the branch n check. i guess the website is not updated kirty ekka: for the previous transfer my bank has already deducted the amount Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: lets see for this transfer kirty ekka: probably that money is gone  Smita Bernadet: ok i am calling them kirty ekka: call the helpline and see the last 5 transfers Smita Bernadet: i saw my transas already kirty ekka:    As stated above, NEFT operates in hourly batches. Currently there are twelve settlements from 8 am to 7 pm on week days. Therefore, the beneficiary can expect to get the credit for the transactions put through between 8 am to 5 pm on weekdays on the same day. For transactions settled in the 6 and 7 pm batches on week days, the credit will be afforded either on the same day or on the next working day. Smita Bernadet: i know Smita Bernadet: i'm getting mad! i am trying all possible numbers to contact them and none are functional Smita Bernadet: i tried 5 different numbers. all say busy kirty ekka: chill kirty ekka: don't worry Smita Bernadet: this is where i am supposed to deposit Smita Bernadet: Account Name: IMA CGP ON LINE A/c No: 33906512778 Bank Name: State Bank of India, West Tambaram, Chennai IFSC: SBIN0001243 MICR No: 600002082 Swift No: SBININBB758 Smita Bernadet: wait its this Smita Bernadet: Account Name: IMA CGP ON LINE A/c No: 33906512778 Bank Name: State Bank of India, West Tambaram, Chennai IFSC: SBIN0001243 MICR No: 600002082 Swift No: SBININBB758 Smita Bernadet: Account Name      :     MEdRC EduTech Private Limited Account Number   :     000805008656 Name of the Bank :    ICICI Bank, Khairatabad Branch, TGV Mansion, Rajbhavan, Hyderabad, Telangana, INDIA - 500082.   IFSC Code           :     ICIC0000008 SWIFT CODE        :     ICICINBB008 Smita Bernadet: hyderabad one kirty ekka: so you want me to make a transfer there Smita Bernadet: both are fine but i do it in that hyderabad one Smita Bernadet: what else to do? should we wait? should i do it from my own account? kirty ekka: ok now check online  kirty ekka: my bank send me a msg that the transfer has been made kirty ekka: check for 11 bucks kirty ekka: ping me when you find out Smita Bernadet: i checked...not updated. Smita Bernadet: i think the chennai banks haven't resumed coz even SBI isin't working Smita Bernadet: and no one is receiving the calls either Smita Bernadet: what to do? Smita Bernadet: should i call up the institute n ask permission for tomoro? kirty ekka: yes ask them  Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: btw it is not based on chennai banks kirty ekka: it is automated  kirty ekka: they have no role to play  Smita Bernadet: i know but i was trying loyola also Smita Bernadet: i tried the toll free too Smita Bernadet: iob head office is chennai Smita Bernadet: thats why all PNT no. are down Smita Bernadet: okay i spoke to the institute... Smita Bernadet: they said that we can transfer through your account directly. Smita Bernadet: so you need to transfer 22,500 Rs. to Account Name      :     MEdRC EduTech Private Limited Account Number   :     000805008656 Name of the Bank :    ICICI Bank, Khairatabad Branch, TGV Mansion, Rajbhavan, Hyderabad, Telangana, INDIA - 500082.   IFSC Code           :     ICIC0000008 SWIFT CODE        :     ICICINBB008 Smita Bernadet: send me the transaction confirmation pdf or screen shot once done so that i can send them kirty ekka:    /12/2015 EFT TO UTR#CITIN15612178293- -SMITA BERNADET KUJUR -SA -XXXXXXXXXXX7468 -INDIAN OVERSEAS BANK -CHENNAI -LOYOLA COL Ref No :- 0920800984 11.00 Smita Bernadet: i got that 11 Rs. honey pie Smita Bernadet: i just wanted to tell you that you should stop giving your pin number of ATM card to people. Just walk to the counter and enter it yourself. Please be careful, nowadays the signature is not required on receipt. And my dad rang regarding you and me. He has some message for you and your father. Smita Bernadet: I have to try in hyderabad also baby. Smita Bernadet: I luv u. cum soon! Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: i was just going through vacancies and there were 2 walk in interviews at delhi on 10th dec. i missed it. there is 1 at navi mumbai on 23rd dec. 2 posts and payment is not that attractive. I am eligible for 28K now but this mumbai one is 19K. and only 2 posts. Lets see more kirty ekka: ok kirty ekka: 19k is too less for mumbai kirty ekka: you will have to live in slums kirty ekka: and eat bada pav a lot Smita Bernadet: i know Smita Bernadet: the delhi one was 28K and was on 10th Dec kirty ekka: call and talk to Choubey G Smita Bernadet: i spoke to him, he rang me Smita Bernadet: he said that if you want to try for funding then write to the organizations and he shall forward it Smita Bernadet: well...i don't know how to do it, i thought he would help me writing it. Smita Bernadet: so, I'm searching everywhere now. Smita Bernadet: there is one in NCBS bangalore but it's 14K...it's too less Smita Bernadet: I should be getting 30 K now. i can't go below 28K. kirty ekka: then write a proposal and see Smita Bernadet: later... Smita Bernadet: i am trying for other places now Smita Bernadet: i have this website: Biotecnika.... Smita Bernadet: i'm checking in it Smita Bernadet: i have subscription for it kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: it's better i stay in chennai and try for job. Lots of walk in interviews suddenly come up. I don't think going to ranchi is a good idea now. Smita Bernadet: i hope your parents won't mind. kirty ekka: don't think about that now Smita Bernadet: i wanted to meet them but i feel job is equally important Smita Bernadet: okies kirty ekka: ok Smita Bernadet: wen wil u cum? kirty ekka: in some time kirty ekka: a process in my computer is 99% completed Smita Bernadet: get wine..i'll take to chennai kirty ekka: I am waiting for it to get voew kirty ekka: over kirty ekka: waaah Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: i'll drink wen u make me cry Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: haahaa Smita Bernadet: moreover...we need one for home.. Smita Bernadet: shopping!!! i want star Smita Bernadet: lets do it together..do u have any meeting tonight? kirty ekka: yes Smita Bernadet: timing? kirty ekka: late night lets see Smita Bernadet: i'm reading http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/conditions/sexual-health/a2235/are-you-having-trouble-reaching-orgasm-a-guide-for-women/ kirty ekka: lots of free time you have Smita Bernadet: i felt like going through it...just for a break! Smita Bernadet: the sooner the better Smita Bernadet: check this line Smita Bernadet: ...............Now we know that virtually any woman can climax – and indeed have multiple climaxes – if the circumstances of her life are right. And these circumstances usually include having a caring, understanding partner who's knowledgeable about sex and who uses that knowledge to help her relax and to reach orgasm Smita Bernadet: haah! kirty ekka: you have a bad partner Smita Bernadet: no! Smita Bernadet: As we've already said, orgasm is a much more automatic response for men than it is for women. And it would be true to say that in very many males an ability to climax doesn't necessarily have to be linked to feelings of love and romance. Smita Bernadet: But women more commonly find their sexual confidence and competence blossoms when they feel loved and appreciated. Smita Bernadet: this website is too good. Smita Bernadet: some are so true kirty ekka: what bad material on that site Smita Bernadet: no...read this Smita Bernadet: But masturbating helps you to learn exactly which pressures and rhythms you need in order to bring you to orgasm. So, it can be really useful. Smita Bernadet: but i'm not doing it! Smita Bernadet: ----Once you have learned to climax easily on your own, you can then show your partner exactly what you need in order to make you come. Smita Bernadet: okay cum soon...byee Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: hey where are the rest pics? Ask bimal to send over when he's free Smita Bernadet: call me wen u can Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: i just now recalled that Dept. of Anatomy works with dead body... And if they make me do something like that...that's it..I may leave my job on the first day itself. My resume clearly says that I've been working with blood samples and not dead people. I'm going to write an email to the HR asking him about my job profile. Smita Bernadet: Can't u even reply me if you are using your own laptop? Smita Bernadet: please talk to me Smita Bernadet: hey handsome kirty ekka: you there Smita Bernadet: sweet heart kirty ekka: You are so bad Smita Bernadet: i know baby. ummah Smita Bernadet: ummah...sorrryyyyyyyy Smita Bernadet: i got really busy honey Smita Bernadet: i'm super sorry... Smita Bernadet: wait for 5 more days then parents won't b around....then i can talk all the time kirty ekka: There was wine in the refrigerator and you didn't let me know Smita Bernadet: hey...i thought u knew kirty ekka: We could have had a royal meal Smita Bernadet: that wine i don't like....i like that 1000 one kirty ekka: No. I just discovered liquor in the fridge Smita Bernadet: moreover wen i'm full of tears, i go mute... kirty ekka: The vodka too Smita Bernadet: vodka i knew but my fanta was over kirty ekka: Next time when you are sad try taking out the liquor kirty ekka: There was tonic water Smita Bernadet: it's ok...wen u meet me here..then we'll have a royal meal... kirty ekka: Ohk I need to book my tickets Smita Bernadet: haaaah..next time wen i'm angry, .i'll take out the liquor and empty it in the sink,,,, kirty ekka: Ghanta kirty ekka: Haha Smita Bernadet: yup Smita Bernadet: ghanti kirty ekka: I was thinking why we are what we are Smita Bernadet: i wish i cud see u...send me ur pic now Smita Bernadet: fast fast kirty ekka: Do you think we are both immature in some way Smita Bernadet: make that kiss face Smita Bernadet: yes Smita Bernadet: i agree kirty ekka: OK kirty ekka: Then there is a new rule Smita Bernadet: even i was thinking a lot about u n ur family Smita Bernadet: wait kirty ekka: The ten second rule Smita Bernadet: wat's that? kirty ekka: Before shrieking or thundering aloud. Give a ten second kirty ekka: And every argument will have a one minute rule Smita Bernadet: ok...then thunder...after 10 sec kirty ekka: No if you feel thunderous then the countdown gets reset Smita Bernadet: no no...if it's 1 min. then u'll win always Smita Bernadet: ghanta kirty ekka: No. kirty ekka: You have to Summarize your view in this one minute Smita Bernadet: i'll argue till i speak up my mind kirty ekka: Summarize then Smita Bernadet: 1 min. will go in listening to the other person, how will i summarize ? kirty ekka: Make your mental notes Smita Bernadet: i'm not gud in any mental activity Smita Bernadet: including mental maths kirty ekka: Or else things will Continue ad nauseum kirty ekka: Then sharpen it up Smita Bernadet: think another alternate kirty ekka: I am also not a champion Smita Bernadet: i'm not ok with it...it's my weakest point kirty ekka: No I think more than a minute will be too long Smita Bernadet: so wat Smita Bernadet: point shud be clear kirty ekka: We will loose the focus of the argument Smita Bernadet: whether it takes 1 min. or 1 day....both of us shud get satisfied after speaking up our mind Smita Bernadet: what about expressing myself? kirty ekka: Even USA 's presidential arguments are such kirty ekka: Then choose your words carefully kirty ekka: Don't cause statement kirty ekka: Things need to progress Smita Bernadet: this way i'll keep it in my heart n u won't let me speak and it will keep building for days and one day finally i will burst out with huge intensity kirty ekka: Arrey no kirty ekka: There will be lots of to and fro kirty ekka: But each speaker gets a  minute only kirty ekka: Or lower Smita Bernadet: hello!! presidential talks are not about personal issues Smita Bernadet: don't compare it Smita Bernadet: go n ask them how they talk at home!! kirty ekka: They can decide the fate of the world's most powerful people kirty ekka: Who are we Smita Bernadet: nonsense...they are mouse infront of their wives kirty ekka: So what Smita Bernadet: go n marry them kirty ekka: This is the only way to Have a useful conversation kirty ekka: Ghanta kirty ekka: Bjp ki beti Smita Bernadet: nothing useful will come out of it...i'll end up saying nothing and keep it in my heart Smita Bernadet: it's cheating! kirty ekka: No be brief in your argument kirty ekka: No Smita Bernadet: can't kirty ekka: This is the way things progress Smita Bernadet: i'm not getting any marks for it.. kirty ekka: Or else it will be an Indian hung parliament Smita Bernadet: look i cannot kirty ekka: You get an attentive listener Smita Bernadet: u have to listen to me and i'll listen to you without limits kirty ekka: Or else I would not know the crux of the matter Smita Bernadet: wat crux? kirty ekka: Yes we will listen to each other kirty ekka: Crux of the argument Smita Bernadet: NO Smita Bernadet: u get another alternate kirty ekka: A short message is the most effective way to communicate too Smita Bernadet: fine...i'll email or sms you Smita Bernadet: without talking verbally kirty ekka: No you write so lengthy emails Smita Bernadet: so wat! Smita Bernadet: read it...you like reading books Smita Bernadet: u don't respect me kirty ekka: This will ensure that we hear each other out Smita Bernadet: none of my words kirty ekka: Besides speaking has it's own pros Smita Bernadet: i'm comfortable writing kirty ekka: No kirty ekka: If we are in front of each other why type kirty ekka: Just talk Smita Bernadet: i can express more wen i write...i'm wierd... Smita Bernadet: go n marry n lawyer then ...1 minute argument!!!! kirty ekka: Arrey kirty ekka: I am talking about having effective talks here Smita Bernadet: i said i cannot, it's cheating Smita Bernadet: u'll win all kirty ekka: OK kirty ekka: Try it on your parents Smita Bernadet: they will slap me Smita Bernadet: if i tell them that u have 1 min. to talk then they'll slap me kirty ekka: Be no Smita Bernadet: i'm being practical okay...this is not a presidential meeting....we are living for ever...together...we need to express.... Smita Bernadet: i'll b back in sometime Smita Bernadet: c u kirty ekka: Be concise in your speech Smita Bernadet: i can stay mute or speak up my thoughts wen i'm hurt or feel disrespected and angry ...nothing can confine my speech. Please don't try to keep me in cage. Smita Bernadet: if you cannot listen to me then....it's upto u then....find a mute girl. kirty ekka: I want to listen to you baby Smita Bernadet: in my view, u can argue and speak up your thoughts without any limits. kirty ekka: But I want you to be concise too at the same time Smita Bernadet: look either i can choose to be mute and not speak at all. OR keep speaking. I don't have a middle option here kirty ekka: So that we both get to speak our minds Smita Bernadet: then speak .....who's stopping? kirty ekka: And hear each other too Smita Bernadet: remove this time bomb then kirty ekka: No Smita Bernadet: NO kirty ekka: Then we would be interrupting each other then Smita Bernadet: you're so bossy...u want to rule... I should follow all your orders n rules!!!!!!!!!!!!!! kirty ekka: I am not trying to be bossy here kirty ekka: I only want to have a constructive talk kirty ekka: And not beat around the Bush Smita Bernadet: okay, but i won't stop talking till i say all what i want to Smita Bernadet: and if that's not enough then I'll email u kirty ekka: Yes I will listen to every thing that you have to say kirty ekka: But kirty ekka: In small instances kirty ekka: Seems fine to you!! kirty ekka: I can't escape you Smita Bernadet: wait kirty ekka: If I want to stay with you Smita Bernadet: if suppose 1 min gets over and i'm still having things to say then i'll continue from where i left in my another 1 minute kirty ekka: Yes sure kirty ekka: And also take into account my response too
Smita Bernadet: but i have the habit of interrupting... it will take months for me to adapt to ur rule kirty ekka: But this is also essential to hear each other too Smita Bernadet: i don't want a person who sets rules for me kirty ekka: No I am not setting a rule here kirty ekka: I want to ensure that we hear each other kirty ekka: Nothing more kirty ekka: There is no hidden agenda to block you out Smita Bernadet: u are impatient....even if i interrupt then continue it wen i barge in Smita Bernadet: wen u barge in kirty ekka: Yes you continue Smita Bernadet: haven't u seen hollywood movies, how they talk? Smita Bernadet: they interrupt each other and even finish off the conversation kirty ekka: I am a fan of AL Pacino Smita Bernadet: i'm no body's fan.... kirty ekka: He talks hard material for minutes Smita Bernadet: well, i'm not like that... Smita Bernadet: i talk like a normal girl. kirty ekka: Yes talk kirty ekka: I am not stopping kirty ekka: I want to be a part of the conversation too Smita Bernadet: u only get impatient...none of my frends do that... kirty ekka: I feel you have too much to say but less to hear kirty ekka: Then marry your friend then Smita Bernadet: u can say wen i go mute... Smita Bernadet: there is plenty of gap in between... Smita Bernadet: ok kirty ekka: How do your parents talk Smita Bernadet: u go n marry that pacino..watever kirty ekka: Do you hear only one person talk? kirty ekka: Both talk and both hear kirty ekka: Right? kirty ekka: It's not so difficult kirty ekka: To hear each other kirty ekka: ?? kirty ekka: Have you run away kirty ekka: ok will talk later then Smita Bernadet: then talk in between Smita Bernadet: did u eat? kirty ekka: yes kirty ekka: rice and your food Smita Bernadet: i made roti....and peas curry... my sis made carrot halwa kirty ekka: Ohk that's good Smita Bernadet: she made it long back..it was in fridge Smita Bernadet: so did u finish all jamuns? kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: No not all Smita Bernadet: eat all.. all is for u Smita Bernadet: here my dad is making me eat ghee, milk, potato, curd, malai...i don't know wat to do...he wont listen Smita Bernadet: u were worried that i'll take away ur small laptop ? Smita Bernadet: send ur pic Smita Bernadet: nice one Smita Bernadet: now kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Send me yours Smita Bernadet: oh...so sweet Smita Bernadet: how can i send mine? Smita Bernadet: dad's phone? Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: i look so sleepy Smita Bernadet: well my dad's camera is not that great kirty ekka: Do you have the picture you have of us together in Chennai Smita Bernadet: wich pic? Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: send me one sexy pic of urs Smita Bernadet: hello... Smita Bernadet: i'm sleep....i'm going to brush n sleep Smita Bernadet: u too brush Smita Bernadet: love ya Smita Bernadet: gud98 kirty ekka: I LOVE YOU BABY Smita Bernadet: why? Smita Bernadet: think hard! Smita Bernadet: meanwhile.....sleep well Smita Bernadet: hey baby Smita Bernadet: good afternoon kirty ekka: Good evening kirty ekka: When did you decorate the fridge. I am seeing it just now. kirty ekka: Haha your pics kirty ekka: I have fed you well. You looked so different before kirty ekka: Now you're all so puffy Smita Bernadet: hi baby Smita Bernadet: i decorated the fridge on 6th march and u saw today because u never see wat i do for ur house. Smita Bernadet: u don't even notice your clean shelves, fridge, washing machine ur windows , ur toilet, sink, bed, table...............endless...u only see my faults Smita Bernadet: i told minakshi about the Gideon Bible thing and about u supporting my parents regarding worshiping other God's ; also about you telling me that I am not Jesus or disciples nor seer to correct others. Well, if the whole world starts thinking like you then we'll have a generation of humans who don't correct each-other and continue sinning. Look i'm bold and straight forward. That's me. I'm a child of God and I don't fear people mocking me and calling me insane. No, I'm not Jesus...nor saint....but I will not stop correcting people which is sin according to Bible. My family should have christian values. My work is to warn and tell, rest is their decision. kirty ekka: I am not supporting your parents in their worshipping other gods. I would probably get angry like you too. But then I will also know that this would not achieve the purpose. Smita Bernadet: hi Smita Bernadet: me getting angry was fueled by other words also that they shouldn't had said being parents...okay. It's a 1 month long case history Smita Bernadet: i told u only a fraction of it kirty ekka: OK cool down. Smita Bernadet: ok Smita Bernadet: so wen r u coming? kirty ekka: I will book tonight Smita Bernadet: 5 min. then i'll go to bed... Smita Bernadet: how was ur movie? kirty ekka: OK kirty ekka: Bakwaas story Smita Bernadet: haahaah...i had already predicted it kirty ekka: Still I treated the movie as a comedy kirty ekka: So still enjoyed Smita Bernadet: comedy should have quality too Smita Bernadet: send ur pic baby kirty ekka: Yes some dialogs were comic Smita Bernadet: hmmm kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: hey naughty kirty ekka: So what did your parents say Smita Bernadet: for? kirty ekka: Did they say that you have become fat kirty ekka: By the time you spend years with me you will become cow kirty ekka: Exercise....... Smita Bernadet: no..they said i'm thin and they are stuffing me with ghee, milk, curd, malai and rice, potato and all fat items kirty ekka: Haha kirty ekka: You will become cow faster it seems Smita Bernadet: i'm waiting for them to leave so that i can avoid eating n start excercise kirty ekka: Just comic kirty ekka: Statement Smita Bernadet: i will give milk and moooooo kirty ekka: Yes and you are also feeding me so much sweets kirty ekka: I will become buffalo Smita Bernadet: thats because u deserve it kirty ekka: Then make leather jackets from my skin Smita Bernadet: haaha kirty ekka: Prada kirty ekka: Ekka Smita Bernadet: eat sweets n hit the gym kirty ekka: Home grown leather Smita Bernadet: hahaaah Smita Bernadet: hmm...chatting is super fast here Smita Bernadet: better than your laptop kirty ekka: Good kirty ekka: Your father made the house in a good place kirty ekka: There is Internet there Smita Bernadet: i'll have to clean a lot before u visit my house Smita Bernadet: u're father made the house in a good place, u have silence there and pollution free Smita Bernadet: send ur pic u bandarr kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Show this pic to your mother Smita Bernadet: haaahhhhah Smita Bernadet: i got scared kirty ekka: Tell her that this is it Smita Bernadet: !!!! kirty ekka: That I normally look like this kirty ekka: And this is the best pic you have Smita Bernadet: never Smita Bernadet: my baby pooh Smita Bernadet: i love u Smita Bernadet: cum...now smile n take a pic Smita Bernadet: wats nagi doing? kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: so sweet...show ur biceps kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: so those are fridge magnets....u saw only today....so sad kirty ekka: Guess what is in the pic kirty ekka: This time Smita Bernadet: cant make out...keep it upright..it looks like ur knee Smita Bernadet: or finger Smita Bernadet: or armpit Smita Bernadet: uff??? Smita Bernadet: ok...i'm going to bed now kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Send yours kirty ekka: Let's see what people are feeding you Smita Bernadet: baby...i don't have dad's phone now Smita Bernadet: can't send Smita Bernadet: today i made brinjal's bharta Smita Bernadet: bharthaa kirty ekka: OK kirty ekka: Very good Smita Bernadet: it was yummy kirty ekka: You don't cook here Smita Bernadet: how many gulab jamun's are left? kirty ekka: Bad baby Smita Bernadet: for making baigan bharthaa we need flame!!!!!! Smita Bernadet: it has to be burnt in fire Smita Bernadet: then only it gets that flavor Smita Bernadet: i even made roti yesterday Smita Bernadet: after so long Smita Bernadet: that also needs flame to swell Smita Bernadet: ok then..kiss kiss....going now Smita Bernadet: byee honey... Smita Bernadet: luv ya Smita Bernadet: gud98 Smita Bernadet: karl drogo kirty ekka: Bye kirty ekka: Good night kirty ekka: Kisses kirty ekka: Sleep well kirty ekka: kirty ekka: Smita Bernadet: wait i'll let u know. blue i want...yellow i'm not sure. just check if there is any expiry date on cheque book kirty ekka: There is no expiry date here Smita Bernadet: send both but wrap it in some plastic cover, put lots of cello tape. cello tape must b kept on that small cupboard top. Smita Bernadet: dad said change the cheque book...get new one so send me both. kirty ekka: But I think it would be easier expired because the format of the cheques have changed kirty ekka: OK kirty ekka: Enjoy Smita Bernadet: wrap it with some plastic then cellotape and finally put it in envelope. Plastic because it rains now n then. SPEED POST IT, to Smita Kujur, c/o S.B.Kujur, Plot no. 303, Samarth Apartment, TATA Birsa Purulia Road, Samlong, LOwadih. Ranchi 834010. Jharkhand. Landmark - Rishab Clinic. Smita Bernadet: Thank u jee kirty ekka: Ok kirty ekka: Mate Smita Bernadet: soulmate Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: there are pilloos in the plants kirty ekka: what to do Smita Bernadet: hey pillooo Smita Bernadet: wats up dude? Smita Bernadet:  movie over? kirty ekka: Yes baby kirty ekka: BTW you pilloo kirty ekka: With so big glowing eyes kirty ekka: And only glowing eyes kirty ekka: That can be seen on you Smita Bernadet: see this...so cute  Smita Bernadet: Smita Bernadet: kirty ekka: kirty ekka: so Smita Bernadet: hi Smita Bernadet: wat noise is that Smita Bernadet: i can see u Smita Bernadet: ya i can see Smita Bernadet: write something Smita Bernadet: hahaaah kirty ekka: what to write Smita Bernadet: giv kiss kirty ekka: hmmm u r total vella Smita Bernadet: no Smita Bernadet: i'm eating also kirty ekka: k kirty ekka:  good  kirty ekka: eat  kirty ekka: all the vegetable  kirty ekka: you dont get to eat that here kirty ekka: don;t complain later Smita Bernadet: can u please smile atleast Smita Bernadet: pleeeeeez kirty ekka: bilkul nahi